Rants and Stupid shit in Memphis

**BlackCandleJon** · 10-30-22 13:34

Originally Posted by LovelyLadi [View Original Post]

As a provider I want to come to memphis but damn last time I came I was only here for 24 hours and I want to come for BBQ etc but last time I was here I felt like I was being punked everyone asked for low rates like two jacksons low I left immediately. This was probably like 3 years ago maybe. Either way I am writing this to ask why is it that when I come to urban areas that I never make any money! Is it a black thing or what like I'm black too but damn it just seem like I get better service from white areas like knoxville, chattanooga and nashville. Definately looking for insight.

At lovelylady, which bbq are you wanting to get? In my opinion that is another thing that over the years has seen a steady decline here in the bluff city, two weeks ago I went to central, the bbq was so dry, it was like jerky! I was forced to use a lot of bbq sauce to make it chewable, in the past it's not been necessary to add much of it.

Anyway you will always have hagglers anywhere, just keep in mind Memphis is a city that doesn't rank high on income, it does rank high in crime though.

But even like that you can do some good business and get some serious gains here, stay in a non-sketchy part, post honest pictures and services; don’t promise things you are not doing; and very important, ask for a compensation that's according to how good of a service you provide and how good you look.

Much too often there's girls here wanting ridiculous donations for what they offer in terms of looks (yes that counts!) and what they do, not surprisingly their business runs dry as soon as the clientele figures them out.

**EnigmaCare** · 10-30-22 11:41

Originally Posted by LovelyLadi [View Original Post]

As a provider I want to come to memphis but damn last time I came I was only here for 24 hours and I want to come for BBQ etc but last time I was here I felt like I was being punked everyone asked for low rates like two jacksons low I left immediately. This was probably like 3 years ago maybe. Either way I am writing this to ask why is it that when I come to urban areas that I never make any money! Is it a black thing or what like I'm black too but damn it just seem like I get better service from white areas like knoxville, chattanooga and nashville. Definately looking for insight.

I cannot speak for others, only myself but I will tell you what I observe and think. I don't live in Memphis, about 90 miles away and I usually have to travel a good bit for this hobby. As far as the 2 Jacksons I am guessing that some men have had good luck negotiating with providers and start low to arrive at a price in the middle. As far as this area compared to the places you listed, most people I know do not make as much money as people in those areas. I myself have a budget for this hobby and I stay within a certain price range. I'm not paying a high price for a few minutes of fun. That is me, not speaking for others. I do think the provider deserves a fair price. As far as the color of your skin, some men prefer some over others like some men prefer little over big or blond over brunette. For the most part I think most men on this site are looking for good service. I myself do not care if your skin is purple and green if your services are good and the donation for your services are fair. Just my 2 cents and I hope that helps you some.

**Lovely Ladi** · 10-30-22 00:27

As a provider I want to come to memphis but damn last time I came I was only here for 24 hours and I want to come for BBQ etc but last time I was here I felt like I was being punked everyone asked for low rates like two jacksons low I left immediately. This was probably like 3 years ago maybe. Either way I am writing this to ask why is it that when I come to urban areas that I never make any money! Is it a black thing or what like I'm black too but damn it just seem like I get better service from white areas like knoxville, chattanooga and nashville. Definately looking for insight.

**BlackCandleJon** · 09-20-22 00:01

Originally Posted by Glockman [View Original Post]

Just my opinion. Bullshit.

Who in their right fucking mind blows away 1 k on a girl like that?

It's just My opinion too, but she's not beautiful, her body is not sexy and I'm not a fan of wigs, who knows what else is fake besides the hair.

To me she looks like any other 60 hh girl.

**JimJones15** · 09-19-22 22:59

Originally Posted by Glockman [View Original Post]

Just my opinion. Bullshit.

What is bullshit? And totally read all your posts in the past, mad respect for you Glockman.

**Memphis84** · 09-19-22 22:25

Originally Posted by Glockman [View Original Post]

Just my opinion. Bullshit.

Yeah if I'm paying a grand (which is insane) I don't know exactly what I would expect, but I think I would look elsewhere.

**Glockman** · 09-19-22 22:03

Originally Posted by JimJones15 [View Original Post]

I saw her recently and use to see her in the past. 1 K is for the full monty, and with her status in the porn industry it was only a matter of time before that price went up. The upside to her is she really has no limits, GFE and whatever floats your boat. I will throw this out there that seemed interesting, if you have any specific fantasies or requests that don't necessarily go to the extreme, she seemed willing to hear it out. If your upfront about what you want, she might change her prices depending on what you want. Just something to throw out there in case anyone has the desire in their mind.

Just my opinion. Bullshit.

**MikeHoncho1969** · 08-11-22 14:50

Originally Posted by Lastweek1959 [View Original Post]

Feel compelled to respond since was a responder who you shared latest ones #. Understand your frustration but like everything two sides to this story. Here is how today went down. Texted early and got a quick response. Location not ideal but she said she might have "options" then went dark. Came back and I asked if I could ask a question and maybe a pic? She said ok to question. No pic. Was simple. DATY yes or no? About 1-2 hrs later says ok but $150. So she may be a UTR in name but surely acts like a regular. Long delays in answering and high end pricing! I didn't answer sorry but moved on.

Would suggest they don't act like every backpage girl and maybe get better results. My $. 02.

I never even got a chance to set something up. Was going to try it out.

