Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Member #6108]

Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.

Mydick is telling me its not a scam. My mind has been telling me for 3 years to find the gems an don't waste time on goldiggers. Sun morningI met one of my 25 YO regulars. She was wearing short short red pants up to her crotch an sleevless white tee. Slim tall an fit. About an hour later my dick told me. "Ron this is no scam" got to believe my dick on this one. Just my 2 cents.

[DeadLiftSpray]

You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.

Ok good tip, it finally caught up to me because I do this all the time.

[BlueFox141]

You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.

So. Are you saying that we shouldn't talk to a girl who wouldn't be think of walking the streets or putting an ad on Erotic Monkey like we would a common SW? Hmmmmmm. Interesting idea. LOL.

Blue.

[MyHobby]

I'm convinced that I only get banned based off the reports. Because I took one chick to text and she says how much per meeting and I said" $100 for head and $150 for sex" and she said goodbye, blocked me on the site and I was gone like an hour ago. So idk.

You're being ham handed. 95% of the girls on that site won't respond to a solicitation like that. For the most part, they like to believe that they aren't selling themselves for cash. There is a game they need to play to have them feel comfortable. I've never been banned but I take all discussions to text and never throw out the first offer. If they ask what my offer is I engage them in a conversation about my flexibility in that regard and get them talking about what they might find acceptable while trying to keep it open for conversation at a first meet.

[DeadLiftSpray]

You good to go, assuming you change obvious ones like phone and email. What did you do to get banned?

I'm convinced that I only get banned based off the reports. Because I took one chick to text and she says how much per meeting and I said" $100 for head and $150 for sex" and she said goodbye, blocked me on the site and I was gone like an hour ago. So idk.

[DWinthrop]

Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.

LOL, I have F*cked over 30 18 yo girls off seeking in the last year, that's just the 18 yos. It's not a scam, you're just doing it wrong. You need to get them off the site and onto text as soon as possible. Then you can say whatever you want.

Sure they have banned me. I file a complaint, threaten to dispute the charge and get a refund plus a permanent ban. So I make a new account and get 45 days for the price of 30.

If you want to turn out 18-21 year old high school and college girls it's the only game in town.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Guys, I know alot of you won't like what I'm about to say.

But Seeking is a scam.

Yes, OF COURSE, alot of you has had success with dating on the site. I get that. But they are a scam. They posted record profits from robbing guys like you and me with membership.

They get you to sign up and when you pay and message a few girls and ask if they would be willing to meet for drinks or dinner, SA bans you for "soliciting" and refuses to refund your money.

I NEVER asked any girl for Sex. I even specifically said I wanted to meet and get to know you.

SO either seeking is a scam, or these girls are reporting guys with lies once you don't seem like the type who will send them money to "go shopping" as quite a few asked me to send them money through paypal, of which I blocked and reported them.

I can only think that this site is taking advantage of men looking to meet girls.

This site is a scam guys. We should try something else.

There are plenty of us here who've had great dates and got what we wanted. Repeatedly!

It's another source for mining gems. You win some, you lose some.

Know the game before you play and do your homework from prior posts before you post.

BMD.

[TopGun9]

https://www.seeking.com/member/89188...0-7c4ca4c2e2e0

https://www.seeking.com/member/17cd6...1-fce58d13e770

I've been chatting this one up for well over a month. Told me everything I wanted to hear. BBFS, bbbjcimnqns, 150 every meet.

I'm thinking I've struck gold. Set a date and just before she sends me pics from a hospital bed.

Meet gets delayed and delayed because of supposed health issues. Finally, she's better and healthy and having money troubles cause of copays. Wants to meet.

Asks, could we go over specifics. I send over screen shots of what she has agreed too. Nope, none of that works now. Things change.

I just block her. No point wasting anymore time and effort on this one.

She's been on the site for almost 2 years. She's a seasoned PRO at the sugar games by now.

[JustLooking30]

Just wondering if anyone has tried the site secret benefits. I have noticed a few girls on there that are on wyp & sa. Thinking of giving it a try.

