How did you get your start?

[Sabian0615]

Years ago in college. Class canceled?..... What's a guy to do?.... Go home to the wife or go to the nudie bar?.... No brainer.

First time I sat at the bar that was converted into a stage. Mostly black and latina women. One or 2 white chicks who had seen much better days. Saw guys and girls waiting to go in back. I asked a self-confident latino guy next to me what the deal was. He was like a waiter telling you about the daily specials and his recommendations. A 7 on a scale of 10 walked up and he was in line for the back. Obviously a regular. No one touched his stuff while he was away. In the meantime a latina with a very thick accent slid up to me and the waitress came around the other side and said, "Buy the young lady a drink. $8.00. That's how she makes her money here." Then she ran down her menu. Next thing I know I am in back with my drink and as we pass by the rooms you could see the place had a little intro handshake in one room, prayer service in another and then my room. You were timed by the songs. Next thing I know I am out in the hot Cicero evening and saying. Hmmmmmm, wonder if I can get away with being absent next week from class? Next time I was there, the old doorman knew me from the last visit and the girls all knew I was there. They were much more open and actually fun to talk with. Then I, too, discovered Gentlemen's Pages and I was propelled into a whole new world. Sometimes good. Sometimes scary.

[PeoplesElbow]

Stress Away in Westchester in 1993. I did not know what to expect, got a great massage and then her hands started roaming without me asking. She then asked me where I wanted a massage and I got the BEST friggin handshake EVER (and I dated a lot of girls). In fact, her handshake was better than a lot of BJ's I had gotten. From there, I went to VIP and the girls were even friendlier and better looking. I was hooked.

[Randolph]

About 7 or 8 yrs ago i got tired of dropping bucks occasionally at the local strip clubs so i picked up the gentlemans pages. tons of come on ads and i called one. she wanted 150 bucks and met me at a flea bag place. i confessed that it was my first time with anyone other than my wife of many many years. she took that as a complement and a challange. she broke me in with a true gfe experience. after that i found that i could tell if the woman was open to it and i would confess nervousness and tell her it was my first time. worked frequently for ups and extras. also ran the gamut of suburban amp's. there was a great one up north in libertyville or mundelein that had two thirty yr old koreans. we got to be friendly and they once did me tag team.

randolph

[Slim]

I had no idea what was around me until I ran across the original worldsexguide on something my friend told me about called the "internet". Found a post about a place called singapore spa in arlington heights so decided to check it out. First time, just massage and she told me to come back again. Second time, I was so nervous. Got the massage where she played with the boys. On the turn I had my hand up her skirt and all I was thinking is "oh my, this lady is old and her skinny ass feels like I'm feeling up my grandma". I left shaking my head, but found myself going back shortly thereafter.

Full service didn't happen until I moved to California. My first time, the girl asked what I wanted the first time I was in the place so I told her "whatever you got". She said $ extra and I said sure. She gets naked and lays down next to me about the same time I almost crapped my pants. I couldn't even get it up I was so nervous. She ended up taking care of me though. I then quickly learned that FS is the norm at just about all the AMP's in S. Cal.

- Slim

[Silent Cid]

You could say that was my official start. If your talking here in the chi-town area it would have to be at an amp. I never ever knew or thought amps existed here until I watched that tv show on hbo The Mind of A Married Man...where these guys go to a jappanese parlour in the downtown area (are there truly ones like that here? I'm guessing they cost a fortune).

After that show spurred my curiosity I went searching on the net. That search lead me to the then Worldsexguide. From there I sought out Pine Tree in the west burbs. My first encounter was with alot of questions from the girl. Again I was really nervous. I had left with just having a massage...& feeling a bit disappointed. But before I left the girl said..."just keep coming back." After hearing that I went back the next day. This time the masseuse was a more elderly lady. Also alot of questions...& then after the massage...she pulled in the girl I had mentioned I was with a day before to verify me. After that...she closed the door...then kept asking me if I was a cop....I said no multiple times...& then I slowly moved her hands downtown & she started the hs while I put my finger in her downtown. Before I knew it it was like a race. I got a bit overly excited as I pounded her downtown hard with my finger so much so that she squirted a little. Felt so relaxed after that day. Tried going there one more time...but it was too busy & then a week after it got shut down.

