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[Sudiptodg]

Agreed. But they have been floating around on and off for sometime on various forums. Solo and duo.

So thought of asking in the forum whether anyone know they are legit.

Based out of Newark area.

I dunno, why would anyone do doubles with two unknown girls? How does one know it isn't a perfect set-up? Then if something goes south, it's two words against one?

[Shampoo55]

These 2 had ads before on Seeking but I didn't pursue. Was wondering if any of my learned buddies got any insight on these. Either solo or duo?

Pic attached.

Thanks.

I dunno, why would anyone do doubles with two unknown girls? How does one know it isn't a perfect set-up? Then if something goes south, it's two words against one?

[Sudiptodg]

These 2 had ads before on Seeking but I didn't pursue. Was wondering if any of my learned buddies got any insight on these. Either solo or duo?

Pic attached.

Thanks.

[PPJones]

OK, well all know about 'hooker time' when it comes to dealing with the drug addicted street walkers and escorts. They get stuck in a 'nod' or have to hurry to 'get well' before meeting a dude and there are a million ways that can go wrong and lead to time delays. Or they aren't in control of their living situation or transportation so many places for a snafu to occur. After all most of these girl, IF they could manage their time, could probably have productive jobs and lives. So, if we are smart, we open a can of patience when dealing with these types of 'dates!

But then youse gots yer Sugar Babies that want 2 X or 3 X what we have to offer up on the street. I mean at that level of compensation, shouldn't SBs be a better experience? Should we have to put up with 'hooker time' when engaging a SB? After all if a girl can't manage to be on time for a Meet & Greet what does that say about her ability to show up for a date on time? I mean those with tight schedules could lose the ability to complete a date if the SB is 35-45 minutes late!

So what is up with these SBs that don't take time seriously?

Oh and then if the dude happens to leave because his time is valuable, she's gunna curse him out, call him all kinds of names and claim he wasted her time. Then she'll spend miles of unproductive text time arguing over who wasted whose time.

I mean shit, I didn't get to where I am able to play in the sugar bowl because I fritter away time or showed up late to jobs or job interviews. I guess when you are flatbacking for a living such subtitles escape the girls?

Then again perhaps there are enough numbnuts out there that are so excited a pretty girl MAY want to fuck them that they will put up with this form of disrespect?

What gives?

Are we speaking of actual SB's, or pros, or girls who are "considering" the lifestyle?

Part of the game, on the SB sites is determining in a sense, "who is who". In other words, just like when mongering and online sites, you need to have a certain skill set, to determine which are are real, which girls /(guys) are scammers, and which are just plain bogus ads. Switch to the SB sites,. Same kind of skill set necessary. Much MUCH more work involved.

I heard once, that on those sites, there are 3 types of girls, and I beleive it (a bit, but I've come to include that there are also sub-categories with each and, as EVERY review on this board goes, YMMV! We have to remember, we are freaking with people. And people's needs and wants change really t, and sometimes even more frequently. A provider who states she will only date for 250/ he may find that she has a certain court date upcoming and will date for 50/ he. Ever changing.

1) a girl who is considering sugaring to help her through life, or college or whatever, but hasn't yet seen, or met a daddy, let alone a date. This has much to do with the whole process of everything, much like a rookie monger setting up a date and then backing out for WHATEVER reason.

2) pros. These are girls who have been in the whole sex work lifestyle already. Whether it be through online sites or streets, or whatever means. These girls have met AND serviced plenty of men. Know what they want and are sometimes willing to provide.

3. Actual sugar babies. These are girls / women who have had ACTUAL sugar daddies who have taken care of them through (often many) different means. They have met up with several or many men, may still have a daddy or two "laying around" for occasional certain monetary or gift requests, which may or may not be filled with a return of a certain sex act or date. With these types, often their need for discretion is usually almost as important as the seeker. They will provide thier daddies (daddy!! As they will NOT lead you to believe that there ever was or IS anyone but YOU, Daddy.).

Now with the new rules of the sites, (no sex acts, no mention of monetary gain). It is often best to take discussion "off site", however, this DOES make it more difficult to keep track of who's who. But, really, tho, there needs to develop, between SB and SD, A RELATIONSHIP. If you are on these sites, simply looking for a regular provider, you may trip up often. The goal of a true SB relationship, is just that. You need to have things in common, things to talk about, things you both enjoy doing together and you will eventually find that you have built a relationship. Yes, one that is also about providing for another, but, wait, don't you do that for your SO, already? 🤔.

Now, as I mentioned, there ARE "sub-categories" for each of those 3, but I've gone on long enough!

