How many years have you been Mongering?

[Member #6450]

Since 1993. I was in my early 20's. Friend of mine told me about the Boston Phoenix adult ads. Called an add for a very nice incall house in Billerica. They always made you call from a pay phone nearby, before going to the house. I think that was for the first visit and once they knew you you could just call and they would tell you to come right over. They always had a few girls working. Most of them were milfish, but they had a couple who were around my age at the time.

[Aluver]

Right around 25 years, had been frequenting the Naked Eye in the Chinatown / Combat Zone for a while and one night got the courage to pick up a cute blonde ***** on the street and take her to a hotel in Braintree for my first ho fuck and haven't looked back.

[Krsupercat]

About 25 yrs. Started in NY. Best job I had in NY was in lower Manhattan, I worked on the 3rd floor, but on the 2nd floor there was a brothel. Ahh the times riding the elevator with women and their clients, I never did try anyone from there LOL.

[LustyB]

40 years. My first was at a flat out ho house in 1982.

[JayJordan]

Been in this game off and on for about twenty years both here and abroad, but mostly here. I used to be more callous, but now I'm pretty careful. I try my hardest to avoid the junkies and very cheap ones. I've also been on SA off and on for a number of years. I prefer that over everything else. I never do bareback anything besides BBBJ. I've gotten ripped off a few times like probably everyone else and also had some bad experiences. These things will just happen if you are in this game long enough.

To the new guys reading here are few things to keep in mind:

I know its hard, try to use your big head before getting into a transaction with a provider.

If something is too good to be true, then it probably isn't true.

If your gut is telling you something is wrong, then its probably best to follow your gut instincts.

Never electronically send a donation beforehand.

Never pre-pay the donation unless you have been with the provider before and you are a regular.

If you are going to an in-call for the first time, go there before your session to make sure its not a set up.

Avoid cheap motels / hotels.

Hey if you don't mind, I sent you a message asking for some other advice, I'm in my early 20's and would like to ask you a couple questions, just advice regarding this.

[OkWhatever]

Been in this game off and on for about twenty years both here and abroad, but mostly here. I used to be more callous, but now I'm pretty careful. I try my hardest to avoid the junkies and very cheap ones. I've also been on SA off and on for a number of years. I prefer that over everything else. I never do bareback anything besides BBBJ. I've gotten ripped off a few times like probably everyone else and also had some bad experiences. These things will just happen if you are in this game long enough.

To the new guys reading here are few things to keep in mind:

I know its hard, try to use your big head before getting into a transaction with a provider.

If something is too good to be true, then it probably isn't true.

If your gut is telling you something is wrong, then its probably best to follow your gut instincts.

Never electronically send a donation beforehand.

Never pre-pay the donation unless you have been with the provider before and you are a regular.

If you are going to an in-call for the first time, go there before your session to make sure its not a set up.

Avoid cheap motels / hotels.

Do not give your real information to them.

Use a burner phone.

Pay in cash.

No matter how you feel about them, never trust them.

Be respectful of their limits.

Have fun, but remember its a business for them.

Avoid telling too many people or anyone about your "hobby". People can use that against you.

Finally, accept that there is a lot of risk with this hobby.

[MamboMikea]

Well, I started mongering in the 1980's, and on and off since then. My first experience was at a strip club with a dancer that invited me to OTC with her. I saw here quite a bit, including a couple of times at her house, fucking her in her bed when her husband was away (I think he actually knew). Sometime later on, I frequented a few clubs in NYC and at one point met and fucked porn star Micki Lynn.

Then due to marriage I was on hiatus with the hobby until the early 2000's, when I really started seeing providers. BDJ has been mentioned here and I have some experience with the ladies there. It really started with meeting (and fucking) Kim / Shauna in NY before she started BDJ. We spent a few hours together going well overtime at that Long Island motel. I even remember proposing to her, but in retrospect, I am glad she didn't say yes, LOL.

My first bareback experience with a provider was with a hot 30 year old from Jewel from Dallas, who was referred to me by Lonewolf. I recall that she nearly knocked my teeth out when she came from my datying. After her climax, she rolled over on her tummy and I began giving her a massage, straddling her nice ass whilst my bare cock was saddled between her ass cheeks. There was lots of slipping and sliding there and things were getting pretty wet from my juices and I could feel her juices on my balls and lower shaft. Well she kept pushing up and before I knew it, I was sliding deep into her wet pussy.

From that point on, Lonewolf let me know of any ladies coming to Boson and I later started the UltraGFE yahoo group here. I also met Gina Rollins visiting here, traveled to Montreal, and made a few FKK trips to Germany, although I have not been to Rio or Thailand. I have also met a few additional porn stars including Chenin Blanc and Venessa Rodriguez.

[Mm196]

I actually had an appointment with Sabrina around same time but got sent to Paulina due to something with Sabrina. Saw Paulina, got a great BBBJ, then 2 days later same thing, painful burning. Was working in Brookline near Dr. Robert Taylor so walked over to his office, 80 bucks cash and a prescription, cured in 7 to 10 days.

Ha maybe they did a double together the day before. I went to Dr Taylor also. Not sure if he's still there. My last visit was in 2008 after a hot session with Riley from bdj. I remember her rubbing my bare cock head on her pussy and going in a little. I'm not into BBFS and suited up so it could have happened that way. He said the infection wasn't bad. 2 days of doxy and I never called bdj again. Never got another STI from a BBBJ after that but it's always been a concern.

[Mattis1775]

I actually had an appointment with Sabrina around same time but got sent to Paulina due to something with Sabrina. Saw Paulina, got a great BBBJ, then 2 days later same thing, painful burning. Was working in Brookline near Dr. Robert Taylor so walked over to his office, 80 bucks cash and a prescription, cured in 7 to 10 days.

