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Parties
Originally Posted by HappyGardener
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I'm probably not the best person to offer advice on parties since I've been going to them for 20 plus years. I'm not shy. I often am that guy walking around naked or in boxers and socks. Wear your socks because it's a good place to keep condoms in. Plus floors get sticky. I get it done guys are shy, but I never understood trying to fuck a girl on a bed while still wearing your jeans. I don't get it but I see it at every party.
My bag is something I got from Sierra Club or Sports Illustrated or someplace I gave money too. In hotels I stick the bag in a dresser or closet or under the sink. Yeah my keys are in it. Yeah my phone is in there. I try to keep my clothes together because a lot of people are looking for discarded clothing at the end of the night. I rarely wear a coat inside. I also carry in my vodka or gin since most parties are BYOB. Most parties allow vaping now so I'll bring in a disposable pen. Sharing is caring.
Don't be afraid to chat up anybody there. Everyone is friendly usually. Might be a good idea to look over the rules on swinger websites so you know the etiquette. Ask before touching. Ask before randomly sticking your dick in. Use mouthwash after going down on someone. No means no. Use baby wipes before you move on to another woman. Have fun!
You hit the nail on the head. I've been in the party scene since 2009 and I couldn't agree with you more. I was at a party where a guy who looked like he came off the street did not undress and was fucking a girl fully clothed with his jacket on and wearing a backpack plus boots on his feet. I said to myself what is he thinking he can't be that shy.
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Parties.
I'm probably not the best person to offer advice on parties since I've been going to them for 20 plus years. I'm not shy. I often am that guy walking around naked or in boxers and socks. Wear your socks because it's a good place to keep condoms in. Plus floors get sticky. I get it done guys are shy, but I never understood trying to fuck a girl on a bed while still wearing your jeans. I don't get it but I see it at every party.
My bag is something I got from Sierra Club or Sports Illustrated or someplace I gave money too. In hotels I stick the bag in a dresser or closet or under the sink. Yeah my keys are in it. Yeah my phone is in there. I try to keep my clothes together because a lot of people are looking for discarded clothing at the end of the night. I rarely wear a coat inside. I also carry in my vodka or gin since most parties are BYOB. Most parties allow vaping now so I'll bring in a disposable pen. Sharing is caring.
Don't be afraid to chat up anybody there. Everyone is friendly usually. Might be a good idea to look over the rules on swinger websites so you know the etiquette. Ask before touching. Ask before randomly sticking your dick in. Use mouthwash after going down on someone. No means no. Use baby wipes before you move on to another woman. Have fun!
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Originally Posted by DicemanRambo1
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Question, what sort of gym bag do you have? Also, do you just sat it on the ground during play? I'm assuming it's not to dark at the venue, and nobody is trying to steal other people's stuff, but it's a big concern of mine to keep my belongings safe. Weird question too I know, just ignore if it's too stupid.
Just buy cheap stuff. Is it that big a deal if someone walks off with an old duffel from the Salvation Army store with condoms, an old towel and some soap?
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Originally Posted by HappyGardener
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I've been there on and off for several years. Safe. Clean. I have a gym bag with me with a towel, clothes, condoms, baby wipes, mouthwash, phone, keys. There's a shower there to use and I've had more than one girl thank me for showering before hand. Not because I come in smelly and dirty but they appreciate guys who make the effort to approach it like a date.
Question, what sort of gym bag do you have? Also, do you just sat it on the ground during play? I'm assuming it's not to dark at the venue, and nobody is trying to steal other people's stuff, but it's a big concern of mine to keep my belongings safe. Weird question too I know, just ignore if it's too stupid.
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Originally Posted by Asstronot69
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Martino and his FantasyLoft are (to me) Chicago staples. Martino runs a good joint, he runs lots of parties including betting and parties were you can fuck the serving girls (for a price) while you watch the game. Go to the gangbangs, see what Martino can offer you, and go from there.
The girls can range from subpar, overweight girls to straight up strippers and pornstars. Kitt Lacey (pornstar) frequents the loft. FantasyLoft has worked with TadPole XXX Studios in the past.
Thanks, they'll be the first party I attend then. From what HappyGardener says, it's only $100 for single dudes, can't see it not being a steal. IDK how I'll feel being around dudes JOing, but I embrace awkward and new experiences. Thanks again for the response.
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Originally Posted by HappyGardener
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I've been there on and off for several years. Safe. Clean. I have a gym bag with me with a towel, clothes, condoms, baby wipes, mouthwash, phone, keys. There's a shower there to use and I've had more than one girl thank me for showering before hand. Not because I come in smelly and dirty but they appreciate guys who make the effort to approach it like a date.
Anyway. This weeks line up:
GB THIS Wednesday 6 pm to 12 am 2354 and CLYBOURN AVE CHICAGO il PLAYING THIS WEEK at THE LOFT SWEETNESS & RUE & AMOR PLAYIN DONATION SINGLE MEN $120 COUPLE $60 WOMEN FREE BYOB PAY CASH at THE DOOR SINGLE MEN DISCOUNT $100 BEFORE 7 pm.
Been to several of these, definitely get your money's worth and I've always had a good time there. The host is always friendly too.
