Sugar Babies and Arrangements

**AsianPussy** · 08-29-23 17:10

I have a friend / old SB looking for a SD.

She's white, cute, great body, not super skinny, but not thick at all, natural D's. Very experienced sexually, can DT with ease, and loves a mouth full of cum. She gets off on guys cuming, so she usually tries for seconds and thirds. She needs money, but it's not transactional. Just take care of her and she'll be great. Take her to dinner or on a trip and she'll be grateful.

420 friendly, bisexual, down for almost anything.

She needs a guy who wants more than a one-time shot, she just need some source of money right now. DM me and I'll share a pic. I've known her for years, she's cool.

**GlennDoyle91** · 07-31-23 12:43

Originally Posted by DemonLord28 [View Original Post]

Here goes the story. I matched with a SB in SA. We talked over phone and met in person, had dinner and got a bottle of wine to a hotel. We got talkie talkie and drunk, then we got down to our undies and suddenly she felt too emotional that I will ditch her. We then went our separate ways that night. Next day she apologized and then we went for a trip to casino, had some fun and next time again had fun. Last time when I met her. I felt this was a good connection and we went in a real date to a fancy place, and then back to an Airbnb. I did try to ask her for some fun but she brought up $. Every time we've met, I did 5 $ and some times I sent her $ as well cause she wanted to stay exclusive. I think I am being taken advantage of. I would really like to get to one consistent arrangement. Sorry pouring out all my frustration.

Happy Mongering.

At any time you don't feel the juice is worth the squeeze. It isn't. You don't owe these girls anything, the same token that they don't owe you anything. I would even further argue that these SB's are well compensated for their time. Feeling like you're being taken advantage of is opposite of a SB relationship is supposed to be. Maybe a convo is needed. This is one of those few times being completely honest is warranted, IMHO. The $ is irrelevant. It's how you feel about the deal you made.

**DemonLord28** · 07-29-23 08:34

Here goes the story. I matched with a SB in SA. We talked over phone and met in person, had dinner and got a bottle of wine to a hotel. We got talkie talkie and drunk, then we got down to our undies and suddenly she felt too emotional that I will ditch her. We then went our separate ways that night. Next day she apologized and then we went for a trip to casino, had some fun and next time again had fun. Last time when I met her. I felt this was a good connection and we went in a real date to a fancy place, and then back to an Airbnb. I did try to ask her for some fun but she brought up $. Every time we've met, I did 5 $ and some times I sent her $ as well cause she wanted to stay exclusive. I think I am being taken advantage of. I would really like to get to one consistent arrangement. Sorry pouring out all my frustration.

Happy Mongering.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-24-23 23:12

I haven't been on SA for a while. Normally, I'd get a month or two subscription, build up a list, then use that list till it runs dry. But the last run I did, it was mostly older profiles or profiles I have no attraction to. Kind of a big disappointment. So. Lately I've been in SB. I'm here to relay some wisdom so why'all can save some money.

The first time I did it, I was stoked about all the likes / messages I got. I plunked down some cash for credits to unlock a convo. Crickets. Something like 90% no reply. When I did get a reply, I asked, if they had reached out first. Nope. I don't know if it's still true, but SB had been sending engagement without the girl's consent, meaning, the "reply" to their messages probably would have been weird. I had a few credits left after this, and was able to connect with some girls.

Now. This is where SB sucks. The conversion rate to a meet up is much worse than SA. I had to come up with a better way to do this. I stumbled upon using the "request to unlock their secret photos. " If they checked out my profile. And sent a message, my initial conversion rate to unlocking an account to talk to a real person went up like 80%.

After that, it's similar to SA. The conversion to a meet up from this point is like 20%. Most are online only. The only consolation is, there seems to be more profiles active on SB. Hopefully this helps with the hunt. As always, treat them right. Don't be an ass.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-20-23 15:41

I have a contact for a UTR, 19, does everything. Except everything is covered. $$ but it's an all day affair. Looking for another nice SD.

Pm me for details.

**GlennDoyle91** · 06-20-23 15:08

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...2d71c40d5fe07e

Wants money to see if "real". Has a Connecticut phone number.

**Aardwark** · 06-13-23 08:44

Stay away from - 'FeminineLady' - she switches between dallas and Houston location. Works with a pimp, met me in my car and asked for token money as she wanted to be comfortable knowing that I have $$. Well then she simply took off. I know, shouldn't have given upfront but shit happens I guess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-8a9ca107f7bd

**GlennDoyle91** · 05-03-23 11:21

Originally Posted by RedLegs214 [View Original Post]

Hey does anyone know what happened to Seeking? Seems there is no one there anymore. Anyone know of a news site?

Ever since they raised the price for subscription, and removed the option to report people for not meeting up, it's been meh. 1/2 the time, I think it's the site itself trying to get me to sign up for their * The few that do respond, unfortunately, I'm not interested.

I got my first hook up from secret benefits last weekend. (that site that advertises here). Turn over rate for that site is terrible.

**Tommy Archer** · 04-26-23 12:00

As the title said I'll be in your fine city. What's the SB scene like there? Willing to pay a finders fee for some successful UTR hookups. DM me.

**RedLegs214** · 04-15-23 16:47

Hey does anyone know what happened to Seeking? Seems there is no one there anymore. Anyone know of a news site?

