Sugar Baby Guide

[Anonwmlatam]

Anyone had any luck with any of the following SB's on SA, just wondering if they're real.

Thisdevilwearsprada.

Laurenmariex.

Blue202 eyes.

Kaibabe88.

Irish wonderland.

Katesbakery.

Classyinheels.

Just wondering, haven't dabbled or haven't gotten back any responses so wondering what everyone else's interactions may have been. DM if you can. Happy fishing!

[Keither43]

Has anyone here ever actually met up with her? My only contact with her is through snapchat and I feel it looks TGTBT. But would love to hear reports otherwise.

[Anonwmlatam]

I'll keep this short and sweet, ATS little Yogi was a time waster for me. DM if you can convince me otherwise.

[Anonwmlatam]

The getting is good! I saw someone else post that SA was slow, and it definitely was slow and dried up, and I was right about to give up when bam! Feels like a flash flood, got enough to keep me busy. Get out there! Happy fishing!

[Clark5780]

Wait a couple of weeks. Use all new photos. Different Email. Pay with a different card.


I have been banned 3 times. Always got back on. If it doesn't work. Repeat the same process again.

Thank you!

[Round]

So, I screwed up and got banned. Are there any legitimate work arounds, such as using VPN, or am I simply out of luck?.

Wait a couple of weeks. Use all new photos. Different Email. Pay with a different card.

I have been banned 3 times. Always got back on. If it doesn't work. Repeat the same process again.

[SmithJon]

So, I screwed up and got banned. Are there any legitimate work arounds, such as using VPN, or am I simply out of luck?.

I'd send them an email asking to be reinstated and promising to behave, it's worked for me before. Other than that you'll need a new email address and a different payment card number.

[Clark5780]

So, I screwed up and got banned. Are there any legitimate work arounds, such as using VPN, or am I simply out of luck?.

[WanToBe]

Nice to hear things have picked up. I had a pretty weak few weeks back in Oct / Nov before finally finding some good ones right around Thanksgiving, and been off the site since then. Starting to think about re-uping sometime soon. What price range are you generally getting for those PPMs? (Feel free to PM me if you don't want to go public with that.).

What is a site address.

[Gexem]

Tons of sugar babies in GR right now. Been texting them and its crazy how many young girls are down for ppm play. I'm just killin it right now. MM686.

Nice to hear things have picked up. I had a pretty weak few weeks back in Oct / Nov before finally finding some good ones right around Thanksgiving, and been off the site since then. Starting to think about re-uping sometime soon. What price range are you generally getting for those PPMs? (Feel free to PM me if you don't want to go public with that.).

[MichiganMan686]

Tons of sugar babies in GR right now. Been texting them and its crazy how many young girls are down for ppm play. I'm just killin it right now. MM686.

[SmithJon]

Although I'm a long time fan of SA, my recent experience was really bad. I re-signed up for SA in the beginning of December and tt was fun initially. I thought I'd made some good connections but they all turned out to be flakes or semi-pro's with ridiculous expectations. Then I got banned, I think for sending a girl a PM that had some really moderate language in it. This time of year is probably bad for it anyway with the holidays, but if you do decide to sign up, be careful of what you put in you messages as SA seems to be tightening its allowable language. And they don't give you any warnings.

[Charlie441]

Wow, I started this topic so I guess I should own it. Sorry for the uproar. Yes I probably over analyze things, but no I don't need my head examined. I'm on my 2nd successful non-paying relationship with a young woman from SA. She happens to be hot as hell, half my age and loves sex. I'm sorry if anyone finds that hard to believe, but other men have posted similar experiences to mine. Just RTFF. The fact is not all baby profiles are escorts. You'll find open relationships, swingers, and women who use it like a free dating site too. If that's hard to fathom, stick to STG.

I won't discourage anyone from posting a review of an escort. We have a place for that in the Escort Reports. The point of this particular thread is to provide guidance on how to be successful at finding Sugar Babies around Grand Rapids. My advice for anyone seeking it is simple: don't treat them as escorts.

