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[RimJim]

I get that. And the safety aspect makes sense. But we've actually hired a few well known FBSM providers before and offer them as references (if they're cool with it). It's just funny to me in general that they'd want more money for less "work".

But to your point, I'm looking at it from the standpoint of knowing that they're perfectly safe and they're considering the unknown. I even usually off to schedule a massage appointment before the party to try to get comfortable with each other.

But anyways, one senior member sent me over a contact who's interested.

Bingo. A dancer I used to know asked me to accompany her to a couple of bachelor parties. It was uncomfortable for me being in a situation where I could easily get my ass kicked by multiple guys, no less a woman alone. I don't think she ever tipped me, either!

[TheFishsd]

My guess is, the provider is / feels she has total control when she is hosting at her incall. She controls how the sessions goes, what services she will offer and she's only with one person. Doing a gig like what you want or "parties" she's having to deal with multiple / lots of guys (many or all she's never met before), don't know if there are cameras or video recording her, don't know how guys will behave when they are drinking and in their home / setting. I think these are some of the reasons / risks that make them want to charge higher. Just my thoughts.

Bingo. A dancer I used to know asked me to accompany her to a couple of bachelor parties. It was uncomfortable for me being in a situation where I could easily get my ass kicked by multiple guys, no less a woman alone. I don't think she ever tipped me, either!

[Lid532]

I was not sure what forum to post this in. I thought maybe stupid shit, but I don't know. I am looking to hire a girl to help me with a fantasy football draft party. Basically we hire a girl to be our topless Vanna White for a night. No sex or anything like that is involved. We just like a little eye candy while we draft.

I've hit up numerous girls who advertise FBSM in the $200 per hour range and most of them want upwards of $1,000 per hour for the gig. I don't get it. They'll provide a one hour massage with HE for $$ but they want 5 X that amount for putting names on a board? Also I'd think a guaranteed 4 hr gig is better than hoping to get 2 or 3 in a 4 hr period on a Friday evening.

Anyway, if any of you know a good looking girl who might be interested in this gig, please send me a pm.

I think you're better off finding some local strippers on SM and trying to book them for something like this instead.

[Pinio]

Of course it's a possibility but very rare from only oral especially if covered. If you're really paranoid there are many health clinics around the city that does free STD tests. I recommend it because when I've had paranoid scares, I've taken the test to check and they definitely make me feel better LOL.

Waiting is nerve wrecking. How do you guys deal with Counting days?

What is ideal timeline to get tested? If you guys can share. It would immensely help.

[Pinio]

Of course it's a possibility but very rare from only oral especially if covered. If you're really paranoid there are many health clinics around the city that does free STD tests. I recommend it because when I've had paranoid scares, I've taken the test to check and they definitely make me feel better LOL.

Sure, will plan to test. But its quite a wait for few weeks for me. Just praying that nothing happens and all goes well.

[Pinio]

I know I'm taking a risk when I hobby. When I step into a massage room there are risks. Did they change the sheets and small towel that will be covering my backside? I hate massage tables with those gel face cradles. Did they sanitize, spray alcohol and wiped that down before I put my face on it? When I see one of those I always spray it with the alcohol in the room. I also add another layer of paper towels to separate my face and the table / sheets. At FS spas, I have to wonder did the girls clean herself after she was done with the customers before me? My regulars always excuse themselves to go freshen up or we shower together before we start the sessions. That's why I don't do quickies or 30 minutes sessions. I also bring my individual packets of mouthwash and the masseuse and I do a quick rinse together. I ask for an alcohol spray or use sanitizer and they do the same when they see me do it. These are some of the precautions I take. Yes, a masseuse might be clean at 8 am, but you saw her at 8 pm. How many guys did she see in between that might not be clean. All the masseuses I see kiss my body every time I see them, and everything else if I'm getting a FS session. There are risks IMO when I hobby. To be 100 percent safe, don't get any extras beyond a regular therapeutic massage is the only advice I can give. I take precautions.

I see. I understand. She did put paper towel on where I put my face. Not sure if she spray sanitized both the table and head rest. Didn't see it happen in front of me. I did see heer change the sheet in front of me. There was a shower. I did shower right after. Your response is helpful but did keep my scare up still. I have to wait 1 day at a time until my scare goes away. Will keep prepared from my end going forward. Thanks RChangDatyKing.

[RChangDatyKing]

I m newbie here. I recently had an a session with masseuse. She kissed me all over and did blow air on my area. She did give covered oral. However I am worried if she gave a lick before covering me.

Masseuse said she is 100% clean. I don't see any sores or any lesions on her body either. She stripped at that time. I didn't touch her privates. I did kiss her body back. She did massage me after everything and rubbed my Anus a little.

What do you think about this? Am I at risk of any sti?

What is your advice on how I can go about this safely?

Also when someone says they are clean, do we trust them?

Please provide your inputs. I appreciate your responses.

I know I'm taking a risk when I hobby. When I step into a massage room there are risks. Did they change the sheets and small towel that will be covering my backside? I hate massage tables with those gel face cradles. Did they sanitize, spray alcohol and wiped that down before I put my face on it? When I see one of those I always spray it with the alcohol in the room. I also add another layer of paper towels to separate my face and the table / sheets. At FS spas, I have to wonder did the girls clean herself after she was done with the customers before me? My regulars always excuse themselves to go freshen up or we shower together before we start the sessions. That's why I don't do quickies or 30 minutes sessions. I also bring my individual packets of mouthwash and the masseuse and I do a quick rinse together. I ask for an alcohol spray or use sanitizer and they do the same when they see me do it. These are some of the precautions I take. Yes, a masseuse might be clean at 8 am, but you saw her at 8 pm. How many guys did she see in between that might not be clean. All the masseuses I see kiss my body every time I see them, and everything else if I'm getting a FS session. There are risks IMO when I hobby. To be 100 percent safe, don't get any extras beyond a regular therapeutic massage is the only advice I can give. I take precautions.

