Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[BigBoss203]

It seems I did not put a link to her profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9eb45...c-c07aedaa8b5f

Enjoy! Fun young girl, shy at first but wild once she is opened.

[Woody50]

One world of advice. Be careful on rawdog. Don't trust them on birth control. I am going through a little issue. Think I am safe but this incident pulling me towards vasectomy.

Hope it works out OK for you!

Nowadays, I'm careful, with DNA tests easily available. In my youth, I was in an profession that allowed me many, many free favors. A few years ago, my mother wanted me to take an Ancestry DNA test. I constantly get emails telling me I've got a new match, all of which so far have ben 3-4th cousins. I'm always wondering if I'll open an email and it'll be a son or daughter.

Let's hope none of us end up on Springer!

[TopGun9]

One world of advice. Be careful on rawdog. Don't trust them on birth control. I am going through a little issue. Think I am safe but this incident pulling me towards vasectomy.

Damn dude, that's not good. Hope everything works out OK.

[Steve 99]

I've used the site since it began in like 2008. Probably met FS about 50. Could write a book about it. Bottom line is that after a couple times you realize that ALL of them are not worth more than 200 per meet. There is No correlation between $ and quality. I've seen ones that come over and spend 4 hours and never ask for money. I've seen ones that ask for 500 ppm. I actually flew one from LA one time, never asked for anything. I bought her a laptop anyways for one of the best times of my life. Bottom line is we should not get in a bidding wars. My current stock is 160,180, 200. The 200 girl never asked for money. I've seen her twice and will see her again.

Right now the site is a cesspool. The Winnie the poo guy is right. Takes a lot of work. I have to ask how many of you guys are offering to pay for ONLINE or PLATONIC. Or 500 ppm? It is all BS.

Just had to plus one this. So true. It does depend on location as NYC different than lets say Bridgeport. But the general principle couldn't agree more.

Had a real gem this Fall. I went 6-8 weeks with her once a weekend type thing. Record for me. Faded and back to drawing board. Though an old flame texted me yesterday. Perfect timing. Then she doesn't text back. Oh the SA flakeiness. One world of advice. Be careful on rawdog. Don't trust them on birth control. I am going through a little issue. Think I am safe but this incident pulling me towards vasectomy.

[Tribeca67]

You are correct. Also, some girls just get cold feet about arrangements or the virus is worrying them and they don't want to meet. Then, once you get them off the site to texting, they often ghost there too.

Bottom line is, spend your time messaging people that look interesting, talk to the ones interested in you, don't stress over the ones that don't respond or stop responding otherwise you will drive yourself crazy since those are 90% of the girls there.

Spot on. There are more ghosts on seeking then a haunted house. What you said, then you have to factor in scammers, and time wasters. It does take time and effort but if one is patient you'll be happy. That's why once you get them off seeking and to text, ask when are they available for a meet and greet. That's how you'll know if their serious. Don't forget that these girls are also getting flooded with messages!

[Stickman55]

You are correct. Also, some girls just get cold feet about arrangements or the virus is worrying them and they don't want to meet. Then, once you get them off the site to texting, they often ghost there too.

Bottom line is, spend your time messaging people that look interesting, talk to the ones interested in you, don't stress over the ones that don't respond or stop responding otherwise you will drive yourself crazy since those are 90% of the girls there.

Thanks for the clarification. That's what thought. You need a part time admin to do the tedious, time consuming back and forth. I don't have time myself and don't see the payoff in the grand scheme of things.

[XxMarkXx]

So if they haven't logged in lately it likely means they have already collected enough Seeker contacts or decided SA wasn't for them because they weren't getting the high roller offers they thought they would get. From the Seeker perspective, you can message someone all you want, but if they don't log in and read them its a dead end

You are correct. Also, some girls just get cold feet about arrangements or the virus is worrying them and they don't want to meet. Then, once you get them off the site to texting, they often ghost there too.