I agree, but I want to clarify my POV -- and I'm not trying to over-analyze. Some treat it like Adult Friend Finder, and you can pick up some hints in their profile that they may be as such. That said, one shouldn't *expect* that of course. A majority are pay-to-play or some variation of that (like x $ per month, to meet 2-4 times a month; better bang for the buck to become an insta-regular), usually with a GFE, as if it is "dating" when it's not really so.

In your scenario, when she's Hot + half your age on top of it, one Really shouldn't expect that. From my experience, most girls & women think it's "set" the way They roll, so ya don't want be WTF about it -- but you want to get prepared for them to be mildly WTF from time to time due to what they think "all" women are doing.

But in essence, assuming said gal isn't potentially drugged out or anything -- if one wouldn't have a chance at her in the dating scene, one shouldn't expect her to roll with ya like it's Adult Friend Finder, although she may roll that way with another guy. Butt, of course, one can luck out once in a great while. But again, one shouldn't Expect it to be a sex-crazed Tinder. It's mostly pay-to-play one way or another, while a minority of them treat it like Adult Friend Finder but with guys who make good $$.

[MichiganMan686]

Once you find a baby you'll be communicating with her directly, not via the messaging site. You do that so you can talk openly about arrangements without violating the propositioning rules of the site, but also allows you to continue talking after your subscription runs out. Plus don't give her any reason to continue to login to that site while you are trying to close the deal. You don't want her seeing the other guys messaging her.

If it's not a PPM girl, she'll likely want to believe you are exclusive with her or at least wanting to know about your other relationships are minimal. Don't say you have experience with escorts and their typical rates or anything that may turn her off. If you're still planning on being on the site looking for new babies while carrying with her then use the 2 profile system (Guide 2-3) to hide your activity from her. It's also a good way to use your "backup" profile to see if your baby continues to be active after she's started seeing you. It's useful both ways. Maybe she's not so innocent like she claims.

A lot of guys wonder if Dinner Dates & Vacations are essential to become a Sugar Daddy? The answer is no, but it depends on the type of Baby and what you are willing to do. As stated before, most non-professionals will want to get to know you before they agreed to any private meets. So expect at least 1 public meeting first. If a Baby seems immediately willing to meet in private she could be overly nave or likely a PPM girl. If she's been on the site for a long time then she probably knows what she's doing.

Should you admit you are married? My best advice is to come clean with the baby and explain what you are looking for outside of your marriage and why. Make her understand, and if she's got interest in you, she'll make arrangements that don't require public dating. You'll need to show her attention and affection by some other means through texting and gifts, but it doesn't necessarily require dates. Unless you live apart from your current spouse you won't be able to hide this fact, so just admit it.

If your objective is to only have PPM women they won't need as much attention, certainly not dinner dates. In that case there is no need to admit you are married. If she questions your availability just send you have a relationship just to remove that target from your back.

Once you start talking with a Baby you may need to act quickly and strike while the iron is hot. But don't push it if she's not ready. Make sure you are prepared with a stash of cash and have a plan on how & where you'd like to meet. Be sensitive to her and never try to get her to meet somewhere she's not comfortable. Think of good public places you can meet that is safe for her and you won't run into people you know. Have a plan where you'd go when it's time for intimacy.

The younger Babies may have unreal expectations because that's what the site promotes for them. You might have to recalibrate them. My experience and success with college girls is mainly from the Craigslist personal days. The wannabe Babies usually asked for money, but I found a lot really just needed was a mature friend as a mentor. Both professionally and sexually. It usually starts out that they have a money crisis or are drawn to the idea of being given handouts just for looking pretty. If you can provide good conversation, show interest in them, help them in some way (money, school, applying for financial aid, etc) or maybe give her sex tips so she can "improve her boyfriend's performance", you'll establish a real personal connection. She'll appreciate you. Do that and you'll collect panties. Success was achieved through that personal connection, not the money, and that is what made the sex better.