[Reds101]

I m newbie here. I recently had an a session with masseuse. She kissed me all over and did blow air on my area. She did give covered oral. However I am worried if she gave a lick before covering me.

Masseuse said she is 100% clean. I don't see any sores or any lesions on her body either. She stripped at that time. I didn't touch her privates. I did kiss her body back. She did massage me after everything and rubbed my Anus a little.

What do you think about this? Am I at risk of any sti?

What is your advice on how I can go about this safely?

Also when someone says they are clean, do we trust them?

Please provide your inputs. I appreciate your responses.

Of course it's a possibility but very rare from only oral especially if covered. If you're really paranoid there are many health clinics around the city that does free STD tests. I recommend it because when I've had paranoid scares, I've taken the test to check and they definitely make me feel better LOL.

[Pinio]

I m newbie here. I recently had an a session with masseuse. She kissed me all over and did blow air on my area. She did give covered oral. However I am worried if she gave a lick before covering me.

Masseuse said she is 100% clean. I don't see any sores or any lesions on her body either. She stripped at that time. I didn't touch her privates. I did kiss her body back. She did massage me after everything and rubbed my Anus a little.

What do you think about this? Am I at risk of any sti?

What is your advice on how I can go about this safely?

Also when someone says they are clean, do we trust them?

Please provide your inputs. I appreciate your responses.

[RChangDatyKing]

Many have asked how I get independents to expand their menu. From my experience, most will eventually offer it. Being a repeat customer is number one key IMO. Then having chemistry. And of course good hygiene, that's why many will say in their ads that showers are available or come freshly showered. Another important thing is scheduling longer appointments to get to know the girls. Quickies work for many but you can't develop chemistry with the ladies in 10 minutes. I always schedule 60 minute sessions and recently are doing 90 minutes. A lot of times I'm there for 2 hours plus.

I see many ladies are now including in their ad, Upgrades Discussed in Person, VIP available for repeat clients, etc. I personally never book a VIP session. I rather do $300 for 90 minutes several times and eventually the upgrades happen naturally without any discussions of tips. Sorry I'm not paying $200- $400 more for 10 minutes of FS upgrades. I rather go to the agencies, or AMPs instead and get 2-3 sessions.

Have I spent over $500 before, yes! One time for my favorite porn star 10 years ago for $750/ hour. Double with 2 hotties for $600 five years ago. Now, $350/ hour is my max and she has to be in my top 5. LOL.

[RChangDatyKing]

I was not sure what forum to post this in. I thought maybe stupid shit, but I don't know. I am looking to hire a girl to help me with a fantasy football draft party. Basically we hire a girl to be our topless Vanna White for a night. No sex or anything like that is involved. We just like a little eye candy while we draft.

I've hit up numerous girls who advertise FBSM in the $200 per hour range and most of them want upwards of $1,000 per hour for the gig. I don't get it. They'll provide a one hour massage with HE for $$ but they want 5 X that amount for putting names on a board? Also I'd think a guaranteed 4 hr gig is better than hoping to get 2 or 3 in a 4 hr period on a Friday evening.

Anyway, if any of you know a good looking girl who might be interested in this gig, please send me a pm.

My guess is, the provider is / feels she has total control when she is hosting at her incall. She controls how the sessions goes, what services she will offer and she's only with one person. Doing a gig like what you want or "parties" she's having to deal with multiple / lots of guys (many or all she's never met before), don't know if there are cameras or video recording her, don't know how guys will behave when they are drinking and in their home / setting. I think these are some of the reasons / risks that make them want to charge higher. Just my thoughts.

[BeachDrone]

I peruse LC and CallEscort from time to time knowing that 95% of the ads are fake or scams. Sometimes, when I'm a little bored and up for some fun, I text one of the obviously fake or scam ads just to mess with them. A few recently aroused my curiosity. They are obviously fake or scam ads but their phone number is disconnected or not in service and their Snapchat is also fake or non-existant. So how do they get potential victims of the scam if you cannot contact them? An example of one of these is https://callescort.org/619-324-5888. What's the point of a completely fake ad? I don't get it. But maybe I'm trying to apply logic where it does not apply.

[RimJim]

I was not sure what forum to post this in. I thought maybe stupid shit, but I don't know. I am looking to hire a girl to help me with a fantasy football draft party. Basically we hire a girl to be our topless Vanna White for a night. No sex or anything like that is involved. We just like a little eye candy while we draft.

I've hit up numerous girls who advertise FBSM in the $200 per hour range and most of them want upwards of $1,000 per hour for the gig. I don't get it. They'll provide a one hour massage with HE for $$ but they want 5 X that amount for putting names on a board? Also I'd think a guaranteed 4 hr gig is better than hoping to get 2 or 3 in a 4 hr period on a Friday evening.

Anyway, if any of you know a good looking girl who might be interested in this gig, please send me a pm.

[HorneyDog1C]

When I click on the photos they stay the same small size. Before they would be good size (about 1/2 or more of my screen). What's the problem?

[Tijuaniko]

Anyone else have trouble logging in? Sometimes I'm able to log in and stay logged in, but most of the time the site immediately logs me out.

Have you tried checking the "Remember Me" box next to the log in fields? I had the same problem before I started doing that. I can leave the page open on my phone's browser all day and stay signed in since I've started checking the box.

Good luck to you.

-TJNiko.