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[BearD]

Seems like a few new bowl members, so I'll throw in my $0. 02. If you have a good hour or so to spend a day (spread out in 15-20 min increments, so about 3-4 times a day), it's not too hard to find what you're looking for.

Just message who you're interested in, see if you can agree on a ppm (or do that later, up to you but I think it saves time upfront) and meet up.

If you can't agree, then move on. I generally lowball and see if any bite, or if not, then offer a little more but never above my max. I've gotten a fair amount of young (under 30) sbs that way, and kept them in cycle until I got bored or better came along.

Good luck!

[PussyPumper]

Here is my seeking arrangement report. It sucks! It is very time consuming but you do get alot of interest and text if anyone is in to playing the game. I've not even contact 'gorgeous' or extremely hot looking model but regular MILF and everyone of them quote like $500. Is that way too high or what? I know I am supposed to to play the game for a greet and meet but everyone of them have wanted something first or ask for donation amount.

I will give a few weeks and report back but initial outing is very poor!

Cityslicker.

You are playing the game wrong! SA is where to go to find young sugar BABIES, not old hags (AKA MILFs). Contrary to what you might think, that a MILF would be cheaper, in practice it is always the opposite. MILFs are older, with more commitments. They want more money, as you are discovering. The younger models. Students - are cheaper.

[FarFarAway]

Here is my seeking arrangement report. It sucks! It is very time consuming but you do get alot of interest and text if anyone is in to playing the game. I've not even contact 'gorgeous' or extremely hot looking model but regular MILF and everyone of them quote like $500. Is that way too high or what? I know I am supposed to to play the game for a greet and meet but everyone of them have wanted something first or ask for donation amount.

I will give a few weeks and report back but initial outing is very poor!

Cityslicker.

As I advised the OP below, you need to spend a few days immersed in other how-to threads, particularly Richmond VA, to learn how to best play the game. Short answer, you aren't taking the right approach.

[City Slicker]

Here is my seeking arrangement report. It sucks! It is very time consuming but you do get alot of interest and text if anyone is in to playing the game. I've not even contact 'gorgeous' or extremely hot looking model but regular MILF and everyone of them quote like $500. Is that way too high or what? I know I am supposed to to play the game for a greet and meet but everyone of them have wanted something first or ask for donation amount.

I will give a few weeks and report back but initial outing is very poor!

Cityslicker.

[FarFarAway]

Another dumb question: should I upload my photo or just do ppm and forgo the photo?

A little confusion here. Pay per meet is the deal for the girl. There is no such thing as ppm for the site. I am not sure, I don't think a photo is absolutely required to have a profile on seeking.com. You can always put up something that isn't you but is close enough for government work. No risk there. You must pay the full monthly to the site, $90. Alternatively, if you get on the app, you can get a week membership for like $30. A tryout. You cannot message any girls until you pay.

I also recommend an extensive review of the Richmond sugar thread, and especially its archive, on the same page. All your questions (and many you did not ask) will be answered there.

[City Slicker]

Welcome to the Bowl. First off, it is a learning process, is time consuming, can be frustrating if you let it get to you, but the bottom line it is very rewarding when you're reaping the fruits of your effort.

There are some basic tips / rules.

1. Do not forward $ in advance, or buy them a car and she says she will pay you back etc. Or you will learn the hard way. There are all kinds of stories of SD's losing out, even to an SB you "trust". Buyer beware.

2. Do not pay for M&G, this just encourages and perpetuates the problem. We all have something the other side wants. No honey. No money.

3. Do not overpay. Aka GPS. This is obviously subjective and some cities command higher allowances. Two. Three hundred seems acceptable to many sb's for a couple hours of their time. Not many jobs provide that kind of hourly compensation. Do the math. Of course, this is a free country and they can ask for whatever they want, and you can pay whatever you want. Simple market economics. There are a lot of fish out there, and you may not get the one that you "must have" unless you cough up big allowance. Give it a day, there will be other opportunities.

4. Have a rotation of as many sb's as you can handle physically and financially. It's not unheard of having a rotation of 4-5, some drop off for one reason or another, you may have 1 or two that are your #1 or #2 sb with some options that you keep in your harem.

5. There seem to be a lot more pros out there, you will quickly sense which ones. Nothing wrong with pros, I like them.

6. Develop some game.

7. Age is a personal preference. Everyone has what they feel is their sweet spot.

8. Don't let flakiness, no call no show (NCNS), ghosting, bother you. It happens on both sides. Sure it's irritating, write them off and find one that values your time and generosity as much as you value theirs.

9. Married, it's your choice whether to reveal. Some out there don't want to be home wreckers, some don't care, some prefer it, some will be upset if you mislead them.

