Rules To Live By

[TJ985]

Very few are doing this for the love of the job. Most if not all are addicts. They jones & don't think long term. Most addicts are manipulative &.

When it serves them, they will.

Get over on you to feed their jones.

Dr J.

Agree 100%. Been in this game since early 80's. It's n9 t a revelation but it's not common thought either.

Much respect.

[DrJohnson2]

I agree completely with this. My most recent ATF burned a bridge with me over an hr visit. I saw this girl weekly, sometimes twice a week, for a few months. All was great until one time where she couldn't perform. Obviously claimed she would make it up to me even though I hadn't even suggested that. This conversation was all initiated by her. Then proceeded to not follow through with that. Never forget that no matter what they say we are expendable. This girl was probably getting enough to pay rent and utilities at a decent apartment from me and she lost that over a 1 hr visit. Almost every word that comes out of their mouths is a lie. Take them for face value and don't trust them. Of course, YMMV, you might find the exception to the rule but how much are you willing to risk for it?

Very few are doing this for the love of the job. Most if not all are addicts. They jones & don't think long term. Most addicts are manipulative &.

When it serves them, they will.

Get over on you to feed their jones.

[PutNamAnthony]

That post is two years old! LOL.

He was replying to Oldti. LOL.

[ILoveThatPoo]

Hi. Not sure if it was a joke but how do you put a trace on a phone? Is it as easy as an app? Wouldn't you need direct access to the persons phone?

That post is two years old! LOL.

[Prm137]

Next time put a trace on her phone yes yes Hack her phone learn the truth about her truthfinder works great to get basic info.

Hi. Not sure if it was a joke but how do you put a trace on a phone? Is it as easy as an app? Wouldn't you need direct access to the persons phone?

[Oldti]

I agree completely with this. My most recent ATF burned a bridge with me over an hr visit. I saw this girl weekly, sometimes twice a week, for a few months. All was great until one time where she couldn't perform. Obviously claimed she would make it up to me even though I hadn't even suggested that. This conversation was all initiated by her. Then proceeded to not follow through with that. Never forget that no matter what they say we are expendable. This girl was probably getting enough to pay rent and utilities at a decent apartment from me and she lost that over a 1 hr visit. Almost every word that comes out of their mouths is a lie. Take them for face value and don't trust them. Of course, YMMV, you might find the exception to the rule but how much are you willing to risk for it?

Next time put a trace on her phone yes yes Hack her phone learn the truth about her truthfinder works great to get basic info.

[Lhj2023r]

I want to expand on that one as 1.1.

Do not assume because you met a girl for 6 or 7 times or more and spend over 10 hours or more with her without issue, it is kosher.

Yep. I got ripped off for an overnight back last Halloween (Not kidding) on a girl that I knew from later summer and I got to feel very comfortable with. She cashed and dashed from the hotel after giving me FS and she was going to take a shower". Was laying butt nkd on the bed while she asked questions about where to go eat while going to the bath until I heard the room door slam. The girl is advertising on Hartford / Springfield and I did not see the mixed reviews here (I did not know about the forum then).

I agree completely with this. My most recent ATF burned a bridge with me over an hr visit. I saw this girl weekly, sometimes twice a week, for a few months. All was great until one time where she couldn't perform. Obviously claimed she would make it up to me even though I hadn't even suggested that. This conversation was all initiated by her. Then proceeded to not follow through with that. Never forget that no matter what they say we are expendable. This girl was probably getting enough to pay rent and utilities at a decent apartment from me and she lost that over a 1 hr visit. Almost every word that comes out of their mouths is a lie. Take them for face value and don't trust them. Of course, YMMV, you might find the exception to the rule but how much are you willing to risk for it?

[SergeG]

I want to expand on that one as 1.1.

Do not assume because you met a girl for 6 or 7 times or more and spend over 10 hours or more with her without issue, it is kosher.

