Sugar Babies & Arrangements

**Bertil** · Today 15:32

Originally Posted by VloneCarti [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

You can try changing your age range if that's an issue but I would think it would be a lot easier to pull them when you're younger. As long as you have the cash to spend there is no reason you should have an issue finding gems on there. It just takes time and effort. Things were a lot easier 3 years ago but there is still talent out there to be had. Trust me on this!! Yes there is tons of GPS going on right now but once in a while you will find one and ask yourself why she is even on the site. Low rate and low mileage and like the other monger said, sometimes even just a dinner date and drinks. But these kind of girls take lots of time and energy to find. Once you find one I would suggest keeping her to yourself until you are ready to let her loose into the wild like another guy likes to say. Good luck.

**Abcxyz1234** · Today 00:09

Originally Posted by Tbrayj1987 [View Original Post]

Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?

Gps at 2 k a month? I'm sorry to break it to ya, but burger flippers at mcdonalds are starting at 44 k a year in california these days. 2 k a month is pretty modest!

**Ronnie720** · Yesterday 17:16

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

Short answer, no. Longer answer is that there may be a few who give you the benefit of the doubt but I wouldn't count on it being cheap. I can see you getting absolutely soaked. Lots of $1 k ppm offers. If you can't pull randos off of dating apps the women your age aren't going to be interested either. The ones who are already semi pro hoes may give you a shot but it will cost you. Seems like you would be better served finding a decent escort which isn't too expensive and see her repeatedly. The good ones will appreciate the repeat business and allow some feelings. Or at least pretend convincingly. Most mongers have stories of low cost escorts who they clicked with and saw over a long period. The young hot SBs won't take you seriously.

I completely disagree with this. I used SA for a few years in my mid to late 20's. It was gold. I banged a boatload of hotties and it would usually cost 200-300. But no time limit. No rules many many times. Some of the young ones don't know what they are worth. I just said my profession required travel and I'm not looking to date. Simple as that. Women will feel more comfortable in most cases with a younger guy. And in my experience do it for cheaper. A few of them were repeats and didn't even take money after a certain point. My favorite was a girl in st Pete who would give me hour long blowies for basically nothing. 50 bucks, dinner, a ride. Whatever.

Does it take some effort and some weeding? Yes? Do you have to look somewhat presentable and clean and normal? Yes, but it can be done easily, if you have the time and energy for it.

**AlmostThereBro** · Yesterday 08:23

Originally Posted by VloneCarti [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

I'm around your age, I started using SA last month and have had a lot of success while also being extremely picky. Just give a good description about yourself when you message them. I also think age can be an advantage, for my current arrangement she told me she felt more comfortable with someone her age. It all depends on how you approach and just keep it as respectful as possible. You can very easily find $400-$500 PPM with gorgeous women who are not pros and new to all of this.

**Mandane** · 04-14-24 00:42

Originally Posted by VloneCarti [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

Short answer, no. Longer answer is that there may be a few who give you the benefit of the doubt but I wouldn't count on it being cheap. I can see you getting absolutely soaked. Lots of $1 k ppm offers. If you can't pull randos off of dating apps the women your age aren't going to be interested either. The ones who are already semi pro hoes may give you a shot but it will cost you. Seems like you would be better served finding a decent escort which isn't too expensive and see her repeatedly. The good ones will appreciate the repeat business and allow some feelings. Or at least pretend convincingly. Most mongers have stories of low cost escorts who they clicked with and saw over a long period. The young hot SBs won't take you seriously.

**VloneCarti** · 04-12-24 14:36

Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.

**Member #1658** · 04-11-24 14:27

Originally Posted by TomThumb12 [View Original Post]

It's usually fake. Gave up on that site as they don't want to delete the profiles.

So, do you have an alternate site or method you're using now to find SB / UTR fun?

