Seeking Arrangements reports

[NoPockets]

Anyone have intel on this one?

SammyZip.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0f435...5-24b7e0eee97d

She messaged me first on both Seeking & Secret Benefits and after I replied she's never responded. Followed up a month later with another message and still nothing, but she's online quite a bit and read the messages. Anyone seen her? Or even manage to strike up a convo?

She posts on STG and has a review on the SAV escort forum.

[ThisFnGuy]

Anyone have intel on this one?

SammyZip.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0f435...5-24b7e0eee97d

She messaged me first on both Seeking & Secret Benefits and after I replied she's never responded. Followed up a month later with another message and still nothing, but she's online quite a bit and read the messages. Anyone seen her? Or even manage to strike up a convo?

[Jdwil]

Did you ever visit Veronica?

Anyone seen this beauty? https://www.seeking.com/member/c98a0...f-755cb15c94a2.

[WillDo4000]

Anyone seen this beauty? https://www.seeking.com/member/c98a0...f-755cb15c94a2.

[German5050]

Talking with KYbeauty about to set a public meet but something just don't feel right. Profile has been up for 18 months. Has anyone been down the road with this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ec4b1...7-6058bcaf0de4

I've chatted her up in the past but never materialised. Let us know what you find out.

[Skindiver]

Talking with KYbeauty about to set a public meet but something just don't feel right. Profile has been up for 18 months. Has anyone been down the road with this one.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ec4b1...7-6058bcaf0de4

[WeedSmoke1]

Question for everyone, how does the SD / SB shit work? I literally just signed up for SA today because I'm done with STG. I'm only 25 and not some rich old dude that can just afford to take full care of some random chick LOL. I basically just want 1 or 2 permanent booty calls lmdoa can some break down how this "money" situation works? And I used the "friends with benefits, no strings attached" filter. Is it basically weekly monthly rate and they fuck right there on the spot it whenever you hit them up? Can someone help a young in out LOL thanks.

Credit to Dr S who post in Charlestons forum as this is one of his.

I am by no means an expert in sugaring scene. Only had about an year of experience using SA. I got screwed up few times (early on), but learnt from mistakes, and learned skills and art of taking these girls to FC. Many sent me PMs asking for advice, so I thought of writing this.

What I explain below applies only if you are looking for what I call a true SB from SA, and who you want to have repeated dates. I don't look for Escorts or one time deals there. You can find them there, but the approach is different. I know all these girls give pussy for money, but I am looking for a different type of girl than a BP girl.

1. Pay $90 and be a premium member. If you can't afford $90 per month to be a member, you can't afford to be a true SD.

2. Spend sometime on setting up your profile. Make your profile appealing to girls. Be simple and up to the point, but attractive. Don't lie and exaggerate about you in your profile. We don't like when girls lie on their profile, girls do too. Having at least one photo is advantageous. I have just one photo as public photo (with no face identification). But I tell them I can send additional photos after chatting and get comfortable.

3. Cast a wide net, message as many as possible SBs that you are interested. It is a numbers game.

4. Write a good first message. Again keep it simple and short, but enough details to tell what you are looking for. Show that you read her profile and say something specific about her. Make it personable. Be respectful and show that you are not a creep. My biggest challenge is getting them to respond.

5. If they respond, my second message is to set up ground rules (no online crap, set a reasonable time limit to meet up etc). Show that you are serious and you want them to be serious. Most flakes and scammers drop out after my second message.

6. I tell them if they can't meet up within a week, message me back when they are ready to meet within a week. If they agree, now I have a potential SB that I can work on.

7. Try to switch communications to text or personal e-mails as soon as possible. Don't talk about allowance in SA chat. You will get banned.

8. Don't bring up the "allowance" issue yourself. Most girls will bring it up before meet. Say you can't promise anything. If they insist, give a range and say you have to meet her to finalize a number. But, try to avoid it until meet as much as possible. If you are appealing to her, she may agree for a lower allowance. My typical allowance is 200-300 per meet.

9. Set up a meet as early as possible. Communicate date, time, and place properly. Confirm with her day prior to the meet to make sure the meet is still going to happen. Never agree to pay for meet and greet. If they insist, drop her.

10. I always go for a coffee for the first meet. Some girls insist on lunch or dinner instead of coffee. Drop them. They are just looking for a free meal.

11. Be on time for the meet. Arrive on time and present yourself well. First impression is everything. Within 5 min of meeting, she is going to decide if she is going to fuck you or not. Listen to her rather than you talking. You can get clues what she is really looking for. Be upfront and about what your expectations are, and communicate to her.

12. Some may agree to go to FC right after, some may not. Be patient, you may need one or two "platonic" dates before hitting FC with some girls. If the girl is attractive enough, I would do it. But, I never pay allowance for those dates. They may talk about chemistry, getting to know each other etc. Tell them it is Ok, but they can't expect allowance for that. Most girls are Ok with that if they are serious. I of course pay for meal, drinks etc. And Uber charges or gas money. That's it.

13. If you can't take her to FC on the third time you meet, it is never going to happen.

14. Give them a reasonable allowance. Don't be a jerk and try to negotiate to last $5. Treat her well, most girls treat you back the same way. But, always be vigilant, and don't trust her 100%.

15. Give a small present to her once in a while in addition to allowance (flowers, dresses etc).

16. If you have to use a hotel room for FC, don't take her to cheap motels. Show your class a bit and get a decent hotel room. I typically spend at least 2 hrs in FC, and at least 2 pops.