Yep. I got ripped off for an overnight back last Halloween (Not kidding) on a girl that I knew from later summer and I got to feel very comfortable with. She cashed and dashed from the hotel after giving me FS and she was going to take a shower". Was laying butt nkd on the bed while she asked questions about where to go eat while going to the bath until I heard the room door slam. The girl is advertising on Hartford / Springfield and I did not see the mixed reviews here (I did not know about the forum then).

[A Bubba Here]

Poo and all who have posted are absolutely correct. This is a game we play, sometimes a dangerous one. I always scout out the area and ask fellow mongers questions because safety is most important.

I once had a woman threaten me with a stun gun in my hotel room, that was a scary moment and my guard was down for a second. Keep your eyes and ears open especially after the deed is done so you don't get caught off guard.

Have fun and be safe.

P.S: Why on earth do guys pay for pics / vids when they are free online. If you want to see live chicks go on a chat site.

[When In Vegas]

Rule 0 - You will absolutely catch an STD from a BBBJ. If you have friends and family at home you will infect them. Your life will forever be changed. Cover up.

[ILoveThatPoo]

Let's not forget the most important rule.

Rule 11. Make sure you disable logout or shut down your app number or burner phone so your wife doesn't find it.

I broke that one early on In the game. Talk about fast talking! Poo.

[JayZom]

Rule 1. Every woman who will trade her body for cash is self serving. Meaning they will lie, cheat or steal to get their "needs" filled.

Rule 2. Never pre-pay or send money before meeting them in person.

Rule 3. Do not pay for pictures or videos.

Rule 4. They do not like you. They like your money or what you can do for them and their interests.

Rule 5. Do not overpay. You only drive up pricing for every one including yourself.

Rule 6. Give as little personal info out as possible.

Rule 7. Safety. Always be safe you only have one life. Is it worth 15 min of pleasure?

Rule 8. Assume every woman is using drugs of some sort. They are not just down on their luck.

Rule 9. Every vagina and mouth you enter into has seen 100's of other cocks. There are no "new at this" women.

Rule 10. Not all rules apply in every situation. There are diamonds in the rough but they are as rare as unicorns.

I personally have violated every single rule above. When violating the rules above I have found that only one time out of 100 do I find that unicorn or diamond in the rough. Even then for that one day she may be a unicorn but will magically turn back into a troll without notice. These are only the basic rules and I ask for them to be added to. Hopefully this will be of some assistance to the newbies. Mistakes can be costly. I am fortunate I have a pension and social security as well as disability money coming in every month. So for me a $100 mistake is meaningless. For you?

Poo.

Stay away from desperate girls. Desperate people in general are like people who can't swim, if you get near them, they'll latch on and you'll both drown. One of the easiest ways to tell a girl is desperate is when she texts you out of the blue. Not a good sign and its not because you're special unfortunately. Desperate people will do or say anything and you will not have a good time if you go because you can feel that shit in the air. I see a lot of guys on here posting when a girl is desperate to "help her out". To me, there is nothing more stupid. Can't knock anyone though because I've made this mistake in the past.

[JoeMuckInFutch]

Rule 1. Every woman who will trade her body for cash is self serving. Meaning they will lie, cheat or steal to get their "needs" filled.

Rule 2. Never pre-pay or send money before meeting them in person.

Rule 3. Do not pay for pictures or videos.

Rule 4. They do not like you. They like your money or what you can do for them and their interests.

Rule 5. Do not overpay. You only drive up pricing for every one including yourself.

Rule 6. Give as little personal info out as possible.

Rule 7. Safety. Always be safe you only have one life. Is it worth 15 min of pleasure?

Rule 8. Assume every woman is using drugs of some sort. They are not just down on their luck.

Rule 9. Every vagina and mouth you enter into has seen 100's of other cocks. There are no "new at this" women.

Rule 10. Not all rules apply in every situation. There are diamonds in the rough but they are as rare as unicorns.

I personally have violated every single rule above. When violating the rules above I have found that only one time out of 100 do I find that unicorn or diamond in the rough. Even then for that one day she may be a unicorn but will magically turn back into a troll without notice. These are only the basic rules and I ask for them to be added to. Hopefully this will be of some assistance to the newbies. Mistakes can be costly. I am fortunate I have a pension and social security as well as disability money coming in every month. So for me a $100 mistake is meaningless. For you?

