Seeking Arrangements

[JohnTies]

Thus far site has been a complete waste of time. Have found jack! Lots of do not want to meet, want to be paid for meet and greet, want 500 to meet, want weekly / monthly arrangement from the first day.

Been ghosted and blown off more than usual. Complete and total shit show.

[Patriarchist]

I've paid off and on for a few years, and to me nothing's changed other than, during covid, way more women wanting to do "online only. " Can't blame them. For me it's still the same percentages; I look for something pretty specific, and have to weed out a lot to find it. But I have 2 women from there I can see any week I want to. Both host. And both hold my interest. But it's hard to find that. You just have to keep at it. Which I suppose is why so many just go the escort / pro route; don't have to put in this amount of time and effort. (It's not really effort to text someone. It's just the process of texting for a few days and realizing it's either not going to happen, or they are a bit "off", or whatever.).

Since the pandemic I've been working remotely so often times I have Seeking open on my personal computer and will search for girls and send messages in between work duties. In that respect covid has been positive for me. I don't need to put in a ton of effort after working hours on girls; I do most of it during the day when I'm already working. Two birds with one stone. I also have found two go-to girls off the site but like you said it did take about a month and a half to find exactly what I wanted.

[Bran001]

When I posted about Amandla17 (scroll down) my intent was not to complain about SA. I thought her reply might give some a laugh. Yes there are scammers on SA as with any site but I'm quite satisfied. I'm not complaining. I have two regulars in my rotation and was considering adding a third until my premium membership expired. I may not renew for now because I'm happy with these two, not due to any negative conditions on the site such as increase in scammers and increase in online only.

As to getting booted off, a lot of seemingly innocuous words such as incall, outcall, allowance, ppm, hotel (maybe), host, hosting, etc, can get you booted. Even if used in old messages. Remember, the internet lives forever. You need to be creative when you write and move to text or a messaging app as soon as possible.

I've paid off and on for a few years, and to me nothing's changed other than, during covid, way more women wanting to do "online only. " Can't blame them. For me it's still the same percentages; I look for something pretty specific, and have to weed out a lot to find it. But I have 2 women from there I can see any week I want to. Both host. And both hold my interest. But it's hard to find that. You just have to keep at it. Which I suppose is why so many just go the escort / pro route; don't have to put in this amount of time and effort. (It's not really effort to text someone. It's just the process of texting for a few days and realizing it's either not going to happen, or they are a bit "off", or whatever.).

[Sounds]

Or just go to Montreal and do it for cheaper (when we are allowed to go back to Canada LOL).

Well. If you have a reason to be there. More expensive to travel, get a hotel, spend money on meals, etc.

But the girls themselves are better and cheaper for sure!

[Hobbyist420]

I like a good 3 some as much as the next guy, but BE WARY. Don't get into a hotel room or go to an apartment, for the first time, with 2 women. Way too easy a scene to end up robbed. There are so many 20-somethings who will play with women; find one and then add the 2nd. It's really easy to do.

Or just go to Montreal and do it for cheaper (when we are allowed to go back to Canada LOL).

[HounDog3]

I'm pretty sure the answer is yes -- they can't tell who viewed them when it's an incomplete profile.

Not so sure about that. I can see profile views on my account from woman with no user name, no pic, and incomplete information. I expect the reverse would be true as well.

[HounDog3]

Dude its a scam site at best IMO. I was a premium member for months and 2 weeks ago my membership ended and I didn't renew seeing I have alot of contacts from there now. Now I've been on for months chatting up woman no problem, now I'm not a member and can't message anyone. So about 14 days later I'm banned for trying to solicit sex. So I sent them an email saying its fucking impossible for me to solicit sex because I'm not premium and can't talk to nobody. They replied back with some bullshit and didn't release the ban so I just made a new profile. Sites a joke and theres a scam somewhere in it but who knows but I find it ridiculous that I'm messaging woman non stop for months paying them without a problem then I decide not to renew and all of a sudden of soliciting sex.

When I posted about Amandla17 (scroll down) my intent was not to complain about SA. I thought her reply might give some a laugh. Yes there are scammers on SA as with any site but I'm quite satisfied. I'm not complaining. I have two regulars in my rotation and was considering adding a third until my premium membership expired. I may not renew for now because I'm happy with these two, not due to any negative conditions on the site such as increase in scammers and increase in online only.

As to getting booted off, a lot of seemingly innocuous words such as incall, outcall, allowance, ppm, hotel (maybe), host, hosting, etc, can get you booted. Even if used in old messages. Remember, the internet lives forever. You need to be creative when you write and move to text or a messaging app as soon as possible.

[Bran001]

So I have a secondary account to see if girls have blocked me etc. When I set it up I left out User Name, pics, heading etc. This allows me to view profiles but when I go to "favorited me " or "Viewed me" tabs it says "Your profile cannot be discovered yet". However I can view profiles and also have a favorites list.

