Sugar Babies

**Lshllc** · 05-25-22 10:53

Anyone with any communication with this one? GPS for sure, but haven't negotiated yet, just wondering how legit she is if anyone has had any experience with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-c019d9fd9313

**BlackCandleJon** · 05-16-22 14:35

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

The last 3 girls I've made it to the money stage of discussion with all wanted 450+. 😳128514;129315;.

Uuuuuh, no.

Yeah 450 is high, what I am doing is cutting in half the number of visits to be able to afford the current rates.

Mind sharing their SA links?

Pm is ok if you prefer that.

**Satyrrical** · 05-07-22 09:15

The last 3 girls I've made it to the money stage of discussion with all wanted 450+. 😳128514;129315;.

Uuuuuh, no.

**Lshllc** · 03-21-22 14:16

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...ef9332e2b091e8

Here's one for you. I don't think she is really into it for the money. She likes to party. Drinks A LOT, I mean A LOT. Your in with her is if you speak exotic cars, better yet if you own one. McClaren's are her fav, but she's all about fast and foreign.

**Cruiser45** · 03-10-22 09:18

And god forbid your profile says something like, since this is not what's your price I'm not paying to meet and see if we click. Homeless and druggies do not appeal to me, I'm not seeking a baby to support, that's called marriage. They just send message saying not approved with no explanation so I had to guess which sentences were not proper. Finally.

Just changed my seeking section of my profile to "younger than me lady, ask me more".

I finally figured out. . Duh, unrealistic me, I want that unicorn UTR, and unrealistic girls want that unicorn man like in the movie Pretty Woman, or a guy to use an ATM. I'm done with those sites, used to meet some fun girls there, now it's nothing but scams and a wallet vac.

Originally Posted by BlackCandleJon [View Original Post]

Be careful with your conversations, the words ppm, pay per date, etc. Will get you banned if reported or they see it, no warning or explanation just the access cut off. No refunds either.

The funny thing is they have so many women profile scammers, that are harassing about a deposit for the sitter, for gas, for the Uber, for the sitter, to make sure I'm serious or real, to pay the phone with threats of not being able and I keep messaging back, the list goes on and they have so many justifications, some asking for just 10 or 20 others for half the allowance upfront.

It is really confounding, it wasn't this bad a year or so ago.

Check out the harassment from someone there. Sigh.

I stopped texting back that girl when she demanded a 150 advance for the gas and sitter to do a meet and greet, but she doesn't take a hint!

**BlackCandleJon** · 03-10-22 00:41

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.

Be careful with your conversations, the words ppm, pay per date, etc. Will get you banned if reported or they see it, no warning or explanation just the access cut off. No refunds either.

The funny thing is they have so many women profile scammers, that are harassing about a deposit for the sitter, for gas, for the Uber, for the sitter, to make sure I'm serious or real, to pay the phone with threats of not being able and I keep messaging back, the list goes on and they have so many justifications, some asking for just 10 or 20 others for half the allowance upfront.

It is really confounding, it wasn't this bad a year or so ago.

Check out the harassment from someone there. Sigh.

I stopped texting back that girl when she demanded a 150 advance for the gas and sitter to do a meet and greet, but she doesn't take a hint!

**Cruiser45** · 03-04-22 11:26

I recently paid for membership on SA. The selection is totally changed from last time I was a member. I received likes, messages from fake profile and real girls were tough to find, even tougher to set up meet and greets. Many locations listed with city names same as state, like Illinois, Illinois, Missouri missouri which are of course fake. Also many listed as NY or LA who are "visiting" relatives in our area are fake. I'm done with those sites, easier to find UTR the old fashioned way- clerk at gas station, etc happy searching guys!

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.

**Satyrrical** · 03-03-22 18:42

Seems to be a wave of 1 pic profiles with minimal information where the name is in humpback notation with an adjective followed by a noun:

PreciousLady.

ObscureDuchess.

ElegantPlayer.

ConfidentEnthusiast.

Etc.

Site's really going downhill.

**Lshllc** · 02-16-22 12:57

Originally Posted by LeeCoMan [View Original Post]

I am not sure if this has been mentioned, but if it has I apologize and will touch on it again. Seeking went up on their membership but ran a Valentine's Day special which was basically their full price before they raised the price. I went ahead and re-upped my membership after lapsing it several months and had a ton of messages to reply to and new connections I wanted to make. Spent some time Friday connecting and such, then again Saturday. Woke up Sunday to see what messages I had and had been banned. For using "language indicating prostitution" or something along those lines. I used "pay to play" when talking to a few girls and I am sure Seeking was watching what was being said. Might have been reported, not all the way sure. I had a girl tell me her old profile got banned for her doing the exact same thing. So, word of warning. Do not use pay to play lingo or any such. Make the connection then do that outside Seeking. Me personally, I have no qualms about giving my number out, so having had to do it over, any of these girls I was messaging I would have given her my number quick so they had it. Hope this helps at least one person save their money. Paying that fee for just 2 days was the worst part of the whole deal.

