Seeking Arrangement

**DetroitWireMan** · 07-24-23 09:07

So do you need to purchase the credits on sb in order to communicate?

**AnanaMo** · 07-22-23 22:48

Originally Posted by Itrik [View Original Post]

Not sure what you guys are doing that aren't having any luck on seeking. I restarted my membership last week just to get a new kitty line up to run through. And seeking did not disappoint.

The key is to look appealing to the women. You have to show them that you have money to spend every week. Cause that's all they really want is someone that's consistent. Also keep your profile simple and too the point. Everybody is there for the same thing. They know the deal. But when you're upfront on your profile a lot of the women will actually reach out to you. Which is the case with me. It also helps to have some decent pictures on your profile.

But good luck hunting. I'm willing to trade ladies. Got a few $100 do what you want for however long type.

I haven't ever had a problem lining something up. I am to the point that I am much more picky than I was. I say the same few things each time and by the 3rd message they have confirmed we are on the same page. 4th message is contact info. Then we discuss details.

**Darwin2000** · 07-22-23 21:43

Has anyone had any luck on Kik? I signed on and talked to a few girls but I’m 98% sure they were running scams. I'd love to snag a "miss right now" on there but I don't think I have figured out how to do it yet.

**Itrik** · 07-21-23 14:29

Not sure what you guys are doing that aren't having any luck on seeking. I restarted my membership last week just to get a new kitty line up to run through. And seeking did not disappoint.

The key is to look appealing to the women. You have to show them that you have money to spend every week. Cause that's all they really want is someone that's consistent. Also keep your profile simple and too the point. Everybody is there for the same thing. They know the deal. But when you're upfront on your profile a lot of the women will actually reach out to you. Which is the case with me. It also helps to have some decent pictures on your profile.

But good luck hunting. I'm willing to trade ladies. Got a few $100 do what you want for however long type.

**Taz41** · 07-20-23 21:34

Originally Posted by Lsyfier [View Original Post]

Very little activity on these boards these days, especially SA. Someone on another board said the hobby is dead. Is this the case? If so, is it the economy? Is it lack of quality girls? Too many scammers? All of the above? Why has activity fallen off so much? Was on SA for last month. Found very few decent options. A lot of messaging / texting but that's it. Comms by these girls has gotten worse (was always terrible). Did manage to hook up with one that I will probably continue to see but it took just about my entire 30 day subscription to find her. Another one I have been texting with for last month contacted me again yesterday to meet for initial coffee date (been trying to set this up for awhile). We were supposed to meet today, but then crickets in response to my texts. Is this happening to everyone? Curious about others recent experiences here. I'm more than willing to hook up with these girls, but they need to put in a little more effort.

Yeah, it's all a different world. From my vantage point I try to find some of these women on social media and connect that way. I have my doubts if a lot of the ones I connect with ever meet up, unless it's a ridiculous offer. I think they get cash app'd, tell a sob story and get money, or sell content or something like an only or streaming. I see a lot of BF shit all day that just makes me not really think a lot of them are looking for much other than 1-2 side guys.

And since they can get that in a minute but they're online for all day for months, I think they're mostly looking for free cash or that one guy that offers a ton.

Think about it. It's women want to be on the DL, so they aren't "hobbying," and so supply / demand says that prices for hobbying go up bc there's no new supply. However, the DL women see what escorts get and think they're on the DL so that's a premium. Some will say to me. You know I see escorts that get $_.

So, they want the premium, but it's bc they want it from 1 dude.

I think a ton of these women are looking for anyone some multimillionare to make them a trophy wife, and while she's testing the market for him, she'll accept a few dudes to pay rent.

Nearly none are looking to "hobby. ".

Pros and cons. But, for me it's been about finding someone at the right time, right offer, and just being happy with it while it lasts and always looking. 'Cuz they're online all day and all night always looking for a replacement potential future baby trap if the BFs keep sucking.

**Taz41** · 07-20-23 21:17

Originally Posted by Vollan78 [View Original Post]

Has anyone tried https://www.secretbenefits.com/ ? I was wondering if it was worth it to check it out. Any info would be appreciated.

It's as good as anything. I see a lot of women there and on Seeking. I guess you'd double your chances if she ignored your first interaction.

I gave it a shot a few months ago and had OK response. About what I'd expect, 10-25% response. I didn't pursue any.

I'm kind of curious if the women benefit in any way though from guys on any of their upsells. It's unlimited messaging for a cost; that's why we're there, I get that. But, hidden photos are another. Questions she answered are another. And some simps pay to be her biggest admirer or some dumb status like that.

The reason I wonder is some will just send you that they approved you for their hidden photos. But, then you have to send more tokens or whatever.

So, bc I wonder that, I avoided anyone doing that.

IDK anywhere better. It's all a roll of the dice and trying to catch someone at the right time, with the right message, and decent enough offer in the world.

**Vollan78** · 07-20-23 01:31

Has anyone tried https://www.secretbenefits.com/ ? I was wondering if it was worth it to check it out. Any info would be appreciated.

