Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[TopGun9]

Hi there, Good info. I too was banned. When you say use a new email and does have to be from a different browser?. Like if I have AOL, can I use a different email from AOL, I do I have to use, say Yahoo, or gmail?. Also, when you say you upgraded at DD or Starbucks, how does it work afterwards?. Do you always go to those public places to check your account or do you check your account from your home once again?. I think they will see your IP addy if you check in from why our home wifi. And get banned?.

You can try a new AOL email. But I would suggest creating new Yahoo or Gmail emails.

It's only critical during the upgrade step, when they try to process your payment. This is where you want to connect using a public wifi so they can't track back to your IP and stuff.

So here's what I did:

1 - created new Gmail address.

2 - sign up to SA again with the new email, use different profile name, use different profile pic.

3 - browse around for a few weeks.

4 - went to Starbucks. Connect to their public wifi, downloaded the SA app, and upgraded to Premium using a new debit card I got from my bank. I never use this debit card with SA before.

5 - after I successfully upgraded to premium. I've been logging in to SA on both my app and my laptop from home with my home wifi, no issue.

Good luck!

[Hapcj7]

I was banned from SA a few times.

The best way for me to get around this was to go to a Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks and use their public wifi to connect, when upgrading to premium membership.

Obviously, you want to use a new email and credit / prepaid card.

Hi there, Good info. I too was banned. When you say use a new email and does have to be from a different browser?. Like if I have AOL, can I use a different email from AOL, I do I have to use, say Yahoo, or gmail?. Also, when you say you upgraded at DD or Starbucks, how does it work afterwards?. Do you always go to those public places to check your account or do you check your account from your home once again?. I think they will see your IP addy if you check in from why our home wifi. And get banned?.

[TopGun9]

Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/

I was banned from SA a few times.

The best way for me to get around this was to go to a Dunkin Donuts or Starbucks and use their public wifi to connect, when upgrading to premium membership.

Obviously, you want to use a new email and credit / prepaid card.

[TopGun9]

Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/

Texted with her before. It didn't go anywhere, don't remember exactly why. Maybe she just wanted to do the dinner dates and stuffs before she let you fuck her. I am not on the site for dates LOL.

Good luck!

TG9.

[DarkClouds]

She was incredible. DM me if you'd like to share a few stories.

A number of years ago, there was a NY based "cuddling" agency with several girls in western mass. Because it was discussed on this board, I'll bring it up here. Basically the girls offered everything from nude cuddling to FS. Girls tended to be good looking.

One in particular, a thin and pretty blonde from Amherst, gave mind numbing porn worthy BBBJ. Alyssa was immensely skilled with gagging deep throat. Saliva everywhere. Just amazing sloppy head. She was supposedly BJ only (though I did fuck her once) and it was a pricey $200. Way too expensive, but looking back, I wish it were still available. I believe I saw her once on seeking, but other than that I have not seen her in several years. Perhaps she has cleaned herself up and moved on with her life. If anyone has info, and if she is still in the game, I'd love to hear.

[JackTaggart]

I couldn't get my usual gift cards to work with Seeking anymore so I ended up paying using Google Play to join for a month. Everything seemed awesome. Next day my account was suspended because they say I disputed the charge, which I never did. The money came back to my google play account but I never disputed anything.

When I log in I get a message that in order to get my account back I need to contact support. I filled out their online form to create a case and have received replies a few times saying I need to call them. When calling them I get a voicemail so I leave a message and have yet to receive a call back. This has been going on for almost a month!

The good thing is that I'm not out any money, but I want my account back, I've had great success on that site.

Any ideas?

