Sugar Daddy & Other Related Websites

**Chulit0** · 03-11-21 03:57

Originally Posted by PaytoPlay [View Original Post]

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901...4-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.

Damn she is sexy, kind of worth the potential "risk" don't you think? You are correct on the warning signs you peeped so far. The "red flags" I saw upon looking at her profile is how she is a very new member which is something I am not too fond of (even though I just joined SA). As I personally at least want to see that the girl I am talking too has been on SA for either a couple of months which kin of makes me feel more comfy. Second and last red flag I see is how the individual sexy pics of her self are a whole different vibe, style, and quality from the ones on the SA profile link.

Let us know on what you decide man & check PMs because I pmd you.

**Chulit0** · 03-11-21 03:23

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

Congrats man! I think this is pretty awesome considering that this is my goal on SA. I say just go for it dude! Like someone else replied to you, just make sure to be transparent and honest. If you guys are really straightforward about what you guys want from this, there is not much that could go wrong. I really want to make things official like you once I find the right gal ofc. Also fuck what others say bc we all know the girls on SA are way sexier and more fun that the girls at the grocery story, kuddos to you even though I am kinda jealous LOL.

**FarFarAway** · 03-11-21 02:56

I've done 2 M&Gs with my new crop of POTs. The first was absolutely a stunner, but she turned down my offer of an exclusive at 2 K / mo. I am trying to 'refer' her to someone who can afford her.

Today, I met a 23 YO brainiac, petite and pretty, we had a great connection by phone. She was on her way to grad school but the pandemic killed that so she's living at home this year. She says 'open relationship' but declines to say anything at all about it. She told me her mother suggested she join SA. My suspicion is that she's got a GF. She went on about how much she liked to get oral. Great initial meeting, nearly 2 hours, publicly at a coffee place, privately in my nearby car. We made out a bit and are heading to the FC Friday morning, she gets the room so I have no risk.

**HelloYouAre** · 03-10-21 23:39

Originally Posted by PaytoPlay [View Original Post]

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901...4-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.

I got a message from this one too. We moved pretty quickly and I asked for a selfie, "She" sent me the same pics. I called her out on her pics not showing her face and she said she's being private since she was recognized by a friend of her dads. She got kicked out for being on this site, blah blah. That she promised she's the one in the pics. Gave me a scam vibe or even sting? She wanted to meet up right there and then. Good spot man. Keep them coming.

**Dudeonthecouch** · 03-10-21 22:57

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

I've done it 5 times so far. It never works in the end. Benefit is arrangements stop. However, they will look at you the same. I'm still seeing one now. I see the end coming. It's best not invest much emotionally in girls on SA. Best way to avoid this happening is keeping seeing other girls.

They ask you to be exclusive while still having other sugar daddy's. There are no angels on that website.

**RogerOver** · 03-10-21 21:01

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

I'd advise against it. I've had girls that have sort of naturally moved into a non-transactional relationship, but it never really works out. I urge you to remember you met this girl when she was selling her cooter for cash. She's a hooker at heart, and I don't see it as any different than marrying / girlfriending a regular escort.

Not picking on the girls. I pay for pussy, so that says all they need to know about my character too. If you want an organic relationship, go hit a grocery store and meet your future sweetheart squeezing the melons.

**The Ass Man** · 03-10-21 20:47

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

Be honest and transparent about it, demand the same from her and be prepared for insecurities to arise from it.

If you haven't been honest about everything to up to this point you're going to have to reset that bar.

Good luck.

**RyanE36** · 03-10-21 20:35

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

I have no tips or advice. But one girl I was chatting with for a while said she signed up because one of her friends got married to someone from the site. Was also talking to another chick who made it pretty clear in her profile and in chatting with her that she was not interested in anything other than a real relationship and was just trying out this site since she hasn't had luck on any of the other more traditional dating sites / apps.

So I suppose it's possible, and people obviously do it.

**Habeed** · 03-10-21 20:04

Originally Posted by Holocaust [View Original Post]

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

I don't think any "natural" relationship exists that is actually "free".

