SB / SA thread

[StuSimple]

Can anyone recommend any hotels that aren't too crazy expensive and in a safe area? Some places from what I can google look a little too shadey, I'm from MA, so not too familiar with the area to find a place to bring a potential SB to. Looking for around the Bristol area? Feel free to PM with any suggestions. Thanks!

La Quinta in Warwick can be pretty affordable like $70/ night if you book like a week in advance. I just use Expedia though.

[Laissez Faire]

Can anyone recommend any hotels that aren't too crazy expensive and in a safe area? Some places from what I can google look a little too shadey, I'm from MA, so not too familiar with the area to find a place to bring a potential SB to. Looking for around the Bristol area? Feel free to PM with any suggestions. Thanks!

[StuSimple]

I think swimsays pretty well summed it up. A couple things I wanted to add from my own experiences (WYP and SA are the two I have experience with). These sites are very much YMMV. Appearances seem to matter on these sites, at least with some of the younger attractive girls.

But it definitely is time consuming! There are actually a lot of ridiculously beautiful women on SA but it does take time. Either waiting for them to respond / evaluating each other's expectations for the arrangement, verifying off the site (I really like Snapchat for this as it's the only way to guarantee the person you are talking to is the same as the pictures).

Ohh some language I use that seems to help get my intentions across without speaking explicitly on the site (which you should not do! A pay per meet arrangement x amount of times per month.

When I first joined I met with a lot of girls for one or two offs but have since really narrowed my search and did the leg work and now have an ideal situation.

I'll keep an eye on this thread and help out with any intel I can!

[Glennie]

The ones that message you are generally not the ones you want.

I can understand the lack of info being shared form this site, but anyone have any info on Amanda (Somerset), Juli125 (Providence), or excuisitehappiness (Swansea I believe)? I have not begun talking to any of them but they have messaged me. Thumbs up or down? Netsy (Fall River), well pictures are flattering, not a bad person and delivered all she said she would. I will not repeat though and it was very short money. I can discuss through PM if you have any questions on her.

[Banjomania]

I can understand the lack of info being shared form this site, but anyone have any info on Amanda (Somerset), Juli125 (Providence), or excuisitehappiness (Swansea I believe)? I have not begun talking to any of them but they have messaged me. Thumbs up or down? Netsy (Fall River), well pictures are flattering, not a bad person and delivered all she said she would. I will not repeat though and it was very short money. I can discuss through PM if you have any questions on her.

Sent you a PM.

[Fun0410]

I can understand the lack of info being shared form this site, but anyone have any info on Amanda (Somerset), Juli125 (Providence), or excuisitehappiness (Swansea I believe)? I have not begun talking to any of them but they have messaged me. Thumbs up or down? Netsy (Fall River), well pictures are flattering, not a bad person and delivered all she said she would. I will not repeat though and it was very short money. I can discuss through PM if you have any questions on her.

[Existierende]

I don't think these are the sites for that. Most girls are looking for decent money. 50 BBBJ girls are volume providers, and it would be hard to be a volume provider on SA, etc.

You could try WYP and put in a $50 bid for a date. But I don't think many would take you up on it.

Maybe this old dog is barking up the wrong tree--but has anybody ever found any $50 BBBJ girls on any of these sites?

[Fun0410]

Maybe this old dog is barking up the wrong tree--but has anybody ever found any $50 BBBJ girls on any of these sites?

Was a $60 BJ after dinner (I did pay for dinner also). Some light fucking in the car also. Not going on the wall of fame though and glad there are no videos. LOL.

[Lips1963]

Maybe this old dog is barking up the wrong tree--but has anybody ever found any $50 BBBJ girls on any of these sites?

[Glennie]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad569...8-56189a8d4a37

[Existierende]

Last week I got to texting with Strawberrybunny on SA. Just checking to see if anyone knows if she's a pro. No need to divulge anything further. PM is best.

[Glennie]

It cracks me up when people try to make SA to be some sort of unicorn. There are all kinds on SA. Do they clock watch, hell yea. If you offer a higher allowance they'll watch it less, maybe. Then again some will watch it more than others regardless of allowance. Look for the join date, if they haven't hidden it. Those who joined over a year or so ago or earlier are more likely to be of the non-pro kind described below. Recent joiners are just pro girls looking for another platform. I say, just pro girls, but even pro girls are not all the same. They run the gamut from addicts to diamonds in the rough. So, let's not generalize too much regarding SA. You definitely have to use your experience and instincts or you'll get taken for a ride. Especially now that we have pretty close to a big zero for a reviewer community, except for the personal networks we've created individually.

1. What seems to be the average expectation for an hour (or more) of a girl's time on SA?

- This really varies and you really can't look at it at as a time transaction similar to professionals. I have never had anyone clock watch or felt rushed when meeting through SA. In my experience pay per meets (PPM) have been in the range of $150 to $350 with a lot of people in the $200 to $250 range. If you move to a monthly arrangement, you can probably get this number down a little bit.

2. Do they all look for extended "relationships," or do most seem ok with a one time visit? Is play happening on the first visit a la escort incall type of situation, or is it more complicated than that, showering with gifts and hoping for more in a hotel you eventually book?

- Really varies girl to girl but I have found just through chatting them up you can get a good feel on what they are expecting. Majority I've met with are OK with short or long term arrangements. Some girls will want to do a meet and greet for first encounter but all of the ones I've had have resulted in getting physical right afterwards. At least half of my encounters it's been well established that we are hanging out to get physical and that has not been an issue. If you are clear in what you expect you will be able to weed out any prospects before you waste time / resources / money on them.