**Lastweek1959** · 08-10-22 18:02

Originally Posted by Faceious2 [View Original Post]

Just about everyone on here say they want to get a UTR complain how Memphis is full of crapy providers, robbers, and GPS girls. Now I know the 3 UTRs I have brought to the table the past 4 months May not be the best looking but more than make up for it in talent, eagerness, and responsiveness! More than fair priced and available when they said they would be. Once again over 75 responses less than 20 replied to screening only 10 got her number 1 showed and payed for canceling the appointment he made and couldn't keep (a true gentleman) but here it is the day of and not even a message sent to say they weren't interested or they were broke and couldn't make it. So all that said how do you expect for girls who are willing to UTR be able to if this is the way us as a collective treat them? Some of you complained when the last one went main stream but here is why she did that. Y'all want new girls, to be the first to get to see her and do it for a happy meal. Go to those other dating sites if you want a girlfriend this is a hobby of p2 p no long term dating. So for those of you who say you didn't get her number it's cause the ones who did wouldn't answer if they were or weren't interested so I didn't pass along their turn to the next in line. C a <k blocking is not nice. I don't get crap for screening or even passing along to anyone, I have done 3 most of you Have yet to find one let alone pass it along. So I will no longer bother passing them along. I find new UTRs all the time and will keep them to myself. Thanks to the 3 or so of you who follow directions or keep their word! Ask your self why these girls treat you like they do, need a hint?

Feel compelled to respond since was a responder who you shared latest ones #. Understand your frustration but like everything two sides to this story. Here is how today went down. Texted early and got a quick response. Location not ideal but she said she might have "options" then went dark. Came back and I asked if I could ask a question and maybe a pic? She said ok to question. No pic. Was simple. DATY yes or no? About 1-2 hrs later says ok but $150. So she may be a UTR in name but surely acts like a regular. Long delays in answering and high end pricing! I didn't answer sorry but moved on.

Would suggest they don't act like every backpage girl and maybe get better results. My $. 02.

**Faceious2** · 08-10-22 11:26

Just about everyone on here say they want to get a UTR complain how Memphis is full of crapy providers, robbers, and GPS girls. Now I know the 3 UTRs I have brought to the table the past 4 months May not be the best looking but more than make up for it in talent, eagerness, and responsiveness! More than fair priced and available when they said they would be. Once again over 75 responses less than 20 replied to screening only 10 got her number 1 showed and payed for canceling the appointment he made and couldn't keep (a true gentleman) but here it is the day of and not even a message sent to say they weren't interested or they were broke and couldn't make it. So all that said how do you expect for girls who are willing to UTR be able to if this is the way us as a collective treat them? Some of you complained when the last one went main stream but here is why she did that. Y'all want new girls, to be the first to get to see her and do it for a happy meal. Go to those other dating sites if you want a girlfriend this is a hobby of p2 p no long term dating. So for those of you who say you didn't get her number it's cause the ones who did wouldn't answer if they were or weren't interested so I didn't pass along their turn to the next in line. C a <k blocking is not nice. I don't get crap for screening or even passing along to anyone, I have done 3 most of you Have yet to find one let alone pass it along. So I will no longer bother passing them along. I find new UTRs all the time and will keep them to myself. Thanks to the 3 or so of you who follow directions or keep their word! Ask your self why these girls treat you like they do, need a hint?

**EvilerDuckmann** · 07-24-21 13:59

Originally Posted by CrookedStik [View Original Post]

Only way you would know if I was wrong is if Terry told you who I was referring to, and if that's the case, well. That's just plain cheating! I did not mean anything by what I said. If I was incorrect then.

There was some impeccable timing and you will not be the only Senior member ducking out with a lady who has also bowed out of the game. The lady I was speaking of was happy about her new situation. She had become a pretty close friend over many years hit a rough patch and disappeared for a min and I knew Terry knew her.

So I reached out to him because I had feared the worst. The post you responded to was mainly letting Terry know that I finally did get an explanation. It just so happened that said explanation correlated very closely to your post and I know that you know her the same way that I knew Terry knew her. If I was wrong. Doesn't matter. Only thing that matters is that she is happy with her latest chapter, and you are happy with yours. Just know that nothing derogatory or disrespectful was implied. Like I said before, it was good to hear the sound of her laugh again.

Your good man, I just thought we were playing the guessing game.

**CrookedStik** · 07-20-21 23:02

Originally Posted by EvilerDuckmann [View Original Post]

And ill bet you 100 you are wrong.

Only way you would know if I was wrong is if Terry told you who I was referring to, and if that's the case, well. That's just plain cheating! I did not mean anything by what I said. If I was incorrect then.

There was some impeccable timing and you will not be the only Senior member ducking out with a lady who has also bowed out of the game. The lady I was speaking of was happy about her new situation. She had become a pretty close friend over many years hit a rough patch and disappeared for a min and I knew Terry knew her.

So I reached out to him because I had feared the worst. The post you responded to was mainly letting Terry know that I finally did get an explanation. It just so happened that said explanation correlated very closely to your post and I know that you know her the same way that I knew Terry knew her. If I was wrong. Doesn't matter. Only thing that matters is that she is happy with her latest chapter, and you are happy with yours. Just know that nothing derogatory or disrespectful was implied. Like I said before, it was good to hear the sound of her laugh again.

**EvilerDuckmann** · 07-14-21 17:46

Originally Posted by CrookedStik [View Original Post]

Terry Ill bet you 20 he speaking on the topic of the first conversatiin I struck with you. Got a out of the blue call, aoology, and explanation of what transpired. She didn didn say who but she was happy and I was glad to hear that girl laugh again. It had been too long!

And ill bet you 100 you are wrong.

**CrookedStik** · 07-03-21 16:52

Originally Posted by BigBoiTerry [View Original Post]

Happy for you EDM.

Terry Ill bet you 20 he speaking on the topic of the first conversatiin I struck with you. Got a out of the blue call, aoology, and explanation of what transpired. She didn didn say who but she was happy and I was glad to hear that girl laugh again. It had been too long!