10. PPM vs monthly? Most of us do ppm, monthly creates a situation where one side feels they get shortchanged if a date is missed, while there is no incentive for the other side to fulfill the agreement. After you have established a trustworthy sugar relationship, it may work well.

11. Enjoy yourself. Be safe. You're here for a mutually beneficial experience.

I've probably forgotten many things. Other experienced SD's out there with any comments?

Lots of good info on other places here. Visit other threads. See Richmond thread http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ.

Another dumb question: should I upload my photo or just do ppm and forgo the photo?

[Waxxon]

Welcome to the Bowl. First off, it is a learning process, is time consuming, can be frustrating if you let it get to you, but the bottom line it is very rewarding when you're reaping the fruits of your effort.

There are some basic tips / rules.

1. Do not forward $ in advance, or buy them a car and she says she will pay you back etc. Or you will learn the hard way. There are all kinds of stories of SD's losing out, even to an SB you "trust". Buyer beware.

2. Do not pay for M&G, this just encourages and perpetuates the problem. We all have something the other side wants. No honey. No money.

3. Do not overpay. Aka GPS. This is obviously subjective and some cities command higher allowances. Two. Three hundred seems acceptable to many sb's for a couple hours of their time. Not many jobs provide that kind of hourly compensation. Do the math. Of course, this is a free country and they can ask for whatever they want, and you can pay whatever you want. Simple market economics. There are a lot of fish out there, and you may not get the one that you "must have" unless you cough up big allowance. Give it a day, there will be other opportunities.

4. Have a rotation of as many sb's as you can handle physically and financially. It's not unheard of having a rotation of 4-5, some drop off for one reason or another, you may have 1 or two that are your #1 or #2 sb with some options that you keep in your harem.

5. There seem to be a lot more pros out there, you will quickly sense which ones. Nothing wrong with pros, I like them.

6. Develop some game.

7. Age is a personal preference. Everyone has what they feel is their sweet spot.

8. Don't let flakiness, no call no show (NCNS), ghosting, bother you. It happens on both sides. Sure it's irritating, write them off and find one that values your time and generosity as much as you value theirs.

9. Married, it's your choice whether to reveal. Some out there don't want to be home wreckers, some don't care, some prefer it, some will be upset if you mislead them.

10. PPM vs monthly? Most of us do ppm, monthly creates a situation where one side feels they get shortchanged if a date is missed, while there is no incentive for the other side to fulfill the agreement. After you have established a trustworthy sugar relationship, it may work well.

11. Enjoy yourself. Be safe. You're here for a mutually beneficial experience.

I've probably forgotten many things. Other experienced SD's out there with any comments?

Lots of good info on other places here. Visit other threads. See Richmond thread http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ.

[City Slicker]

It's been a while, here's some recent info from SA.

SunBBY92109 https://www.seeking.com/member/a7976...6-843a2025e996.

Reached out to me, chatted a bit. She is ready willing and able. Didn't partake because my regular sb was taking care of me.

Yogabbxx https://www.seeking.com/member/0a1a3...7-317ff1ad50db.

Messaging went well, has a hubby that OOT? Ready to connect, one problem. Gps. Maybe reality has set in and has become reasonable.

Cuddlingkitten https://www.seeking.com/member/0a548...3-5684c626f011.

I spent several days messaging with her. Seemed very selective, and intelligent. I made it past her screening mechanism, we set a date. On the day of the date, she hits me with the "I expect to be compensated for my time" schtick. I let her know the only time I compensate for is FC time. Ghosted me.

Ablondenanny https://www.seeking.com/member/2b73a...9-1b327062d5c4.

Had M&G, follow up date at my place. A nice session, tried for repeat dates. Has moved to LA for school. Will revisit when back in town.

Are most of the ads on the site Pro? Base on their writing, they look to be ordinary people looking for financial support in exchange for service. I'm very interested but have yet to take the plunge. Any advice or recommendations from fellow readers are very welcome.

Cityslicker.

[William Monroe]

When I was in the bowl, I was constantly communicating potential SBs all the time (time consuming, yes) but I still had hard time keeping the pipeline going. I am also married, so getting the right SB is more challenging for aligning my schedule, FC availability,.

I did tell SB that I am married. What type of SBs you focus on?

I'm focusing mostly on age 35 and up as I'm in my 60's. I have read the reports here though so I'm checking sometimes some of the younger ladies.

[Dog Rice]

When I was in the bowl, I was constantly communicating potential SBs all the time (time consuming, yes) but I still had hard time keeping the pipeline going. I am also married, so getting the right SB is more challenging for aligning my schedule, FC availability,.

I did tell SB that I am married. What type of SBs you focus on?

