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Originally Posted by PhilMendel
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For sure brother. Back in the day when Executive in Belvidere was open; I had a honey that I saw very often at the spa and outside. We met up 4-5 times in a bar for drinks and at a hotel / car for extra activities. Lot's of fun and it felt like a girlfriend situation. She was married to a biker dude. But you've got to realize that it's all about $$$ for them. The fantasy is cool, but the bottom line is that.
They just want the $$.
Have fun but try to cut your losses. Just move on to the next hottie that you find.
They don't love you. Don't love them.
Yeah absolutely. Not saying I didn't know the score. I had a feeling one day what happened would be exactly what did happen. I was always aware of that. It was a great run of fun while it lasted. On an interesting note there was a visit I walked out forgetting to tip her at all and she didn't say a word, I was out the door on my way to my car when I reached in my pocket and realized I still had my cash. I went back in and made sure I tipped her. Several times that I was feeling particularly satisfied and over tipped her quite a bit and she quite often gave some of my tip back, even up to half of it at times, to the point where she was accepting less than the standard tip.
Funny though about the move on to another girl statement. The day I learned Bella was gone I met Eva LOL. Had a nice conversation with her. I wasn't planning to stay learning Bella had quit but chatted with Jennifer for a few minutes then with Eva for about 30 minutes up front and that turned into an invite to stay and a nice romp with Eva that day. Eva was actually quite nice to me and didn't seem snobbish at all. She seemed extremely chill in fact. Anyway Eva really has a beautiful body if you ask me. She had a thick Bush that I wasn't a big fan of. I started going in to see Eva for a couple months just because we seemed to like each other ok and I really like her body other than the thick Bush. I finally talked her into shaving off her thick Bush after several weeks. She didn't like it at first but when I saw her several weeks ago she was still shaved. Took Eva out to dinner once during the summer. Lmao. But I don't go see her that often now because her service started to decline back in September so since the beginning of October I cut way down on seeing her and have only seen her twice now since early October. Like I said. I really like her body and she is very nice to me but the past several times I went to see her she was cutting back so it's been several weeks since I have contacted her, loosing my desire to see her more and more as the days click by even though I think she has a hot bod.
TP.
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Approach
Originally Posted by AllInOnHer
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You are right on! These women love to play guys. Act like they are boyfriend and girlfriend. All they want is money. Sometimes they will catch emotions for you if you pay enough. But they can snap out of it the minute they are intimate with the next guy. The only way to get her close to you again is to spend more money and you will find yourself in this roller-coaster ride until she sucks you dry of cash. Her Russian boyfriend was very wealthy. That is why she chose him and he was in good shape. But mostly for the money. He will regret it one day when he realizes she was after his money and it is all gone.
I have seen her a few times when I was working nearby. During every visit she was complementing on all my features, appearance etc although I knew that I was an average man. After a second or third visit, she probably considered me as her regular and started telling me some bs stories from her past saying that she missed me. In fact most of smart-experienced providers try to convince their clients that they (the clients) are very special, their favourite, unique and often demonstrate some affection and attraction. Those of us who have been around for some time, are familiar with this strategy, designed exclusively to get larger tips, to solicit more business, to generate frequent visits and so on.
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Agreed
Originally Posted by RubLuvr
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I've played around with the boyfriend title while laughing at the absurdity, but most all of the time they still expect their tip. I feel bad for the lonely dudes that actually buy into the "relationship" thing with these women that are sucking some other dudes dick ten minutes after they leave. It is actually pretty cold hearted to play on emotions of obviously lonely, smitten guys like this but no surprise, and I'm sure plenty of them have tough backgrounds that have turned off the emotion on what they are doing. My advice, FWIW, guys, it is ok to play, to have the fantasy of a girlfriend or special relationship, but always stay grounded and realize they will empty your coffers without a thought. Don't let the emotions override your common sense.
For sure brother. Back in the day when Executive in Belvidere was open; I had a honey that I saw very often at the spa and outside. We met up 4-5 times in a bar for drinks and at a hotel / car for extra activities. Lot's of fun and it felt like a girlfriend situation. She was married to a biker dude. But you've got to realize that it's all about $$$ for them. The fantasy is cool, but the bottom line is that.
