Seeking Arrangements

[BostonMan781]

So here's a twofer gentleman.

Mistake1# Started talking to this chick. She said she was bigger and me being the open minded guy say no prob. She sends me a pic and I'm like oh that cute. And she told me she was great at head as well so it's a plus. Oh boy plus alright. Plus sized. Now I know what some of you will say. Fuck you eyes don't body shame. But listen if you go on SA don't lie and doctor your pics. Snap chat isn't your friend. And also get off SA cause no one will pay her for anything. She hid her double chin oddly shaped head giant arms and to top it all off her stomach that FOLDED ON ITS SELF. It was like two stomachs half tucked into her pants bulging out the other out above and peeling out her shirt. . It was the kind of person who has to waddle and they quiver like jello for ten minutes when they sit down. And the hands. My god the man hands. No way were those wrapping around my dong. It was not a present surprise. I didn't want her looking up at me possibly eating my dick. So we hang out on the couch at my place and I sweet talked my way out of the situation. Needless To say I faked being tired and and kicked her out.

I will keep her anonymous. But my defense. She does look cute.

Mistake 2#. Now this chick had a nice pic and I was curious. I was anticipating a high number. But I'd talk my way to a good placental cause I wanted to ruin someone's daughter. So we started talking and going through the Sam shit like I do with all the chicks I connect with. Then she throws out $500 to meet. Ok now guys. Don't do that. Please. Please no. Stop with that of why'all are actually paying 500. It is hurting us man. We arnt crazy enough. And sad part is. She wasn't that hot. Not 500 hot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/55d7b...a-e6aec1ae8623

That SA profile you linked. When I got her number it linked to an escort site.

[JohnTies]

So here's a twofer gentleman.

Mistake1# Started talking to this chick. She said she was bigger and me being the open minded guy say no prob. She sends me a pic and I'm like oh that cute. And she told me she was great at head as well so it's a plus. Oh boy plus alright. Plus sized. Now I know what some of you will say. Fuck you eyes don't body shame. But listen if you go on SA don't lie and doctor your pics. Snap chat isn't your friend. And also get off SA cause no one will pay her for anything. She hid her double chin oddly shaped head giant arms and to top it all off her stomach that foled on its self. It was like two stomachs half tucked into her pants bulging out the other out above and peeling out her shirt. . It was the kind of person who has to waddle and they quiver like jello for ten minutes when they sit down. And the hands. My god the man hands. No way were those wrapping around my dong. It was not a present surprise. I didn't want her looking up at me possibly eating my dick. So we hang out on the couch at my place and I sweet talked my way out of the situation. Needless To say I faked being tired and and kicked her out.

I will keep her anonymous. But my defense. She does look cute.

Mistake 2#. Now this chick had a nice pic and I was curious. I was anticipating a high number. But I'd talk my way to a good placental cause I wanted to ruin someone's daughter. So we started talking and going through the Sam shit like I do with all the chicks I connect with. Then she throws out $500 to meet. Ok now guys. Don't do that. Please. Please no. Stop with that of why'all are actually paying 500. It is hurting us man. We arnt crazy enough. And sad part is. She wasn't that hot. Not 500 hot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/55d7b...a-e6aec1ae8623

2nd girl that wanted 500 is an escort / hooker / *****. LOL.

https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...3.htm?cat=1504

https://privatedelights.ch/USA/Massa...ton/Staceyyy34

[LordOfThEeyes]

So here's a twofer gentleman.

Mistake1# Started talking to this chick. She said she was bigger and me being the open minded guy say no prob. She sends me a pic and I'm like oh that cute. And she told me she was great at head as well so it's a plus. Oh boy plus alright. Plus sized. Now I know what some of you will say. Fuck you eyes don't body shame. But listen if you go on SA don't lie and doctor your pics. Snap chat isn't your friend. And also get off SA cause no one will pay her for anything. She hid her double chin oddly shaped head giant arms and to top it all off her stomach that FOLDED ON ITS SELF. It was like two stomachs half tucked into her pants bulging out the other out above and peeling out her shirt. . It was the kind of person who has to waddle and they quiver like jello for ten minutes when they sit down. And the hands. My god the man hands. No way were those wrapping around my dong. It was not a present surprise. I didn't want her looking up at me possibly eating my dick. So we hang out on the couch at my place and I sweet talked my way out of the situation. Needless To say I faked being tired and and kicked her out.

