Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Big Mac Daddy** · 11-07-22 13:46

Originally Posted by JackTaggart [View Original Post]

So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky..

The gift card girls (likely men) likely catch more newbies than folks like you or me.

They are likely working on multiple people at a time and have stock or generic canned answers which they can easily copy / paste into a chat window. If they catch 2% or 20 per thousand or more, it's worth their time. It must pay off since there are so many scammers and suckers out there.

BMD.

**OldPup** · 11-07-22 12:17

Originally Posted by JackTaggart [View Original Post]

So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky.

Anyways. Just kinda thinking out loud. Probably nothing since it seems like a ton of effort for them to go through with very little possibility of return. Maybe I have not taken it far enough to really understand the angle of the scam.

I think that the angle on that scam is that they will ask you to send a picture of the gift card from which they try to extract the money by going online.

There are many in CT, a bunch of them go by the name Lucy once you move to text, WhatsApp or Telegram, that use that scam.

I agree that the benefits outweigh the hassles. If you suck enough oysters, there are many pearls out there. I just had the most amazing vacation thanks to SA. Two college girls that met me at the beach for sunset, fed them dinner and lots of booze and then had a few hours of dessert in bed. Another woman in her forties but with an incredible body, who was insatiable and who's still begging me to come back, and a 27 year old that wouldn't let me give her any gifts, just two nights of dinner and along with two blissful sleepovers.

**JackTaggart** · 11-04-22 23:13

So I have been on an off looking for fun on seeking in CT the last 9 months or so. The last 2 weeks that I have been felt a bit different. I am pretty immune to scams (knock on wood) and have a lot of experience going back to craigslist. I am noticing a much higher volume of new accounts. Quite a few are very well written and enticing I must say I have my method down and quickly move to chat off of seeking. Completely non sexual conversation and pretty quick move (on my part) to try and meet for a drink before figuring anything else out.

Other than the scams or non responses (which are most) I am more used to is them straight up proposing a specific arrangement up front or someone happy to meet for a drink and go from there. I only go for the latter.

These feel much different because with these new ones I end up having a lot more friendly dialog back and forth with them first and it just seems like normal college girl chat. And then when on the way to the meet however many days later she's asking to specifically get a gift card at like a gas station and give it to her in person. It has been 6 that have gone this way and the chatting is very similar. Jokes on LEO though since I have actually met a couple of seeking girls that are just into fun and enjoy regular date stuff for no money. I guess I am lucky.

Anyways. Just kinda thinking out loud. Probably nothing since it seems like a ton of effort for them to go through with very little possibility of return. Maybe I have not taken it far enough to really understand the angle of the scam.

**Ilsw203** · 11-04-22 06:57

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...6-5d47a8f043be Found her through a recommendation of a member on here. Saw her a couple times and all were great. She's a fun, wet and wild time. Suddenly disappeared off the map. Anyone ever see her or still keep in touch with her? Would love to reconnect.

**TopGun9** · 11-02-22 16:03

Originally Posted by BuckCock [View Original Post]

She's real. Put a are in front of that screen name and that's her real name. Had interactions with her a few years ago through a different app but she was in Bridgeport and that's out of my travel range.

Don't think she's down to fuck. Wanted to sell contents only. Told her to get f* lost.

Next.

**Buck Cock** · 11-02-22 00:12

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.
https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-73eb0aec0d1e

She's real. Put a are in front of that screen name and that's her real name. Had interactions with her a few years ago through a different app but she was in Bridgeport and that's out of my travel range.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 11-01-22 21:40

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-73eb0aec0d1e

I avoid the ones like this pointing out their 'wish list'. There's no focus on our 'wish lists'! Next!

BMD.

**TopGun9** · 11-01-22 20:41

Content seller and a fake. Maybe a dude behind the screen.

(475) 449-0760.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-73eb0aec0d1e

**Sutigel2** · 10-31-22 11:11

Has anyone ever had contact with this one? She logs in frequently and has had at least one other profile. My guess is fake, but I do wonder.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...4-cc7dbe7c51bc

Here's a couple that are friends of actual friends of mine. (Not seeking related. I'm not going to contact them for fear of outing myself. I can see both being willing to play).

This first one has pretty eyes and is an athletic girl. I feel as if she put on a bunch of weight during Covid, and quite a bit of the weight gain could be muscle.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-196e0f78153b

Another friend of a friend, this next one is using heavily filtered pictures and is really quite heavy. Last I checked, she looked almost nothing like her pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-8e0782df991d

**FireBalls420** · 10-29-22 15:19

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...f-a1afb3571ab1

This one seems real. But too very uncertain about meetups. She talks about arrangements and all but not really DTF. Not sure anyone of you got her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-f0427a536b7f

This one needs to meet first for dinner, coffee and talk about arrangement at that time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-df31a10b8c55

This one is real too, slim nice body. Quoted 1 k but then negotiated down to. 5. Felt it's not worth for the price. You'll get better ones at Pleasent moment for that price.

**TopGun9** · 10-29-22 14:09

I wouldn't touch this profile with a 10,000 ft pole.

Looks like jail baits.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...e-b6451205c457

**BlueFox141** · 10-27-22 01:09

Originally Posted by FireBalls420 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-4f2a185962eb

Do you think this is a same person with different profile?

Not at all. They don't look like, one's Hispanic one's white, one is 20 years old we have the other 22. One's a light smoker a social drinker the other one doesn't drink or smoke. I don't think there's much chance that they're the same young lady.

Blue.