They just want the $$.
Have fun but try to cut your losses. Just move on to the next hottie that you find.
They don't love you. Don't love them.
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Too much
Originally Posted by AllInOnHer
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Thanks for confirming what I suspected. I will spend my money elsewhere. Anyone good at Refresh for L3?
Bobo at refresh has some nice tits, a nice cooch and is decently personable, but I topped at BBBJ because their prices are ludicrous. They are definitely back up to the ones available at other spots, but still demand more for service usually not as good. Take what I say with a grain of salt though, because I admit I think 160 for 1/2 hour tip for FS is too damn much.
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Agree fully.
Originally Posted by AllInOnHer
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You are right on! These women love to play guys. Act like they are boyfriend and girlfriend. All they want is money. Sometimes they will catch emotions for you if you pay enough. But they can snap out of it the minute they are intimate with the next guy. The only way to get her close to you again is to spend more money and you will find yourself in this roller-coaster ride until she sucks you dry of cash. Her Russian boyfriend was very wealthy. That is why she chose him and he was in good shape. But mostly for the money. He will regret it one day when he realizes she was after his money and it is all gone.
What I can't figure out is why in hell a well off and good looking man would pick a woman selling sex for a girlfriend anyway? Unless he is a sociopath himself and out-gamed her and turned her into a fuck toy in his collection.
I've run in the circles of "colorful" folks for my whole life, just when I think I have shit figured out I find out I don't. Because the human part enters into the equation every time and there is often zero sense to the choices people make.
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Originally Posted by JustAMonger
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Whew, that was a tough read. Sorry to hear about that but it appears even though you feel you were "runner up", that's just the "first loser" as they say in NASCAR. These girls can be master manipulators and make you believe that you are near and dear to their hearts. The reality is that the only thing dear to her heart is your wallet. If she does call, she will be in need of your wallet again which is unlikely since they can make money wherever they go. Prostitution-the worlds oldest profession.
Don't waste your time pining for her and crying in your pillow. Reality check. She would have tried to explain to you what was going on. Love is blind and when their is pussy involved it's worse. Look at the facts. Others have fucked her and cum inside her, she has been reported to be at other spas. Sure, you "felt" something, but the good ones have that power. Yep, it's unethical as hell in a business that is well, unethical.
The Russian guy is probably paying for it now. After a while he will realize she's a prostitute and money is the only thing that matters. You can't trust these girls.
You are right on! These women love to play guys. Act like they are boyfriend and girlfriend. All they want is money. Sometimes they will catch emotions for you if you pay enough. But they can snap out of it the minute they are intimate with the next guy. The only way to get her close to you again is to spend more money and you will find yourself in this roller-coaster ride until she sucks you dry of cash. Her Russian boyfriend was very wealthy. That is why she chose him and he was in good shape. But mostly for the money. He will regret it one day when he realizes she was after his money and it is all gone.
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Runner Up- First Loser
Originally Posted by Terrapin911
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Yeah, unfortunately I know exactly what I am talking about: and how I really wish I did not in this case.
I'm serious when I say I was very close to her, and was the runner up, unfortunately there was one other guy who was a bit closer it turns out. We had a few occasions while talking over the year and a half where we cried together and comforted each other with various situations in life, her family, how badly she missed her mother and son, issues she was having with her ex husband in China etc. We tossed the "L" word back and forth several times over that time, but not every time we saw each other.
Anyway hope she is well wherever she is.
TP.
Whew, that was a tough read. Sorry to hear about that but it appears even though you feel you were "runner up", that's just the "first loser" as they say in NASCAR. These girls can be master manipulators and make you believe that you are near and dear to their hearts. The reality is that the only thing dear to her heart is your wallet. If she does call, she will be in need of your wallet again which is unlikely since they can make money wherever they go. Prostitution-the worlds oldest profession.
Don't waste your time pining for her and crying in your pillow. Reality check. She would have tried to explain to you what was going on. Love is blind and when their is pussy involved it's worse. Look at the facts. Others have fucked her and cum inside her, she has been reported to be at other spas. Sure, you "felt" something, but the good ones have that power. Yep, it's unethical as hell in a business that is well, unethical.