**Lsyfier** · 07-18-23 17:00

Very little activity on these boards these days, especially SA. Someone on another board said the hobby is dead. Is this the case? If so, is it the economy? Is it lack of quality girls? Too many scammers? All of the above? Why has activity fallen off so much? Was on SA for last month. Found very few decent options. A lot of messaging / texting but that's it. Comms by these girls has gotten worse (was always terrible). Did manage to hook up with one that I will probably continue to see but it took just about my entire 30 day subscription to find her. Another one I have been texting with for last month contacted me again yesterday to meet for initial coffee date (been trying to set this up for awhile). We were supposed to meet today, but then crickets in response to my texts. Is this happening to everyone? Curious about others recent experiences here. I'm more than willing to hook up with these girls, but they need to put in a little more effort.

**Lsyfier** · 07-08-23 17:53

Originally Posted by Lsyfier [View Original Post]

Adding pic of SA profile of GP303.

SA profile GP303. Seems to have a boyfriend that may be around. She wants to meet during day during week only when boyfriend is not around. She hosts at her house. Would not want to be with her should boyfriend show up unexpectedly. The kind of potential drama that none of us wants or needs and looking to avoid. Just a heads up.

**RoyalOaker** · 07-05-23 11:34

Originally Posted by Wiggles0923 [View Original Post]

Do you have age / info on Waterford. Maybe if we all haggle it will drop the price.

It was awhile ago. Probably three or four months ago. I have to go back and look but I want to say she was in her early 20's but I don't recall the username but I believe her name is Cass.

**Wiggles0923** · 07-05-23 09:25

Originally Posted by RoyalOaker [View Original Post]

That's not the one I'm thinking about the one. I'm thinking about us up from the Waterford area and she does basically the same thing.

I will tell you definitely avoid the blonde from Detroit that says she's a dancer at legends. I think her current name on Seeking is like barbijams or something like that, but she will totally rip you off. She's really attractive and will even meet you in person but she wants this monthly amount upfront and then you'll never hear from her again LOL that's the biggest one I've got scammed from the whole time I've been doing this.

Do you have age / info on Waterford. Maybe if we all haggle it will drop the price.

**RoyalOaker** · 07-05-23 08:47

Originally Posted by Wiggles0923 [View Original Post]

Short, black, cute in Ann Arbor. Do you know any that are reasonable?

That's not the one I'm thinking about the one. I'm thinking about us up from the Waterford area and she does basically the same thing.

I will tell you definitely avoid the blonde from Detroit that says she's a dancer at legends. I think her current name on Seeking is like barbijams or something like that, but she will totally rip you off. She's really attractive and will even meet you in person but she wants this monthly amount upfront and then you'll never hear from her again LOL that's the biggest one I've got scammed from the whole time I've been doing this.

**Taz41** · 07-04-23 19:39

Originally Posted by Wiggles0923 [View Original Post]

The one I was talking to did not take $1000. Now no one is offering her anything. They have not had anyone willing to play her game of 200 per date 3 dates before sex and 650 for sex. I am going to message back next week and see how she is doing. And offer 309 for sex right then and there.

In the not so distant past I asked a woman about her modeling rates. $250 for four hours.

She got a shoot that paid her $1,000 and insisted that was the fee. Well, I inquired a little more.

She paid fly out and back, plus hotel, plus expenses around for that time.

I asked if she even realized that company was reporting her income and she'd also owe taxes. I think she lost $250 / hour.

This is usually what I think I'm approaching in this hobby. There's very few pros. And a good number of them are running their own game to find a dude for housing, to get support from, etc. If they balk at all I don't even bother trying, it's already something that's probably going to be a problem again.

**Lsyfier** · 07-04-23 19:04

Originally Posted by RoyalOaker [View Original Post]

Just from the description, she sounds familiar who you have described. I would imagine you and I have come across some of the same girls.

I totally agree with what you're saying as well. These girls read these things online or have one person that overpays them for a short period of time and they think that is their new standard. Meanwhile, they can't rub two nickels together and will turn down some reasonable arrangements, which makes no sense at all especially if you're willing to make it consistent.

Somebody's girls I want to tell them to look online at high end escort sites and see what they're charging and realize that they don't look like that LOL.

These girls must be looking at the same online articles regarding being a sugar baby. Many times I've received the same response to the $$s expected for an arrangement question—"I've received offers of $500 to $2000". Heard this so many times. Then I offer $250-$300. Some take it, some don't. My last arrangement gave me this line and I know she would have done sugar baby research online. Just the way she seemed. She took my $300 ppm offer.

**Wiggles0923** · 07-04-23 18:22

Originally Posted by RoyalOaker [View Original Post]

Just from the description, she sounds familiar who you have described. I would imagine you and I have come across some of the same girls.

I totally agree with what you're saying as well. These girls read these things online or have one person that overpays them for a short period of time and they think that is their new standard. Meanwhile, they can't rub two nickels together and will turn down some reasonable arrangements, which makes no sense at all especially if you're willing to make it consistent.

Somebody's girls I want to tell them to look online at high end escort sites and see what they're charging and realize that they don't look like that LOL.

Short, black, cute in Ann Arbor. Do you know any that are reasonable?