Don't Make Beginner Mistakes

[Gigabyte40]

There's so many mistakes on street girls it'd take 50 posts to list them all. But never take a girl to someplace because she wants to drop off money or pick up some money. Even if you already got services from the girl, if she has you stop somewhere it's highly likely she is going in to buy drugs. And you never know when LE is watching and will pull you over, if the girl knows the spot LE most certainly does. If LE pulls you over you could catch a charge of possessing drugs. Only place I will ever stop for a girl is a store and even then don't be suckered into going in while she ransacks your car for whatever she can find.

You're right. I've had them ask can you take me by my grandmothers to drop something off? Oh yea, and your grandmother sells drugs I assume.

I bet she drives that big Cadillac backed into the driveway too.

GB40.

[SpinnerADick]

Make sure you look into the ladies presence. If she only has an email or phone number or only one of both, she is a possible scammer. Short bios that don't say much are an obvious scam. Not many photos, scam alert! I like to see women with websites, photos, and much effort into their little gig. Half ass presentation only means you're getting a half ass experience. Too much photoshop on their photos is another sign that it's too good to be true. Gorgeous photos with low rates, don't fall for it. They're usually very cut dry and not into it all & rushed as fuck, but if that's what you're looking for go. I've had my fair share of let downs. Watch out. Take my notes and save up, do your online duty.

[FunderJ]

This is more of a tip than a mistake. If you visit a girl for the very first time, always go for a quick visit. I'm not tooting my horn but 75% of my quick visits have always turned into half hour visits. Because I'm nothing special, I know other mongers have gotten the same benefits. If the girl is into you, she will always go out of her way to please you so that you will come back again. Just show her the respect by upgrading your next and future visits to a half hour.

Of course, if you and the girl do not connect, move on to another girl next time. Just share your good or bad experience with the rest of us.

[BtrCalsal]

All of these are great tips--I always look at the area code--If it's not 704,980,or whatever area you're searching--I usually stay away. If it's 828,336, or 803, I might take the leap since they might be traveling here from close by. Also check their location, be sure its a location you're familiar with--If it says "downtown", "near Airport", "in your city",etc. stay away

[The Big Cat]

1. CarPlay, never let HER pick the spot. She may pick a place where her partner can show up and rob you. Scout out your spot ahead of time.

2. Back up wallet, Use an old I'd and store discount cards you never use to make it seem thick, and only bring enough money for the deed and a little extra for up charging for any bonus action you may want to purchase.

3. Have a back up girl in the neighborhood, many of the beginner mistakes are horny mistakes, if a girl tries to separate you from your money while her clothes are still on you can walk away and go see the back up girl. Just do not make an actual appointment with the back up girl and ghost her, she will block you.

4. Search neighborhoods on Skip the games. If new to the area find a positive review of a girl and see what her location is, then search that location and see other girls in that area. The fake ads have bogus locations on Skip the Games. Also 704 works as well as other common area codes for Charlotte. I am currently doing this in Chattanooga because I moved here a week ago.

5. USE THE BOARDS. If you are new to escorts only see women with positive reviews, its not a sure thing because those good little sweet girls will turn on a monger at any time so keep your guard up. Read the rip off reports as well as look for positive reviews. Plenty of girls with positive reviews who eventually end up in the rip off reports. When I was new to escort screwing my first year I only saw girls with positive reviews, after a year I started to TOFTT. Leave the unreviewed girls for the experienced guys.

[DarkOnyx]

Try not to make decisions when your horny. You tend to make rash decisions when you are thinking with your second head. I leave my wallet in the car and take only the donation. May start leaving my keys as well. Call when you arrive. If the girl sounds like she isn't the one in the photos that is a red flag. Ask for a photo (non sexual) after you schedule an appointment. I usually ask them to hold up a finger so I know they just took it.

[Corvette704]

Never give the money up front so that she can go pay for the room.

[DuckSouth]

Only take the agreed upon donation with you when visiting a girl. Leave all other valuables somewhere safe.

I will second this one as well. I typically empty my pockets except for the exact donation. No credit cards, no ID, no nothing. I typically even lock my keys in the car as I have a entry code.

This way if something goes south the only thing on you to get robbed of is the donation.

I will also add to follow your gut instinct. Get there early and scope out things. Look for anyone just hanging out or if you see guys just sitting in their cars. If your gut tells you something just isn't right, bail and live to monger again another day.

[Gastonian4]

There's so many mistakes on street girls it'd take 50 posts to list them all. But never take a girl to someplace because she wants to drop off money or pick up some money. Even if you already got services from the girl, if she has you stop somewhere it's highly likely she is going in to buy drugs. And you never know when LE is watching and will pull you over, if the girl knows the spot LE most certainly does. If LE pulls you over you could catch a charge of possessing drugs. Only place I will ever stop for a girl is a store and even then don't be suckered into going in while she ransacks your car for whatever she can find.

[Pwils122]

Only take the agreed upon donation with you when visiting a girl. Leave all other valuables somewhere safe.

[HoldenPierson]

Fake number in the Location field (especially on STG) is a dead giveaway.

Total Smoke Show in pictures? Image Search is your friend. These scammers ain't too bright and usually use very "famous" porn stars / influencers.

[CuriousGeor]

I'll start off by saying if the pictures look great and the provider is posting prices that seem below market. Most likely fake. You are not getting a Penthouse Pet for $150 an hour.

I'll piggyback on this one, and this tip isn't specific to hookers, but learn how to identify someone who has shitty English because they're low SES vs someone who has shitty English because they're foreign. If the ad has generally cohesive statements with some misspellings, bad grammar, or misuse of words then that might be a fine ad.

If the ad has something like "Hi, pretty young girl 19 age, will fuck suck, want men to visit. Can be sure maximum pleasure to you" then it's clearly someone who either just learned english or ran that shit through google translate. And that's a scam.

95% of the ads I see posted here with people asking if they're a scam or not have this same sort of language. So do yourself a favor before calling / texting any providers. Get on STG and read the first 30 ads or so, especially the ones with girls that are actually hot (by like the "I saw this hot girl on the rail trail" scale, not the "I haven't been layed in six months and I'm at the bar at 3 am" scale). Once you familiarize yourself with the differences in how people who grew up in the states vs non english speakers post ads you'll eliminate the overwhelming majority of fake ads immediately.

Also, if you're the type of person susceptible to this, that'll help you avoid scams in general rather than just with these girls.

[Mravcapo69]

Don't even send any money upfront, as a verification that you're real, or for their safety, or any other bullshit reason they give you. If you never met the person before you send them the money upfront, you will never meet them afterwards. No girl or the money is ever coming back to you.

[TheMechanik365]

Do not purchase a give card. Don't listen to excuses and made up stories. Cash is king. If they insist on a gift card. Scam, move along to the next.

[NC Transplant]

No phone listed on the ad and the only contact is an email, It is most likely a SCAM. Even with local numbers, they can run you around to verification sites where they want you to put your credit card info in. Once they have that, then the sky is the limit on what they will charge you. Do NOT ever go to one of their verification sites.