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Originally Posted by Asstronot69
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Martino and his FantasyLoft are (to me) Chicago staples. Martino runs a good joint, he runs lots of parties including betting and parties were you can fuck the serving girls (for a price) while you watch the game. Go to the gangbangs, see what Martino can offer you, and go from there.
The girls can range from subpar, overweight girls to straight up strippers and pornstars. Kitt Lacey (pornstar) frequents the loft. FantasyLoft has worked with TadPole XXX Studios in the past.
I've been there on and off for several years. Safe. Clean. I have a gym bag with me with a towel, clothes, condoms, baby wipes, mouthwash, phone, keys. There's a shower there to use and I've had more than one girl thank me for showering before hand. Not because I come in smelly and dirty but they appreciate guys who make the effort to approach it like a date.
Anyway. This weeks line up:
GB THIS Wednesday 6 pm to 12 am 2354 and CLYBOURN AVE CHICAGO il PLAYING THIS WEEK at THE LOFT SWEETNESS & RUE & AMOR PLAYIN DONATION SINGLE MEN $120 COUPLE $60 WOMEN FREE BYOB PAY CASH at THE DOOR SINGLE MEN DISCOUNT $100 BEFORE 7 pm.
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Originally Posted by StanCopier
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https://fetlife.com/users/5239638/pictures
Has anyone attended one of April's parties? Good time, strange, weird?
If I'm seeing this correctly she is traveling the country hosting GB parties. I was tempted but she looks like she's fucking quite a few guys bareback even before the most recent photos from her Chicago party.
Good time. Everyone here is an adult so you can look at her past pics and make a decision based on your risk tolerance.
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FantasyLoft
Originally Posted by DicemanRambo1
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https://fetlife.com/events/1506420
Has anybody been to a FantasyLoft event / GB? I've seen them host quite a few parties since I joined about a month ago. The address provided say they're near Lincoln Park, at a location called "the Ice Lounge," but on this Ice Lounge site, they only host events in Schiller Park suburbs. I'm assuming that the Ice Lounge hosts their own events and provide venue space for parties since I've seen other groups besides FantasyLoft hosting there. I'd like to attend if they're at the location in Lincoln Park, but I'm concerned about where I'd keep my personal belongs like my car keys, any tips there?
Martino and his FantasyLoft are (to me) Chicago staples. Martino runs a good joint, he runs lots of parties including betting and parties were you can fuck the serving girls (for a price) while you watch the game. Go to the gangbangs, see what Martino can offer you, and go from there.
The girls can range from subpar, overweight girls to straight up strippers and pornstars. Kitt Lacey (pornstar) frequents the loft. FantasyLoft has worked with TadPole XXX Studios in the past.
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FantasyLoft
https://fetlife.com/events/1506420
Has anybody been to a FantasyLoft event / GB? I've seen them host quite a few parties since I joined about a month ago. The address provided say they're near Lincoln Park, at a location called "the Ice Lounge," but on this Ice Lounge site, they only host events in Schiller Park suburbs. I'm assuming that the Ice Lounge hosts their own events and provide venue space for parties since I've seen other groups besides FantasyLoft hosting there. I'd like to attend if they're at the location in Lincoln Park, but I'm concerned about where I'd keep my personal belongs like my car keys, any tips there?
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April from California
https://fetlife.com/users/5239638/pictures
Has anyone attended one of April's parties? Good time, strange, weird?
If I'm seeing this correctly she is traveling the country hosting GB parties. I was tempted but she looks like she's fucking quite a few guys bareback even before the most recent photos from her Chicago party.
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Open event
There's a fuck event open to all comers in Schaumburg.
https://fetlife.com/events/1509823
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Originally Posted by Moejoo
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I was interested in a 1 on 1 but the back round with the white lights in what appears to be a dingy basement is now kind of creeping me out.
Honestly the basement was pretty clean when I was there. Just seems like the basement has one purpose LOL. Also, to answer the other poster, yes BBBJ.
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Originally Posted by Member#1117
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You can tell that she doesn't have any sort of day job and probably sleeps most of the day. Every time she posts something which I would be interested in, its Tuesday 11 pm for at 1 AM gangbang. In my younger years I could be functional with 3 hours of sleep. Not so much anymore so it's been a no go. I came really close to seeing here 1 on 1 but lack of reviews made me think twice.
One question for you, does she do BBBJ? The last thing I want is a covered BJ.
I was interested in a 1 on 1 but the back round with the white lights in what appears to be a dingy basement is now kind of creeping me out.
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Times are the worst for the employed
Originally Posted by Jge096
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Been posted about before. Went to one of the GBs recently. Like others have mentioned, always a last minute party when they post it and tends to be at odd hours of the day. I can only see it being convenient if you're unemployed or retired LOL.
BUT, the parties are real, I can attest to it, finally managed to get ahold of her within the last week. Pictures of her are accurate. She approves the RSVP list on the events but I would say at best half show up. One and done but she's a fun time and shows attention to everyone. She's pretty hot in person and looks to please.
You can tell that she doesn't have any sort of day job and probably sleeps most of the day. Every time she posts something which I would be interested in, its Tuesday 11 pm for at 1 AM gangbang. In my younger years I could be functional with 3 hours of sleep. Not so much anymore so it's been a no go. I came really close to seeing here 1 on 1 but lack of reviews made me think twice.
One question for you, does she do BBBJ? The last thing I want is a covered BJ.
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