Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Big Mac Daddy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7a472...d-f4238fe0894e

Messaged me this morning:

"How are you? You look interesting, can we get to know each other better? I rarely use this software, This is my WhatsApp+852 6534 5547".

HongKong number. Go figure.

I saw your link, visited her, and in less than an hour, she messaged me without viewing my profile. Spammer / scammer. I'm in no mood to tell her about my coming vacation in Hong Kong. LOL.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Another issue I have with the site design is they allow users to Favorite and Send and Read messages WITHOUT viewing your profile. Yes I know there is an option for premium members to suppress that, but most SBs are not premium. The first thing I check is whether or not they have viewed my profile and when last, if not I consider them spam / scam most likely.

Also I hate the time wasters, asking to see my pictures, then later reading my reply back, but never actually viewing my profile or pictures.

That's correct. I noticed and wrote about that here 1 or 2 years ago. Why is someone favoriting me without viewing my profile? I learned fast that those were the bs scammers. I still have points to burn on WYP but I'm in no rush. As for SA, I'll sign up when I start seeing more legit newbies joining this Fall or Winter.

BMD.

[Chudakkad]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7a472...d-f4238fe0894e

Messaged me this morning:

"How are you? You look interesting, can we get to know each other better? I rarely use this software, This is my WhatsApp+852 6534 5547".

HongKong number. Go figure.

[BBFreak]

Seems STG & SA are getting indistinguishable.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e722...c-909c4a5637a6

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3214...4-b80fab7440e7

https://www.seeking.com/member/4884c...8-9ea85521a777

I bet all these profiles were created by the same pimp.

[Bbctrev]

Seems STG & SA are getting indistinguishable.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7e722...c-909c4a5637a6

https://www.seeking.com/member/a3214...4-b80fab7440e7

https://www.seeking.com/member/4884c...8-9ea85521a777

Who is the one in the third link? I don't recognize the face.

[JustLooking30]

Another issue I have with the site design is they allow users to Favorite and Send and Read messages WITHOUT viewing your profile. Yes I know there is an option for premium members to suppress that, but most SBs are not premium. The first thing I check is whether or not they have viewed my profile and when last, if not I consider them spam / scam most likely.

Also I hate the time wasters, asking to see my pictures, then later reading my reply back, but never actually viewing my profile or pictures.

Yes, but the caveat being you can msg without any limits. Secretbenefits you pay with tokens. 10 to read a message, 10 to Boost it, 10 to get a read receipt. Total scam.

[TheWsgMan]

Yeah, I've seen that too with other countries in the past. Not surprised. Seeking's 25% off promotion is useless when they don't, or can't, clean out the trash.

They should have women who join kick in a fee just as guys do. Maybe that would reduce the number of scammers and spammers.

BMD.

Another issue I have with the site design is they allow users to Favorite and Send and Read messages WITHOUT viewing your profile. Yes I know there is an option for premium members to suppress that, but most SBs are not premium. The first thing I check is whether or not they have viewed my profile and when last, if not I consider them spam / scam most likely.

Also I hate the time wasters, asking to see my pictures, then later reading my reply back, but never actually viewing my profile or pictures.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Was logged in from NIgeria once, must have forgot to use the VPN.

Yeah, I've seen that too with other countries in the past. Not surprised. Seeking's 25% off promotion is useless when they don't, or can't, clean out the trash.

They should have women who join kick in a fee just as guys do. Maybe that would reduce the number of scammers and spammers.

BMD.

[TheWsgMan]

I looked at her site and moved on. She is watching who views her profile because an hour later she messaged me. I didn't renew so I can't read her message away and don't care. Too many spammers, scammers, and marketeers.

BMD.

Was logged in from NIgeria once, must have forgot to use the VPN.

[Big Mac Daddy]

I like this line.

So tired of all the mental defective head cases. "Ain't nobody got time fo' that"!

https://youtu.be/zGxwbhkDjZM

BMD.

[Chudakkad]

Say, "Ok but what's your biological status and were you born that way"?

I'm sure you'll get snowflake radio silence.

I like this line.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Just opened a WYP account. Has anyone had any luck with it? Anyone have any horror stories to talk about? Please respond or send me a PM. BMD I'd be interested to hear your overall thoughts.

Both used to be good 2-4 years ago when there was a lot less spam and scam. You can try seeking for 30 days to gather info after filtering out the crap.

I found there are very few new members within 20 miles of Htfd. Each site allows you to find new, rather than recently online, members. There are girls who've been there for 5-10 years. Professional daters and hookers. So, for my needs it's not worth the effort but it can change by Fall or Winter. You'll need to read through the experiences of others here, too, and there are plenty of great tips.

BMD.

[Big Mac Daddy]

She / he wants to meet right away, this is always a Red flag.

Say, "Ok but what's your biological status and were you born that way"?

I'm sure you'll get snowflake radio silence.

[Chudakkad]

That's dude.

She / he wants to meet right away, this is always a Red flag.

[Chudakkad]

It could be. Likewise, spammer guys using female model pics is common.

1, This one claims to be an MD at 24 years old.

2, Doesn't own a razor to shave his / her legs.

3, Looks like there are chest scars from a surgery.

Either way, it's a bs profile.

BMD.

Thanks BMD and Myhobby!