**LongTimeLurk** · 03-13-23 15:12

Hello Fellow Mongers,

I will be in Dallas a few a days this week and need some help. What is the going rate for sugar babies in the Dallas area? I don't see much action on this forum for Sugar Babies but I am sure someone has some intel they can share with me. Please message me with intel on sugar babies or UTR in the Dallas area. Any information will be greatly appreciated.

**HollowGuy** · 02-28-23 07:59

Originally Posted by MrCoke1 [View Original Post]

Hopped on seeking yesterday, usually don't like to use this site because its over priced and it's normally filled with a lot of scammers, but every once and a while you will come across and absolutely gem. And I can honestly say that about this women here, I met a girl name Casey, she's light skin in her early 20's 24 I think to be exact with amazing body, she didn't have any face pics on the site but had 2 kinky pics. So you can get a idea of how she looks, then I messaged her and she gave me her number and we swapped pics, she was very nice and respectful unlike anyone. I have met on this site her approach was fine it didn't seem like a scam. So I went against my rules and decided to take a leap a faith with her when we discussed arrangements and a meeting she asked for 400 $ for 2 hours of her time, with half up front and usually that's a big no me. But giving that we were a hour or 2 a way and she said she needed gas, I figured why not god a bring it back if I'm scammed, LOL. I sent her 200 and my address, she sent me a couple really kinky videos and pics as a thank you and then texted me 10 minutes after saying she was on her way, by now I thought it was scam and I was kinda feeling dumb until I got a knock on my door from this beautiful young lady. Exactly like her pictures very small but curvy, she caught me off guard her first thing she said was "what you didn't think I'd really come" and I honestly didn't, but I'm glad she did cause after had a 420 session and a couple drinks to get to know each other. She was ready she initiated sex first and kept rubbing on my dick asking what I'm into what type of things. I like and before I knew it she just started giving me an excellent BBBJ, I finished kinda fast due to her skill but she didn't let me rest, she kept going and swallowed every dropped. Then 5 minutes later jumped and started riding me that ass bouncin in my face was such a sight and it was even better once. She started squirting we went on for about 2 more rounds until I couldn't take anymore, she's a lot to handle but I can honestly say that's the best sex I ever had in my life. I highly recommended you guys make an account and connect with this provider Baddiewitnodaddie is her name on there or just message me, she told me I was ok to give out her number for friends like me but she doesn't really want to feel like a Prostitute or get a big name out here. So she rather have connections with gentleman who are respectful and spoil. If want her details pm me, its the best provider I ever met, little pricey but worth every penny. I even threw in a 50 $ tip and told her I'd be seeing her again real soon.

Happy everything worked out. Friendly reminder never send money in advance. This is why there are so many scammers.

**GlennDoyle91** · 12-31-22 00:24

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-839ed0c474d7

Three non negotiable things.

1- you want to meet up, cuddle, hangout, actually have a connection.

2- you're willing to spend two weeks talking, flirting, and getting to know me before we meet.

3- you're willing to give me an allowance for those two weeks I mentioned of flirting and getting to know each other before we meet up for our first date.

**GlennDoyle91** · 12-07-22 10:43

I've noticed there are some girls who would be friendly, make plans to meet (say, in a week), then on the day of, or prior, would try and get you to buy their pics / premium / OF. Then ghost you.

It usually is a good policy to hold on to the money till the end.

**MrCoke1** · 11-30-22 20:01

Hopped on seeking yesterday, usually don't like to use this site because its over priced and it's normally filled with a lot of scammers, but every once and a while you will come across and absolutely gem. And I can honestly say that about this women here, I met a girl name Casey, she's light skin in her early 20's 24 I think to be exact with amazing body, she didn't have any face pics on the site but had 2 kinky pics. So you can get a idea of how she looks, then I messaged her and she gave me her number and we swapped pics, she was very nice and respectful unlike anyone. I have met on this site her approach was fine it didn't seem like a scam. So I went against my rules and decided to take a leap a faith with her when we discussed arrangements and a meeting she asked for 400 $ for 2 hours of her time, with half up front and usually that's a big no me. But giving that we were a hour or 2 a way and she said she needed gas, I figured why not god a bring it back if I'm scammed, LOL. I sent her 200 and my address, she sent me a couple really kinky videos and pics as a thank you and then texted me 10 minutes after saying she was on her way, by now I thought it was scam and I was kinda feeling dumb until I got a knock on my door from this beautiful young lady. Exactly like her pictures very small but curvy, she caught me off guard her first thing she said was "what you didn't think I'd really come" and I honestly didn't, but I'm glad she did cause after had a 420 session and a couple drinks to get to know each other. She was ready she initiated sex first and kept rubbing on my dick asking what I'm into what type of things. I like and before I knew it she just started giving me an excellent BBBJ, I finished kinda fast due to her skill but she didn't let me rest, she kept going and swallowed every dropped. Then 5 minutes later jumped and started riding me that ass bouncin in my face was such a sight and it was even better once. She started squirting we went on for about 2 more rounds until I couldn't take anymore, she's a lot to handle but I can honestly say that's the best sex I ever had in my life. I highly recommended you guys make an account and connect with this provider Baddiewitnodaddie is her name on there or just message me, she told me I was ok to give out her number for friends like me but she doesn't really want to feel like a Prostitute or get a big name out here. So she rather have connections with gentleman who are respectful and spoil. If want her details pm me, its the best provider I ever met, little pricey but worth every penny. I even threw in a 50 $ tip and told her I'd be seeing her again real soon.