Seeking, WYP Sugar Babies

[Geneva Guy]

Since many of the 20 somethings on SA can't / won't host, are there any hotels that you guys like to use and would recommend? Specifically interested in hotels that do not require credit cards and will accept cash in advance.

I have used the Super 8 on troy-SCDY rd next door to the dennys' paid cash but you always have to show an I'd.

GG.

[MuckForFunny]

Since many of the 20 somethings on SA can't / won't host, are there any hotels that you guys like to use and would recommend? Specifically interested in hotels that do not require credit cards and will accept cash in advance.

[MuckForFunny]

Didn't see this covered already on this thread, so I thought it was worth mentioning. There is a relatively small percentage of SB's on SA that will report you for anything that sounds like an offer for prostitution. When SA admin gets one of these reports, they will kick you off the site for a TOS violation. This really sucks if you have just paid $100 membership fee since there is no refund for a TOS violation. To prevent this from happening, you have to learn how to carefully phrase your messages so they are not blatant requests for ppm, sex for money, etc.

Beware of this one. SchellaMae. She's definitely a reporter.

[Morgan Creamin]

I wonder if any SA girls read this web site? You guys with the SA / SB experiance, have any girls ever mentioned reading the postings here?

I think it depends on the level of regional activity and how much the SBs communicate with each other. My last posting was near Seattle, lots of action there and some of the SBs knew about this site while some didn't. It's a good rule of thumb to never mention this site to them or that you "read online" about anything they have done because then they will find it.

[Geneva Guy]

I wonder if any SA girls read this web site? You guys with the SA / SB experiance, have any girls ever mentioned reading the postings here?

None of my SBs over the years have said anything, but of course, in the Albany area, I just started this thread recently.

I see some new faces locally on SA, including some students, single moms looking for Christmas help and a couple of MILFs (who usually work out very well if that's your thing). The Students will need book funds, etc come January when they go back to school. Also see a couple that have changed their screen name a couple times (including a former SB of mine, my gosh she loved having her legs over my shoulders as I pounded her pussy). Always makes me wonder why the name change.

GG.

[Dave518]

I wonder if any SA girls read this web site? You guys with the SA / SB experiance, have any girls ever mentioned reading the postings here?

[MuckForFunny]

I try not to post negative info about people for a variety of reasons. However, this one is dropping red flags all over the place. Texted with her back in Jan when she went by the name Amity Anne. Back then she said she wanted to meet, said she was an out of work stripper, said she would host and so-on. So we exchanged multiple messages, but then she scared me off by coming up with one obstacle after another. I don't do x, I can't get your cum on me, etc, etc. Needless to say, I blocked her.

Fast forward to Nov. She pops up again as RubySky. Asked to meetup again and sez she wants cashapp in advance of meeting. Guys, this one is definitely a scammer. I do NOT think YMMV. Beware!

[Morgan Creamin]

LaDiamante317 on SA. Not super hot, I'll admit it's been a while and the little head was taking over. She's fatter than pics make her seem. She talks a good game at first but has a massive ego and freaked the fuck out on me at the first hint things weren't going 100% the way she wanted. She made threats etc. If you venture west, avoid this one.

[Morgan Creamin]

Angel872 out of Utica (I'm assuming most are willing to travel somewhat so I'm posting here) 43 yo thick one wants $800/ meet. No idea what she looks like but no pussy is worth that.

Sorry for the lack of a link but I instablocked her before grabbing the URL.

[Morgan Creamin]

I've recently relocated to CNY for a 2-yr work contract. My last couple locations have been in larger metro areas where the scene is much more active. I can already tell this place is going to be a challenge. .

Here are some additional thoughts. TIFWIW, YMMV, etc. And so forth.

1- Profiles with a single pic and just a sentence or two are almost always scam accounts. Ignore them.

2- I will reiterate about never sending money for any reason at all. It's ALWAYS a scam. NEVER send money ahead of time.

3- "I pass by any girl that has a big wishlist, has queen, princess, money in her tag line" This is often true, but often enough to make it worth verifying it's a just a girl copying what she's read elsewhere but is still otherwise reasonable. Sometimes it's worth a shot to find out. As long as you're very strict on not sending money or not paying over your limit it can't hurt to try if you read their profile and think she's possibly not GPS. I've had very successful meets with 'princesses' under very reasonable arrangements. And I've also talked to entitled 19 year olds who want $1 k just to meet for coffee.

4- Age. Ref the last sentence of #3- young ones are often insanely entitled and think you just hanging out with them at a coffee shop or restaurant is a privilege they deserve to be paid for. Young pussy is tempting, for sure, but be careful you maintain your standards in terms of never sending money, staying below your per meet donation amount, and personal safety. I've found the best arrangements with women over 35 who, while maybe not as 'hot' make up for it by being more worldly, reasonable, and into mutual enjoyment instead of just selfish needs.

5- Always use a burner (safety is a whole different topic) and always set boundaries and expectations before meeting. If you're a CIP guy like me you need to ensure she's cool with going raw or you're just wasting your time and you don't want to ask that shit in a restaurant where she could cause a scene.