After that I started venturing to other places in the west suburbs & then escort services here & there. Never to the sw as I too prefer some safety.

[Silent Cid]

After reading some everyone's starts I'll share mine.

Mine actually started out on a trip to a foreign country. Stories from other friends caught my curiosity & so went out to a strip club. I'll just say that a dollar goes very far where I was at. Some friends took me out to a favorite hangout. They had a V.I.P. room, but mind you it wasn't fancy like here. $45 (I think) bought me 2 girls & like 6 bottles of beer in the room. Originally a cousin of mine wanted me to start a sort of Girls Gone Wild where I was at. But all the girls got really shy about it & did nothing more than a little dance. I went to a few other places where nothing happened & at first figured the same thing. Then one of my girls had to do her dance on stage & was left with the other one. After alot of beer drinking (me being very shy & nervous) out of nowhere we started feeling up on each other. For the first time I felt a coochie...then she unzipped my pants & before I knew it she had slipped a raincoat & sat on top of me. Asked how much I'd pay...I said $5...and went on riding me. She said I had to finish before the other girl came in & right when the other girl knocked on our door I finished...with a shocked look on my face. She kissed me on the cheek, then went to do her dance on stage while the other came in.

The other girl not realizing what had happened (I think) thought I was just feeling hot from the hot weather. She then went teasing me on how I didn't like her...before I know it our faces move close to each other & we start making out. Long wet kissing for so long I lost track of time. I got there at 11pm...before I knew it it was 5am. Did nothing more than kiss that one girl because I was in shock popping my cherry there.

[Massage Man]

Most of those places had girls that offered take-out. It's one of those cases of "I wish I knew then what I know now"

Amen to that.I also went to one of the strip clubs off of 41 (Half Day?) that was wild,and probably had extras.Also went to a few clubs in Indy that I was certain had extras,oh,another club off of 20 in Indiana...geez,I have been doing this too long,lol.

I gotta tell this story.My buddy was driving,me and another guy were cruising Chi-town back streets.I have no idea where,had to be '90-'91.A well worn,beaten-with-an-ugly-stick bsw was standing in a lot.We pull in,my buddy motions for her.She walks up to the window,looks in.He looks for a few seconds,silent.Then he says "God damn you're ugly!"...and sped off.That was a riot.We were only ever pulled over once.Copper just told us to go back to ########,wherever the fuck that is!...He ran the plate,my buddy was from down south.We did find a few diamonds,mainly enjoyed the free groping that was quite common back then.

[Ohboy]

I'm a suburbs boy, so I got a late start. No one ever talked of AMP's escorts or even strip clubs. My start was at strip clubs. One in half-day. The other east of there on Milwaukee in an unincorporated area.
My first experience with sex, as opposed to a little slap and tickle at the clubs, was at a place just east a couple miles from Heavenly bodies. I don't remember the name, if it even had a name. It started out as a store for tapes and toys and branched in to a ***** house. The house was actually a mobile home trailer. I got a HJ for .40 while the girl and I lay naked in bed wacthing a porno. the porno was the timer. I was so petrified I just lay there next to her and she reached over and stroked me!
Over the years I also attended Show of Shows, Solid Gold Review, Club Tarray, Cherry club[also called My Friends Place] and I'm sure I missed some others. Most of those places had girls that offered take-out. It's one of those cases of "I wish I knew then what I know now"

[Arfman]

That DOES go way back. I too lost my cherry of sorts at the Show of Shows. For 50 bucks had a fanstastic BJ in back from a gorgeous black chick with bleach blonde hair. I remember being way loaded and taking forever but she didn't complain at all. Too bad those places aren't open anymore.

