Seeking Arrangements

[Tribeca67]

It's basically getting harder to be private on SA. If they require your DL then if you get banned you can't used a VPN since you also have to out your DL again.

[Tribeca67]

A sex site that can be shut down by the government is asking for license is never a good thing no matter how discreet they can be. Why do they need your license?

If this is going to be required I probably would avoid SA from now on. They still haven't asked me. But if they ask for your drivers license then paying with a vanilla gift card is meaningless.

[Michaelzxc]

Been off SA for over a year. Got back on the site this weekend. They are telling me I need to verify with drivers license or passport.

Is this a thing now? Anybody else giving them that much information? Not something I want to do.

Any feedback is appreciated.

I assume that is to prove you are over 18.

[Style20]

Been off SA for over a year. Got back on the site this weekend. They are telling me I need to verify with drivers license or passport.

Is this a thing now? Anybody else giving them that much information? Not something I want to do.

Any feedback is appreciated.

A sex site that can be shut down by the government is asking for license is never a good thing no matter how discreet they can be. Why do they need your license?

[BigCoolie]

The verification seems to be discreet and a popular request among the SBs, but it was not a mandatory requirement a few months ago. I completed it in my former profile to catch more attention by having the "I'd Verified" badge. I have no idea about how effective it actually fared when compared to other mongers. I have had no problems at all.

Been off SA for over a year. Got back on the site this weekend. They are telling me I need to verify with drivers license or passport.

Is this a thing now? Anybody else giving them that much information? Not something I want to do.

Any feedback is appreciated.

[Discretion23]

Been off SA for over a year. Got back on the site this weekend. They are telling me I need to verify with drivers license or passport.

Is this a thing now? Anybody else giving them that much information? Not something I want to do.

Any feedback is appreciated.

[AcknowledgeMe]

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[DarkClouds]

This could happen to anyone. In this case, the monger should definitely have exercised more caution and met in a public place first. He should have researched the address and been aware of the risks of going down a narrow, secluded street, late at night.

But I know that this thug or someone operating very similarly has been doing the same stuff in wide open places in broad daylight and in several cities and towns (see the posts I shared earlier).

According to this report, the incident actually happened around January 29, which is around the same time that I initially shared the posts.

https://www.suffolkdistrictattorney....-at-knifepoint.

Seriously I'm not victim shaming anyone. Please all of you grow up. He met a total stranger who sells sex for money on the internet. She says come meet me now after midnight in a dark alley and without a second thought or hesitation you run right to her spot she suggested because your so desperate to get laid. So yes there is fault of this guy. Me personally and other guys here who come across as somewhat street smart to this game would never let a hooker tell us to go to a dark alley after midnight. So please stop acting like this guys shoulder to cry on.

[AcknowledgeMe]

Seriously I'm not victim shaming anyone. Please all of you grow up. He met a total stranger who sells sex for money on the internet. She says come meet me now after midnight in a dark alley and without a second thought or hesitation you run right to her spot she suggested because your so desperate to get laid. So yes there is fault of this guy. Me personally and other guys here who come across as somewhat street smart to this game would never let a hooker tell us to go to a dark alley after midnight. So please stop acting like this guys shoulder to cry on.

[Corrado58]

You got to be kidding me. Blaming the victim, are we? I, for one, am glad he took the risk of reporting these thugs. Hopefully he doesn't end up paying a further price for doing so.

"Should have known better. Got what he deserved!" I don't think so. Not helpful. We live in glass houses. Let us learn, make better decisions and support. We're not talking paper cuts, rather serious consequences of what can go terribly wrong in this arena.

[Banjomania]

A few words of caution. The Women on SA / SB are not meant to be easy. It takes a little sifting to discern who is a risk and who is not. Even so, you can be fooled, and I have regretted the few times I got fooled although I have never had the misfortune that poor monger had. My steadfast precaution now is a daytime meet and greet over coffee. And sometimes, despite my innate desire to fuck nearly every female of a proper age on the planet, I save myself a world of hurt by not following up after the M&G. It is easy to hide behind texts. Way harder to hide in a 45 minute conversation. It is an investment of time that usually ends up being very well spent, in my experience. Starbucks is your friend.

I agree! We don't know how the monger communicate with these thugs. Let's support each other. It happens to the best of us. Stuff like that worries me a lot and I put my guards up. There is a couple of girls on Seeking, I suspect are up to no good. Most of them are Latinas. The descriptions doesn't match what they're saying on the chat etc.

[PlayTrey]

You got to be kidding me. Blaming the victim, are we? I, for one, am glad he took the risk of reporting these thugs. Hopefully he doesn't end up paying a further price for doing so.

I agree! We don't know how the monger communicate with these thugs. Let's support each other. It happens to the best of us. Stuff like that worries me a lot and I put my guards up. There is a couple of girls on Seeking, I suspect are up to no good. Most of them are Latinas. The descriptions doesn't match what they're saying on the chat etc.

[DarkClouds]

You got to be kidding me. Blaming the victim, are we? I, for one, am glad he took the risk of reporting these thugs. Hopefully he doesn't end up paying a further price for doing so.

I tend to agree with this. If you meet someone who has a sketchy profile, don't be surprised when sketchy (or worse) situations arise.

[Bran001]

Well its his own fault imo. Seeking is a place you pay for to meet higher class woman than the trash on stg and listcrawler so when a girl from there wanting 400 says come meet me in an alley after midnight that should raise some red flag and if this person can't see that then you deserve what you get. Its people like him is why scammers and thieves exist.

I tend to agree with this. If you meet someone who has a sketchy profile, don't be surprised when sketchy (or worse) situations arise.

[AcknowledgeMe]

Hope this wasn't anyone here.

https://www.masslive.com/news/2023/1...nifepoint.html

I believe this article called it as seeking, if not other sites do mention the site.

Well its his own fault imo. Seeking is a place you pay for to meet higher class woman than the trash on stg and listcrawler so when a girl from there wanting 400 says come meet me in an alley after midnight that should raise some red flag and if this person can't see that then you deserve what you get. Its people like him is why scammers and thieves exist.