In terms of numbers, both real and fake profiles, reach, UI, and ease of use. Seeking is really the only choice. They have cornered the market and the others just don't have the saturation in the CT area.

[BoredinCT12]

Just wondering if anyone has tried the site secret benefits. I have noticed a few girls on there that are on wyp & sa. Thinking of giving it a try.

[JustLooking30]

https://www.seeking.com/member/89188...0-7c4ca4c2e2e0

https://www.seeking.com/member/17cd6...1-fce58d13e770

I've been chatting this one up for well over a month. Told me everything I wanted to hear. BBFS, bbbjcimnqns, 150 every meet.

I'm thinking I've struck gold. Set a date and just before she sends me pics from a hospital bed.

Meet gets delayed and delayed because of supposed health issues. Finally, she's better and healthy and having money troubles cause of copays. Wants to meet.

Asks, could we go over specifics. I send over screen shots of what she has agreed too. Nope, none of that works now. Things change.

I just block her. No point wasting anymore time and effort on this one.

[DeadLiftSpray]

I personally use Express VPN. Its alittle easier because you can just change your location. When I signed up, I also included fake names and a fake address. Could be anywhere. I used an old address of a friend in Virginia.

Also, I bought a regular Visa Gift Card off Amazon. $100 gift card is all you need.

I was actually banned a long time ago from SA when I first signed up and didn't really know what I was doing. Some of the girls are spiteful. When you talk then down or tell them hell no you won't pay $500 for pussy they turn around and spitefully report you to SA as soliciting.

So when something doesn't work out with a girl on there, and I feel she was trying to scam me, I instantly report her for whatever I suspected the scam was. I used to be reluctant to do it, because I told myself nothing would happen, but it works. They get banned too if enough people report them. How do I know? You see the same girl come back who been on the site since 2015, and she is now a "New" member that started a few days ago! LOL!

So I used to not want to report them, but these girls have no problem reporting you. So report them as well. Especially if you feel she is trying to scam you. What happened to you mate, is that probably a few spiteful girls reported you because they were mad you gave them the hell no.

LOL thanks, this is great. I think I'm going to wait a little while and the re. Up on it. I had a face picture up, so would a new face picture be fine? Learnt my lesson, going to take it to the hushed app phone number as soon as possible. .

-VPN (new browser too).

- Visa Gift Card.

- New name and address.

- New username of course.

I would like to sign up in the next few weeks again, it is prime time since school is starting. .

[Buck Cock]

When you talk then down or tell them hell no you won't pay $500 for pussy they turn around and spitefully report you to SA as soliciting.

You could have avoided this all together by not talking about arrangements on the site in it's messenger. I do Negotiations face to face period, with maybe some preliminaries in text. Absolutely no talk of money or sex in that sites messenger. By doing so I have avoided catfishers, those trying to sell videos, premium snap chat BS and send me money for whatever nonsense scammers alike. All of them never want to meet. No meet, no money.

[Member #6108]

Posts on both plus 2 others. WRP EliLilmama23 Bored Sun an so was she Went to Middletown for lunch at Orourkes Headed south to Haddam to a neat place she knew right on Ct river.

Spread a blanket she had brought. Totally private except if someone came by boat. Had brought some wine coolers. It was unusual, relaxed an totally fun. This was the fourth place I had ever gone to enjoy the outdoors. All of them suggested by others. Cape Cod wildlife preserve in Mashpee. Sand dunes on a deserted remote Hawaii beach, Hiking trail NW hills of Ct. All in all a good time.

Ended up at an outdoor reast on the Ct river in Old Saybrook next to the bridge for some lobster. I also had Jr exercised on the way back up Rt 9 on the way home manually. I paid double what I usually give her. Not the kind of day I expected.

[DeadLiftSpray]

What site? If it's seeking, just created a free account to double check the ban doesn't apply to your MAC address.

Then create a different username, diff DOB, use an alias. Vanilla gift cards that have been register with a CT zip code work. Has to be registered tho. Use completely different pics from before.

Yeah, SA. So just create a new account on the same browser and let it sit for a few weeks and see what happens? And then if nothing happens do that, and then if something happens probably would need VPN?

Thanks.