Seeking Arrangements

[Your Man 69]

Thank guys for sharing some interesting details about what you do as a paying member on SA.

As a on and off again member on SA for a few years now. I still have some questions as to what is the.

Best way to keep a burner APP. On my personal cell that will not POP-UP with messages at times that are.

Not good in your private life away from SA?

On a personal note about my membership renewal etc.

I generally join once a quarter or every 4th or 5th month.

30 days is plenty to partake in the dreams we all love to enjoy.

There is plenty of spill-over dreams from those 30 day memberships.

QUESTIONS ABOUT COMPLETE PRIVACY?

Some of you use a burner app?

How do you keep it as an app on your phone that no-one can see if they are borrowing your phone?

How do you keep a S. O. That thinks nothing of using your phone when you are together from seeing this?

How to switch to texts on a burner app. Without them popping up on your personal phone?

I have an Apple phone that allows me to search or enter a website on PRIVATE MODE that does not store HISTORY once you.

Close out of that site. Is there something better for texting or getting on SA or sites like that on your personal phone without.

Leaving a tracker or trace in history. Etc?

Having a second BURNER PHONE is out of the question for me?

If you cannot have a second phone. What is the best way for complete privacy that will not alert a S. O.

Or noisy boss?

[Will79]

Right now the babies have the upper hand. These girls are getting 100 messages a day so they can be selective. I've found it tougher this time than any time I've been on there in the past.

[PapaShango]

I've been in and out SA for a couple years and this guide here is basically the guide of all guides to navigate the SA territory. Thanks for the tips brother there were some I will start using myself.

Great info here and how I actually use it too.

Building on that, here's my recipe for success on SA.

-I've probably met up with 10-15 sugar babies on the site. 3-4 are keepers.

-You will have to get used to sifting through a lot of BS. If their pictures seem too good to be true, they are.

-I'd say 40% of the girls you'll actually talk to think they can just look pretty and you pay them. Hell maybe some do. I don't. There's porn for that.

-My initial message is intro. Not too long. My next message culls a lot out. I ask right out of the gate if they're interested in getting together. Not eventually. Not right this second. But keep it direct and to the point. They'll either stop responding, say they only do online only, do online only first then meet up, or simply say yes to the question. You only want the ones that say yes right out of the gate. The others will waste your time.

-After that screening, I try to move them to texting. They may prefer Kik or Snapchat instead. They want to be anonymous without doing a burner phone. I get it. So I've set up a throwaway account on both platforms.

-Once you move off SA for chats, you kind of start over conversation wise which is fine. You'll then have to kind of read between the lines on what to do next.

-First, it's a good idea to figure out how you want to meet or set up your criteria. Me personally, I don't want anyone at my place. I highly prefer to go to theirs. If they're a smokeshow, I'll consider grabbing a room.

-Ask your next question based off whatever criteria you come up with. So in my case, I go ahead and ask if they can host. If they can't and they're not a smokeshow, I typically either move on, or let them solve the problem. Sometimes they'll actually grab a room for you. Fine by me.

-There are some that will want to meet pretty quickly. If that's the case, quit talking and meet them.

-There are some that have a schedule to work around. Try to schedule something. I've experienced about a 40-50% success rate on scheduling. They'll either get cold feet, not be up for it, or be turned on by the fact.

-There are some that have to be talked into it. If this is the case, know going in that it's a low probability but you will land one eventually. If this is the case, float them the idea of the money they could have, build a rapport with them, etc. They may come around.

-There are some that will still try to switch on you and try to get you to pay them for pictures etc. I politely say no I'm only interested in in-person.

-DO NOT give them a deposit. DO NOT give them money for gas. DO NOT give them money for some pictures with the promise to meet up later.

-I'd highly recommend cash only. Some want venmo or square cash. It leaves a trail.

-Next talk compensation. I always give them a range. Something they know they can work for on the top end if they put out. Now the top end of that range has to be some pornstar slutty stuff that most aren't down for. That's fine.

-Here's where I like to ensure some details are performed. Nothing crazy. Can be something like CIM or whatever. But this is the time to negotiate / ensure they're down for that.