I will keep her anonymous. But my defense. She does look cute.

Mistake 2#. Now this chick had a nice pic and I was curious. I was anticipating a high number. But I'd talk my way to a good placental cause I wanted to ruin someone's daughter. So we started talking and going through the Sam shit like I do with all the chicks I connect with. Then she throws out $500 to meet. Ok now guys. Don't do that. Please. Please no. Stop with that of why'all are actually paying 500. It is hurting us man. We arnt crazy enough. And sad part is. She wasn't that hot. Not 500 hot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/55d7b...a-e6aec1ae8623

[Aardvarks]

I had one of the strangest hookups of my hobby time so far. I talked with this girl from SNH and she told me she was 18 and a broke college girl. We went back and forth to set a time to meet and expectations. She then said this was her first experience and she was a virgin. I immediately figured she was setting up a scam or sting so I almost bailed. It has been awhile since I found a new girl as I tend to stay with the one I know but I figured I would just inquire about her. She was posting her body as average and her pics showed a bit curvy but I decided to see where it would go.

I offer to do a hotel but she wanted to meet at the YMCA which set off alarms again but I was curious and am very willing to bail if it went south. So she shows up and wants to go inside but I told her I can do a car date. We go to an empty parking lot and she tells me she is very nervous and a virgin again. So I ask her if she is OK with this and she gets in the back seat and starts to get naked. Everything was OK until the security guard shows up and we get the boot.

Well now we decide to go to the YMCA because I see it isn't a scam or setup and I'm vested now. She wasn't as thin as I like, had a full Bush and was very nervous but willing.

So the ymca has private changing rooms but I had to register as a guest. So I go thru the fake info game hand over $10 and we head to the changing room. She strips down and lays a couple of towels down and asks me to be easy. I am totally convinced she is a virgin now and had to teach her how to BBBJ me. I finger her and she's wet but she has a bit of BO but I assumed she is so nervous she's sweating. So I check with her if she wants to do it and she says absolutely. So we start and now I know she is a virgin. It wasn't the best time for me or her but we went at it. She insisted on a condom but didn't bring any so I used mine. She was in some pain and I could tell she wasn't faking it. So it didn't last long because I was a little freaked out about the whole thing and location.

She never brought up money but I asked her how much and she said whatever I could do she was a broke college student. She also asked about more dates. I knew I wouldn't see her again so I gave her 150 and took off.

Unfortunately I can't post her pic or her profile because she took it down. I'm not surprised because it was so weird and for her to do this as her first time is really out there.

Damn great story. Had something similar happen to me last year. We texted for months and she finally had me over. She was 22. Had her own place. We had a drink then went to the bedroom and as we were getting into it she told me I was her first. Which really killed the mood. She got so nervous she went to the bathroom and threw up. So I left a small donation on her kitchen table because she wouldn't come out. Fast forward 10 months and now she's done it a bunch of times and wants to see me again. Life is strange.

[PaulRew]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0cac6...1-68fc88b47070

Asks for my number and we start texting. She starts sending rapid fire texts and sneaks in wanted me to send her $50 from cash ap. I laugh and tell her to fly a kite. WTF is wrong with these girls.

She has been on the site for months, almost always uses the same picture, different profile name and always the same game. For shirts I offered her $200 just to come out and meet for coffee, told me I was a loser LOL.

[LordOfThEeyes]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0cac6...1-68fc88b47070

Asks for my number and we start texting. She starts sending rapid fire texts and sneaks in wanted me to send her $50 from cash ap. I laugh and tell her to fly a kite. WTF is wrong with these girls.

[CandyMan555]

Any help? Thanks CM.

[KingOfFours]

All true, well said. But can we all agree that paying for a meet and greet is insane? Minus any gas / transport or food / beverage which seems reasonable, of course.

I think it's insane. But then, again, I also think that a dude dressing up in women's lingerie is insane. And I also think getting led around on a leash by a hoe is insane. I also think scat play is insane. The point is, many dudes don't think any of these things are insane. But yes, I think that meeting a woman and paying her NOT to have sex is indeed insane.

But the point is, what I think is insane does not really matter at all, to dudes that enjoy these things, now does it? And if you think that some wealthy dudes paying some clever women to meet up and to NOT fuck is going to drive up retail value on the honest hoe market, on SA or anywhere else, history has always proven otherwise in The Worlds Oldest Profession.