Hope this helps. There are nice girls out there if you take the time and effort to find them.

Stay Safe.

[Ghostrunner]

It's hard to lay out exactly how it works because it's different with everyone. I will say, you don't necessarily have to be rich to be successful on the site but you should have significant disposable income if you want good quality. There are some scammers on the site who just want to promote their OF and sell you pics. Then you have some who are pretending to be women to scam you out of your money and then you have some "pros" who think that just because they are on the site they can charge you way more than what they are offering on other sites so be careful with that. When it comes to how much it just depends and that's something that you'll have to work out with each differently but be careful and do not discuss specifics on the site. That will get you banned. Once I've determined that I'm on the same page as a girl and they are not scamming, I'll move the conversation offline using a burner phone I use specifically for this. I personally like to meet for coffee or lunch or something and we work out specifics then. I don't care what they say about how their "last sugar daddy used to give them x, why, or z so that's what they want with you" don't fall for that. Only agree to what you want to give. It may be tough to do and they will try to play hardball with you, but if you agree to that right off the bat, I guarantee you they will start with a high number like 500 or 600 per meet. Work out your own terms, but I've found that if you take care of them, they will take care of you. I'm not going to be naive and think I'm the only guy banging these girls but in my experience they are actually looking for just one guy to do this with. You'll hear them say things like they don't want to feel like a prostitute or anything so I found that the way I treat them goes a long way with them. I have a steady rotation of 4 girls and I think others will agree it's best to get you a steady rotation and then not renew your membership on the site. Maybe some of the others guys who have had success can chime in but honestly it's no textbook for this kind of stuff, it just comes with experience and with thinking with your big head and not your little head.

Question for everyone, how does the SD / SB shit work? I literally just signed up for SA today because I'm done with STG. I'm only 25 and not some rich old dude that can just afford to take full care of some random chick LOL. I basically just want 1 or 2 permanent booty calls lmdoa can some break down how this "money" situation works? And I used the "friends with benefits, no strings attached" filter. Is it basically weekly monthly rate and they fuck right there on the spot it whenever you hit them up? Can someone help a young in out LOL thanks.

[Ghostrunner]

She's been giving that same story for a while now. I passed on her as well. Never give any money upfront. I can't stress that enough. You'll never see them or your money again.

I was messaging her a while back. Must have been right when she joined. She had really unrealistic expectations. Said the last guy gave her $400 for dates and $100 up front for a babysitter. And he didn't even get laid until the 4th date. I wished her the best of luck. If she's still on there I'm guessing she's talking more rational now.

[NoPockets]

I passed and when I respectfully passed she got pissed and got really ugly with me so in my humble opinion she's not worth it.

I also had an ugly and inappropriate conclusion with this one. No-fly list for sure.

[Hal1957]

Using that logic, she should be willing to fuck even though she didn't get sugar. That's called. Sorry, I'm at a loss.

I'll send you what I sent another member by PM.

It all depends on what you're looking for with her. According to her, she doesn't need to be on the site at all because she doesn't need the money. She's the type who wants to actually date you and have an arrangement that way and by that I mean "don't guilt me into having sex with you just because you're giving me an allowance", those were her exact words. She feels like she should be given an allowance either monthly or weekly but when it comes to her holding up her end of the deal, it should be natural as if you two are in a relationship. She made it clear to me that she shouldn't be expected to fuck every time she is given an allowance because that is illegal and she doesn't want to do anything illegal. I passed and when I respectfully passed she got pissed and got really ugly with me so in my humble opinion she's not worth it.

[Ghostrunner]

I'll send you what I sent another member by PM.

It all depends on what you're looking for with her. According to her, she doesn't need to be on the site at all because she doesn't need the money. She's the type who wants to actually date you and have an arrangement that way and by that I mean "don't guilt me into having sex with you just because you're giving me an allowance", those were her exact words. She feels like she should be given an allowance either monthly or weekly but when it comes to her holding up her end of the deal, it should be natural as if you two are in a relationship. She made it clear to me that she shouldn't be expected to fuck every time she is given an allowance because that is illegal and she doesn't want to do anything illegal. I passed and when I respectfully passed she got pissed and got really ugly with me so in my humble opinion she's not worth it.

Been talking for a min she cute but seem a little crazy looking for a weekly allowance upfront.

https://www.seeking.com/member/58abc...a-47714ebdbb64

[ThisFnGuy]

Been trying to see her a few time but you keep flaking on me has anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/e2ad2...c-07152373cbee

I was messaging her a while back. Must have been right when she joined. She had really unrealistic expectations. Said the last guy gave her $400 for dates and $100 up front for a babysitter. And he didn't even get laid until the 4th date. I wished her the best of luck. If she's still on there I'm guessing she's talking more rational now.

[Guilly]

Question for everyone, how does the SD / SB shit work? I literally just signed up for SA today because I'm done with STG. I'm only 25 and not some rich old dude that can just afford to take full care of some random chick LOL. I basically just want 1 or 2 permanent booty calls lmdoa can some break down how this "money" situation works? And I used the "friends with benefits, no strings attached" filter. Is it basically weekly monthly rate and they fuck right there on the spot it whenever you hit them up? Can someone help a young in out LOL thanks.

[Armagedon12]

I'm looking a one time thing for a bucket list. I'm trying to find an Asian woman willing to swallow but I've exhausted my usual resources and I want to see if this would be worth my effort.