Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Tikov]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

Common tactics used by ladies on the site to get you to shell out cash before meeting them or in between meets that I have run into:

1. Asking for money for food. Pulls at the heart strings a bit if you think they are actually hungry. Once by accident I just so happened to have picked up a pizza when one of the SB's I was pounding asked me for money for food. I offered to go over and share my pizza and all types of excuses came up as to why I could not go over. It has become my go to response for new SBs when they complain about being hungry. No one has ever taken me up on the pizza. I'm certain that "I'm hungry can I get some money for food" text goes out to every SD that they are talking to. Don't be the fool that sends money and gets nothing in return.

2. The car being broken down and needing repair. Most girls that have told me this have some local mechanic that is going to do the repair. Once and only once, a girl told me her car was at firestone, I called the firestone where she said her car was at. Of course the person on the phone had no idea which car I was talking about. I text her back and told her that I had called firestone and paid the bill over the phone. LOL!

3. The phone is about to be disconnected. I've never cared to look into this but I have to imagine that each phone company has a standard billing cycle. How could AT&T be threatening to turn off one girls phone on the 1st, another girls phone on the 16th, and so on.

4. Those top 3 are used by 80-90% of the ladies on seeking. Less frequently but honorable mention is the money for an uber to take them to FILL IN THE BLANK.

Other than that NEVER GIVE A DEPOSIT to meet someone. You just sent that money to a dude in Africa, you will never see that girl. In general my tactic when asked for money before or in between meets is to offer to meet them sooner than our next scheduled time. Only other advice I can give is to not overpay. I'm generally quiet on this forum but I can't help but chuckle at posts where dudes pay 400,500 to meet with girls I've met for 0 - $200.

[Tommy13]

I was also wondering if she is as good as she looks in the photos?

So we had our date.

Pros:

She on was time, clean, pretty, looke better than her photos.

Cons:

She holds some rather extreme views on certain things that were a turn off as long as we stayed on them. So just don't talk about anything pertaining to politics, religion or anything pertaining to the sons of Abraham.

All in all it was pretty okay. The sex was decent. Very vanilla, but she was fun and pleasant and we agreed to see each other again. She wanted 500 but agreed to 350 and never brought it up until the end when she was on her way and I asked for her info.

Am I going to see her week in and week ouit? Nah, but I'd like to see her a few more times. It would seem that she has others that she sees as well too which is fine by me.

[LuvrOfWomen]

I was chatting with "BrightDame" on What's your price. She accepted my "offer" and tried to arrange a meeting.

Via text, she offered 400 for the "full" deal, 200 for head only. We negotiated to 300/150. That included three holes. She then sent a pic of her pussy. It did look good. Probably a stock photo. We discussed meeting in her town (Milford). I'm in the car and she mentions a deposit. Bzzzt, wrong idea. I said I do not do that, she said she won't meet without one. Deal breaker. So she didn't get a deposit, nor my dick nor anything else.

I reached out to a regular, picked her up for a car date, did our usual of BBJ / raw dog - CIP for a modest 60. A good time was had by all.

Maybe we should start a tread called "Deposit Girls" and post the scammers info and pix? A2 what do you think?

The link requires logging in. I hope you'll can see it. If not the face pic and the pretty money shot. LOL

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/Dv3OERmV01ybmZZ0xk4on28L

I was on that site for years. 10 years ago you could actually meet women and a lot of them weren't escorts. Now it's full of scammers. As always, whether it's there or stg, never pay a deposit.

[TopGun9]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

I suggest taking your time and read up on the sugar daddy threads in Richmond and LA.

A lot of questions and tips / tricks you're looking for has been answered numerous times on those threads, and many more.

[TopGun9]

I was chatting with "BrightDame" on What's your price. She accepted my "offer" and tried to arrange a meeting.

Via text, she offered 400 for the "full" deal, 200 for head only. We negotiated to 300/150. That included three holes. She then sent a pic of her pussy. It did look good. Probably a stock photo. We discussed meeting in her town (Milford). I'm in the car and she mentions a deposit. Bzzzt, wrong idea. I said I do not do that, she said she won't meet without one. Deal breaker. So she didn't get a deposit, nor my dick nor anything else.

I reached out to a regular, picked her up for a car date, did our usual of BBJ / raw dog - CIP for a modest 60. A good time was had by all.

Maybe we should start a tread called "Deposit Girls" and post the scammers info and pix? A2 what do you think?

The link requires logging in. I hope you'll can see it. If not the face pic and the pretty money shot. LOL

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/Dv3OERmV01ybmZZ0xk4on28L

There are way to many of these girls / guys on the various sites.

They all playing games with fake profiles.

As soon as I hear the word "deposit", I blocked them and move on.

[SR Only]

I was chatting with "BrightDame" on What's your price. She accepted my "offer" and tried to arrange a meeting.

Via text, she offered 400 for the "full" deal, 200 for head only. We negotiated to 300/150. That included three holes. She then sent a pic of her pussy. It did look good. Probably a stock photo. We discussed meeting in her town (Milford). I'm in the car and she mentions a deposit. Bzzzt, wrong idea. I said I do not do that, she said she won't meet without one. Deal breaker. So she didn't get a deposit, nor my dick nor anything else.

I reached out to a regular, picked her up for a car date, did our usual of BBJ / raw dog - CIP for a modest 60. A good time was had by all.

Maybe we should start a tread called "Deposit Girls" and post the scammers info and pix? A2 what do you think?

The link requires logging in. I hope you'll can see it. If not the face pic and the pretty money shot. LOL

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/Dv3OERmV01ybmZZ0xk4on28L

[Gamisi]

Planned to go down Wednesday.

I was also wondering if she is as good as she looks in the photos?

[TSmithers24]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

I wrote this in here several years ago. Some found it useful. Good luck!

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post5394453

And if you scroll up from there you will see some good responses with advice as well.

[DarkClouds]

I couldn't resist posting this evergreen song, on topic.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozv4q2ov3Mk

Set clear boundaries, stick to them. Set clear expectations. Don't catch feelings or get attached.

[Chudakkad]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

Steer clear of scammers, be direct, be clear and treat them with respect! As other have said never ever transfer money in advance.

[Tommy13]

The second girl is Not DTF FYI. I just wasted 2 hour chatting her up. She clearly has no idea what Seeking is used for.

That's interesting was this something where you met her in person or was this over text? I've been talking to her a few days now and she's been pretty explicit.

[Tommy13]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

Set clear boundaries, stick to them. Set clear expectations. Don't catch feelings or get attached.

[Hawg219]

Chatting up these two and they seem promising.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...c-12644d85a03b

I have always wondered is this the Sammy we know from STG?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...6-edfe1325f860

This one seems pretty down so far, planning to meet soon.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...8-e5abfde48f64

This one immediately hit me with sob stories about her sick kid and missing a car payment etc. etc. etc.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-5840f9aaf841

This one is a legit kinkster and pretty nice. But when she shared her photos. I just do not find her attractive so I will not pursue but maybe she's for you?

The second girl is Not DTF FYI. I just wasted 2 hour chatting her up. She clearly has no idea what Seeking is used for.

[Yuk Phu]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.

Read everything and learn. First rule is don't send money.

[Geroge]

Hey everyone! New SD here. I was wondering if anyone had any sort of advice for someone who is new to this kind of thing.