Bottom line is, spend your time messaging people that look interesting, talk to the ones interested in you, don't stress over the ones that don't respond or stop responding otherwise you will drive yourself crazy since those are 90% of the girls there.

[Stickman55]

I assume that it means last time they logged into the site. It could be mote detailed than that, but I expect its simply their last login.

So if they haven't logged in lately it likely means they have already collected enough Seeker contacts or decided SA wasn't for them because they weren't getting the high roller offers they thought they would get. From the Seeker perspective, you can message someone all you want, but if they don't log in and read them its a dead end

[XxMarkXx]

I don't have a premium acct so I can only peruse the offerings. What does the Active status mean? Does that tell you the last time they were last logged in and responding to messages? So if someone was last Active 2 weeks ago is it an indication that they not using it to engage with anyone right now?

I assume that it means last time they logged into the site. It could be mote detailed than that, but I expect its simply their last login.

[Stickman55]

I don't have a premium acct so I can only peruse the offerings. What does the Active status mean? Does that tell you the last time they were last logged in and responding to messages? So if someone was last Active 2 weeks ago is it an indication that they not using it to engage with anyone right now?

[BlueFox141]

Agree on the quality of girls on SA lately. Thing I've noticed nowadays is that most of the girls are only looking to be with 1 guy (good for them, bad for us). It's pretty annoying if you ask me. I have a couple of girls that I was willing to share, but I noticed they either deactivated their profile or haven't logged on in a while. And I'm definitely not handing out numbers through this board anymore. The gems are definitely there. Just have to be patient and put a little effort.

SA has gotten more challenging in the past ew weeks, for sure. I am hoping to go to a Convention in Boca Raton in April and have got about 10 young ladies]'s digits and a few reasonable prices. I will message the others as the date gets closer and try to negotiate down some of the higher prices. I even have a possible duet. This makes it worth it or me for this month. I've had a few that looked very promising, fall apart at the last minute. Is it worth the price? It' takes work weeding the scammers out efficiently. It takes organization to juggle a couple of dozen Usernames, real names, what they told you, what you told them, and so on, and so on. On the surface it's hard to say a definite "YES". However, for me there is a certain excitement in the hunt, that reminds me of the Waterbury loop 10+ yeas ago, when you could drive around in search of a real gem, and find one that was good looking, good at what she did, reasonably priced, not on drugs, and LEO was not as interested in us. The streets were filled, and you could pass up as many as you wanted, because your flavor o the night was a blonde spinner and you were probably going to find one, or at least another flavor that suddenly seemed like a much better choice! To quote Archie Bunker "Those were the days!" So, for me, this hunt has a certain appeal. I'm going to continue. It beats picking up a SW that looks okay and get her to your spot, and find out she's too high to get you off, so you throw her a Jackson and drop her off, only to drive around for 45 minutes and find another one! I still hit the loop now and then, but the adrenaline rush is not quite the same as it used to be. While I was typing this I messaged a brand new SA girl and told her that her profile was so scarce of any verbiage, I didn't know whether I should be interested in her, but her profile photo just really caught my attention so I had to message her. I told her she needed to beef up the profile some with what she wanted, and what she didn't want, just to weed out the jerks. She said she already met a few. I told her to be very careful and get a texting app for safety. That, and my age, seems to set them at ease. I gave her my burner # and she has already texted me! RUUSSSHHHHHH!

Blue.

[BigBoss203]

Yeah the forehead looks similar.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ec19d...1-27f9ecb3922c

Is that bareback Becca? Looks like it.

[TopGun9]

There might have been one 24 hour period where I had it in her 6 times.

Whatever pills you're taking, I want some.

