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11-14-19 10:42 #8
Posts: 398Newbie Guide: negotiations
Advice from Benz.
Originally Posted by Benz1
Learn her incall location and general time availability so you can be in the area when you contact her. She'll take a monger who says he's 10 minutes away rather than gambling on a monger who requests a date 1-2 hours later to actually show. Appointments work with established relationships, but escorts all follow the rule of a bird in hand is worth two in the Bush (or maybe it's a c*ck in her Bush is worth 2 future handies? Something like that anyway).
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11-14-19 10:28 #7
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. Review Template
Consider the following when posting an escort report:
Originally Posted by Benz1
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11-11-19 22:10
Senior Member
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11-10-19 22:14 #6
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. The Hobby Phone
Never use your own phone in support of this hobby.
Many mongers purchase prepaid phones just as escorts do. Others use apps on their smart phone to be a 2nd line, or texting apps. Some use both. Although most escorts setup via text, some will do a voice call for final location. Make sure you know how your 2nd line or app works before trying to use it on a date. Apps need to have access to microphone and notifications so it may take some time to set it up.
Originally Posted by PrivateParts [View Original Post]
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11-10-19 22:10 #5
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. Post a Report
Guide to Posting a report.
1. Be respectful of others.
2. If posting about an escort.
A. Identify the escort by call name or ad.
B. Be factual & honest.
C. Paste a link to the ad.
D. include picture of ad since links die.
E. Don't write phone # or address, but you can include pic of ad that shows it.
3. To include link, find the webpage and select the entire text in the address bar, copy & paste it into your review.
4. To include pictures in your post click Manage Attachments. If you've downloaded the picture to your phone / pc or did a screenshot then select files from the Upload Files from Computer section, then select Upload.
5. Use the Reply with Quote feature when replying to another post for context. You can edit out portions inside the QUOTE.
6. Preview your post before submitting it.
Many escorts use the same name or change names, so pictures are vital to help identify who is being reviewed.
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11-10-19 22:09 #4
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. Benz1 12 Step TOFTT
Originally Posted by Benz1 [View Original Post]
1. Lock the deadbolt of the hotel room door behind you.
2. Politely state you'd like her to put away her phone during your visit (before any money leaves your hand).
3. Let her bring up money and don't ask for explicit sexual services until its obvious she isn't LEO. Instead ask if there are "things she's not into".
4. Keep all your belongings (clothes) in one place in case you need to dash.
If she resists, your spidey senses will start tingling. You don't want a "boyfriend" to interrupt 5 minutes after the money comes out and lose the full amount. That or she grabs and dashes. Make it clear you are paying for her undivided attention. Assess your risk, then mitigate as many possible damages as possible in case things go wrong.
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11-10-19 22:07 #3
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. Research
Nothing annoys this community more than the monger who asks "any info on this one?" for a well known escort. Learn how to do your research.
#1 search this forum for reviews. Members can search within an entire city forum or within a specific thread (I. E. Grand Rapids / Escort Reports) for keywords, no more than 1 search per minute. It doesn't work for 3 letter words or less. Search for your escort name and see what kind of reviews are out there, if any. Pay attention to who made the review by clicking on their profile and looking at other posts, are they senior members? Some fake profiles with only 1 or 2 posts have been known to give extreme praise or criticize an escort, so don't be fooled by those gaming the system. Pay attention to monger bias as we each have different preferences on what we like.
#2 google search the escort's phone #. Sites like STG may have an advertised number in text and also a number if you click the CALL ME button. Search them both using the format "xxx yyy zzzz escort" which will find most ads on the typical sites. Click through anything that is found. Does the escort use different names? If so search for it in this forum. Is the number associated with different girls? What other cities are ads posted in? Search for that escort in the other cities USA forums. If you find that number all over the country use your common sense. Sites like STG have the same ad posted in multiple cities at the same time.
#3 reverse image search the escort pics. Double click on the pic so it's the only thing in the browser. Select the text in the address bar, which might be "http: somesite / babe. Jpg" and copy it. Open google webpage, and paste into the search box. It will prompt you to "search by image" - this is what you want. It will find if the image is used on other sites and not the authentic local girl you were promised. Do this for all images the escort has posted since the tool isn't perfect. Try Tineye.com as another search utility.
#4. Read the ad, don't just look at pictures. Some ads advertise weight / height in metric system which isn't the norm here in the US. Does it give a location that makes sense for the local area or does it say "anywhere"? Use common sense.
Generally speaking, if the pictures look professional, are of incredibly attractive young girls, or advertise with very low rates its too good to be true. If the phone number is associated with a bunch of different girls then it's likely a handler who will send you to a completely different girl that looks nothing like the one advertised. Same thing if the pictures are stolen from the Internet. If the ad has been posted for a long time and you can't find any reviews from a member then it's likely not real. If it's a relatively new ad, and you can't find any information out there, and passes the sniff test, then consult the guide for TOFTT.
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11-10-19 22:06 #2
Posts: 398Newbie Guide. PM and Email Notifications
Setup your UsaSexGuide user preferences to ensure if you want email notifications or not for forum updates or Private Messages (PM).
Login, then select Settings. Under My Settings - General Settings you can select if you can receive PMs from all members (recommended) and if you want to get an email when that happens instead of having to login.
Under My Subscriptions you can select which forum threads you want to get daily emails from. This allows you to read posts without going to the site.
Obviously be careful and don't use an email address that your wife or business can see.
Use the Private Messaging feature to directly communicate with a member. There is a limit to how many PMs you can have in your inbox. Once it gets filled you can no longer receive any until you clean it out. At the time of this posting I don't believe there is a method to attach pics to a PM.
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11-10-19 22:04 #1
Posts: 398New Member Guide
Starting a thread as guide for new members. All are welcome to this community if you are willing to share experiences, tips and advice. It's a two way street: contribute as much as you receive. Do so without judgment of others and make sure you understand the rules of the site.
Overview of popular Grand Rapids threads:
Escort Reports thread is for escort reviews, and sharing information about escorts good, bad, or fake. Just like a restaurant a good provider can have the occasional bad review and vice verse. The more reviews the clearer the picture.
Ripoff Reports should only contain escorts that ripped you off, not poor experiences. These are escorts to AVOID and deserve an uncluttered thread. You may find the same information posted in Escort Reports.
General Reports is for general topics. All too often general topics creep into Escort Reports, but this is where it belongs.
Massage Parlor Reports. Self explanatory.
Street Walker Reports. Self explanatory.
Strip Club Reports. Self explanatory.
Others. Lessor used threads for Reports from a particular escort site.
Refer to the tips on how to Post a report.
User Blogs. There are various discussions including one called Anyone Seen This Girl? Recommended to post questions there instead of on a thread for reviews.