Seeking Arrangements

[Spill]

Nothing special and wants 400.

Anyone ever get by their GPS and actually meet with one of them? Just curious as I'm now getting messages from Ashley (who now goes by Nashvillegirl).

[Spill]

Call me a cynic but to me it screams AAMP thinking out out of the box to find other ways to advertise in these scary times for massage providers in general.

TGTBT pics and the line "no sex but massage". Curious but not enough to pay another month on there again.

I thought the same thing.

[SecretSquirell]

Anyone make contact or have info? Asian girl from Randolph, says "no sex" but profile screams sluut LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e84d5...0-ad43ecf9ddb9

Call me a cynic but to me it screams AAMP thinking out out of the box to find other ways to advertise in these scary times for massage providers in general.

TGTBT pics and the line "no sex but massage". Curious but not enough to pay another month on there again.

[PaulRew]

Anyone make contact or have info? Asian girl from Randolph, says "no sex" but profile screams sluut LOL.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e84d5...0-ad43ecf9ddb9

[Reman3289]

My two cents, the more they write in the profile, the crazier they are. And I don't mean a couple paragraphs, your example is perfect.

BostonBossBabe. Read this profile and just spit my water out.

Really, what are these women thinking. Too funny.

If you have the balls talk to her, I would love to hear how it goes. LOL.

Just screams drama.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b1b53...1-3c1936ae68a0

[Taylor Taste]

It is pretty easy for girls to create a profile and sit back and wait for the right guy to come to them. I am pretty sure they aren't paying to be on the site unlike the 90 bucks a month us guys pay. So from their perspective, why not? Getting spoiled and paid by some rich guy for their company sounds like a winning scenario to me. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but most women on here are here to get paid. And by paid meaning the easiest way possible. Most did not join because they want to have hot sex with men. I don't care how good looking or charming you think you are. That being said, I have my own crazy high standards on this site for the most part. I want a hot college type who loves sex and can come to a reasonable allowance. But it's the same scenario. I just need one girl to say yes. It is a lot of work. I've had so many time wasters, liars, catfishers, scam artists, thiefs, psychos, weirdos etc. What makes it all worth it? That one hot girl who you can trust, have a connection with, and crazy sex with for the long term. So despite all the work and pain I have put in it is all worth it to me. Furthermore, everyone has their price. I am sure if you have deep pockets you could convince some of these wanting platonic relationships. I think you will have a much more difficult time by merely going on your good looks and / or personality to get them in bed with you.

I met with two different girls who confirmed they don't pay for any membership or messaging fees.

[Spill]

It appears as though message was sent through or by SA. Said she was interested but wanted me verified with Optimum. Optimum's website displays SA logo. I attempt my own verifications and have uncovered ladies with as many as 10 felony cases, however, most are clean which is a comforting thought. There has been an uptick in hits from the site.

There is a link on every profile under Background not verified that says "Ask them to verify their background". She probably used that.

[Samuel05]

Was the message sent through SA or from her directly? Either she's straight scamming or SA is trying to extract more $$$ out of your pocket. I'd NEVER give out any of that information, especially on a sugaring site.

It appears as though message was sent through or by SA. Said she was interested but wanted me verified with Optimum. Optimum's website displays SA logo. I attempt my own verifications and have uncovered ladies with as many as 10 felony cases, however, most are clean which is a comforting thought. There has been an uptick in hits from the site.

[WaveSeek]

F that. I've said this before on this forum. There's 10,000+ women and around 3,000 guys on SA In the Boston area. 3/1 ratio or higher. That means any BS requests (like show me a pic or verification or prepaying or anything you're not comfortable or the Bs platonic nonsense) you can hide them or block them and move on. I have a blurry underwater pic as my profile and some real pics that are private I only show the private ones to girls I'm attracted to who have already confirmed they can meet my needs from a scheduling standpoint. I show them pics and then hide them after a day. Move over to text or KIK ASAP and talk terms.

Every woman I've met on SA has been between 19-28 and I've had sex with all of them (except 1 and that was a really weird long story) on my terms at their places or a hotel. It can be done. You just have to have patience and a bullsh*t meter.

Sorry to be direct but entertaining their weird requests and quirky messages just encourages them. We have the upper hand here in terms of numbers, $, etc.

So well said, Aardvarks- Have experienced-- and agree with your data / numbers-- And yes-- it is really a matter of numbers-- Recently-- the numbers have exploded-- as compared to my first SA forays a few years ago: Life in SA-- was far more 'simple' and productive-- But-- the numbers are still there. Also-- have ventured in the same demographic-- with similar results-- Though my age range-- w success-- tends to be younger-- or older. Mid to late 20's-- iffy-- but younger 20's-- to the older range-- is well-- productive-- And damn-- the you 20's real life gals-- are open to so much. Ugh.

[JohnTies]

BostonBossBabe. Read this profile and just spit my water out.

Really, what are these women thinking. Too funny.

If you have the balls talk to her, I would love to hear how it goes. LOL.

Just screams drama.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b1b53...1-3c1936ae68a0

[Aardvarks]

Got a request for private photos from??sweethoney? 37 yo writes as what might be interpretted to be classy and upscale. Anyway, send to her, hi-res but with dark glasses. She writes back blasting me about what am I trying to hide not showing my full face and so on. Immediately get blocked, no chance for explanation concerning discretion. Then, believe it or not, get another apparently auto-generated msg saying she's interested but wants me to get verified using Optimum, SA's in-house (service. Besides the expected questions, they ask for SSN. Don't think I'm ready for that. There is a definite connection between SA and Optimum. Not sure if she's an agent / employee or stipended. Anyone else encoutered similar?