Happy hunting, be safe, and enjoy your time (s).

Oh, and PS. I'm not waiting 45 minutes for ANY SB to show up. The benefits are MUTUAL! They BOTH gain! If she doesn't want to gain, there's one that will! Some will, some won't, so what, NEXT!!!
#notwaitingaroundatSBrates.

[Shampoo55]

OK, well all know about 'hooker time' when it comes to dealing with the drug addicted street walkers and escorts. They get stuck in a 'nod' or have to hurry to 'get well' before meeting a dude and there are a million ways that can go wrong and lead to time delays. Or they aren't in control of their living situation or transportation so many places for a snafu to occur. After all most of these girl, IF they could manage their time, could probably have productive jobs and lives. So, if we are smart, we open a can of patience when dealing with these types of 'dates!

But then youse gots yer Sugar Babies that want 2 X or 3 X what we have to offer up on the street. I mean at that level of compensation, shouldn't SBs be a better experience? Should we have to put up with 'hooker time' when engaging a SB? After all if a girl can't manage to be on time for a Meet & Greet what does that say about her ability to show up for a date on time? I mean those with tight schedules could lose the ability to complete a date if the SB is 35-45 minutes late!

So what is up with these SBs that don't take time seriously?

Oh and then if the dude happens to leave because his time is valuable, she's gunna curse him out, call him all kinds of names and claim he wasted her time. Then she'll spend miles of unproductive text time arguing over who wasted whose time.

I mean shit, I didn't get to where I am able to play in the sugar bowl because I fritter away time or showed up late to jobs or job interviews. I guess when you are flatbacking for a living such subtitles escape the girls?

Then again perhaps there are enough numbnuts out there that are so excited a pretty girl MAY want to fuck them that they will put up with this form of disrespect?

What gives?

stepping down off of the soapbox

[Shampoo55]

If memory serves she has VERY specific rules as to the procedure to date her, from must be at her place, only certain things first date, blah, blah, blah.

Rules turn me off so I took a pass. Did I miss something good?

It's been a while so forget her s / and and link.

[Shampoo55]

I tried, but failed LOL.

Probably more so they track thro card number. So after one successful day they blocked again.

Thanks buddy for your valuable insight but your student failed here Sir.

As much was interested to checkout this MayFran as well as newly posted Bella lady, have to lookup available resources within SB domain only for now.

Thanks again.

Did the student follow the advice on the Richmond SB thread? Using the same CC as before is Rule #1. Something to be avoided. But WTF are you doing using a CC registered in your IRL real name and address to buy access to a prostitution related website? Do you have a OpSec plan for your mongering?

It appears you failed as the advice given on that thread wasn't followed. Those steps are doable, and if one gets stuck or something seems unclear, just post and ASK and others will help you out. But youse got to be willing to do the work!

First step, establish an new monger identity: new email address on a different system, not using your name. Get a burner phone and use that number, Get a prepaid CC like Secure Spend to pay for the site, use a different computer / router to 'sigh up"! The basics, read TFT for the specifics and ask Qs over there.

Otherwise, yeah, you are stuck with the dregs of SB.

But c'Mon. Soldier! Man up! Do the work, yer not alone in this quest! Get with the team and this obstacle can be overcome! Failure is not an option! Get going!

[Sudiptodg]

I tried, but failed LOL.

Probably more so they track thro card number. So after one successful day they blocked again.

Thanks buddy for your valuable insight but your student failed here Sir.

As much was interested to checkout this MayFran as well as newly posted Bella lady, have to lookup available resources within SB domain only for now.

Thanks again.

So what you are facing is getting back on SA after being banned? That's a speed bump in your mongering story! That is a solvable problem! Go over to the Richmond, VA SB thread (below the blue line) and search for Banned. There has been lively discussion over the years on "how to" get back on the site, in fact some of it just this year. It involves a number of steps, that are doable. Not saying they are easy, as it takes some time. Ask questions on the "how to" on that thread as dudes that have been through the process will jump in and help!

IF you do get back on, be SUPER careful not to discuss money for anything on that website. BOTs read the emails and will ban you in a heart beat! Take those conversations off site, via text, SnapChat, Kik or whatever. Don't let girl bait you into a reply, even if they are wrong!

Look, don't let this speed bump in mongering stifle your game. Just be determined to improvise, adapt and over come when faced with that challenge!

You can do it!

Good luck!

[Shampoo55]

SB world you have to ask her. May vary widely. May not. Just like STG.

