Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Stickman55** · 02-12-21 12:14

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Its funny how people put a spin on words to prove something completely inaccurate.

I don't need to spin anything to prove a point. I've laid out facts, as I've experienced them, and opinions, that's all. And frankly, the dissatisfied posts on this forum do more than enough to support my opinion. I was simply offering an opinion about spending money on these paywall sugar baby sites. If you support using them, then so be it. I'm sure Brandon Wade, the founder and CEO of SA, had you in mind when he created his business plan and is now smiling all the way to the bank.

**Chudakkad** · 02-12-21 05:14

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

"The simple point is that just because they are on STG does not automatically put them in a category of appearance, intelligence and performance that is any different than SA or other sugar baby sites. The ones I've found on STG are ones that don't post continuosly (or maybe only did a few times) and are as good as any of the REAL looking ones on SA . And frankly I can see what's on SA and it doesn't provide a reference point for anything that I need to use in my decision making.

Its funny how people put a spin on words to prove something completely inaccurate.

**Chudakkad** · 02-10-21 14:21

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Actually, yes. That's the whole point. You want to avoid the ones that post on STG. That's a completely other species that looks at the entire interaction in a very commercial manner. If you haven't been with a non-STG type, then you don't have a reference point for comparison. Again, if you're happy with STG, then you're good. But sometimes you don't know what you're missing until you experience it. Finally, this would not be the right time to join. I would wait until the end of the pandemic.

I agree, due to pandemic, this is not the right time to join.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 02-10-21 13:52

Originally Posted by Sutigel2 [View Original Post]

So I'm in the mood to see someone new from SA and I have the time to do it in the next couple weeks. Grabbed my burner and went through the numbers of some girls I was chatting with but never sealed the deal because of work issues caused by the pandemic. (Many people have more free time, I have had less). Anyway, I hit up an early thirties woman who has a great body. Former hooters girl, tilted kilt, etc. We had been talking about getting together in November. She seemed nice. She seemed willing. We just couldn't make it happen. Well, no response. I went on her Facebook, no recent updates that I could see. I go to her SA profile. Hadn't logged on in two months. I then google her name. One of the first results is from the state bureau of prisons. A person with the same name, age, and location is currently incarcerated. Another article revealed a woman of the same name, age, and location being arrested with cocaine drug paraphernalia while driving a luxury automobile. Needless to say, I guess I won't be seeing her anytime in the near future.

For the thrill of of it, you could help her bust out then have fugitive sex, like George Costanza. 🙂.

**Sutigel2** · 02-10-21 12:56

So I'm in the mood to see someone new from SA and I have the time to do it in the next couple weeks. Grabbed my burner and went through the numbers of some girls I was chatting with but never sealed the deal because of work issues caused by the pandemic. (Many people have more free time, I have had less). Anyway, I hit up an early thirties woman who has a great body. Former hooters girl, tilted kilt, etc. We had been talking about getting together in November. She seemed nice. She seemed willing. We just couldn't make it happen. Well, no response. I went on her Facebook, no recent updates that I could see. I go to her SA profile. Hadn't logged on in two months. I then google her name. One of the first results is from the state bureau of prisons. A person with the same name, age, and location is currently incarcerated. Another article revealed a woman of the same name, age, and location being arrested with cocaine drug paraphernalia while driving a luxury automobile. Needless to say, I guess I won't be seeing her anytime in the near future.

**BlueFox141** · 02-10-21 01:58

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

Just to correct you assumptions, I have seen 3 or 4 over the past 3 years or so and I currently see one on a regular basis. Where did I find her and the others? On Backpage and STG of all places, not SA. Gee, who would have thought! Are they less than desirable? Not at all. They happened to have done little posting on both sites, and I caught them at the right time and right price. As you well know, some of the worst on STG try their hand at SA. But there are also some newcomers that are good that try SA after STG (or BP in the old days) thinking they might do better. They usually don't. And if you made the connection before their dreams on SA went unfilled, you've got a good find.

Look, to end this discussion, I certainly understand the thrill of the hunt and what SA has to offer for that. That just doesn't do anything for me when it comes to paying for sex. I have my limits on price and effort and obviously others are different in those respects.

I think you make some excellent points and like you said, some like the thrill of the hunt. I think that was a very good ending to the discussion, theoretically.

Blue.

**Stickman55** · 02-10-21 00:20

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

Actually, yes. That's the whole point. You want to avoid the ones that post on STG. That's a completely other species that looks at the entire interaction in a very commercial manner. If you haven't been with a non-STG type, then you don't have a reference point for comparison. Again, if you're happy with STG, then you're good. But sometimes you don't know what you're missing until you experience it. Finally, this would not be the right time to join. I would wait until the end of the pandemic.

I know it's double negative so maybe my point eluded you. If you are going to quote me to support your point of view, at least do me the courtesy of including the full quote. Here it is:

"Are they less than desirable? Not at all. " You left out the important part "Not at all".

Read what I said please. The simple point is that just because they are on STG does not automatically put them in a category of appearance, intelligence and performance that is any different than SA or other sugar baby sites. The ones I've found on STG are ones that don't post continuosly (or maybe only did a few times) and are as good as any of the REAL looking ones on SA . And frankly I can see what's on SA and it doesn't provide a reference point for anything that I need to use in my decision making. Thanks anyway, but I wasn't looking for advice when I started my opinion piece about SA. I've been buying sex (yeah that's what you're doing no matter what the website says it's for) for more years than I care to admit, from West Coast to East with a few states in between so I know what works for me.

