General Reports

[RChangDatyKing]

Happy Thanksgiving all. All the Chinese restaurants and AMPs will be opened today.

[Waylay]

I think your point number 1 pretty much contradicts everything else relating to this forum. Haha! To make your statement valid, prefix with "Pretend" to be a good partner.

You'd be surprised. I have a very understanding and open partner. Something of a don't ask don't tell situation. I know she is emotionally and physically satisfied- but generally, yes, this forum and "good partner" don't go together haha.

[Bunter Hiden]

The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.

At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.

You have no way of knowing just how many ways your ass can get busted. Take burner phones. Great solution. Unless you plug it into a recent model vehicle with smart shit dash. True story. My friend got busted when he plugged his untraceable Tiger Woods phone into his charge cord while on his way to see a friend. The car uploaded all of the contacts to the computer and then his wife drove the vehicle later and noticed there was another phone dump. Busted. Also another piece of advice. Don't use emojis nor accept them. Make it clear to the PHD's we all go to see that text communication should always be phrased as if you are getting your oil changed. In a way you are LOL. I spend north of $$$ a year just for personal communication security. There is a reason that Mark Zuckerberg has his camera blocked on his own personal computer.

[Ryan1979]

The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.

At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.

I think your point number 1 pretty much contradicts everything else relating to this forum. Haha! To make your statement valid, prefix with "Pretend" to be a good partner.

[Waylay]

The hardest part is not telling anyone about your exploits, imo. Even your closest friends. It's not fair to burden them with the secrets, and they may tell their SO's. If you want to live this life, you have to 1) be a good partner to your SO, make sure she's getting what she needs from you before you start dipping into extracurriculars and 2), the hard part, you can't tell anyone. That's what this forum is good for, ha.

At one point I was actively dating two independent massage girls in addition to my relationship. Like, dinner, drinks, spending time in their homes, sneaking them into mine. One black, one Chinese. And get this. Both of my "mistresses" had the SAME FUCKING BIRTHDAY. Imagine that coincidence and not being able to tell anyone, not even your mistress! You want to do well in this game you have to be ok keeping secrets.

[JayLake]

Suspicion can be the first nail in a monger's coffin. Suspicion alone can cause problems..

Big time. If I were suspicious for example I'd go all out. Checking phone when they shower, installing secret trackers, there's a bunch of ways I can get info if I really wanted it. I once installed a key logger to hack into an ex gf ******* account many years ago.

[MaximusKahn]

Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.

Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.

Suspicion can be the first nail in a monger's coffin. Suspicion alone can cause problems. If the SO suspects you, it's time to put the brakes on for a while. Something happened to get her suspicion radar up, so you must now keep your behavior as clean as possible for a while. She may never completely forget her suspicions, but in time it will die down enough so you can go back to the hobby.

In general women have a greater sense of smell than men, and often have a heightened sense of smell when they are pregnant. Unfortunately, women also have a good nose for sensing when something is off.

They can find or even magically stumble on clues that can lead to doom. Like the smell of another woman in your clothes. Or a receipt that stands out or ATM withdrawal you never mentioned. Finding something you left in your pants, even a call you missed at a time you should be able to answer you phone can get their attention. Ever get a random call from her just before you went into an AMP, or right after you left one? How about a text from her with a question while you were in the AMP? These are all signs her radar is working.

Don't forget phones can be tracked, and located. The dead battery excuse for a missed call eventually wears out. Turning it off can also make her wonder why you did that. If you don't answer have a good reason prepared.

Any of these things can raise her radar. Some women deep down know men will be dogs and will eventually be bad, so she is forever expecting that you will be bad sooner or later. No way to change this.

Learn how to keep your activities invisible, and explainable. Definitely know how to and consciously cover your tracks. Don't get lazy about being careful.

Do your extra fun when you have time that is your own. Always use cash that is all your own that she won't wonder where it went. Even coming home too clean after a hard day's work without a logical reason could make her wonder. The Gym plan is a good one, so long as she doesn't show up at the gym one random day looking for you. She might even just happen to drive by the gym doing her errands one day and notice that she does not see your car there when it was the time you say you are there.

Women are natural sleuths when they get suspicious. They are also natural and better stalkers than men are when they think their man is up to something. If she suspects you, you need to turn into the perfect angel for a while. And you have to remain that angel until she is off the trail.

Of course there may be good news about her smelling your clothes.

The sense of smell is strongly connected to sexual attraction and stimulation. Some women love their man's musk so much they wear to bed a shirt he wore so they can have his reassuring smell around them. Or sleep on his side of the bed if he is away. I know women who love to suck morning cock to enjoy the musk. Her smelling your clothes when she does laundry might be a good sign. She might like your smell so much it attracts and activates her sexually. When she sniffs your clothes, do her eyes roll back and does she quiver? LOL.

[Arhanhehzi]

Textnow and textfree.

Ditto. Just use a disposable email service when signing up. Also a no-log VPN on your phone doesn't hurt.

[RChangDatyKing]

Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.

Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.

Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.

Yeah, it's not good when the SO is sniffing clothes, etc. I agree with Ryan I think she is already suspecting something. I don't think taking over laundry duties at this stage is going to help because she'll be more suspicious.

Maybe lay low for awhile. Sorry, DR!

[Ryan1979]

Haha yah man. Maybe take a little hiatus possibly.

On another note, one thing to love about daylight savings is that it gets dark sooner, so that helps with lesser visibility #mongerseason.

I know what you're saying and agree, but technically we're off DST.

[Relief]

Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.

Haha yah man. Maybe take a little hiatus possibly.

On another note, one thing to love about daylight savings is that it gets dark sooner, so that helps with lesser visibility #mongerseason.

[Ryan1979]

Ryan's tips are right on. Changing clothes not working out for me as my wife sometimes sniffs my laundry.

Relief, Same concern for me. I am sticking with CBJ not even BBBJ just for the sake of peace of mind. Dealing with drama from wife is not worthy.

Hate to tell you dude, but she's already on to you. Best of luck! But to your point, that's why I was in charge of laundry duties. Hehe.

[JayLake]

I'm curious as to what apps, if any, people use for texting to protect your number. I know some use a burner, but I'm not looking to explain an additional phone, should it be found. I recently downloaded an app that I can call, text and receive texts on, all the while using numbers other than my own. It's a bit expensive, but privacy is priceless. Actually helped me track down a provider that previously ripped me off. Lmk what app you use, cost and its abilities. I currently use SpoofCard.

Textnow and textfree.

[CduBonusG]

Just google voice, which many of my favorite providers use too. Good enough for them, good enough for me.

Just beware that Google voice is connected to your actual phone number and a copy of the texts are sent to your gmail associated w / that google account.

[Waylay]

I'm curious as to what apps, if any, people use for texting to protect your number. I know some use a burner, but I'm not looking to explain an additional phone, should it be found. I recently downloaded an app that I can call, text and receive texts on, all the while using numbers other than my own. It's a bit expensive, but privacy is priceless. Actually helped me track down a provider that previously ripped me off. Lmk what app you use, cost and its abilities. I currently use SpoofCard.

Just google voice, which many of my favorite providers use too. Good enough for them, good enough for me.