Ok so let's say you've now got one on the hook to meet. Here's what I do next.

-Before I make any plans to either leave my place or grab a room, I do a quick verification. I ask them to send a picture of themselves either touching their nose or with 3 or 4 fingers up with their face in it. This will cull out the last bit of scammers. It's hard to google an image that looks similar to their profile pic with these criteria. If they balk, they're a scammer. If they send a picture of themselves with 2 fingers up or one with their tits out, they're a scammer. This is typically just 10% of the time. If they send a legit pic on your guidelines, you're good. I typically send one back with the same guidelines for good faith. I've had some that don't want to include their face. Usually this means they're legit but their face isn't all that it's cracked up to be. To each their own. You may not care. Just know going in to expect a not so pleasant face.

-Lastly. Go have fun. It's work but it can turn out great.

P.S. For god sakes be a normal person. I'd say close to 100% of the time, each sugar baby I've met comments on how normal I am. They must deal with some idiots / crazy dudes. What is normal? Being polite. Not ripping their clothes off when they open the door. Talking. Commenting. Don't show up to their place unexpected. Etc.

Some extras I do -.

-I use a burner app.

-I save their number as a contact as their username on SA. That way I can easily refer back to their profile if I need to.

-If we weren't able to get something scheduled but they seemed legit, I'll shoot them a message maybe once a week or so saying I'm looking to spoil someone with $$ let me know if you're interested. Most won't respond but I've actually had good luck with this.

-The ones that do respond to the above sometimes are in a bind and need cash. That's a good position to be in.

PS - if any of you want to share UTR's, I'm happy to do so. Send me a pm. I won't share mine if you don't have anyone to share though. Just heads up. Not trying to be a dick.

[DougFunny]

Set up an email account that is not tied to a real email account and doesn't have your name in it.

Set up your SA account with that email address.

Get a prepaid credit card from Walmart or some place like that. Make sure it has at least $100 on it. When SA asks for your address, put the address of the place where you bought the card. That will get you 30 days on SA.

SA can be frustrating and time consuming. I think most young, hot, college age girls are not really into banging guys their dad's age and they haven't accepted that's what they might have to do like an escort has. There are a lot who say they want online arrangements only. WTF is that about? Some want a deposit which is nuts. SA can be hard for married guys trying to find something in their home city. Many SA girls say they can't host.

Once you get one responding, switch to texts on a burner phone. If you talk sex or pay per meet on SA they will give you a warning then cut you off. SA has been a giant pain in the ass for me but I know a couple of people who have struck gold.

There are a ton of scammers. I've had a lot cut me off out of nowhere when I ask very basic questions to verify if they are real.

Great info here and how I actually use it too.

Building on that, here's my recipe for success on SA.

-I've probably met up with 10-15 sugar babies on the site. 3-4 are keepers.

-You will have to get used to sifting through a lot of BS. If their pictures seem too good to be true, they are.

-I'd say 40% of the girls you'll actually talk to think they can just look pretty and you pay them. Hell maybe some do. I don't. There's porn for that.

-My initial message is intro. Not too long. My next message culls a lot out. I ask right out of the gate if they're interested in getting together. Not eventually. Not right this second. But keep it direct and to the point. They'll either stop responding, say they only do online only, do online only first then meet up, or simply say yes to the question. You only want the ones that say yes right out of the gate. The others will waste your time.

-After that screening, I try to move them to texting. They may prefer Kik or Snapchat instead. They want to be anonymous without doing a burner phone. I get it. So I've set up a throwaway account on both platforms.

-Once you move off SA for chats, you kind of start over conversation wise which is fine. You'll then have to kind of read between the lines on what to do next.

-First, it's a good idea to figure out how you want to meet or set up your criteria. Me personally, I don't want anyone at my place. I highly prefer to go to theirs. If they're a smokeshow, I'll consider grabbing a room.

-Ask your next question based off whatever criteria you come up with. So in my case, I go ahead and ask if they can host. If they can't and they're not a smokeshow, I typically either move on, or let them solve the problem. Sometimes they'll actually grab a room for you. Fine by me.

