Finding swingers

[SconnieNation7]

You guys just want to share these wonderful sugar babies contact info LOL.

[Bokinchitwn]

My SB and I have discussed meeting up or arranging something with another couple. I am 48 decent shape she is 28 beautiful. Looking for another SD and SB couple to hang out with and have fun with. Seniors PM if your up for it.

I have a SB who might be game. Pm me

[Dillan1251]

My SB and I have discussed meeting up or arranging something with another couple. I am 48 decent shape she is 28 beautiful. Looking for another SD and SB couple to hang out with and have fun with. Seniors PM if your up for it.

[ToriParker]

You could try going to some of the sex / swinger clubs in Chicago. There's a good deal of action happening down there. Not sure of how good a reception you'd get going in as a single guy. But if you take a female with you. You'd probably get some.

[Packer43]

Hey guys,

Off topic here in a lot of ways I know. My wife caught me chatting up someone and it has caused us to talk about shit a bit more than usual. After plenty of time here she is talking about exploring the swinger scene together. Anyone have any advice on where to meet couples and maybe the occasional unicorn? Adult friend finder has people that are generally too old or too fake account bot'ish.

Thanks.

You could also try the Fetlife site. It's free to send messages and view profiles and there are swinger group boards on there. Its mostly a fetish community for dom / sub and other fetishes. But you don't have to pay to check it out so you might want peak at it. You could also go to Camp NCN in the summer. Its a sexual freedom campground. They have weekends that are couples / single females only. Holiday weekends are open to everybody. I meet with a couple there every summer. There's no pressure do anything that person is not comfortable with there. You will see people having sex outdoors and pretty much anywhere they want to there. But you can still go behind close doors for privacy also.

[Dr Manhattan]

Thank you, I appreciate the link! In a lot of ways it seems that chatting up a couple or a woman that is down with it might be more reliable than hobbying anymore LOL.

I visited a swingers club in Vegas a few years ago. It was slightly off the strip and open to the public. It was a dimly lit atmosphere with a bar, a room with a bed, a few couches, and lots of dark hideaways with random folding chairs for private dances. I encountered zero single females that evening. One or two girls and they worked as hostesses to entice you into paid dances. Two hetero couples showed up and played together on the beds. Unless you went in as a couple, they wouldn't even look at you. Eventually, a few unformed Vegas PD wandered in to do a soft sweep of the place. It had the vibe of a dying party. I think most of the swingers scene is this way. What's left are the boomer holdovers from the swinging 70's, or couples that expect you to get involved with the husband.

At a recent party I attended, a swinger couple were in attendance. The hubby was auditioning male suitors to fuck his very attractive wife. The catch being, you had to either play sexually with him first or in the least, flirt with the dude to boost his ego. At best, you had allow him to get off while he watches you fuck his wife. Sure it's a freebie, but at what cost?

Honestly, if you want a freebie, it can be done on SA. I met a cute UW student who was athletic, busy with school at work, and just feeling a little lonely. I ended up eating her out in the front seat of my car after sharing coffee at Starbucks. Had I kept my subscription to SA, I'm sure I would found other free lunches just like her.

[HornyGuy Lif]

Thank you, I appreciate the link! In a lot of ways it seems that chatting up a couple or a woman that is down with it might be more reliable than hobbying anymore LOL.

Those sites are pretty tough place to actually meet anyone. I joined AFF a couple times and never met anyone. Guys out number women something like 100 to 1. So the odds are extremely lopsided. Couples are primarily looking for other couples or an extra woman. Some couples want a bi-guy for the husband. If you have 10+ inches some women want that. If you were a woman there you could have a blast! Tried that fet site as well lots of members but don't think many people hookup there unless group gatherings at bars / clubs something gets going. Personal listings are pretty much all guys. Any girl posting probably gets over whelmed with responses. That's why are all here to hookup I guess LOL!

[SitNud]

https://www.swinglifestyle.com/publi...SAAEgLTRfD_BwE

I was a swinger long before becoming a hobbyist. This site has been around a long time and has real people on it. Good luck and make the most of it. If the wife hadn't stopped the swinging I probably wouldn't be spending all this money hobbying. The flip side with swinging is you spend a lot of time chatting and getting to know people. So if you like the quick and easy it might not be a good fit. I like both options at different times. Just keep hoping the other half might want some strange at some point so we can start up again.

Another option are clubs. There are two in Chicago. Kind of like a sports bar with nudity and the possibility of hooking up. Good luck and thanks for the post.

Thank you, I appreciate the link! In a lot of ways it seems that chatting up a couple or a woman that is down with it might be more reliable than hobbying anymore LOL.

[Milo Madison]

https://www.swinglifestyle.com/publi...SAAEgLTRfD_BwE

I was a swinger long before becoming a hobbyist. This site has been around a long time and has real people on it. Good luck and make the most of it. If the wife hadn't stopped the swinging I probably wouldn't be spending all this money hobbying. The flip side with swinging is you spend a lot of time chatting and getting to know people. So if you like the quick and easy it might not be a good fit. I like both options at different times. Just keep hoping the other half might want some strange at some point so we can start up again.

Another option are clubs. There are two in Chicago. Kind of like a sports bar with nudity and the possibility of hooking up. Good luck and thanks for the post.

[SitNud]

I would look into Polyamory groups. Tend to be younger and less skanky than swinger clubs. A lot of geeky, cosplay, science fiction nerd types, and more female driven. Check meetup groups for polyamory. I only know because my last steady was part of this scene. I have no personal experience.

A true poly sort of thing would be amazing to be honest. Even though I have done my fair share with the ladies we usually discuss we wouldn't want to be sport fucking together. I will check that out.

[BooRadley72]

Hey guys,

Off topic here in a lot of ways I know. My wife caught me chatting up someone and it has caused us to talk about shit a bit more than usual. After plenty of time here she is talking about exploring the swinger scene together. Anyone have any advice on where to meet couples and maybe the occasional unicorn? Adult friend finder has people that are generally too old or too fake account bot'ish.

Thanks.

I would look into Polyamory groups. Tend to be younger and less skanky than swinger clubs. A lot of geeky, cosplay, science fiction nerd types, and more female driven. Check meetup groups for polyamory. I only know because my last steady was part of this scene. I have no personal experience.

[AsiaPhileJake1]

Hey guys,

Off topic here in a lot of ways I know. My wife caught me chatting up someone and it has caused us to talk about shit a bit more than usual. After plenty of time here she is talking about exploring the swinger scene together. Anyone have any advice on where to meet couples and maybe the occasional unicorn? Adult friend finder has people that are generally too old or too fake account bot'ish.

Thanks.

Google might be your best bet. There used to be a publication available at adult novelty stores but no longer. You could also try badger naturist they might have information. I know there are several sites but sifting through might be a long process. It's good that your wife wants to get involved. They usually only accept couples or single women.

[SitNud]

Hey guys,

Off topic here in a lot of ways I know. My wife caught me chatting up someone and it has caused us to talk about shit a bit more than usual. After plenty of time here she is talking about exploring the swinger scene together. Anyone have any advice on where to meet couples and maybe the occasional unicorn? Adult friend finder has people that are generally too old or too fake account bot'ish.

Thanks.