Seeking Arrangements

[KidZoid]

Anyone have any intel on her? She looks amazing! I'm chatting with her offline and she seems real, but almost too good to be true.

https://www.seeking.com/member/269df...f-55441b784c28

[Guyver73]

I have never been successful in buying credits on SB using prepaid card like vanilla or amexgift. What do you guys use as payment?

I have used:

https://usa.visa.com/pay-with-visa/c...aid-cards.html

But I am single and use my Cap one card most of the time. Gotta get my points man

[Javazer]

I have never been successful in buying credits on SB using prepaid card like vanilla or amexgift. What do you guys use as payment?

[Javazer]

No travel for me. I work for myself around the NH / MA and picking has been okay, not great like in bigger cities, nonetheless I keep myself always happy.

Met this one in my hotel not long ago, single mother, covid has impacted her job so she was happy to meet me. Nice girl, seemed like she has her nose or eyes done, a little tummy, flat chest. Wanted me to put a cover on, which only happen rarely to me, so I obliged. Fucked in all positions, no anal, for about half hour and then I told her the condom is broken, she just looked at me and smile so I finished CIP. Nothing out of the ballpark, gave her $$$ for donation that we never negotiated prior to meeting. I may repeat or may not, seems like she has been around.

https://www.seeking.com/member/75811...f-613fd2e4deed

[Guyver73]

SA was great when traveling for work. I have a new job now and probably won't be traveling for work at all, even when covid restrictions end.

I'd usually start reaching out to women where I was headed about a week before. More than that is not helpful. And I'd usually line up 2, or better yet 3, wanting to see 1 or 2 at the most. Because as we all know the percentage of flaking is high. I did really well in DC, a city where I could offer them a nice dinner out, and then hotel time. Travel to more rural places was harder, but those women often viewed a dinner at Longhorn Steakhouse as a treat anyway.

The day they remove travel from my job is the day I quit and move on. But I agree my standard plan is start researching on all the sites 2 weeks prior to my trip. I find that in the major cities LA, San Fran or Houston it is like shooting fish in a barrel. Offer to meet them at a high end restaurant bar / steak house and all is well. In the smaller cities Boise, St Cloud, Topeka (no offense to anyone living there) it is a bit harder. Most of the time we meet at an Apple bees or similar place far from where they live so they do not run across anyone they know, which is fine with me (no drama).

In the small cities / towns showing up in a high end rental car and treating them like a queen and taking them shopping they fall over themselves. Offer to pay half / full of their rent for the month and they will do what ever you want for as long as you want. I had one girl in Tennessee (23 blond hair beautiful skin and full size C cups, I found her on SA pre Covid and she kept me happy for the next 4 nights/overnights, total cost was 750 her rent for a month. We had agreed that she would meet me at the airport when I flew in and if we did not hit it off I would give her 50 plus Uber / taxi fee to get her home. We hit it off and I was very happy having a warm bed every night.

[Bran001]

No way in hell is she a virgin.

From Taunton. Another red flag. I know I'm a snob but girls from Taunton, Lynn, Brockton. . . Etc. Are the most likely to scam / rip off / rob. Too desperate for cash and too rough an upbringing.

[Bran001]

As things start to re-open I will most likely move on from the two I have and begin traveling for work again.

SA was great when traveling for work. I have a new job now and probably won't be traveling for work at all, even when covid restrictions end.

I'd usually start reaching out to women where I was headed about a week before. More than that is not helpful. And I'd usually line up 2, or better yet 3, wanting to see 1 or 2 at the most. Because as we all know the percentage of flaking is high. I did really well in DC, a city where I could offer them a nice dinner out, and then hotel time. Travel to more rural places was harder, but those women often viewed a dinner at Longhorn Steakhouse as a treat anyway.

[Guyver73]

This one has a serious grifter vibe. A virgin? Sure honey, whatever you say. LOL. Wonder how many guys will think they're the "first".

No way in hell is she a virgin.

[EvilTmp]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f294d...5-22beee8e3f7c

Looking to sell her virginity for 2. 5 k. Apparently has a 50 yr old roommate or something like that as well. While texting with her she gets extremely combative and complains that men in Boston are cheap. She's on multiple sites but basically thinks she's worth a million dollars. Says she gets 500 for just a BJ. I don't know who enable these girls but people have to stop cause it makes it horrible for the rest of us LOL. I'd stay away from this one for sure.

This one has a serious grifter vibe. A virgin? Sure honey, whatever you say. LOL. Wonder how many guys will think they're the "first".