Voice Calls. You are more likely going to need to be able to call a Baby more than you ever did for escorts. That might be a reason to get a hobby phone. Personally I find texting apps adequate but not without their quirks. TextFree allows you to accrue voice minutes for free by just playing a lot 20-30 second ads from within the app. It's mindless and I can bankroll 10-20 minutes while watching a football game. Whatever your solution, having the ability to voice call is critical for initial verification with your Baby and those moments when you're trying to meetup up someplace, etc. Most women are ok with texting, but sometimes a Baby just wants to hear your voice. Be prepared.

TY for taking the time to post this. Good stuff. Mm686.

[PrivateParts]

Once you find a baby you'll be communicating with her directly, not via the messaging site. You do that so you can talk openly about arrangements without violating the propositioning rules of the site, but also allows you to continue talking after your subscription runs out. Plus don't give her any reason to continue to login to that site while you are trying to close the deal. You don't want her seeing the other guys messaging her.

If it's not a PPM girl, she'll likely want to believe you are exclusive with her or at least wanting to know about your other relationships are minimal. Don't say you have experience with escorts and their typical rates or anything that may turn her off. If you're still planning on being on the site looking for new babies while carrying with her then use the 2 profile system (Guide 2-3) to hide your activity from her. It's also a good way to use your "backup" profile to see if your baby continues to be active after she's started seeing you. It's useful both ways. Maybe she's not so innocent like she claims.

A lot of guys wonder if Dinner Dates & Vacations are essential to become a Sugar Daddy? The answer is no, but it depends on the type of Baby and what you are willing to do. As stated before, most non-professionals will want to get to know you before they agreed to any private meets. So expect at least 1 public meeting first. If a Baby seems immediately willing to meet in private she could be overly nave or likely a PPM girl. If she's been on the site for a long time then she probably knows what she's doing.

Should you admit you are married? My best advice is to come clean with the baby and explain what you are looking for outside of your marriage and why. Make her understand, and if she's got interest in you, she'll make arrangements that don't require public dating. You'll need to show her attention and affection by some other means through texting and gifts, but it doesn't necessarily require dates. Unless you live apart from your current spouse you won't be able to hide this fact, so just admit it.

If your objective is to only have PPM women they won't need as much attention, certainly not dinner dates. In that case there is no need to admit you are married. If she questions your availability just send you have a relationship just to remove that target from your back.

Once you start talking with a Baby you may need to act quickly and strike while the iron is hot. But don't push it if she's not ready. Make sure you are prepared with a stash of cash and have a plan on how & where you'd like to meet. Be sensitive to her and never try to get her to meet somewhere she's not comfortable. Think of good public places you can meet that is safe for her and you won't run into people you know. Have a plan where you'd go when it's time for intimacy.

The younger Babies may have unreal expectations because that's what the site promotes for them. You might have to recalibrate them. My experience and success with college girls is mainly from the Craigslist personal days. The wannabe Babies usually asked for money, but I found a lot really just needed was a mature friend as a mentor. Both professionally and sexually. It usually starts out that they have a money crisis or are drawn to the idea of being given handouts just for looking pretty. If you can provide good conversation, show interest in them, help them in some way (money, school, applying for financial aid, etc) or maybe give her sex tips so she can "improve her boyfriend's performance", you'll establish a real personal connection. She'll appreciate you. Do that and you'll collect panties. Success was achieved through that personal connection, not the money, and that is what made the sex better.

Voice Calls. You are more likely going to need to be able to call a Baby more than you ever did for escorts. That might be a reason to get a hobby phone. Personally I find texting apps adequate but not without their quirks. TextFree allows you to accrue voice minutes for free by just playing a lot 20-30 second ads from within the app. It's mindless and I can bankroll 10-20 minutes while watching a football game. Whatever your solution, having the ability to voice call is critical for initial verification with your Baby and those moments when you're trying to meetup up someplace, etc. Most women are ok with texting, but sometimes a Baby just wants to hear your voice. Be prepared.