Seeking Arrangement

[Banger7]

Did anyone else notice the lack of Friends with Benefits seeking filter? I have had some success filtering using that but since it's removed now, how are people searching for Sis who are open to FWB arrangements? I believe the NSA tag should help but haven't had the best success.

[DrStrange2]

What is with this site this time around. Way to many scammers and they are working overtime. I hate wasting my time talking to someone set up a time and date to meet for them to only say hours before "hey I just realized I need gas money" or whatever "can you send me something first.

The one before was awesome but she went ghost. So I created an account again. Does anyone have any good recommendations any help would be greatly appreciated. PM if you prefer.

Thanks in advance.

[WanderingAbout]

Someone else replied to the questions below. Also recommend you read posts on the Richmond board. Lots of info there.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...mateurs-or-Not

So some questions.

1. Does using a pay to play site remove much of the BS from free sites?

2. How do you eliminate the BS, from the real deal?

3. Are most looking for an SB experience or a pay per meet up experience?

4. I notice many ladies are not posting clear rates they tend to be coy in comms. How do you broach the subject?

5. How many at the last moment regret and dash.

[Jackknoff]

She told me that at first. Went to 350, thought. OK I can do that. Let's set it up. Then she hit me with 500 for the first meet.

$500 is ridiculous. Who is paying that amount?.

Even $350 is too much for me.

[AnanaMo]

I talked to her today, 500 and she can't host.

She told me that at first. Went to 350, thought. OK I can do that. Let's set it up. Then she hit me with 500 for the first meet.

[MyWagoneer]

Has anyone met up with here? Seems legit but out of state number and pics lead me to believe possibly a visiting pro. She has a number of pics and a decent length of time on the site, so not getting the scam vibe. I also feel I have seen her picture somewhere, maybe eros.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-6c3748658ef7

I wouldn't call her a pro. But she gets right to business in the comms. Had a place downtown when I was chatting with her. Schedules didn't work out tho. Please let us know if you connect. Stay safe.

[Wiggles0923]

There are many that want to get an allowance for platonic meetings. Thats where all the work comes in. Searching and messaging finding the ones who are willing to go behind closed doors with you.

If I wanted a platonic meeting with a young lady, I would just set one up for work.

[Jeff 206]

Has anyone met up with here? Seems legit but out of state number and pics lead me to believe possibly a visiting pro. She has a number of pics and a decent length of time on the site, so not getting the scam vibe. I also feel I have seen her picture somewhere, maybe eros.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-6c3748658ef7

I talked to her today, 500 and she can't host.

[Round]

I appreciate all the info on how too. I am thinking I might take the plunge. I like younger women but want a more. Laid back experience, where it is a real date. I do notice that a few just want to chat, not up for sex, not willing to meet. Is that a front or do they expect payment for, what I see as nothing.

There are many that want to get an allowance for platonic meetings. Thats where all the work comes in. Searching and messaging finding the ones who are willing to go behind closed doors with you.

[AnanaMo]

Has anyone met up with here? Seems legit but out of state number and pics lead me to believe possibly a visiting pro. She has a number of pics and a decent length of time on the site, so not getting the scam vibe. I also feel I have seen her picture somewhere, maybe eros.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-6c3748658ef7

[StripedLongSoc]

I've chatted a little with this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-cb538c8a2189.

They are willing to meet people as a couple or her alone.

Anyone partake? Thoughts on real or fake?

[Wiggles0923]

I appreciate all the info on how too. I am thinking I might take the plunge. I like younger women but want a more. Laid back experience, where it is a real date. I do notice that a few just want to chat, not up for sex, not willing to meet. Is that a front or do they expect payment for, what I see as nothing.

[BestDjInOhio]

So some questions.

1. Does using a pay to play site remove much of the BS from free sites?

2. How do you eliminate the BS, from the real deal?

3. Are most looking for an SB experience or a pay per meet up experience?

4. I notice many ladies are not posting clear rates they tend to be coy in comms. How do you broach the subject?

5. How many at the last moment regret and dash.

I've been doing sa for a few years in multiple cities I travel to and let me tell you it seems like a part time job sometimes.

First get the number within the first TWO messages on the site, then TEXT HER, no more messaging on the site. Girls with iPhone have more credibility to be legit. Some use apps though. Depending on what you're looking for that night, be direct, but don't GO SEXUAL over text. It's creepy. Girls that don't bring up money, don't want to be whoring themselves out, so you don't bring it up either. Go out with them and have a good time as you would with any other date and get to know them as a person. Make them feel comfortable and you'll have a fun night and probably get laid for free.

Girls that bring up how much or want to discuss the arrangements before meeting are pay per meet ******. Like escorts but more genuine. I treat them as such. If they bring up money then I bring up sex. But my response is are you kinky, and are you on birth control. Girls that answer those questions are DTF, so negotiate with them and have a fun night. Meet them, do not pay them anything until the night is over.

To answer your questions though:

1) girls are more likely to be genuine as most are girls next door and don't do this for a living.

2) in state area code is a good sign, iPhone is also good sign, don't pay a deposit or money for gas or babysitter or anything up front. No money until the date is over and she's ready to go home. Repeat: NO MONEY BEFORE THEN!

3) 80 percent want PPM, the others are the needle in the needle stack. Those are the ones I search for. The ones that want the experience.

4) you ask them then give them counter offer but not insulting.

5) in my experience hardly any do, but I make sure it's set and I can tell if she's going to be a flake and if so I move on. Any girls I have arranged to meet always come thru, but sometimes I will make backup plans if I'm unsure.

[Round]

So some questions.

1. Does using a pay to play site remove much of the BS from free sites?

2. How do you eliminate the BS, from the real deal?

3. Are most looking for an SB experience or a pay per meet up experience?

4. I notice many ladies are not posting clear rates they tend to be coy in comms. How do you broach the subject?

5. How many at the last moment regret and dash.

1. No.

2. Lots of messaging. Word of mouth.

3. Most want to get paid to just look good for you.

4. Get their number and bring it up in text. DO NOT do this thru message. You will get banned. Lose your membership money and have to jump thru a million hoops to get back on.

5. at least 50%.

But. When you find that unicorn. It will all be worth it.

[Wiggles0923]

So some questions.

1. Does using a pay to play site remove much of the BS from free sites?

2. How do you eliminate the BS, from the real deal?

3. Are most looking for an SB experience or a pay per meet up experience?

4. I notice many ladies are not posting clear rates they tend to be coy in comms. How do you broach the subject?

5. How many at the last moment regret and dash.