6- Feel her out and let the girl lead the conversation at first to understand her attitude so you can play the right game to get in her pants. Many SBs have this illusion that they aren't engaging in prostitution if they feel they are 'friends' or 'romantic' with you. Making it seem transactional will offend these deluded SBs and you lose the chance to score. SBs always take more work than hoors but some take more than others and some you really have to flirt with and feed that illusion. There's no hard and fast rules on this, but the more game you've got the better your chances will be on SA. Then there are some who are upfront about things being transactional and that makes it easier but they are less common on SA.

7- It's a numbers game. You have to talk with quite a few before you find success- it can be a lot of work. Again, the better your game the better your results. You'll find a lot of them you'll be chatting along just fine with and they will suddenly disappear or they'll be the type who want $1 k to have coffee or other crazy shit. Just move on to the next.

8- THINK WITH YOUR BIG HEAD. Just like with hoors, don't ignore your head with ears when it tells you "this is a bad idea" because it almost always is, even with SBs. Don't think SBs are any less crazy and prone to psychosis than escorts are. I have first-hand experience with this. Maintain your standard rules of separation- don't bring ID, don't use your real name, etc.

9- If you value discretion for whatever reason, don't shit where you eat. Lots of small towns around the region, if you're in one of them don't hobby locally. If you're in a larger city, hobby outside of any areas that overlap with your home range. Unlike with escorts, you're likely going to exchange pics with SBs before meeting. If you use your own pics, there's a chance you have mutual acquaintances. Maintaining a minimum distance lowers, though doesn't eliminate of course, the chance of that happening.

10- If you're a BB guy get clipped especially if you're banging younger chicks less likely to maintain their BC or worse that lie about it hoping to rope a rich daddy. There is no hiding from DNA and you won't want 21 years of child support payments. If you've ever done 23 andme, been in the military, etc. They have your DNA and the courts can and do subpoena these places to search for DNA matches for paternity.

[Geneva Guy]

FYI. Just got an email (personalized to my acct). Seeking offering a 25% discount till Labor Day.

GG.

[LakerBaker16]

Been asked a couple times to start a thread like this so here we go.

I have been on and off seeking for about 6 years now. I also have a WYP (what's your price) account which I think is a waste. Here is my M. O and how I've done;.

-Making a seeking acct is free, but you can only look at profiles, can't send or read email without a paid subscription. Never buy the "upgrade to premium" waste of money. Don't post face pics but blurred out ones is fine. YOu can put face pics on your "private pics".

-I usually buy ONE MONTH of seeking using a One Vanilla card bought at walmart / CVS / Walgreens. Always works. You can use a fake name, address, etc right from the start. Seeking gives 25-30% discounts sometimes, read the SA boards on here and guys will mention them and they you can search and find them often online (the code). One month is usually fine to get numbers.

-You will get a lot of spam from foreign girls and girls from other parts of the country / state, just delete them.

-You will get a lot of silly messages like "hi" and such. You can reply but if they have not read your profile (you can tell by looking at their profile if they have viewed you), I pass them by.

-NEVER send any money for anything.

-If they want online or to sell pics report them ASAP that is 100% not allowed.

-I pass by any girl that has a big wishlist, has queen, princess, money in her tag line. Platonic is often not. Ask them if they know what it means...

Thanks for the info. I agree with all. I recently travelled and other cities have SA threads reporting good and bad. Much more active. I met up with one in Indy and it was a great time.

[HotLuck54]

Been asked a couple times to start a thread like this so here we go.

I have been on and off seeking for about 6 years now.,

GG.

Great intro and rules to live by.

Thanks.

HL54.

[Tomb8871]

Been asked a couple times to start a thread like this so here we go.

I have been on and off seeking for about 6 years now. I also have a WYP (what's your price) account which I think is a waste. Here is my M. O and how I've done;.

-Making a seeking acct is free, but you can only look at profiles, can't send or read email without a paid subscription. Never buy the "upgrade to premium" waste of money. Don't post face pics but blurred out ones is fine. YOu can put face pics on your "private pics".

-I usually buy ONE MONTH of seeking using a One Vanilla card bought at walmart / CVS / Walgreens. Always works. You can use a fake name, address, etc right from the start. Seeking gives 25-30% discounts sometimes, read the SA boards on here and guys will mention them and they you can search and find them often online (the code). One month is usually fine to get numbers.

-You will get a lot of spam from foreign girls and girls from other parts of the country / state, just delete them.

-You will get a lot of silly messages like "hi" and such. You can reply but if they have not read your profile (you can tell by looking at their profile if they have viewed you), I pass them by.

-NEVER send any money for anything.

-If they want online or to sell pics report them ASAP that is 100% not allowed.

-I pass by any girl that has a big wishlist, has queen, princess, money in her tag line. Platonic is often not. Ask them if they know what it means.

-Never ever talk about money, gifts, shopping, pay per meet (PPM), allowance or any SEX using the SA messaging service, they do monitor the emails. I have never gotten banned by SA in all my years. Take the chat ASAP to text (some girls like KIK or SNAP, personally I don't like those services but sometimes you have no choice).

Agree with all you say. Have found Secret Benefits to be a bit more active in terms of nbr of girls compared to SA. Opposite was true when I live previously in another state. It just too much work given all the fakes, GPS, real girls who get cold feet before you meet, etc.

[Geneva Guy]

33 year old up in queensbury looking for life partner. Claims she is a business owner up there in a "spa". I'm not usually a big boob guy but WOW. These are nice (and maybe enhanced?).

GG.