[Joe1223]

I had one of the strangest hookups of my hobby time so far. I talked with this girl from SNH and she told me she was 18 and a broke college girl. We went back and forth to set a time to meet and expectations. She then said this was her first experience and she was a virgin. I immediately figured she was setting up a scam or sting so I almost bailed. It has been awhile since I found a new girl as I tend to stay with the one I know but I figured I would just inquire about her. She was posting her body as average and her pics showed a bit curvy but I decided to see where it would go.

I offer to do a hotel but she wanted to meet at the YMCA which set off alarms again but I was curious and am very willing to bail if it went south. So she shows up and wants to go inside but I told her I can do a car date. We go to an empty parking lot and she tells me she is very nervous and a virgin again. So I ask her if she is OK with this and she gets in the back seat and starts to get naked. Everything was OK until the security guard shows up and we get the boot.

Well now we decide to go to the YMCA because I see it isn't a scam or setup and I'm vested now. She wasn't as thin as I like, had a full Bush and was very nervous but willing.

So the ymca has private changing rooms but I had to register as a guest. So I go thru the fake info game hand over $10 and we head to the changing room. She strips down and lays a couple of towels down and asks me to be easy. I am totally convinced she is a virgin now and had to teach her how to BBBJ me. I finger her and she's wet but she has a bit of BO but I assumed she is so nervous she's sweating. So I check with her if she wants to do it and she says absolutely. So we start and now I know she is a virgin. It wasn't the best time for me or her but we went at it. She insisted on a condom but didn't bring any so I used mine. She was in some pain and I could tell she wasn't faking it. So it didn't last long because I was a little freaked out about the whole thing and location.

She never brought up money but I asked her how much and she said whatever I could do she was a broke college student. She also asked about more dates. I knew I wouldn't see her again so I gave her 150 and took off.

Unfortunately I can't post her pic or her profile because she took it down. I'm not surprised because it was so weird and for her to do this as her first time is really out there.

[Mfp79]

For different folks.

OK, gentlemen, I'll say this ONCE:

Everybody in this "hobby" has different cravings, different views, different tastes, and, of particular relevence to recent comments on this forum, different pocket depths.

Everybody's right. Live and let live. For examlpe, I'll never consider an A cupper to be a repeat. Others want nothing but. For some, if the ass is not open, they want no other part of her. Some would sooner stick their dick into a mouse trap rather than a human's ass--female or otherwise. Some are willing to pay 200 bucks or more for a blow job. Others won't ever be satisfied with a blow if it costs over 20.

And little' old me? Well, why'all already know that I will NEVER put a rubber tournequet on my dick. On the othe hand, some gents won't go near any orifice without one. I respect them as much as my fellow raw doggers. Its THEIR choice.

Its ALL good. Live and let live!

Fortunately, we are STILL free to have our own preferences, here in the good ol' USA. And one size, STILL, definitely does NOT fit all!

End of rant.

All true, well said. But can we all agree that paying for a meet and greet is insane? Minus any gas / transport or food / beverage which seems reasonable, of course.

[KingOfFours]

For different folks.

OK, gentlemen, I'll say this ONCE:

Everybody in this "hobby" has different cravings, different views, different tastes, and, of particular relevence to recent comments on this forum, different pocket depths.

Everybody's right. Live and let live. For examlpe, I'll never consider an A cupper to be a repeat. Others want nothing but. For some, if the ass is not open, they want no other part of her. Some would sooner stick their dick into a mouse trap rather than a human's ass--female or otherwise. Some are willing to pay 200 bucks or more for a blow job. Others won't ever be satisfied with a blow if it costs over 20.

And little' old me? Well, why'all already know that I will NEVER put a rubber tournequet on my dick. On the othe hand, some gents won't go near any orifice without one. I respect them as much as my fellow raw doggers. Its THEIR choice.

Its ALL good. Live and let live!

Fortunately, we are STILL free to have our own preferences, here in the good ol' USA. And one size, STILL, definitely does NOT fit all!

End of rant.

[Joe1223]

I think expressing your opinion once is sufficient. Your opinion is valid for you, but perhaps there are others that have different tastes and budgetary preferences. Their opinion is valid also.

My opinion is that you are incorrect. Some of the ladies are quite skilled in acting or are naturally of a giving temperament, but all are on SA for the benjamins. Some of the ladies are less sophisticated and educated than others, but they are all on the site for the remuneration.

