Seeking Arrangements

[Satine]

Your link is from your messages -- that doesn't work. Need to link profile url.

My bad.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e001e...a-100258fbb6a0

[Bran001]

She said searching for real connection.

Location (Amherst, MA) is probably too far for most of us. She quickly suggested online relation to start. Not for me, thanks for playing.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-460300bd0554

Your link is from your messages -- that doesn't work. Need to link profile url.

[Satine]

She said searching for real connection.

Location (Amherst, MA) is probably too far for most of us. She quickly suggested online relation to start. Not for me, thanks for playing.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-460300bd0554

[Joe Parkers]

I actually met her last week. She came over late and was supposed to spend the whole night but bounced at some point. Service not bad. Took CIP like a champ. Smelled clean. Wasn't overly tight and once naked nothing really noteworthy to make it a repeat. Save yourself the trouble. This one isn't worth the fee.

What was that fee.

[PaulRew]

I actually met her last week. She came over late and was supposed to spend the whole night but bounced at some point. Service not bad. Took CIP like a champ. Smelled clean. Wasn't overly tight and once naked nothing really noteworthy to make it a repeat. Save yourself the trouble. This one isn't worth the fee.

Just curious, what was the fee?

[PaulRew]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced 😋

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

Great texting and on morning of the the M / G I try to confirm and like a magician she magically disappeared.

[PaulRew]

Yes, it is against their terms of service and they will kick them off the site.

Yes it is against the terms of agreement but SA will not kick them off. A year or so ago they solved the SD end of this problem by setting in motion that if you report a girl you and she automatically block each other. What this does, on paper, is makes it impossible for you to see if SA followed thru enforcing the rules. If you think I am wrong, report a girl and then check if she still has an account from your second account.

[TSmithers24]

SA has a category of "reportable" offenses for "online only. " Do their terms of service actually say online only is prohibited? There are a TON of online-only women on there. I report them. . . Understanding it's whistling in the wind. Mostly because it also blocks them and I won't accidently reach out to them again.

Yes, it is against their terms of service and they will kick them off the site.

[BR1201]

No married men or she will hunt down your wife and out you to her. Other than that a charming profile. Not.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae82...6-5ac216c8642c

[Bran001]

SA has a category of "reportable" offenses for "online only. " Do their terms of service actually say online only is prohibited? There are a TON of online-only women on there. I report them. . . Understanding it's whistling in the wind. Mostly because it also blocks them and I won't accidently reach out to them again.

[Bran001]

Did you talk to her on the phone at all? I find that essential for both me and her. Sometimes I can rule out an SB by just the way they sound / talk on the phone.

I'm happy to talk on the phone, but I find that the vast majority of younger women are not. Millennials and especially Gen Z'ers don't talk on the phone much, ever. So talking to us is not natural for them, and pretty stressful. He got all the confirmation she needed. She showed up! She just flaked, big time.

[Spill]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced 😋

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

Did you talk to her on the phone at all? I find that essential for both me and her. Sometimes I can rule out an SB by just the way they sound / talk on the phone.

[Chuchunga]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

I actually met her last week. She came over late and was supposed to spend the whole night but bounced at some point. Service not bad. Took CIP like a champ. Smelled clean. Wasn't overly tight and once naked nothing really noteworthy to make it a repeat. Save yourself the trouble. This one isn't worth the fee.

[Bran001]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4.

21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States.

Guess what I've got pierced 😋.

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.

That sucks. There is no reason for that behavior that I can come up with, other than she being bizarre and totally unmotivated to find a successful connection. Or MAYBE 'cold feet' or anxiety at the last second? There is a lot of anxiety around.

[Alejhenry]

https://www.seeking.com/member/7bd2a...8-61f25c3543f4

PeacefulBaby4
21 Female Lincoln, Rhode Island, United States
Guess what I've got pierced 😋

I'm genuinely a bit surprised. She had been very responsive to text messages. I had some more flexibility than usual this week and asked her for a day that worked well for her to meet during the day. She chose Wednesday. I suggested meeting somewhere for lunch and she agreed. Picked a place and reached out on Tuesday confirming we were still on. Again before leaving, reached out and confirmed that we were still on. She told me that she'd be 5 minutes late. Not a problem, I too was going to be five minutes late.

After being 30 minutes late, she tells me she 20 minutes away and suggests we reschedule. I tell her if she truly 20 minutes away, that I'd rather wait cause it will be less time than dealing with driving back out to the area another day. I should have listened to my gut and just cut my loses and headed back home. She tells me that she's six minutes away - "great, I'll see you soon".

She pulls into the parking lot. I see her, but she doesn't see me. I get out of my car waiting for her to get out to walk up to the restaurant together. She plays on her phone for five minutes while I'm wait for her to get out of the car. I text "are you here?" and she replies that she just arrived. Okay, I've been watching you sit in the parking lot for five minutes, but whatever. 10 minutes later she's still sitting in car, and then literally drives away as I'm watching her.