That's good to know. I usually go to BMC and you have to make an appointment, which can take days or weeks. Before it was walk-ins prior to COVID. Now, trying to get tested, never mind treated is a pain.

[MajorJohnson]

I just found this thread. I too got an STI from a BBBJ once. Weird thing is it was after I saw the same Sabrina from BDJ mentioned by King. Probably back in 2005. I had heard she gave great head and it was true. Gave me a nice hour long dt BBBJ and swallowed. Started burning a day or two later. I assumed that's how it happened since I had not seen anyone else. I was free and clear so no awkward conversation with a SO.

I actually had an appointment with Sabrina around same time but got sent to Paulina due to something with Sabrina. Saw Paulina, got a great BBBJ, then 2 days later same thing, painful burning. Was working in Brookline near Dr. Robert Taylor so walked over to his office, 80 bucks cash and a prescription, cured in 7 to 10 days.

[Purple2]

I was going to say I've only been at it for less than 10 years when I realized that if I included more than AMPs I could go back to college. So thinking back I guess I've been going at it for over almost 40 years.

Starting with strip clubs in college and I was always seeking VIP lap dances. On one occasion while out drinking my roommate picked a pair of SW for us, I accepted his without even blinking. That was my first cash for FS experience.

That was the craziest things got for awhile. Until my first tip to Vegas. I could resist all the flip cards and had an in-call session at my hotel. CBJ with a Russian finish.

On my next trip to Vegas (man I miss COMDEX) I hit the Chicken Ranch. Got to experience a brothel a line up. This was my first GFE, with MSOG and a full tour around the world. Amazing.

I had the chance to hit Vegas a few more times, including the Chicken Ranch but other than that I was limited to lame lap dances for a while.

The next most craziest adventure was a weekend in Amsterdam. I also had the chance to visit the Mitchell Brothers O'Farrell Theatre. What a mind trip that was, sex shows in the US! (The strip clubs in CA are weird, no alcohol, but yet you can get personal dance with FS!

Serious drought (strip joints only) until I found out about local AMPs about 8 years ago.

[JClearMan1]

I used to have a lot of successful meets on Craigslist's casual encounters (a few different girls every month, one or two that became semi-regular). After that shut down, I relied on backpage to find new conquests. I've met ladies in Boston, New York (Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens), Portland OR, Seattle, San Jose, San Diego, San Francisco, Chicago, DC, Jacksonville, Denver, Boulder, Portsmouth, NH (basically any time I have to travel, I make sure to fuck someone in town). I've seen women born women and women "who became" women, fat women, old women, college women, homeless woman, rich women, poor women, black, white, asian, Indian, Mexican, and everything in between. Does she have a pussy? I'm interested. I've created a disciplined set of rules for myself, that I never deviate from, and so far it's kept me safe and not caught by SO (I came real close to getting fully busted in 2012, but I was sloppy back then).

[Mm196]

I got an STI just from BBBJing last year. I don't understand how you guys BBFS all the time with providers who raw dog everyone and not get infected? More than myself I'm concerned about my partner and her finding out. Explaining it to her without admitting the source was an absolute nightmare.

I just found this thread. I too got an STI from a BBBJ once. Weird thing is it was after I saw the same Sabrina from BDJ mentioned by King. Probably back in 2005. I had heard she gave great head and it was true. Gave me a nice hour long dt BBBJ and swallowed. Started burning a day or two later. I assumed that's how it happened since I had not seen anyone else. I was free and clear so no awkward conversation with a SO.

[MinorLeague]

Started with picking up sugar babies off *******, Suicide Girls, Camwhores, and Craigslist before SBs were really a thing online. Those were the days -- Baby Sinead and a couple other tattooed chicks from Burning Angel, Hannah Haddix, Desdemona and a vegan hippy girl from SuicideGirls, Falon from Camwhores, a few NYU teens. Then I found the other review site and started seeing pros, erotic massage at first, then everything else. Around 2008 I found Kgirls which blew my mind. Nowadays some pros, mostly SBs.

[Mattis1775]

For those of you that remember the old Boston Phoenix. Here is the link. Someone archived every single issue from 1973 - 2013. Scroll toward the last few pages for the Adult Ads. Every week the Phoenix came out there was an insert / adult section with print ads for escorts, strippers, nude maid services you name it. I'm not sure what year the Phoenix started with the adult section. Early 90's I think. I went back and looked at a couple issues here and found a couple of ads I definitely called.

https://archive.org/details/pub_boston-phoenix

I started in this hobby around 1993. I was in my early 20's at the time. You would call an ad listed and they only gave a description of the ladies available. For example, the phone girl would say we have Ashley available. She's 24,5'5", blonde, DD etc. Or they might ask what type of girl you're looking for and they did their best to accommodate. It was truly the golden age. There was something kind of charming about it. The mystique of not knowing what the girl really looked like and anticipation when you were driving to your meeting. It really was a crap shoot but for the most part the descriptions were accurate. Most places were $150 for the hour and you got the full hour. Adjusted for inflation these ladies would be like $300 today maybe more. Of course these same girls are likely grandmothers today. Most incall places would direct you to a pay phone nearby and to call them from the pay phone. Once confirmed, they gave you the address and off you went. Went to one incall place on a Friday night and the girls were having a birthday party for one of the other girls. After my session the girl I saw invited me to stay and party with them. I remember another guy being there too. He was a regular of one of the other girls. It was wild times for sure.

Great find. Funny, I remember a lot of these posts. My time was 1992 and beyond. Too bad these numbers don't work anymore. It's pre-cell phone numbers. Brings back very good memories. Thanks for sharing.