I find your quote actually laughable, but that is just my opinion. "The overall FC experience will always be reflective of how much she's truly attracted to you. The best lays are always to ones for whom the cash comes second and they just want to spend time with you."

Perhaps there are some that are into you, but until such time that they forego the money, there is no scintilla of evidence that "she's truly attracted to you". Sorry to burst your bubble, but that is my opinion. It doesn't have to be your opinion. This is the purpose of the Board.

I have seen a number of girls off SA and other sites. I set my limit to 350 but usually never repeat at anything over 300. I have found a few that accept as little as 100 but those prices don't last long. I only see young, "hot" girls. Hot meaning spinner or thin, preferably non current drug users though not always and they have to be attractive. My price range limits some options but it's usually my personal taste of the quality that gets in the way. I stay under 30 and have had several 18 yo, some single mothers but usually college girls are the best.

Overpaying is a personal option however the side effect is that the girls think they are always worth more and they can usually wait on that next guy who is willing to pay more. I tend to stay with one or two regular girls vs having several options. After I become disinterested I will start the search for someone else. Unfortunately with this new market it limits the access to a lot of girls unless you have several paid accounts with various sites. There are enough 200-250 quality choices for me, it just takes longer to find them. I have spent 300-350 for some smoking hot girls but usually they will not renegotiate prices for me to be a regular visitor. So it's usually one and done. If the girl can host I always add this into the negotiations as I will never have them visit me and hotels are expensive.

[Longjblues]

I think expressing your opinion once is sufficient. Your opinion is valid for you, but perhaps there are others that have different tastes and budgetary preferences. Their opinion is valid also.

My opinion is that you are incorrect. Some of the ladies are quite skilled in acting or are naturally of a giving temperament, but all are on SA for the benjamins. Some of the ladies are less sophisticated and educated than others, but they are all on the site for the remuneration.

I find your quote actually laughable, but that is just my opinion. "The overall FC experience will always be reflective of how much she's truly attracted to you. The best lays are always to ones for whom the cash comes second and they just want to spend time with you."

Perhaps there are some that are into you, but until such time that they forego the money, there is no scintilla of evidence that "she's truly attracted to you". Sorry to burst your bubble, but that is my opinion. It doesn't have to be your opinion. This is the purpose of the Board.

I'll say this again and again. For the real cutie non-pro (I. E. Real college girls), anything above 100-150 is the amount she needs to hold her nose to spend time with you. If she meets you and then says she needs 400 ppm, it's because she doesn't care for you all that much and she needs that amount to tolerate you. For around 500 almost all girls will entertain guys they find downright repulsive. And you know what, just because you meet her number doesn't mean she'll like you any more or be attracted to you all of sudden. The overall FC experience will always be reflective of how much she's truly attracted to you. The best lays are always to ones for whom the cash comes second and they just want to spend time with you. Absolute stunners are thrilled with 150 with the right guy.

This comes up often enough and it seems a certain group of guys just can't believe that some of these young girls could actually be into older guys. Those have always been my only target in the bowl and I pithy the guys who've never met such gems.

[EvilTmp]

Take a deep breath. Exhale. We heard you the first time. No need to keep repeating yourself. No one goes on seeking arrangements to fall in love. It's simple, guy gets what he wants, girl gets what she wants. Thats called an arrangement. If they wanted to fall in love they would be on a different site. Not sure why you get emotional over what guys spend on pussy. If the goal is to shame people who spend more than you are comfortable with, well good luck with that. Let us know how that works out.

I'm cool.

Just pointing out that there is more than one bowl than the crack ho SB and her backpage seeking john. All the talk of spending more money will get you better girls or a better experience makes me laugh.

[Aardvarks]

Take a deep breath. Exhale. We heard you the first time. No need to keep repeating yourself. No one goes on seeking arrangements to fall in love. It's simple, guy gets what he wants, girl gets what she wants. Thats called an arrangement. If they wanted to fall in love they would be on a different site. Not sure why you get emotional over what guys spend on pussy. If the goal is to shame people who spend more than you are comfortable with, well good luck with that. Let us know how that works out.

I had one who was a 10, hottest girl I've ever met, and I spent a lot of money but it was worth it. I've got audio, video, and pics of our 10 month arrangement and I don't regret a penny or minute I spent.

I don't like using SA as a substitute for backpage. But everyone has their needs and if they get what they want. Cool. I will say I don't like the platonic ones trying to squeeze guys for a moment of their time. I just block them and move on.