Can't help you with your actual question. But I did see elsewhere on the fourm that a "Green Dot" prepaid card has been working. Link is below. I am going to try in the next 30 days to switch my billing over to that, so will post if I get a positive result. Let us know if you end up trying one way or another though. I am thinking you would need to create a new account with a new email address, and maybe even connecting to a VPN or from your phone to sign up after clearing you cache.

https://www.greendot.com/

[ArchitexOne]

Been talking with this one all day and seems pretty cool. She has been on SA for a few years so does anyone have an info to share before I pull the trigger.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-ff97cfe3abfb

[Sutigel2]

A number of years ago, there was a NY based "cuddling" agency with several girls in western mass. Because it was discussed on this board, I'll bring it up here. Basically the girls offered everything from nude cuddling to FS. Girls tended to be good looking.

One in particular, a thin and pretty blonde from Amherst, gave mind numbing porn worthy BBBJ. Alyssa was immensely skilled with gagging deep throat. Saliva everywhere. Just amazing sloppy head. She was supposedly BJ only (though I did fuck her once) and it was a pricey $200. Way too expensive, but looking back, I wish it were still available. I believe I saw her once on seeking, but other than that I have not seen her in several years. Perhaps she has cleaned herself up and moved on with her life. If anyone has info, and if she is still in the game, I'd love to hear.

[Kwagmire]

This one's real and responsive in conversation and seems to be DTF in a PPM kind of way, but then her GPS showed up and she wanted $1400 PER MEET and wouldn't budge.

Okayyyy. NEXT!

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...6-a5422d17ca69

[DozerDude]

I couldn't get my usual gift cards to work with Seeking anymore so I ended up paying using Google Play to join for a month. Everything seemed awesome. Next day my account was suspended because they say I disputed the charge, which I never did. The money came back to my google play account but I never disputed anything.

When I log in I get a message that in order to get my account back I need to contact support. I filled out their online form to create a case and have received replies a few times saying I need to call them. When calling them I get a voicemail so I leave a message and have yet to receive a call back. This has been going on for almost a month!

The good thing is that I'm not out any money, but I want my account back, I've had great success on that site.

Any ideas?

[Gridge]

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...4pq7VJ3Vdgkx7X

This girl wants $600 ppm. I tried negotiating and she cut me off instantly and that was that.

On to the next.

[JackTaggart]

If you meet up with this girl, use your big head instead of your little head like I did. I didn't take the value of the previous posts to heart. I only saw this pics and all the ones she kept sending me in snap. First flag. She said she lives in Wallingford, but when I ask where to pick her up, she says at her apt in Windsor.

I said I was 30 min away. She changed meeting spots a couple times but just across the street from each other. She started calling me on snap every 2 min to see how close I was. (Why didn't I turn around) I get there. She starts asking if I'm like Ted Bundy and going to kill her. I took it as a joke until she asked multiple tomes (around 15 no joke). We drive off, and she says she's freaked by the neighborhood. We drive away and she talks and talks and repeated the same things. Personal issues, self identity issues, locked out of her phone, jealous over sibling successes, and on and on. She starts to cry at one point. Said maybe we should turn around and she said no bc she wants to be a "bad girl" for once. Said she hadn't had sex in like 5 mo (seriously? I thought others met her).

Get to the hotel and into the room. She walks into the bathroom and then re-emerges wearing a sexy black garter and stockings. Holy shit she's hott. I forgot everything that happened up to that point. Asked me how she looked. Amazing. Then she started talking again. Pushed her on the bed and she shut up. Bra off. Panties and garter off. Got down to biz. Dfk, nipple play, daty and she had her hands all over my head. Switched to BBBJ. Average. But she went down to gag a couple times. Told me we can't go further without the cover. Covered up and went to town on her. Various positions mosh, k9, cg, etc. A good 45 min went by and blew in the bag.

We cleaned up. And I knew it was too good to be true. She said it was a mistake. She felt like a *****. She said I'm cute and she fell in love with me. WTF. Just said let's go. Went back to drop her off since I was short on time. All the way back she kept saying she's in love with me mixed with her repeated stories from before. Then a couple exits away, she says that I have serious problems. That she has a psych degree and she just knows and says I need counseling. We get to her spot, she says she loves me then starts to cry when she gets out.