Dang, I think PPM is ok and won't get you in trouble if you are able to get back on. Mine lapses in a couple weeks and I'm prob out for good. Better than half the new folks on there are scammers I've found. Not worth the time any longer.

**Lee Co Man** · 02-15-22 22:04

I am not sure if this has been mentioned, but if it has I apologize and will touch on it again. Seeking went up on their membership but ran a Valentine's Day special which was basically their full price before they raised the price. I went ahead and re-upped my membership after lapsing it several months and had a ton of messages to reply to and new connections I wanted to make. Spent some time Friday connecting and such, then again Saturday. Woke up Sunday to see what messages I had and had been banned. For using "language indicating prostitution" or something along those lines. I used "pay to play" when talking to a few girls and I am sure Seeking was watching what was being said. Might have been reported, not all the way sure. I had a girl tell me her old profile got banned for her doing the exact same thing. So, word of warning. Do not use pay to play lingo or any such. Make the connection then do that outside Seeking. Me personally, I have no qualms about giving my number out, so having had to do it over, any of these girls I was messaging I would have given her my number quick so they had it. Hope this helps at least one person save their money. Paying that fee for just 2 days was the worst part of the whole deal.

**BlackCandleJon** · 02-15-22 18:34

Originally Posted by Satyrrical [View Original Post]

There was a SA profile that looked like someone I knew from Hi Skool, low those many decades ago. It turned out to be her, and we're fucking regularly as she makes it to town. I pay for the room. Not sure she qualifies as SB then.

My regular SB is still going on after 2 years or so about every other week. She's 250 per meet for a couple hours per.

Met someone from AFF a couple years older than me. Petite blonde. We hook up about once a month at her place for free. Never met a woman who liked anal so much. AFF is a much less successful site for me than SA but it really pays off occasionally.

Chatted with a couple younger ones last week since I reupped SA membership with the Valentines Day special. Really too young for my tastes. I like 30-40 yo typically. I'm 54.

I recon you won't want to divulge the digits to the SB or the girl from AFF since you have an active situation there; so How about sharing the link to the younger girls from seeking if you're not needing them?

PM works too.

**Satyrrical** · 02-15-22 16:30

Originally Posted by BlackCandleJon [View Original Post]

A few months back this thread was lively and with valuable intel.

What is everyone one up to?

Found a good sugar baby?

Share!

There was a SA profile that looked like someone I knew from Hi Skool, low those many decades ago. It turned out to be her, and we're fucking regularly as she makes it to town. I pay for the room. Not sure she qualifies as SB then.

My regular SB is still going on after 2 years or so about every other week. She's 250 per meet for a couple hours per.

Met someone from AFF a couple years older than me. Petite blonde. We hook up about once a month at her place for free. Never met a woman who liked anal so much. AFF is a much less successful site for me than SA but it really pays off occasionally.

Chatted with a couple younger ones last week since I reupped SA membership with the Valentines Day special. Really too young for my tastes. I like 30-40 yo typically. I'm 54.

**BlackCandleJon** · 02-10-22 16:15

A few months back this thread was lively and with valuable intel.

What is everyone one up to?

Found a good sugar baby?

Share!

**Satyrrical** · 02-01-22 11:20

Definitely not having any luck locally (Memphis &#129326. But managing some decent hookups during work travel. A very noticiable reduction in quality female profiles. And another price increase to 110 a month, not really worth it to me.

**BlackCandleJon** · 01-31-22 17:20

Originally Posted by Lshllc [View Original Post]

Probably done with it after this month's membership runs out. Although they are relatively easy to pick out, the amount of scammers on there drive me crazy. I've put in my bio "If you are going to request money prior to meeting me in person, don't waste your time contacting me or responding to my message". Still get plenty that agree to a time / place for a meeting and I the next message or text I get is "Hey, can I ask a favor?" or "I need you to send me $$'s so I know you are serious".

The other gripe I have is being catfished. I'm not terribly picky, but not a fan of BBW. Curves are fine. This girl, and she's nice enough as I got to know her a bit over dinner, classifies herself as "Athletic" on her profile. She's 200+ in my estimation. Plenty of guys out there that like big girls. I'm not one of them. Anyhow, just venting and seeing if others have similar experiences.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...f-41c91b70cde0

Have not renewed in a month and a half. For the $100+ they charge they could do a better job of keeping the scammers and beggar women away, it's wasteful and ruins it for the real ones.