[Massage Man]

My first experience was at the Show of Shows on Cicero in about '89 or so. Lot of fun to be had there. Then branched out to the AMP experience, quite by accident. Me and a buddy were out riding around as usual, and had not been to Michigan City. We were pretty good at finding "points of interest" and this trip was no exception. We found the Tokyp Health Spa. We went in, nervous as all hell. After laying down way too much, we left there quite fond of the place. Me and my buddy still do some cruising when time permits, as we are 3 states apart now. We always seem to find some diamond in the rough. I still enjoy the occasional trip, usually nw In. I am not into the SW scene, I prefer the comfort and safety of an amp. Thanks for asking.

[The Icon]

With the Eldorado Motel closed, Peking Spa looking like it may be closed, as is all the great places in Rockford, it really got me thinking about all the past experiences, and how I got my start in this interesting lifestyle.
Now I'm in my mid-20's, so I missed out on the glory days of Cicero. The very first place I went to was the old Cherry Club on Mannheim. I had just gotten my license and I was 16. I looked older, so I was never carded there. 5 buck dances, full grinding... I was in heaven. I would go there all the time. My first take out experience was there with a gorgeous young girl names Lisa. Blonde hair, 20 years old...I wonder what ever happened to her. Best part of it all was that it was all free. I was with her a few more times that summer. Through the grapevine, I would hear of the other places on Mannheim, but every time I would try to get in, I'd get carded.
I was probably 18 when I discovered the wealth of informating on the internet. It was actually the precursor to this site, the World Sex Guide. From there I discovered the old chicagox, and the escort sites. Being 18, and not making too much money, the escorts were too pricey. So I started hitting the massage places.
Very first massage place was A-Rejuva-U in some office complex on Foster in Rosemont. They made me sign some form saying that I wouldn't do anything sexual. My hand was shaking as I was signing because I was so nervous. I was waiting in the room, and in walked this gorgeous brunette girl, total porn star quality. Most amazing looking girl I had ever seen up until that point. Started with the basic questions, "have you ever been here before", "how did you hear about us", etc. I said my friend has been here all the time, and that I should really check it out. Well that was enough, she started going over the clothing options, which I happily paid, and before I knew it, she was groping me, asking what else my friend had to say about this place. Well that was enough for me...My first FS at a massage place for only 150.
Before I could go back, that place was gone, so I had to find a new place. Hello Spa 34. I would go there every payday. Vivian was amazing. I saw a few others there too, but I don't remember the names. But I remember Vivian. Anyone know what ever happened to her?
From there, I started hitting Belvidere. I never went to Cest Le Vie, I only went to the Executive. I actually still have the punch card, but I haven't been there in years. Never walked out unhappy, had FS once, but then I never saw that girl again. But then the quality of girls started going down, so it wasn't worth the drive.
But Rockford sure was worth the drive. I actually never hit the AMP's at first. I prefered the white girls, so it was the lingerie shops. Chantilly Lace was my favorite, before that went downhill. FS every time. But it was a 2 hour drive, so I couldn't go there often, but it was a nice treat.
I was Ottawa for a wedding, so I hit the 2 strip clubs there. I had just turned 21 by this point. The Slipper had the hotter girls, but there was just something about the Lamp Liter. The girls weren't as hot, but they were more fun. Nothing like a naked girl on a bar stool next to you doing shots with you. I would hit the Lamp Liter at least once a month, I became a regular. I had free take out there more than a few times. But it would take some work. The girl would really have to get to know you before she would trust going home with you.
It wasn't until recently that I discovered NW Indiana. What an amazing place that is. P&M's, Peking Spa and CT's bookstore. P&M's is quite a place. I love taking friends in there, just to see the look on their face. I'm pretty picky with who I'm with out of there, the few diamonds in the rough keep me coming back. CT's is great. The dancers quality has really gone down though. But that movie room is something else. Participated in my first gangbang in that room. I always stay away when the CD's and TV's are there, but most nights there something going on.
That got me into gangbangs, which in turn got my into a lot of gangbang Yahoo groups. There's something going on in these groups every weekend, and you never spend more than 50 for unlimited cups, and there's usually more than one girl there too. So for now, I definitely reccommend getting in good with the people who host parties on yahoo groups.
So that's pretty much where we're at now. I've been in this for about 10 years, and have definitely had my fun. What about you guys? I'm interested in hearing about how you other guys have gotten your start.