So my question is does this mean I am invisible ieI can view profiles but they don't know I viewed them?

I'm pretty sure the answer is yes -- they can't tell who viewed them when it's an incomplete profile.

[Joe1223]

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

I think with the other sites shutting down the natural migration has been to SA. So the less quality girls and scammers have arrived in all their glory. SA take a lot of work and patience but I have been able to line up 2-3 regular girls and not blow up my budget. The hit rate is like 1 out of 10 for me but I am getting laid weekly.

[PaulRew]

So I have a secondary account to see if girls have blocked me etc. When I set it up I left out User Name, pics, heading etc. This allows me to view profiles but when I go to "favorited me " or "Viewed me" tabs it says "Your profile cannot be discovered yet". However I can view profiles and also have a favorites list.

So my question is does this mean I am invisible ieI can view profiles but they don't know I viewed them?

[PeterBoris]

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

I only had a few days left so I think you are correct.

[TheList00]

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

Dude its a scam site at best IMO. I was a premium member for months and 2 weeks ago my membership ended and I didn't renew seeing I have alot of contacts from there now. Now I've been on for months chatting up woman no problem, now I'm not a member and can't message anyone. So about 14 days later I'm banned for trying to solicit sex. So I sent them an email saying its fucking impossible for me to solicit sex because I'm not premium and can't talk to nobody. They replied back with some bullshit and didn't release the ban so I just made a new profile. Sites a joke and theres a scam somewhere in it but who knows but I find it ridiculous that I'm messaging woman non stop for months paying them without a problem then I decide not to renew and all of a sudden of soliciting sex.

[Big Stu]

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

I am not even sure if it's a lady reporting you. I'm very careful and haven't really talked to anyone in 1. 5 months it was only because I forgot to cancel my account that I got charged another month. I found 6 ladies that seem great, half of them I have done meet and greets and another 8 ladies that seem like decent fits and a bunch I have meet over time that I can call on. But after 1. 5 months of not talking to anyone I get the soliciting ban also. It's like did I get banned for not renewing my account? Because they probably make more money if they ban someone & that person has to start from zero with a new profile & renew talking to the girls they were talking to. Because at the very least you need to renew (unless you know KoF's hack) to finish talking to the girls you were talking to & at worst you need to almost start again with girls being like I was so and so and go banned. So they get another 1 or 2 months of pay out of you. I will probably send a request for them to review that soliciting charge, because I am very careful, if the come back and say sorry it stands than I know it was them just cancelling my account because they want me to start from new on a paid account. I mean we'd can't report them to the BBB for being a bad business. Covid has probably been bad for them, so dropping some semi paying clients makes sense to get them to start again from ground zero with a paid account.

For me SA has been great, of the 6 that seem to fit me great I met 2 ladies who don't want money just want to be taken out and are willing to do FWB's in exchange for a fun day, although it's not a low budget fun day which is fine with me. And I see a part time model form SA who's amazing. So SA has been great for me but probably for the next 4 months I don't need to renew or start a new profile but like I said I will try fighting the ban and if they approve it, I'll renew.

[PeterBoris]

This site is getting worse every day. I was thrown off yesterday for soliciting I didn't say anything on the site so some lady had to have reported me. I have been a member on and off 4 times in the last year. This time I found more scammers then ever. I did find a few that were worth seeing but I am through with Seeking.

[HounDog3]

Amandla17, scammer, stay away. Can't post a link because she blocked me. Number has 631 area code and ends in 2423. Profile originally said Boston and changed to Massachusetts, Massachusetts. Quoted 300. Says she's located in Carlisle and can host. My schedule has been crazy and we were unable to find a time. Coming week looks good. Texted to set it up and then came the 'oh baby can you send me something in advance'.

I despise scammers. Who doesn't? But rather than getting pissed off or frustrated over time lost, I take my sweet revenge and have some fun in the process. It typically goes something like this. Negotiate an amount to pay upfront then back and forth a couple times over what cash app to use, because of course, I don't have one she needs. Next I suggest a wire to her bank account and ask for bank routing number and account number. Eventually, when I've had a sufficient amount of amusement, I text there's as much chance of me paying in advance as the corona virus magically disappearing overnight. I also wish her good luck, suggest she needs a more effective scam if she wants to make any money, and thank her for the entertainment. You can imagine the infantile tantrums that often ensue in response. Amandla17 had one of the better ones I've seen in some time and thought it's worth sharing. Here, unedited with typos and all, was her reply:

LOL. Had 2 that just paind.
Fool.
Get the fuck.
Asshole.
Bastard.
(reference to an STD).
I'll get yoy.

My laugh for the day. Stay safe and happy hunting.