F that. I've said this before on this forum. There's 10,000+ women and around 3,000 guys on SA In the Boston area. 3/1 ratio or higher. That means any BS requests (like show me a pic or verification or prepaying or anything you're not comfortable or the Bs platonic nonsense) you can hide them or block them and move on. I have a blurry underwater pic as my profile and some real pics that are private I only show the private ones to girls I'm attracted to who have already confirmed they can meet my needs from a scheduling standpoint. I show them pics and then hide them after a day. Move over to text or KIK ASAP and talk terms.

Every woman I've met on SA has been between 19-28 and I've had sex with all of them (except 1 and that was a really weird long story) on my terms at their places or a hotel. It can be done. You just have to have patience and a bullsh*t meter.

Sorry to be direct but entertaining their weird requests and quirky messages just encourages them. We have the upper hand here in terms of numbers, $, etc.

[SwimSays]

Got a request for private photos from??sweethoney? 37 yo writes as what might be interpretted to be classy and upscale. Anyway, send to her, hi-res but with dark glasses. She writes back blasting me about what am I trying to hide not showing my full face and so on. Immediately get blocked, no chance for explanation concerning discretion. Then, believe it or not, get another apparently auto-generated msg saying she's interested but wants me to get verified using Optimum, SA's in-house (service. Besides the expected questions, they ask for SSN. Don't think I'm ready for that. There is a definite connection between SA and Optimum. Not sure if she's an agent / employee or stipended. Anyone else encoutered similar?

Was the message sent through SA or from her directly? Either she's straight scamming or SA is trying to extract more $$$ out of your pocket. I'd NEVER give out any of that information, especially on a sugaring site.

[Samuel05]

That crooked site, to which I would NEVER send money, makes you upload a public picture in order to complete "registration", even as a non-paying member. Just use a picture where your face and the surroundings can't be identified, if you want to stay UTR.

Got a request for private photos from??sweethoney? 37 yo writes as what might be interpretted to be classy and upscale. Anyway, send to her, hi-res but with dark glasses. She writes back blasting me about what am I trying to hide not showing my full face and so on. Immediately get blocked, no chance for explanation concerning discretion. Then, believe it or not, get another apparently auto-generated msg saying she's interested but wants me to get verified using Optimum, SA's in-house (service. Besides the expected questions, they ask for SSN. Don't think I'm ready for that. There is a definite connection between SA and Optimum. Not sure if she's an agent / employee or stipended. Anyone else encoutered similar?

[Spill]

It is pretty easy for girls to create a profile and sit back and wait for the right guy to come to them. I am pretty sure they aren't paying to be on the site unlike the 90 bucks a month us guys pay. So from their perspective, why not? Getting spoiled and paid by some rich guy for their company sounds like a winning scenario to me. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but most women on here are here to get paid. And by paid meaning the easiest way possible. Most did not join because they want to have hot sex with men. I don't care how good looking or charming you think you are. That being said, I have my own crazy high standards on this site for the most part. I want a hot college type who loves sex and can come to a reasonable allowance. But it's the same scenario. I just need one girl to say yes. It is a lot of work. I've had so many time wasters, liars, catfishers, scam artists, thiefs, psychos, weirdos etc. What makes it all worth it? That one hot girl who you can trust, have a connection with, and crazy sex with for the long term. So despite all the work and pain I have put in it is all worth it to me. Furthermore, everyone has their price. I am sure if you have deep pockets you could convince some of these wanting platonic relationships. I think you will have a much more difficult time by merely going on your good looks and / or personality to get them in bed with you.

I very much agree with what Spike says here. We also have a very similar methodology. To answer JohnTies original question of "Has anyone bothered with those girls who put that in their profiles? I think that is the point of having that in the profile. They do not want us to bother them nor do we want to. I just hit "Hide profile" and move on.

I find it interesting that many times someone will post something negative about a lady on SA, for any number of reasons. I'll follow the link to SA and 9 times out of 10 I've already hidden her profile. There are all kinds of signs to read in a profile, both explicit and between the lines.

[Spike77]

I am not a paying member right now but I do go on and look at prospects to when I do go back on.

And it is comical what some of these girls put in their profiles. Do they actually believe they will get money in a texting.

Emailing type of relationship?

I suspect they go on thinking like that and their dreams get dashed quickly of easy money after talking with some men on there.

Then many of them have platonic or not a hooker / prostitute / escort or no sex, etc, etc you get the picture.

I doubt if all of those women are not having sex, I am guessing they will try to pull it off by putting it on to see if any guys will fall for it.

I do or would not want to spend all that time talking or meeting to find out they really mean it or not.

Has anyone bothered with those girls who put that in their profiles?

Interested to hear some anecdotes.

It is pretty easy for girls to create a profile and sit back and wait for the right guy to come to them. I am pretty sure they aren't paying to be on the site unlike the 90 bucks a month us guys pay. So from their perspective, why not? Getting spoiled and paid by some rich guy for their company sounds like a winning scenario to me. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but most women on here are here to get paid. And by paid meaning the easiest way possible. Most did not join because they want to have hot sex with men. I don't care how good looking or charming you think you are. That being said, I have my own crazy high standards on this site for the most part. I want a hot college type who loves sex and can come to a reasonable allowance. But it's the same scenario. I just need one girl to say yes. It is a lot of work. I've had so many time wasters, liars, catfishers, scam artists, thiefs, psychos, weirdos etc. What makes it all worth it? That one hot girl who you can trust, have a connection with, and crazy sex with for the long term. So despite all the work and pain I have put in it is all worth it to me. Furthermore, everyone has their price. I am sure if you have deep pockets you could convince some of these wanting platonic relationships. I think you will have a much more difficult time by merely going on your good looks and / or personality to get them in bed with you.