**DarkClouds** · 02-09-21 17:21

Actually, yes. That's the whole point. You want to avoid the ones that post on STG. That's a completely other species that looks at the entire interaction in a very commercial manner. If you haven't been with a non-STG type, then you don't have a reference point for comparison. Again, if you're happy with STG, then you're good. But sometimes you don't know what you're missing until you experience it. Finally, this would not be the right time to join. I would wait until the end of the pandemic.

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

Are they less than desirable?

**Stickman55** · 02-09-21 16:43

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

I don't think you ever met anyone from SA, I know its lot of work but in my opinion its worth it.

Just to correct you assumptions, I have seen 3 or 4 over the past 3 years or so and I currently see one on a regular basis. Where did I find her and the others? On Backpage and STG of all places, not SA. Gee, who would have thought! Are they less than desirable? Not at all. They happened to have done little posting on both sites, and I caught them at the right time and right price. As you well know, some of the worst on STG try their hand at SA. But there are also some newcomers that are good that try SA after STG (or BP in the old days) thinking they might do better. They usually don't. And if you made the connection before their dreams on SA went unfilled, you've got a good find.

Look, to end this discussion, I certainly understand the thrill of the hunt and what SA has to offer for that. That just doesn't do anything for me when it comes to paying for sex. I have my limits on price and effort and obviously others are different in those respects.

**Buck Cock** · 02-09-21 16:30

Originally Posted by BlueFox141 [View Original Post]

This one has only been on a day or two. She sounds really promising, but can't meet right now. I messaged her and she acted very interested in meeting me and suggested an online arrangement until April when her online classes were over. I suggested we text and get to know one another until then. I was blocked immediately. I didn't think she would get back to me that quickly, but luckily I had her profile up on my phone and got a screen shot. Timewaster.

Blue.

She blocked you because the profile is fake. That's a picture of Beth Spiby.

**Chudakkad** · 02-09-21 14:06

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

Exactly! Invest those $15 is Doge coin.

Bit coin is better.

**Chudakkad** · 02-09-21 14:06

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

First of all, I said nothing about Out of State people. CT alone has enough competition for those that are actually a possible roll in the hay. So you're in a big customer pool already even in this small state. Also 75% of what you read on here are accounts of time wasted with dead ends. If that's what you want to with your time go for it. Frankly we've all found some cheap dates even on STG with nothing more than a few texts that I myself was amazed about after. Has that happened often. Of course not. But in the end I'd rather do other things with my time than endless back and worth with the click bait on these sugar baby sites. Some find that fulfilling. I dont.
Also, you wait for this Sale to save a whopping $15 so you can go after girls that many here say want $200 - $300!

I don't think you ever met anyone from SA, I know its lot of work but in my opinion its worth it.

**Ace Walker** · 02-09-21 11:03

This one was quite funny. I "offered" her $200 just to see her private pics.

A Little Bit About Myself.

I'm here to meet someone to please / satisfy as long as I'm happy. I'm need a man to help me lease a car since I don't have a man to do so with me. I need help with a down payment. I get what I want and hopefully drive to get dinner and a hotel to celebrate. I'm very discreet if need be. I do NOT like drama. I'm very intelligent and a very dominant young women. I love a man about his business and knows how to make a women happy to get what he wants. I'm funny and love watching movies. If you are not about your money then don't bother. I'm willing to even accept a loan and to sign a promissory not stating I'll pay back the loan every month and sign. Yes I'm read and I do have social media. You wouldn't want a pretty young lady like me walking anymore right daddy?

My Ideal First Date.

Get right I business and even meet me at a dealership to get me where I need to be and back to dinner and a hotel to celebrate how good I look driving.

**BigBoss203** · 02-08-21 22:59

Originally Posted by Stickman55 [View Original Post]

First of all, I said nothing about Out of State people. CT alone has enough competition for those that are actually a possible roll in the hay. So you're in a big customer pool already even in this small state. Also 75% of what you read on here are accounts of time wasted with dead ends. If that's what you want to with your time go for it. Frankly we've all found some cheap dates even on STG with nothing more than a few texts that I myself was amazed about after. Has that happened often. Of course not. But in the end I'd rather do other things with my time than endless back and worth with the click bait on these sugar baby sites. Some find that fulfilling. I dont.
Also, you wait for this Sale to save a whopping $15 so you can go after girls that many here say want $200 - $300!

Exactly! Invest those $15 is Doge coin.

**Stickman55** · 02-08-21 21:16

Originally Posted by Chudakkad [View Original Post]

Who cares about out of state people chasing them and there is no exclusivity but if you get lucky once in a while then it is worth it.

First of all, I said nothing about Out of State people. CT alone has enough competition for those that are actually a possible roll in the hay. So you're in a big customer pool already even in this small state. Also 75% of what you read on here are accounts of time wasted with dead ends. If that's what you want to with your time go for it. Frankly we've all found some cheap dates even on STG with nothing more than a few texts that I myself was amazed about after. Has that happened often. Of course not. But in the end I'd rather do other things with my time than endless back and worth with the click bait on these sugar baby sites. Some find that fulfilling. I dont.
Also, you wait for this Sale to save a whopping $15 so you can go after girls that many here say want $200 - $300!