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[Member #1658]

Two things in one post:

1) 300 seconds is way too long. I get frustrated waiting 60 seconds, but I understand the delay is to discourage abuse. 300 seconds discourages people from replying to all but their closest friends. Please consider putting that back.

2) Is "moderation" a life sentence? It really isn't THAT big of a deal, but being stuck on moderation puts your posts back a ways on very active threads because they get inserted based on the date / time they were originally submitted instead of the date / time the moderator approved the post. That causes some posts to never be noticed by some people. It would really be appreciated if parole were allowed after some period of time. I'm sure some people likely give up and just create a new account over this, but I've got over 1500 posts and quite a few years here, so that's not an option I prefer to consider. Any chance of a guy catching a break and getting a second chance?

[OrdLover]

I think this used to be 60 seconds between sending private messages. Now it seems it's 5 minutes (300 seconds). Was this intentional? When we can't post #'s and when we want to share a #, 5 minutes is going to make responding to requests take forever.

Today I went to reply to some of my pm. And I noticed the 300 sec timeout. Before the one minute was already long enough. Is there a reason the timeout for pm is 5 minutes now?

[BoRegardHer]

I think this used to be 60 seconds between sending private messages. Now it seems it's 5 minutes (300 seconds). Was this intentional? When we can't post #'s and when we want to share a #, 5 minutes is going to make responding to requests take forever.

[FredFred123]

First I want to apologize for a post I inadvertently made on the the Nevada. Las Vegas. Escort Reviews Thread. It was not my intention to post prohibited content, for which I received a citation. However, I do agree it needs to be considered for future posts and conversation. Just wanted to throw that out there. Thanks.

[DirtyFuk]

Why can't we talk about trans here?

With the changes in society, many pre op and post op trans women are very beautiful. I would hope the owner would consider allowing members to discuss them. Some pist op trans providers try to hide they are post op. Allowing discussion would inform those that are not interested in seeing a trans provider.

In the end, the owner gwts to do as they see fit. They have provided a great place for all of us to discuss the issues. We owe them our gratitude.

[BBShaq]

Why can't we talk about trans here?

[RufusFirefly]

I have searched this site many times and have not determined how Moderators and Admin are assigned. Actually I have found little on the workings of this site. Does anyone know how many people are used as Mods and Admin? What is the difference? And how are they assigned?

[IceCreamLoad]

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[LaxMan11]

Where are the forum posting rules located?

[DaveCoffee2018]

If you going to delete a post.

Then give someone the (largely argumentative) reply. Wouldn't it be easier for the user to learn what they did wrong if they could see the post in question. This would be a great way to learn from you're mistake.

And what does the dates mean? Does this mean you can't post until that date is reached. I'll go and read the rules and faq page maybe I'll learn more there.

[Jwa340]

I'm hoping to get the Admin's attention on this post. I'd really like to have this account deleted ASAP, and I'm worried the contact form is moving slowly. Last time I tried, I got no response.

[LiquidCoil]

While they may seem obvious to an experienced user, much an less admin or moderator, it is difficult for new users like me to understand where the line is on this forum for posts that break somewhat subjective rules like "argumentative" when the content of other users' past comments that did cross the line are deleted.

Obviously content that posts personal information or spam must be deleted, and perhaps those that go way over the line, but when the current rules (if I understand them correctly) expect 50 flawless first posts, including following rules like "argumentative" that are not even mentioned in the "Posting Guidelines" warning at the top, without room for any correction or feedback, while not having guidelines at least in the form of other users' past comments that crossed the line, it makes it rather difficult for us new users to understand.

[IceCreamLoad]

Not sure if this is the appropriate section, I really like this forum but are we ever going to be able to post without the manual approval?

Part of what keeps me from being active on the site is the manual posting, I understand maybe its done to prevent spam but perhaps making a paid sub or something?

[BorisBadenov77]

Just a comment on forum rules.

It appears that following us the process in the FAQ by using the "contact us" form doesn't result in responses. Maybe it would be a worthwhile addition to ask for donations for "expedited responses?" I know I would be willing to donate to get my messages returned.

Thanks.

[SteadyOn]

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