The Russian guy is probably paying for it now. After a while he will realize she's a prostitute and money is the only thing that matters. You can't trust these girls.
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Originally Posted by Squat
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Eva sucks. I've had L3 with her twice and both times sucked. I'm a good tipper so no haggling with the dough but her performance just sucks. I am never returning to Sunshine, and I told this to Jennifer on my way out.
Thanks for confirming what I suspected. I will spend my money elsewhere. Anyone good at Refresh for L3?
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Eva at Sunshine
Originally Posted by AllInOnHer
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Has anyone had L3 service with Eva at sunshine? If so is she any good? She seems to have a stuck up attitude. Not very friendly.
Eva sucks. I've had L3 with her twice and both times sucked. I'm a good tipper so no haggling with the dough but her performance just sucks. I am never returning to Sunshine, and I told this to Jennifer on my way out.
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Amen to this!
Originally Posted by RubLuvr
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I've played around with the boyfriend title while laughing at the absurdity, but most all of the time they still expect their tip. I feel bad for the lonely dudes that actually buy into the "relationship" thing with these women that are sucking some other dudes dick ten minutes after they leave. It is actually pretty cold hearted to play on emotions of obviously lonely, smitten guys like this but no surprise, and I'm sure plenty of them have tough backgrounds that have turned off the emotion on what they are doing. My advice, FWIW, guys, it is ok to play, to have the fantasy of a girlfriend or special relationship, but always stay grounded and realize they will empty your coffers without a thought. Don't let the emotions override your common sense.
I could not have said this any better even if I tried!! Fantastic reminder. Especially the part on what happens even 10 minutes after you're done!! Heheh Very well said!!
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Spa Girls
Originally Posted by SmileySam
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I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.
I've played around with the boyfriend title while laughing at the absurdity, but most all of the time they still expect their tip. I feel bad for the lonely dudes that actually buy into the "relationship" thing with these women that are sucking some other dudes dick ten minutes after they leave. It is actually pretty cold hearted to play on emotions of obviously lonely, smitten guys like this but no surprise, and I'm sure plenty of them have tough backgrounds that have turned off the emotion on what they are doing. My advice, FWIW, guys, it is ok to play, to have the fantasy of a girlfriend or special relationship, but always stay grounded and realize they will empty your coffers without a thought. Don't let the emotions override your common sense.
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Eva Sunshine
Has anyone had L3 service with Eva at sunshine? If so is she any good? She seems to have a stuck up attitude. Not very friendly.
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Originally Posted by Squareballs
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Is this the same girl that used to wear the flight attendant outfit at sunshine in Buffalo grove the Lina I remember was working there before Covid all holes open and usually bare.
She did used to wear a flight attendant outfit. I had many dreams with her where I deposited in her hehehe.
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Lina
Originally Posted by SmileySam
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I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.
Is this the same girl that used to wear the flight attendant outfit at sunshine in Buffalo grove the Lina I remember was working there before Covid all holes open and usually bare.
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Lina
Originally Posted by Terrapin911
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Yeah, unfortunately I know exactly what I am talking about: and how I really wish I did not in this case.
I'm serious when I say I was very close to her, and was the runner up, unfortunately there was one other guy who was a bit closer it turns out. We had a few occasions while talking over the year and a half where we cried together and comforted each other with various situations in life, her family, how badly she missed her mother and son, issues she was having with her ex husband in China etc. We tossed the "L" word back and forth several times over that time, but not every time we saw each other. Our birthdays are only two days apart (although I'm 15 years older) and we celebrated birthdays together. To this day I feel she was genuine with me and meant everything she ever said to me, I never one time caught her in a lie or did not trust what she was saying. …I am guessing she wasn't spotted at any spa and is likely still with her BF as she was very much the type to give careful consideration before making a leap that big into someone’s arms. She very much seemed the type that when she commits to you she commits fully.
Anyway hope she is well wherever she is.
TP.
I saw her at Aura awhile back. I wouldn't sweat. These girls are probably juggling several customers at a time being their special girlfriend.
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