I had read most of this thread and finally decided it was worth it to go premium. Glad I did. I signed up for the 7 day and right away made contact with some ladies so I signed up for another 30 days.

So far I've met a lady who was opted to ppm, she asked for 300, go figure, but happily accepted 200. I told her I was needing plenty of TLC since I'm in my 60's and she was ok with that.

When I was confirming that morning she texted " $250 right?" I said no, we had agreed on $200. She said ok.

These texts got me to thinking pro. So I was not sure how it would go. Well she was wonderful. Not pushy or businesslike at all. I think she just can use the extra money so is pretty anxious. One I was there it was great. We chatted for a while then I put my arm around her and wow, what a kisser. It was great certainly the best sex I've had in a long time.

I'm not going to share this one yet as I like her (duh) I've got a question though for the veterans.

How many of these ladies can you juggle? I messaged maybe 10 different women and have gotten replies, shared my pictures and gotten phone numbers. I have several who want to meet but I don't have the free time very often. How many potential SBs do you communicate with at a time?

I'm married and actually I'd be more interested in a ppm arrangement. Should I tell the ladies that? I'm getting the feeling some of the ladies are looking for more than I can give. Thanks.

[William Monroe]

I had read most of this thread and finally decided it was worth it to go premium. Glad I did. I signed up for the 7 day and right away made contact with some ladies so I signed up for another 30 days.

So far I've met a lady who was opted to ppm, she asked for 300, go figure, but happily accepted 200. I told her I was needing plenty of TLC since I'm in my 60's and she was ok with that.

When I was confirming that morning she texted " $250 right?" I said no, we had agreed on $200. She said ok.

These texts got me to thinking pro. So I was not sure how it would go. Well she was wonderful. Not pushy or businesslike at all. I think she just can use the extra money so is pretty anxious. One I was there it was great. We chatted for a while then I put my arm around her and wow, what a kisser. It was great certainly the best sex I've had in a long time.

I'm not going to share this one yet as I like her (duh) I've got a question though for the veterans.

How many of these ladies can you juggle? I messaged maybe 10 different women and have gotten replies, shared my pictures and gotten phone numbers. I have several who want to meet but I don't have the free time very often. How many potential SBs do you communicate with at a time?

I'm married and actually I'd be more interested in a ppm arrangement. Should I tell the ladies that? I'm getting the feeling some of the ladies are looking for more than I can give. Thanks.

[Tennis Nut]

It's been a while, here's some recent info from SA.

SunBBY92109 https://www.seeking.com/member/a7976...6-843a2025e996.

Reached out to me, chatted a bit. She is ready willing and able. Didn't partake because my regular sb was taking care of me.

Yogabbxx https://www.seeking.com/member/0a1a3...7-317ff1ad50db.

Messaging went well, has a hubby that OOT? Ready to connect, one problem. Gps. Maybe reality has set in and has become reasonable.

Cuddlingkitten https://www.seeking.com/member/0a548...3-5684c626f011.

I spent several days messaging with her. Seemed very selective, and intelligent. I made it past her screening mechanism, we set a date. On the day of the date, she hits me with the "I expect to be compensated for my time" schtick. I let her know the only time I compensate for is FC time. Ghosted me.

Ablondenanny https://www.seeking.com/member/2b73a...9-1b327062d5c4.

Had M&G, follow up date at my place. A nice session, tried for repeat dates. Has moved to LA for school. Will revisit when back in town.

Waxie,

You are such a stud! You make the rest of us look like losers. Thanks for making me feel so. Inadequate.

Love ya, man!

[Waxxon]

It's been a while, here's some recent info from SA.

SunBBY92109 https://www.seeking.com/member/a7976...6-843a2025e996.

Reached out to me, chatted a bit. She is ready willing and able. Didn't partake because my regular sb was taking care of me.

Yogabbxx https://www.seeking.com/member/0a1a3...7-317ff1ad50db.

Messaging went well, has a hubby that OOT? Ready to connect, one problem. Gps. Maybe reality has set in and has become reasonable.

Cuddlingkitten https://www.seeking.com/member/0a548...3-5684c626f011.

I spent several days messaging with her. Seemed very selective, and intelligent. I made it past her screening mechanism, we set a date. On the day of the date, she hits me with the "I expect to be compensated for my time" schtick. I let her know the only time I compensate for is FC time. Ghosted me.

Ablondenanny https://www.seeking.com/member/2b73a...9-1b327062d5c4.

Had M&G, follow up date at my place. A nice session, tried for repeat dates. Has moved to LA for school. Will revisit when back in town.

[JohnnyLovesIt]

It was Girls Do Porn episodes 336 and 339.

Thanks. I like her look. I'll definitely try contacting her if I find her in SA.

[JStephens0226]

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