Rich guy with a young hot girlfriend? She wants him to take care of her by paying for everything and potentially making her his next wife.

Young hot guy with a young hot girlfriend? She knows that because he's young and hot (muscular and tall and ripped) he has a long working lifespan remaining, and wants good dna and parental support.

Older women unfortunately have little reproductive value and so they become cheap.

Anyways in my case I have seen sugar relationships reach where she snuggles with me and spends the night, is kind to my pets, lets me cum in her, and her rate drops over time and she stays longer. And we go on dates and watch movies together.

Is this more like a "natural" relationship? You tell me.

**Pay to Play** · 03-10-21 19:19

Often you have to trust your gut. It's the little things that add up to warnings. This one for example:

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea901...4-200b1d447720

She sent the first message. That's unusual and can be sign of a scam or pro girl looking for a higher paying date.

Moves to texting quickly when we start talking money.

Then texting is followed by long delays in her response followed by "hey what's up, want to come over to my place". This is a bigger warning. Bottom line she sends a few photos and man, if one doesn't look familiar from a girl who use to post elsewhere. Can't quite place it but too many warning signs for me. And her pics she sent via text look like a screen shot capture from some other site. A few of her comments in text also sound like a good way to part with cash and not get anything for it.

If anyone has personal experience please share or if someone recognizes the pics. This is where it comes down to experience and your risk adversion in this hobby. No risk you don't ever find the unicorn. But at the same time, that inner voice might keep you out off trouble.

**Holocaust** · 03-10-21 12:20

So I am dating a girl from SA for sometime now and probably thinking about turning it into more serious and natural relationship. I want to understand if this is pretty common and if not what are few of the things we should consider before taking that step.

**Chulit0** · 03-10-21 02:58

Originally Posted by HelloYouAre [View Original Post]

Good for you man! I'm glad you had your fun. I personally only enjoy SB that smoke 420. To me, if they don't smoke 420, they're too uptight for my taste.

Thanks dude. This was first SB experience but I think I want to stick to stoner chicks too down the road.

**Chulit0** · 03-10-21 01:40

Originally Posted by PaytoPlay [View Original Post]

Sometimes can be result of a girl reporting you. I try not to report anyone because people in glass houses don't through stones. But if you say something over the line and reported you will be gone. I believe they randomly audit accounts and look for suspicious activity. Likely they have to show effort to ensure they stay off DOJ radar and not get shut down like BackPage asked many others. I have been banned at least 6 times. Longest account I had lasted a year.

Bottom line is best to stay off radar and take things private as quickly as possible. Also a way to check if she's legit. If they play some game that they don't text, then good possibility they are not looking for a real meetup and just want up keep things online, which I won't waste my time.

Alrighty man I already set up a whole separate TextMe # and snapchat for my potential sugar babies. I feel a lot better knowing what I know now, thanks for your reply.

**Chulit0** · 03-10-21 01:33

Originally Posted by PussyPumper [View Original Post]

SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.

All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.

Oh wow. So either I have not gotten reported yet by a female or I am just having a short streak of beginner's luck. Thank you for informing me bro I really appreciate it. I do feel stupid as I did purchase a long term subscription right off the bat, guess I was too excited when I signed up for SA.

**PussyPumper** · 03-09-21 16:43

Originally Posted by PaytoPlay [View Original Post]

My advice is to never talk money or anything referencing PPM on the site. You will get banned. I have been banned many times. You have to create a new email, use a different credit card and different pics and you loose any subscription you paid for at the time.

SA are very trigger happy. I have been banned multiple times also. Usually they won't even hint as to why. The one time they did say explicitly, they said my very humorous profile for applicants for a "ladies finishing school" was "engaging in commercial activities"! That proved to me that they are completely, utterly brain dead, and are not to be trusted.

All the SA banning brings up the point that purchasing a long-term subscription is way too risky. You can pay hundreds of dollars, and loose it all within a few days or weeks, on the random whim of some idiot at SA.