Poo.

Words to live by, thank you Poo for reminding us. For me your reminder is timely. My corollaries are: At some point in your mongering hobby you will get cheated or ripped off or feel endangered. Walk away from the lousy couple of hundred bucks, even if you are carrying or are a strong young big guy or whatever. Listen to your spidey sense and don't let the little head decide. Probably the one we all violate the most! TGTBT means just that. Even the grandmas are probably doing drugs. And these days there is probably a camera somewhere that sees you coming, going or cumming, intentionally placed or not.

For discussion in the present climate: do you guys consider AMPs to be less or more risky than walking into escorts' hotels or strange houses? Risk as in getting caught; I think we can all agree you are far less likely to get robbed in a storefront AMP. Same question re health safety. For beyond a HJ, where is one more likely to catch something? My conclusion is that despite possible surveillance risks, I am better off at an AMP, but I'd love to hear what others think.

[CTMonger333]

Let's not forget the most important rule.

Rule 11. Make sure you disable logout or shut down your app number or burner phone so your wife doesn't find it.

Rule 1. Every woman who will trade her body for cash is self serving. Meaning they will lie, cheat or steal to get their "needs" filled.

Rule 2. Never pre-pay or send money before meeting them in person.

Rule 3. Do not pay for pictures or videos.

Rule 4. They do not like you. They like your money or what you can do for them and their interests.

Rule 5. Do not overpay. You only drive up pricing for every one including yourself.

Rule 6. Give as little personal info out as possible.

Rule 7. Safety. Always be safe you only have one life. Is it worth 15 min of pleasure?

Rule 8. Assume every woman is using drugs of some sort. They are not just down on their luck.

Rule 9. Every vagina and mouth you enter into has seen 100's of other cocks. There are no "new at this" women.

Rule 10. Not all rules apply in every situation. There are diamonds in the rough but they are as rare as unicorns.

I personally have violated every single rule above. When violating the rules above I have found that only one time out of 100 do I find that unicorn or diamond in the rough. Even then for that one day she may be a unicorn but will magically turn back into a troll without notice. These are only the basic rules and I ask for them to be added to. Hopefully this will be of some assistance to the newbies. Mistakes can be costly. I am fortunate I have a pension and social security as well as disability money coming in every month. So for me a $100 mistake is meaningless. For you?

Poo.

[BlueFox141]

Rule 1. Every woman who will trade her body for cash is self serving. Meaning they will lie, cheat or steal to get their "needs" filled.

Rule 2. Never pre-pay or send money before meeting them in person.

Rule 3. Do not pay for pictures or videos.

Rule 4. They do not like you. They like your money or what you can do for them and their interests.

Rule 5. Do not overpay. You only drive up pricing for every one including yourself.

Rule 6. Give as little personal info out as possible.

Rule 7. Safety. Always be safe you only have one life. Is it worth 15 min of pleasure?

Rule 8. Assume every woman is using drugs of some sort. They are not just down on their luck.

Rule 9. Every vagina and mouth you enter into has seen 100's of other cocks. There are no "new at this" women.

Rule 10. Not all rules apply in every situation. There are diamonds in the rough but they are as rare as unicorns.

I personally have violated every single rule above. When violating the rules above I have found that only one time out of 100 do I find that unicorn or diamond in the rough. Even then for that one day she may be a unicorn but will magically turn back into a troll without notice. These are only the basic rules and I ask for them to be added to. Hopefully this will be of some assistance to the newbies. Mistakes can be costly. I am fortunate I have a pension and social security as well as disability money coming in every month. So for me a $100 mistake is meaningless. For you?

Poo.

Gentlemen,

Say what you want about Poo sharing, the man has been around and knows how to play the game. I have one word for them- POW (Pearls of Wisdom). Nice post, Poo. Listen up, Newbies, the master speaks.

Now. . Be careful out there!

Blue.