**TomThumb12** · 04-11-24 13:06

Originally Posted by RobbinHoodz [View Original Post]

I recently rejoined seeking after taking a break for a few months. It struck me how many profiles in the area just seem odd. Perhaps fakes? Like the photos don't look like stock photos but the descriptions are just weird sentences strung together that don't really make sense with how actual people talk. A subtle example: "My name is Beth 34, I live in Tampa, Florida. I love traveling, cooking and watching romantic movies. I love traveling and meeting new people. " Another one: "I'm a easy person, I don't over do things, just want to enjoy my time with any person who's willing to have fun and do the necessary things" like what is this garbage?

It's usually fake. Gave up on that site as they don't want to delete the profiles.

**RobbinHoodz** · 04-11-24 08:09

I recently rejoined seeking after taking a break for a few months. It struck me how many profiles in the area just seem odd. Perhaps fakes? Like the photos don't look like stock photos but the descriptions are just weird sentences strung together that don't really make sense with how actual people talk. A subtle example: "My name is Beth 34, I live in Tampa, Florida. I love traveling, cooking and watching romantic movies. I love traveling and meeting new people. " Another one: "I'm a easy person, I don't over do things, just want to enjoy my time with any person who's willing to have fun and do the necessary things" like what is this garbage?

**Member #1658** · 04-10-24 15:16

Originally Posted by Mandane [View Original Post]

All I can tell you is that I have all the young hotties I can handle at the amount you indicated. Of course I came here last summer from the DC area, so what you think of as GPS is pretty much all the ones in the DC area. Problem there is they are mostly not hot. There's no shortage of young and hot here. Sure some have GPS or just want to rinse, but there are plenty that don't. YMMV of course.

The poster you replied to mentioned two different budgets -- PPM 500 and $2 k / mo or less total. I'm somewhere in between. How much fun can I reasonably expect to have off of SA for $1 k / mo? That's a number I can make fly completely under the radar in my household, but $2 k / mo might start to be noticed. There's a limit.

I really could use an SA primer by someone if anyone is willing to share. I'm not sure whether to beat around the Bush or be very forthcoming about what I'm looking for, etc. Basically, I want someone to hang out with a little bit and have some awesome sex but someone who will not interfere in my primary relationship. I can't have "crazy" in my life.

Speaking of "crazy" in my life. I normally wouldn't be looking at someone this young, but this girl is not only on Seeking, she's on FetLife and there are photos of her with multiple dicks around her in a gangbang, etc. So, I know she plays! Just curious if anyone here can attest to how fun she is as a 1:1 Seeking baby. I think she'd be one who could be fun because she appears to have a full dime thing going, but I think she wants some side money as well. Seems like her guy knows, so it's on the up-and-up from that perspective (or that could be a problem depending on the dynamic).

Profile is: Youngmama19 - https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-25aa362c9302.

She is no longer pregnant and is now 20 or maybe 21. Baby is out in the world.

Thanks!

**Mandane** · 03-13-24 00:25

Originally Posted by Tbrayj1987 [View Original Post]

Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?

All I can tell you is that I have all the young hotties I can handle at the amount you indicated. Of course I came here last summer from the DC area, so what you think of as GPS is pretty much all the ones in the DC area. Problem there is they are mostly not hot. There's no shortage of young and hot here. Sure some have GPS or just want to rinse, but there are plenty that don't. YMMV of course.

**Tbrayj1987** · 03-12-24 17:58

Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?

**RobbinHoodz** · 03-07-24 10:36

Originally Posted by AceKingQueen [View Original Post]

You have an option to change just look next to the drop down that say 25 per page.

Usually yes. There wasn't a grid vs list option yesterday. However it looks like it was already changed back.

**AceKingQueen** · 03-06-24 17:18

Originally Posted by RobbinHoodz [View Original Post]

Does anyone else hate the new formatting for seeking? I don't care for the tiles look. I want to be able to go down a list and hide profiles I know I'm not interested in.

You have an option to change just look next to the drop down that say 25 per page.

**RobbinHoodz** · 03-05-24 13:17

Does anyone else hate the new formatting for seeking? I don't care for the tiles look. I want to be able to go down a list and hide profiles I know I'm not interested in.