3. Are you posting photos of yourselves on your profile? I assume many of us would want discretion. (I personally prefer they see me for the first time during our first visit.).

- I don't have a public profile photo and keep just 1 private one to share for discretions sake. If I click with someone I will share the photo and always offer to send more if we start texting / emailing off site. Most women on SA will want to see a photo of you before they even really start getting into the nitty gritty of an arrangement. Some don't ask and don't care, they tend to be the more seasoned vets / pro's who are treating SA as a loose way to screen clients / one night stands for cash.

Overall I have had a good experience with SA and have had some fun 1 time hookups and a few repeaters. The thing with it is, it's a lot of work. I'm interested in finding the UTR gem who isn't a seasoned professional but those girls seem to take the most work. Mostly in the form of texting / chatting up before and after meeting up.

Also it's a numbers game. Get an account and profile setup and start reaching out to everyone in your area you may be interested in. If you click with someone then try to move communication off the website and get their contact info. I've also found, especially with the younger women, that if you click with someone you should try to pull the trigger on getting together with them in short order as attention fades fast as they constantly getting hit up on there by other prospects. Also with the younger women. Not a lot of of them can host, especially for the first encounter, so plan accordingly.

[SwimSays]

1. What seems to be the average expectation for an hour (or more) of a girl's time on SA?

- This really varies and you really can't look at it at as a time transaction similar to professionals. I have never had anyone clock watch or felt rushed when meeting through SA. In my experience pay per meets (PPM) have been in the range of $150 to $350 with a lot of people in the $200 to $250 range. If you move to a monthly arrangement, you can probably get this number down a little bit.

2. Do they all look for extended "relationships," or do most seem ok with a one time visit? Is play happening on the first visit a la escort incall type of situation, or is it more complicated than that, showering with gifts and hoping for more in a hotel you eventually book?

- Really varies girl to girl but I have found just through chatting them up you can get a good feel on what they are expecting. Majority I've met with are OK with short or long term arrangements. Some girls will want to do a meet and greet for first encounter but all of the ones I've had have resulted in getting physical right afterwards. At least half of my encounters it's been well established that we are hanging out to get physical and that has not been an issue. If you are clear in what you expect you will be able to weed out any prospects before you waste time / resources / money on them.

3. Are you posting photos of yourselves on your profile? I assume many of us would want discretion. (I personally prefer they see me for the first time during our first visit.).

- I don't have a public profile photo and keep just 1 private one to share for discretions sake. If I click with someone I will share the photo and always offer to send more if we start texting / emailing off site. Most women on SA will want to see a photo of you before they even really start getting into the nitty gritty of an arrangement. Some don't ask and don't care, they tend to be the more seasoned vets / pro's who are treating SA as a loose way to screen clients / one night stands for cash.

Overall I have had a good experience with SA and have had some fun 1 time hookups and a few repeaters. The thing with it is, it's a lot of work. I'm interested in finding the UTR gem who isn't a seasoned professional but those girls seem to take the most work. Mostly in the form of texting / chatting up before and after meeting up.

Also it's a numbers game. Get an account and profile setup and start reaching out to everyone in your area you may be interested in. If you click with someone then try to move communication off the website and get their contact info. I've also found, especially with the younger women, that if you click with someone you should try to pull the trigger on getting together with them in short order as attention fades fast as they constantly getting hit up on there by other prospects. Also with the younger women. Not a lot of of them can host, especially for the first encounter, so plan accordingly.

I haven't joined because I don't look for companionship options often anymore, and at $90 a month, I'd want to find a new girl or two each month. However, the urge and curiosity is getting to me and I'm considering giving SA a shot.

A few questions.





3. Are you posting photos of yourselves on your profile? I assume many of us would want discretion. (I personally prefer they see me for the first time during our first visit.).

Thanks for your answers.

[Existierende]

One more thing: secretbenefits is a smaller pool, and less money to play. 50 bucks gets you 10 messages. So if you're not trying to hook up several times a week, maybe try SB or even WYP.

I haven't joined because I don't look for companionship options often anymore, and at $90 a month, I'd want to find a new girl or two each month. However, the urge and curiosity is getting to me and I'm considering giving SA a shot.

A few questions.

1. What seems to be the average expectation for an hour (or more) of a girl's time on SA?

2. Do they all look for extended "relationships," or do most seem ok with a one time visit? Is play happening on the first visit a la escort incall type of situation, or is it more complicated than that, showering with gifts and hoping for more in a hotel you eventually book?

3. Are you posting photos of yourselves on your profile? I assume many of us would want discretion. (I personally prefer they see me for the first time during our first visit.).

Thanks for your answers.

[Existierende]

I haven't yet ponied up for SA yet either. But I have credits on the other site. I'm new so I can't answer your other questions, but the photo thing is complicated. I have my real photo as a private photo, which I share if someone asks for it. I keep trying to use blurry shots for the main photo, but they get rejected by the mods. I've tried finding fake photos of people that look like me, but no dice so far.

I haven't joined because I don't look for companionship options often anymore, and at $90 a month, I'd want to find a new girl or two each month. However, the urge and curiosity is getting to me and I'm considering giving SA a shot.

A few questions.

1. What seems to be the average expectation for an hour (or more) of a girl's time on SA?

2. Do they all look for extended "relationships," or do most seem ok with a one time visit? Is play happening on the first visit a la escort incall type of situation, or is it more complicated than that, showering with gifts and hoping for more in a hotel you eventually book?

3. Are you posting photos of yourselves on your profile? I assume many of us would want discretion. (I personally prefer they see me for the first time during our first visit.).

Thanks for your answers.