Seeking Arrangements

[CandyMan555]

Ok, thanks. That's helpful. I'm a relative newbie in the SA arena. I do need to keep somewhat anonymous so I'll have to find a picture that none of my acquaintances have seen before.

Thanks again for sharing your knowledge.

Looking for good messages to send as a first message to a SB. Thanks CM.

[UnlimitedPops]

UPops, want to help out CM, on where you find kitty kits for STDs? I think his inquiry was directed toward your post.

If you google Self-testing kit or home STD test kit, you will find a lot. All google ad (with the ad sign on the top of first search results page) are legit.

Normally, there are two types, one requires you mail back your "collections" with the girl to the lab and check the results later online (cheaper); another one, you can do it at home with the girl and get results in 20 minutes (more expensive). If you need more info, please PM me. I don't want to offend others.

[UnlimitedPops]

UP, Fascinating, to hear of a male being such a "careful BDSM'er". Good4 U.

Haha that's because that I believe the maximum pleasure can be achieved when you have nothing to worry about. But if I could sense a girl is seeing multiple guys or unreliable, I will stop seeing her again. For this kind of case, I would make the agreement with the girl that I want an exclusive arrangement. And also there were girl requested this test from me, so some time it is worth it.

[Fuhgetaboudit]

UPops, want to help out CM, on where you find kitty kits for STDs? I think his inquiry was directed toward your post.

Where are these available?
Thanks CM.

[SCX13]

Ok, thanks. That's helpful. I'm a relative newbie in the SA arena. I do need to keep somewhat anonymous so I'll have to find a picture that none of my acquaintances have seen before.

Thanks again for sharing your knowledge.

Be as vague as possible about your wealth (go low on the personal wealth / salary per yr, even if you make a ton of money), and don't mention specific life deets like marriage / relationship. Actual job title / location. Etc. State what you want, what you are into, add some points about being a gentleman and wanting a companionship as supposed to just banging (although you can steer it towards that once your in the door), and pick a nice photo of you in a suit (covering your face is up to you).

[CandyMan555]

UP, Fascinating, to hear of a male being such a "careful BDSM'er". Good4 U.

Where are these available?

Thanks CM.

[Hobbyist420]

For the guys that have profiles on SA, what type of info do you guys put on your profile? How do you guys answer the questions?

Be as vague as possible about your wealth (go low on the personal wealth / salary per yr, even if you make a ton of money), and don't mention specific life deets like marriage / relationship. Actual job title / location. Etc. State what you want, what you are into, add some points about being a gentleman and wanting a companionship as supposed to just banging (although you can steer it towards that once your in the door), and pick a nice photo of you in a suit (covering your face is up to you).

[Fuhgetaboudit]

UP, Fascinating, to hear of a male being such a "careful BDSM'er". Good4 U.

Hey LJB! Sorry about the late reply!
I was aiming for more stable scenarios, so I put time in wine and dine, even went to theme park with one of the girl. I was very interested in BDSM, so I need to build a good foundation to explore the wild side of the girl. (It's no fun if the girl already tried a lot before LOL). I like to Polish a fine but raw gem myself LOL and it turns out very well!I also tried to be straightforward on 1st meeting too but never got good quality LOL maybe that's just my luck.I am more conservative when it comes to bareback intercourse ( no offense to other guys here). So for most of the time, I used an ultra thin cover. For couple girls that we connected pretty well, I bought home test kit and ask them to do std test with me. Once it was clean, we went on for anything, even anal without cover. My idea is that put a little time on first date, so you can screen out the pros and junkies as they want to get money as soon as possible. After all, SA isn't escort site, my advice is that don't use it like one.You can PM me for more detailed information or methods.UP.

[SCX13]

For the guys that have profiles on SA, what type of info do you guys put on your profile? How do you guys answer the questions?

[UnlimitedPops]

Also, these sites do tend to be littered with fake profiles. A la AFF and Ashley Madison (when it got hacked, I think like 40% of the profiles were revealed to be fake LOL). Most because they are publically traded. Which is LOL.

When it comes to online profile. Nothing wrote in the profile could really link to me LOL.

Just don't ever ever tell anyone online your real name and real phone number.

[UnlimitedPops]

Same owner as S A I heard a lot of women take money up front and no show.

Happy hunting CM.

Exactly! There are more excuses for them to flee the scene after they got the cash gift and dinner LOL So stay away from what's your price.

[CandyMan555]

I have tried What's your price as well. A lot of drama and hassle. I would recommend to put more time on SA and ignore What's your price LOL.

Same owner as S A I heard a lot of women take money up front and no show.

Happy hunting CM.

[Hobbyist420]

I have tried What's your price as well. A lot of drama and hassle. I would recommend to put more time on SA and ignore What's your price LOL.

Also, these sites do tend to be littered with fake profiles. A la AFF and Ashley Madison (when it got hacked, I think like 40% of the profiles were revealed to be fake LOL). Most because they are publically traded. Which is LOL.

[Hobbyist420]

I am new to the S A site. I am curious how much personal info to reveal to a Sugar Baby?

Any do's or don't'S?

Thanks CM.

Been on the site for a week or so and have gotten some AWESOME leads. And not just GFE or the simple HH, I'm talking dates with some real smokes. And I don; t mind pampering because I'm getting way more bang for my buck (pun intended) and its also good on their ends because I know its going to their college / rent fund and not some BP pimp.

Even some UTR girls that want more than just money. They want a good time. Although unicornism works both ways: there are some girls you can find that aren't just about uber loot and want to hang and have a great time, but there are also who, as some posters put it, looking for like $$ weekly allowances. Good luck, *****, that ain't me.

But if you put in leg work, have a good burner phone system, and self screen diligently. This is the best site for unicorns, bar none. Of course, you got to pay the $79 upfront. So its a gamble. But if you know what you want, do your research, and screen well and make sure expectations are set on both sides. Better value than BP or CL, IMO.

[UnlimitedPops]

I have tried What's your price as well. A lot of drama and hassle. I would recommend to put more time on SA and ignore What's your price LOL.

Both SeekingArrangements and WhatsYourPrice "dating" sites are the creation of MIT graduate Brandon Wade. Some of the same ladies are listed on both sites. Thought it made sense to include both in this thread.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brandon_Wade

https://www.whatsyourprice.com/