Seeking Arrangements

[Bran001]

Totally; it's a two-edged sword! Me too; more often than not it's not as great as I'd hoped and experienced. . . But hope springs eternal.

The Skinner box people will tell you that the randomness of the reward is a big part of what keeps the hunt going.

Haha, the thirst for novelty is why I keep dumping money into this hobby (both at AMPs and on Seeking), the intrigue of someone new is sometimes irresistible, I'd say more often than not it is a bit of a disappointment for me but sometimes it is very much worth the hunt and $, and the cycle continues.

[Mfp79]

Recently I'm seeing that after some back and forth and finally agreeing to text that they block me as soon as I give my number. I'm sure it's scammers, but seems like a really time / labor intensive way to collect phone numbers. Are they just blocking me once they see it's an app number and they can't find out who I am? What gives?

Try googling your number? Might have sketchy results.

[Mark Powers]

Recently I'm seeing that after some back and forth and finally agreeing to text that they block me as soon as I give my number. I'm sure it's scammers, but seems like a really time / labor intensive way to collect phone numbers. Are they just blocking me once they see it's an app number and they can't find out who I am? What gives?

[FrogPilot]

Sound advice. IMHO the thirst for novelty often leads to poor decisions and bad outcomes.

Haha, the thirst for novelty is why I keep dumping money into this hobby (both at AMPs and on Seeking), the intrigue of someone new is sometimes irresistible, I'd say more often than not it is a bit of a disappointment for me but sometimes it is very much worth the hunt and $, and the cycle continues.

[BigCoolie]

She's been reported on here before. Here is her other dormant profile:

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-4fc556dd7dba

She's had mediocre reviews in the past and she seemed a bit sus but I didn't recall seeing ripoff alerts. I almost didn't go because she didnt seem into it.

One red flag is that she weighs much more than her pictures. Almost unrecognizable.

There's a long version, but the short version is that it was the classic move where after you pay her boyfriend comes in and they fight and she leaves.

There were lots of red flags and I just didn't listen to my gut.

[DarkClouds]

Good post and excellent research. But I have 2 nits. One, if you've done the research, might as well screenshot the twitter post etc and attach them here because twitter posts can be deleted. Two, as has been said many times before, we (mongers) don't control the market. Market forces are a result of what we (mongers) want and they (the ladies) what. Every monger is going to have a different comfort level and neither you nor any of us collectively can decide what that should be for the universe of mongers. So, just drop that part of your argument.

So, I was doing some "price" research, and came across "Britt Blair" on Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/brittblairxxx.

First, I was astonished at the pricing, from $1,500 for 1 hour and then an overnight is $10,000.

I looked at the pics, and things seemed okay, but, then I read the "details" and her overall introduction. And the details (the specifics that these girls write about themselves & their offerings), where most often, we as Men, tend to gloss over. Not me though, I read, line by line, word for word & take there word for it.

So, I examined the pictures. Great pictures overall, nice & clean, not blurry. But I also noticed the outfits. Not the spiderman one, but the "Blacked" outfit. Noticing that directly, showcases & confirms her adult actress status (besides the name of course).

But it wasn't really about that, it was the details in what she wrote that really caught my eye. It seems there was an emphasis on "condom" vs. "no condom".

I was intrigued by this, and about her stating about an STD Test..

[DreplyNow]

So, I was doing some "price" research, and came across "Britt Blair" on Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/brittblairxxx.

First, I was astonished at the pricing, from $1,500 for 1 hour and then an overnight is $10,000.

I looked at the pics, and things seemed okay, but, then I read the "details" and her overall introduction. And the details (the specifics that these girls write about themselves & their offerings), where most often, we as Men, tend to gloss over. Not me though, I read, line by line, word for word & take there word for it.

So, I examined the pictures. Great pictures overall, nice & clean, not blurry. But I also noticed the outfits. Not the spiderman one, but the "Blacked" outfit. Noticing that directly, showcases & confirms her adult actress status (besides the name of course).

But it wasn't really about that, it was the details in what she wrote that really caught my eye. It seems there was an emphasis on "condom" vs. "no condom".

I was intrigued by this, and about her stating about an STD Test.

So, then I researched her more. I go down the rabbit hold of Pornhub (https://www.pornhub.com/pornstar/britt-blair), then on to her socials, https://twitter.com/Brittblairxxx and https://onlyfans.com/brittblairxxx. Everything seemed okay, until I started reading the "details" in her Twitter.

Then I put it all together, but it's very frustrating.

If you decide to read the post on her Twitter about her "complaints in the industry". Then you will know what I mean.

So, in a nutshell, here's the recap:

1. Yuck: She found out she got Molluscum contagiosum.

2. Applause: She stopped performing (and I guess is taking off for 5 months from the Adult Industry) to get cleared up.

3. Head Scratcher: BUT. How you going to post a PSA about her own Molluscum contagiosum, and take off from "work", and in the same breath, be traveling to Boston from March 5 through the 9th spreading contagion all over Beantown?

Most of us, won't do the upfront or detailed research. And I was reminded by one of the guys a few weeks ago who was really focused on the really hot girls, and didn't really mind paying the $1,500 costs because he didn't want to go through that hassle. I thought to myself, well, if she says $2 grand, and he's like, okay, because he wouldn't bother to get the price down to something that makes sense. Not knowing the "details" of what she has & what a person can get.

I was not only frustrated about that, but, pissed that she'd blatantly travel all the way to Boston & spread germs!

So whoever brought this chick out of hibernation & brining her to Boston, hopefully you have read her Twiitter posts, and hopefully, you were told & warned by her directly.