Thought that was it. Then she snaps me all a bunch how she misses me and loves me and that we should go to the trampoline park tonight (I just left). Later she asks to came over to my place. Then she flips. Saying I have problems and used her and blah blah blah. Block.

Do yourself a favor. Don't bother with this one unless this is the craziness you crave in your life. No signs of demons but definitely deep mental health issues here.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-cd16905a5936

Just had a date with her. More or less same experience. With her explanations for things I think I understand the different locations. She wanted my to drive her to Windsor from Wallingford after. I said no and we settled on dropping her off at the Meriden mall. I'd repeat, but I'm a little nutty, Much much better than anything I am seeing on stg.

[Kwagmire]

1. I do not travel overly far to meet a new female because when she doesn't show or turns into a scam, I've wasted the hour one way trip. I limit myself to 30 minutes one way for a new female.

2. I never get a room ahead of time, unless I already know her and she is reliable.

3. SA insulates you from a sting. It was probably a coincidence but ALWAYS go with your gut instinct. It will save you more times, and the worst thing you lose out on as a piece of ass.

4. Vet your dates ahead of time more thoroughly through simple, fun, questioning. If she is so into you in the beginning she's fake. If she asks for a few bucks for any reason she's fake.

5. Always treat SA dates as if you were meeting a woman from a "regular " dating site. If she doesn't want to meet for a quick coffee or lunch or drink, she's either a professional or she's a fake. It's easy to go and get a room after having a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Worst case scenario she doesn't show up for the date. You have a glass of wine by yourself and talk to the other ladies in the bar!

Poo.

I would definitely "second" ALL of this advice, and especially #4 and #5. And never, ever pay her in any form to have coffee or a drink with you. Pick up the coffee or drink, of course (you're a gentleman, right? The more you can make the meet and greet feel like a friendly date helps most young non-pros with the cognitive dissonance they're experiencing when they're about to be paid to fuck) but there is no compensation for her time for the meet and greet. This time is the interview for BOTH of you see if the other is an ax murderer or otherwise misrepresented themselves. If you both choose to move forward and start the arrangement right away, then paying would be expected but NEVER until after the panties hit the floor.

Happy New Year, gents. My resolution is to raise my pussy standards!

[ILoveThatPoo]

Hey guys, I just want to apologize for all the grammar errors I made in my recent post. My adrenaline was out the roof LOL I was going to blow job. I got nervous. But I hope you guys understood what I was asking.

1. I do not travel overly far to meet a new female because when she doesn't show or turns into a scam, I've wasted the hour one way trip. I limit myself to 30 minutes one way for a new female.

2. I never get a room ahead of time, unless I already know her and she is reliable.

3. SA insulates you from a sting. It was probably a coincidence but ALWAYS go with your gut instinct. It will save you more times, and the worst thing you lose out on as a piece of ass.

4. Vet your dates ahead of time more thoroughly through simple, fun, questioning. If she is so into you in the beginning she's fake. If she asks for a few bucks for any reason she's fake.

5. Always treat SA dates as if you were meeting a woman from a "regular " dating site. If she doesn't want to meet for a quick coffee or lunch or drink, she's either a professional or she's a fake. It's easy to go and get a room after having a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Worst case scenario she doesn't show up for the date. You have a glass of wine by yourself and talk to the other ladies in the bar!

Poo.

[Gridge]

LOL.

This game takes work. Good pussies take great efforts to find. They're out there.

Either you're not working hard enough, or need to work smarter.

Or if you can make it rain like Mayweather, then work won't be needed.

Exactly this. Those that say they had overnight success are full of it. Those of us that have worked hard at it and had some good fortune have been able to have some fun. As for the girls we like and are seeing, most don't want to have a ton of guys chasing after them, so giving out their number wouldn't lead anywhere anyways. I'm sure we all have some who we had fun with but no longer see for various reasons. Those are the ones to ask about.