-There are some that will want to meet pretty quickly. If that's the case, quit talking and meet them.

-There are some that have a schedule to work around. Try to schedule something. I've experienced about a 40-50% success rate on scheduling. They'll either get cold feet, not be up for it, or be turned on by the fact.

-There are some that have to be talked into it. If this is the case, know going in that it's a low probability but you will land one eventually. If this is the case, float them the idea of the money they could have, build a rapport with them, etc. They may come around.

-There are some that will still try to switch on you and try to get you to pay them for pictures etc. I politely say no I'm only interested in in-person.

-DO NOT give them a deposit. DO NOT give them money for gas. DO NOT give them money for some pictures with the promise to meet up later.

-I'd highly recommend cash only. Some want venmo or square cash. It leaves a trail.

-Next talk compensation. I always give them a range. Something they know they can work for on the top end if they put out. Now the top end of that range has to be some pornstar slutty stuff that most aren't down for. That's fine.

-Here's where I like to ensure some details are performed. Nothing crazy. Can be something like CIM or whatever. But this is the time to negotiate / ensure they're down for that.

Ok so let's say you've now got one on the hook to meet. Here's what I do next.

-Before I make any plans to either leave my place or grab a room, I do a quick verification. I ask them to send a picture of themselves either touching their nose or with 3 or 4 fingers up with their face in it. This will cull out the last bit of scammers. It's hard to google an image that looks similar to their profile pic with these criteria. If they balk, they're a scammer. If they send a picture of themselves with 2 fingers up or one with their tits out, they're a scammer. This is typically just 10% of the time. If they send a legit pic on your guidelines, you're good. I typically send one back with the same guidelines for good faith. I've had some that don't want to include their face. Usually this means they're legit but their face isn't all that it's cracked up to be. To each their own. You may not care. Just know going in to expect a not so pleasant face.

-Lastly. Go have fun. It's work but it can turn out great.

P.S. For god sakes be a normal person. I'd say close to 100% of the time, each sugar baby I've met comments on how normal I am. They must deal with some idiots / crazy dudes. What is normal? Being polite. Not ripping their clothes off when they open the door. Talking. Commenting. Don't show up to their place unexpected. Etc.

Some extras I do -.

-I use a burner app.

-I save their number as a contact as their username on SA. That way I can easily refer back to their profile if I need to.

-If we weren't able to get something scheduled but they seemed legit, I'll shoot them a message maybe once a week or so saying I'm looking to spoil someone with $$ let me know if you're interested. Most won't respond but I've actually had good luck with this.

-The ones that do respond to the above sometimes are in a bind and need cash. That's a good position to be in.

PS - if any of you want to share UTR's, I'm happy to do so. Send me a pm. I won't share mine if you don't have anyone to share though. Just heads up. Not trying to be a dick.

[Almanac]

Thank you! That's incredible insight. Much appreciated! I'm planning to sign up in the next month or two. Do you have any UTR's you'd be willing to tell me about on a PM? I have one UTR and then I'm happy to tell you about two AMPs that offer me FS.

I sent you a PM.

[HockeyMask]

I'm sending you a PM now with some info I have.

As a Senior member here I can certainly attest to what you have posted.

You nailed it my friend.

I have enjoyed many successful dreams from SA.

Happy to share them with fellow SR Members.

Pm Me and let's share our dreams.

[Your Man 69]

As a Senior member here I can certainly attest to what you have posted.

You nailed it my friend.

I have enjoyed many successful dreams from SA.

Happy to share them with fellow SR Members.

Pm Me and let's share our dreams.

Thank you! That's incredible insight. Much appreciated! I'm planning to sign up in the next month or two. Do you have any UTR's you'd be willing to tell me about on a PM? I have one UTR and then I'm happy to tell you about two AMPs that offer me FS.

[HockeyMask]

Thank you! That's incredible insight. Much appreciated! I'm planning to sign up in the next month or two. Do you have any UTR's you'd be willing to tell me about on a PM? I have one UTR and then I'm happy to tell you about two AMPs that offer me FS.

Set up an email account that is not tied to a real email account and doesn't have your name in it.

Set up your SA account with that email address.