[TheWsgMan]

Events like that make good reading. Now I see why you say you could write a book. Anyone who has been doing this for a while will have lots of stories. I do. I've been doing this shit for many years from San Francisco, Montana (closest ***** house was in Wallace, Idaho, an old Silver Mining town), Nebraska and Connecticut. One event that I had last winter was with a well known New Haven STG girl. After the session, I was exiting the apt on the ground floor of a two family. She was still naked as she walked me to the back door. As I exited, I pulled the door closed with her standing next to me. She had stepped out to check something. The door self locked and she was locked out of her place in the middle of the day, buck naked on a residential street in W Haven. I tried the credit card on the lock latch trick but it was dead bolt. We walked to FRONT of the building to try the front door but it was locked. I ran to my car and grabbed a fleece jacket to throw on her as we paraded around the building trying the windows. Luckily one was not locked and in she went. On a subsequent visit we both had a good laugh about it.

At least that did not happen at your place. Yeah it would make for a good read, even if I kept it truthful non fiction.

Each of these is a chapter:

1. The awkward Redhead college girl with glasses who locked herself out of her car in my driveway.

2. The married Swiss blonde who flew to New York City to meet and thought Root Beer was an alcoholic drink.

3. The West Hartford suburban housewife of a wealthy fat businessman she loathed, who begged me to let her keep going on top. She played hooker in a hotel.

4. The college girl who wanted a parachute for skydiving and insisted on round 2 after dinner, asking me to make her her 'b*tch" and pull on her hair doggy style. As she left she asked for gas money at least and I said, darling you just got a steak dinner and two good f*cks, I think that is plenty, and she left with a wry smile semi in agreement.

Etc.

SA is still a useful site considering the world we live in. It got harder to use as it gained popularity. Add in Sesta-Fosta and people using it more for escort type activities, and then factor in the emergence of Smartphones and people who have the attention spans of 2 year olds that last 15 seconds.

Now of the 10 percent of the profiles worth pursuing so many want to engage in serial 500 ppm. Hoping to reel in one desperate sucker after another. The rare smart ones will find a few reliable guys and recognize a bird in the hand is worth two in the Bush and meet for much less. Also fewer of the girls care now about attraction, just looking for a quick buck. Before it devolved into more of a prositut site quid pro quo, you could count on your good looks more and any game you had.

Classic example was the tall Taylor girl from the Hartord area circa 2014-2016, she'd text out of the blue and promptly come over and spend a raucus hour with me for 140. Sometimes she chided me for being cheap, saying "you know I get offers for 500" and I replied "yeah well how is that working out for you?" her answer was not so well, she'd drive a long way to some guys house, find them drunk and with not much money.

It's pretty difficult to start at 140 nowadays, but I draw the line at 240 for a first meet and try to work it down to 180-200 regular. Once in a while 300 first meet, if I am convinced it will be a long afternoon or evening. Usually in that case, a separate public meet and greet is in order, and I have had them text me pictures afterwards of how wet they are and you build into it. Works, worked for me. After the first regular FS meet it goes to 200 or there is no second meet.

[Tribeca67]

I've used the site since it began in like 2008. Probably met FS about 50. Could write a book about it. Bottom line is that after a couple times you realize that ALL of them are not worth more than 200 per meet. There is No correlation between $ and quality. I've seen ones that come over and spend 4 hours and never ask for money. I've seen ones that ask for 500 ppm. I actually flew one from LA one time, never asked for anything. I bought her a laptop anyways for one of the best times of my life. Bottom line is we should not get in a bidding wars. My current stock is 160,180, 200. The 200 girl never asked for money. I've seen her twice and will see her again.

Right now the site is a cesspool. The Winnie the poo guy is right. Takes a lot of work. I have to ask how many of you guys are offering to pay for ONLINE or PLATONIC. Or 500 ppm? It is all BS.

I concur about no correlation between $ and quality! I saw clean girls last year for 100 to 200 and had a blast. I never go over 400 as there is no reason to. There might be some exceptions but I noticed that all the girls that ask for 500 or more are miserable and have a terrible personality. If I'm paying 500 or more, the girl is definitely bringing a friend LOL.