Overall, we got to share More Details, and gather More information and share that info willingly. Site profiles, social media profiles, pricing, expeirences. Details matter!

And lastly, stop paying over $500 for any of them. We need to enforce a price ceiling & control the market!

[Mark Powers]

Did that happen Friday? I'd talked to her before and was going to see her on the way to Mohegan for 200. She texted me with a new number (maybe she ditched it after you) but then got all mad when I wanted to see a body pic and didn't want to pay. Thanks for posting.

Yes. Friday. I posted right away from the car. LOL.

Is her profile still there?

I also forgot to mention, her teeth are literally disgusting. Like scary.

[Rome400]

She's had mediocre reviews in the past and she seemed a bit sus but I didn't recall seeing ripoff alerts. I almost didn't go because she didnt seem into it.

One red flag is that she weighs much more than her pictures. Almost unrecognizable.

There's a long version, but the short version is that it was the classic move where you pay her boyfriend comes in and they fight and she leaves.

There were lots of red flags and I just didn't listen to my gut.

Did that happen Friday? I'd talked to her before and was going to see her on the way to Mohegan for 200. She texted me with a new number (maybe she ditched it after you) but then got all mad when I wanted to see a body pic and didn't want to pay. Thanks for posting.

[Hobbyist420]

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

Girls flake for 4 reasons:

- scammer, either real or fake, who realizes you actually want to meet and won't get the virtual dough from you so they disengage and go onto the next potential victim.

- a girl who is looking for the most money as supposed to the best time / sex.

- a girl who found a similar allowance / attraction but closer to her.

- flakers: girl who love to talk up guys, but when push comes to shove, they can't pull the trigger when it comes to actually meeting.

Ghosting is frustrating and I've had unicorns do it to me in the past after having great consistent times with them but its par for the course in this genre of the hobby. And also a benefit on our side when we come across a crazy or just get bored with someone and want new, different pussy. The benefit of a arrangement is that it ISN'T a relationship and I don't *need* to have closure because of what the thing is. But the flip side is the frustration of potential 8's and up we find who sound interested but flake and disappear.

Also LOL 1500 allowance. I can get a 4 some at an agency in Montreal for that price!

[DarkClouds]

Come on guys! The thirst for novelty is what makes you a monger. Without the burning desire for novelty there is no mongering. As for bad outcomes, those can happen both with and without mongering. Seeing the same gal repeatedly for a year or so was perhaps the worst decision I ever made (some of you know more of the story). I came this close to annihilation. Never again!

Sound advice. IMHO the thirst for novelty often leads to poor decisions and bad outcomes.

[Bran001]

Why cry! You can't fight it, change it. Most of us don't run with this crowd. Get it out of your mind. Strive and do the homework to find that good provider in the price range you can handle on a regular basis. Be happy with her. Sacrifice constant novelty if it is too much work. That thirst for novelty and variety can wear you down. It is a lot of work, getting harder all the time. These are the times in which we live. Since the demise of CL, the hobby has gotten more expensive with the overall quality and integrity of the providers declining while deception and danger practicing the hobby are on the rise.

Sound advice. IMHO the thirst for novelty often leads to poor decisions and bad outcomes.

[Corrado58]

She is asian and knew a couple of colleagues who had an asian fetish.

Are guys giving out that type of coin? Unbelievably and unfortunately, Yes! If you work in IT, salaries are pretty high, if you haven't been laid off yet.

One dude I know makes about 500 k a year (that was 2 years ago), if not more. His buddies. About the same. And that's salary, not including their side gigs and option selling they do.

Some of these guys actually even filter out the women by the rates. As they told me, "dude, don't mess with those cheap hoes of 300/400 per meet. You'll end up at the hospital. ".
I wanted to cry! 😂
Oh yea, they are in their 30's. Then you got the surgeons, etc.

Why cry! You can't fight it, change it. Most of us don't run with this crowd. Get it out of your mind. Strive and do the homework to find that good provider in the price range you can handle on a regular basis. Be happy with her. Sacrifice constant novelty if it is too much work. That thirst for novelty and variety can wear you down. It is a lot of work, getting harder all the time. These are the times in which we live. Since the demise of CL, the hobby has gotten more expensive with the overall quality and integrity of the providers declining while deception and danger practicing the hobby are on the rise.

[Kingmaletx]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

She is asian and knew a couple of colleagues who had an asian fetish.

Are guys giving out that type of coin? Unbelievably and unfortunately, Yes! If you work in IT, salaries are pretty high, if you haven't been laid off yet.

One dude I know makes about 500 k a year (that was 2 years ago), if not more. His buddies. About the same. And that's salary, not including their side gigs and option selling they do.

Some of these guys actually even filter out the women by the rates. As they told me, "dude, don't mess with those cheap hoes of 300/400 per meet. You'll end up at the hospital. ".
I wanted to cry! 😂
Oh yea, they are in their 30's. Then you got the surgeons, etc.

[Joe1223]

She's had mediocre reviews in the past and she seemed a bit sus but I didn't recall seeing ripoff alerts. I almost didn't go because she didnt seem into it.

One red flag is that she weighs much more than her pictures. Almost unrecognizable.

There's a long version, but the short version is that it was the classic move where after you pay her boyfriend comes in and they fight and she leaves.

There were lots of red flags and I just didn't listen to my gut.

Sounds like a first meeting Incall? I never do those as you give control of the situation to the provider vs you being able to control access to the room. Spend the extra hotel costs for a few visits until you get a good vibe.