Get a prepaid credit card from Walmart or some place like that. Make sure it has at least $100 on it. When SA asks for your address, put the address of the place where you bought the card. That will get you 30 days on SA.

SA can be frustrating and time consuming. I think most young, hot, college age girls are not really into banging guys their dad's age and they haven't accepted that's what they might have to do like an escort has. There are a lot who say they want online arrangements only. WTF is that about? Some want a deposit which is nuts. SA can be hard for married guys trying to find something in their home city. Many SA girls say they can't host.

Once you get one responding, switch to texts on a burner phone. If you talk sex or pay per meet on SA they will give you a warning then cut you off. SA has been a giant pain in the ass for me but I know a couple of people who have struck gold.

There are a ton of scammers. I've had a lot cut me off out of nowhere when I ask very basic questions to verify if they are real.

[Almanac]

I want to join, but I have to be careful. How can I join without it being traced to my name?

Also, how easy is it to work something out with girls on there? I'm happy to go up to 300 or even 350.

For some fun, but that's about it. I'd like to find 2-4 girls on there that could possibly be more than a one time thing. The perfect scenario for me would be to see each one around every 3-4 weeks or so.

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Set up an email account that is not tied to a real email account and doesn't have your name in it.

Set up your SA account with that email address.

Get a prepaid credit card from Walmart or some place like that. Make sure it has at least $100 on it. When SA asks for your address, put the address of the place where you bought the card. That will get you 30 days on SA.

SA can be frustrating and time consuming. I think most young, hot, college age girls are not really into banging guys their dad's age and they haven't accepted that's what they might have to do like an escort has. There are a lot who say they want online arrangements only. WTF is that about? Some want a deposit which is nuts. SA can be hard for married guys trying to find something in their home city. Many SA girls say they can't host.

Once you get one responding, switch to texts on a burner phone. If you talk sex or pay per meet on SA they will give you a warning then cut you off. SA has been a giant pain in the ass for me but I know a couple of people who have struck gold.

There are a ton of scammers. I've had a lot cut me off out of nowhere when I ask very basic questions to verify if they are real.

[JMack247]

Has anyone seen this girl? We've been chatting for a few days and she's down to meet but I'm getting a few red flags, she's real chatty and is good at trying to put me at ease but I'd like to know if anyone has experience with her. Any guys with info on her Feel free to pm and I can give you some info on other sa girls in return.

[Member #6499]

Hello Guys! Tonight I just met a UTR in the backwoods of Vance Alabama. It's not too far from Tuscaloosa. She has a Super cute face, oral skills had me standing at attention in seconds, and the vibe I get from her, you can tell she really nice. True GFE. If you want her contact, PM me. As for me, I'm putting her on a once every three week schedule.

Tried to PM but inbox is full.

[HockeyMask]

That's not what I meant. I mean that I would have been right back over there ASAP. Could you share her contact info?

Dude you know that HIV is transmitted through blood? There was no way I'm going in bleeding box without protection. But I'm yeah she will.

[HockeyMask]

I sent you a PM! Really want to meet her.

Hello Guys! Tonight I just met a UTR in the backwoods of Vance Alabama. It's not too far from Tuscaloosa. She has a Super cute face, oral skills had me standing at attention in seconds, and the vibe I get from her, you can tell she really nice. True GFE. If you want her contact, PM me. As for me, I'm putting her on a once every three week schedule.

[Benevolent1991]

Hello Guys! Tonight I just met a UTR in the backwoods of Vance Alabama. It's not too far from Tuscaloosa. She has a Super cute face, oral skills had me standing at attention in seconds, and the vibe I get from her, you can tell she really nice. True GFE. If you want her contact, PM me. As for me, I'm putting her on a once every three week schedule.

[Benevolent1991]

I have a free account. Haven't gotten the guts yet to take the plunge. I found her profile though. She looks pretty good! Can you tell me what you had worked out with her? How easy is it to go from messaging her to there in bed with her? Would she be cool with BBFSCIP? I can't believe you didn't pound her.

Dude you know that HIV is transmitted through blood? There was no way I'm going in bleeding box without protection. But I'm yeah she will.