Is Big Jay a Serial Antagonist?

[Wazoo]

It's not that he's done a lot of post, and I actually doubt that he actually commited the rape he boasts about. However, everything he's written shows hostility toward providers and towards members of the board. He completely violates the spirit and purpose of the board and I see no reason why he should be allowed to continue. I can imagine that exerpts from his posts are already flying around right wing circles and will be used as ammunition to shut the board down. Do we really want this kind of ugly publicity? Just my 2 cents.

[AugustaSexFiend]

Jackson,
I'm just a lowly senior member with less than a 100 posts, but I've been visiting SW's since before there were the internet, and sharing of info. The people who believe that paying for something is OK that is given away free, are degraded by someone who brags about TAKING (I.E. RAPE). I've paid for sex at different times in my life, but NEVER, NEVER would I RAPE or claim to have done so to a woman...SW's provide a service, just as do doctors, lawyers, and teachers...if you allow this SCUM to brag about such as RAPE, then BAN me too...

ASF

[Ren Man]

I think it's pretty obvious that Big J was trolling for controversy when he said he "raped" the girl... my gripe with him is the abusive treatment of women he advocates in almost every one of his posts. Whether he means it or not, he's contributing to the climate of distrust and fear that surrounds the hobby on all fronts - and he's giving all of US a bad name too!

Banning him would be a futile gesture, since there's no way to stop him from simply signing on under a new handle - but it would send a message to him and others that abusing these women is unaccpetable, at least in the eyes of most of us on the board.

[The Don ATL]

Jackson,

I totally disagree with your perception that he did not provide details of his alleged rape. In that one post he setsups a timeline of personal interactions, describes how he gained her trust and became her friends, claims he raped her and then boasts about how she cried "I thought you were my friend". If that last inclusion is not indicative of a predatory persona then nothing is. He was laughing at her weakness and bragging at his power. Thus is the mindset of a real rapist. It is that last statement about her cries that belies the lack of humanity in Big Jays motives and actions. And it is that statement that prompted me to request his removal from this board.

I do not personally like to inject myself into falme wars and other nonsense...so for me to step up and voice my opinion repeatedly on a topic means that I truly find it important. It is important that people on this board know that posts regarding topics that fall outside the morally debated range of our preferrred hobby will NOT be supported. Bragging about things like rape, or pedophillial or intentionally spreading VD should be topics which you as the Admin should find unacceptable and should uniformly act to punish and remove those poster. This is not a matter of free speech since this board is a private entity owned by you. It is a matter of community standards which you must establish and maintain.

Please make the rgiht choice and toss this creep, and then publicly take a stance against this.

[PWhipped]

I stand corrected, do not know how I got that about you, did a search and read bad stuff, but when I went back after your PM, did not see it, so I publicly request your forgiveness and apologise for my mistake. I do not know whose posts I was looking at, but it was not yours, sorry and we monger on.

I still like your handle, I love Asians also, and ask and find them where ever I can. Yep, lots in AMPS , but I prefer independants and small grougs, hmmm, g-g- GROUPS, yeah, love a groupy sometimes(grin)

Sorry about the mistake, you will always find I will apologise if I am wrong, but will always be firm about my beliefs too.

Wet dreams, PW

[PWhipped]

God, you guys are sensitive! Sex involves elements of masochism and submission. That's just the way it is. If that offends you, hang out elsewhere. Go to church and pray over him and it will be okay.

Woody, search of your posts , you were jacked for advocating misuse of ladies. But everyone has their opinions, so do not tell others to go to church as that is waht Jackson is talking about, insited controversy.

Jackson, Jay and maybe Woody's seem to insite controversy and antagonistic views, that is the issue, as I stated, he may not have raped her, but his post and now Woody's may not be within the rules set by you. But as I said we all have our opinions, IMHO,

To all and to all a good night. Please have a wet dream or two, have fun. PW

BTW, like Woody's handle, mine should be PW for Asians(grin)

[Woody For Asians]

God, you guys are sensitive! Sex involves elements of masochism and submission. That's just the way it is. If that offends you, hang out elsewhere. Go to church and pray over him and it will be okay.

[Admin]

Guys,

I see where he used the word "raped" one time, but if that's all there is, then I can tell you guys right now that you're being too sensitive. The fact is that I can remove that one word from the report and there wouldn't be a problem, which suggests to me that it's entirely possible that he simply misused the word, perhaps to suggest that he gave her a good "final drilling" and then said goodby.

Don't get me wrong here, I'm strongly against violence against women, but from the way you guys were reacting, I was expecting to read some long, detailed description of a forceable rape scene. In reality, he gave no details, does not expound on the subject, and isn't advocating violence against women in general.

He may be a Serial Antagonist, but this alone doesn't earn him the title.

Thanks,

Jackson

[Gag on It]

I don think BIGJay is realy a rapist! I think he is just trying to bring some controversy to the board, you know say some extreme stuff to get people talking! The best thing to do is ignore him. He will leave or change his tone!

[Nico]

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/sh...2&postcount=15

That's where he said admitted to committing rape.

[De Walt]

One of the biggest arguments for legalizing this hobby is that CONSENTING ADULTS, should be able to partake in it as they please. If that is the case, we cannot accept someone celebrating rape. Whether the case in point is true or just made up to cause trouble, the damage is done and has consequences.

Dew unto others as you would have them do unto you,DeW

[Admin]

Guys,

Not withstanding the fact that this guy apparently likes to cause trouble, I cannot fine anything in his reports that refers to or describes anything that I would summarize as a "rape".

I read http://www.USASexGuide.nl/forum/showthread.php?p=374235

and

http://www.USASexGuide.nl/forum/showthread.php?p=376082

Am I missing something?

Thanks,

Jackson

[PWhipped]

Rape is unexcusable, he may not have done it, which is what I believe, so that leaves only his intent to antagonise and fuel crap. IMHO PW

[Admin]

Greetings everyone,

Pursuant to the Forum's Serial Antagonist Policy, I am posting this poll to ascertain the Membership's opinion regarding the cumulative reports of Big Jay.

You may review the Serial Antangonist Policy at http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/an...ntagonists.php

Please remember that this poll will close in 7 days.

In addition to your vote, I would also encourage you to post your comments.

Thanks,

Jackson