Goodness! You recco'ed her to the thread, I thought that meant you had dated her and had a relationship and were "helping her out" with extra dates? So what exactly was the situation that lead you to post her up here as needing more help? I'm confused.

IF you dated her what were the damages? If not, what kind of damages did she ask for?

Help us out with "the rest of the story?

[BerryMcCockinr]

This young lady seems in need of more of daddy's sugar. Somebody help her out. Skiiled, open minded and can host. Multimedia friendly. Blows hot and cold though for length and commitment to service. On a good day very very good!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-6343fa7d702f

I have her number from a while back but never met up. What's the damage? Thanks.

[Antipooh]

This young lady seems in need of more of daddy's sugar. Somebody help her out. Skiiled, open minded and can host. Multimedia friendly. Blows hot and cold though for length and commitment to service. On a good day very very good!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-6343fa7d702f

Messaged her.

[Graham111]

This young lady seems in need of more of daddy's sugar. Somebody help her out. Skiiled, open minded and can host. Multimedia friendly. Blows hot and cold though for length and commitment to service. On a good day very very good!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-6343fa7d702f

[Shampoo55]

You are 100% spot on Sir. But unfortunately SA froze my account a year back and I couldn't restore it again. So the SB option.

I would say mixed impression about SB. I had good positives, real girls, enjoyable dates. And at the same time lots of negatives, scams, girls interested in only online sales of pics, vids and subscription.

Luckly never was stood up. On dates, and usually following the advise of experienced buddies on here, never have indulged in advance donation as a proof of being serious LOL.

All in all, I would agree with you. SA was much better with lots of potential and real girls. But unless someone is on SB (unlike Mayfran), my reach remains limited.

Thanks again.

So what you are facing is getting back on SA after being banned? That's a speed bump in your mongering story! That is a solvable problem! Go over to the Richmond, VA SB thread (below the blue line) and search for Banned. There has been lively discussion over the years on "how to" get back on the site, in fact some of it just this year. It involves a number of steps, that are doable. Not saying they are easy, as it takes some time. Ask questions on the "how to" on that thread as dudes that have been through the process will jump in and help!

IF you do get back on, be SUPER careful not to discuss money for anything on that website. BOTs read the emails and will ban you in a heart beat! Take those conversations off site, via text, SnapChat, Kik or whatever. Don't let girl bait you into a reply, even if they are wrong!

Look, don't let this speed bump in mongering stifle your game. Just be determined to improvise, adapt and over come when faced with that challenge!

You can do it!

Good luck!

[Rubber Ducky Boston]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-8c689d461060

I believe this is the same girl who went by slimmbabyxoxo a few months back. If so, I've been seeing her for a while now. Had a generally good time. She's very attractive, her age is accurate, she knows what she's doing. Also, she has her own place, so logistics are much easier than most other SBs, if you don't want to host at your own place. She's definitely comes off as a pro, but that's not necessarily big negative for me. Also I think her ppm is higher than what some people here might be comfortable with. But overall I had fun with her.

I'm not going to see her anymore I think, but that's mostly me just getting busy w / work and being generally tired and not in the mood, rather than anything specific that went wrong. PM me if you want more details, I'm trying to be a bit more discrete these days and would rather provide info that way vs. Posting every little detail in public.

[Sudiptodg]

You are 100% spot on Sir. But unfortunately SA froze my account a year back and I couldn't restore it again. So the SB option.

I would say mixed impression about SB. I had good positives, real girls, enjoyable dates. And at the same time lots of negatives, scams, girls interested in only online sales of pics, vids and subscription.

Luckly never was stood up. On dates, and usually following the advise of experienced buddies on here, never have indulged in advance donation as a proof of being serious LOL.

All in all, I would agree with you. SA was much better with lots of potential and real girls. But unless someone is on SB (unlike Mayfran), my reach remains limited.

Thanks again.

I would not take a girl's "listed" location to heart! Often girls will list a locale that is a few towns away, where they grew up and now live elsewhere or just some location in East Jabib. They are trying, at least, to be discreet.

But what you mention, proximity to your work, is just a challenge many mongers face and something to be figured out and overcome! I'm sure if you were interested and posted a "how to" question, the brain trust that reads and posts here could help you solve or overcome any issues.

Membership on SA is 109.99 list but sign up for a "Look see" account and with time SA will send you a discount code. 20% or 25% off. Nets you <$90 cost.

Sorry to see you went the SB route! From my experience Secret Benefits is a waste of time & resources. Their business model is keenly flawed as they sell credits. So when the fakes, flakes or bots contact you, one has to spend credits just to discover she's a disappointment.