[Guyver73]

I enjoy using the services of the ladies who advertise on SB, SA or WYP sites. Typically they are not drugged out, pimped out junkies who are looking at deaths door. All the ones I have been with across this country have been college girls needing financial help out of college girls who cannot find a job they want or single moms needing help. It is interesting that the longer you are with them the more they tell you about their lives and what is going on.

I try to keep at least 2 of them going at a time to fit my fancy and or needs. There is one I am seeing down in CT that is an older 40's lady that I normally would never be with but she can carry on a conversation and at a bar or restaurant we do not stand out (plus she is open to everything). The other one I am seeing is 22 year old red head that I met at a party that was full of ladies, every time with her I feel as I am about to have a heart attack.

If I have a want for something strange, strip clubs, escorts or massage parlor girls are always fun.

As things start to re-open I will most likely move on from the two I have and begin traveling for work again.

In the end I am a Guy, I love woman I love sex and I love waking up in the morning with a hottie. I do not want the drama of a girlfriend or wife. In twenty years I plan to retire to Thai Land with my fat 401K and live life to the fullest. Never looking back.

Happy Hunting and be safe.

[HounDog3]

Just for the record I typically don't do the one time meets. I am looking for a long term thing so over time I actually do get into their personal business. I'm done with the escort sites and now I am able to spend a few hours at a time with the Sugar baby girls I find. After many visits talking about the weather gets old. The girls I find actually like to be treated like a GF and talking with them over a bottle of wine or drinks, about themselves, is all they need. These young girls want it to be all about them so all you have to do is talk to them and build their egos. They love it and if done right they will tell you things about themselves that you would not expect. Remember most of the college girls don't view themselves as escorts so if you don't treat them like one you can actually build a relationship with many of them. I had one girl who would regurgitate her weekly sessions from her shrink. She had major daddy issues and needed an older guy to fuck her and slap her and inflict pain. This went on for months until she moved away to Boulder CO for her doctrine degree. Single mothers are so anxious for a mature conversation and affection it's very easy to get into a vibe with them. So don't assume we are all dreaming. I am very selective as to who I make an arrangement with now so I am able to be more selective. I'm living the dream after a few decades of banging someone different each time out. If you are looking for escorts on these sites you can easily find them but if you are looking for naive first timers they are plenty of them as well. Getting a 100 messages is a lot different than actually replying to a 100 messages. I have been very pleased with my arrangements but I only have one or two in the lineup at any time.

My experience is very similar to Joe's, not at all like what List suggests. My long term arrangements have all been more than a year or 1.5 years. I got to know quite a lot, intimate details, of their personal lives, their kids lives, about their families. You almost can't help but not in such a situation, spending hours together on a regular basis over drinks, meals, in bed. Yes, the women may have had another guy or two in their rotation, regulars, no different than we do but they were open about disclosing. They would keep their SA profiles active for the same reason we do: you never know when one of your regulars will flake or fall out of rotation and its good to stay current on alternatives / replacements that may be available.

[Bran001]

Just for the record I typically don't do the one time meets.

I never have the goal of a one-time meet. But life is short and if it's not my version of awesome then that's usually what happens; no second time.

But clearly there are men who ONLY want one-time things. The rest of us suffer from having to assure the women that that's not our goal, as it obviously discourages them. They know that's what they'll likely get from Tinder; a pump-and-dump fuckboy. I very often hear they are on SA for something different (and not just the funds).

[Bran001]

I actually agree with everything you said, except the part about my assuming that all men value pussy equally. If my comment came off that way, it was not my intention! Clearly, some men are looking for a quick fuck or a blow and go. Others may be looking for something more long-term, as Joe indicated, in the post below. Still others may be looking for something in between. My main point was, that sugar sites are not the only place to find nice women, whether for a quick pump and dump, or an ongoing arrangement. As opposed to scab covered drugged out skanks! My point in bringing up Renee was, that she's an example of an escort who also is a nice woman, as opposed to a used-up addict. I enjoy pump and dumps, but with NICE women, and not so much, with addicted, dangerous-thug-managed skanks. My point was that a hoe that knows she's a hoe (that is, an escort) will generally be a more economical option than many of the GPS princesses in the sugar sites. I've had some great "relationships" with NICE women who are hoes that know they are hoes (escorts) that went beyond just leaving a spermload in their cunnts, LOL! Often staying way overtime and hanging out just enjoying the company of said women for a while. Or even taking them to dinner in a nice restaurant after filling their vaginas with semen. (Back in the days when nice restaurants existed when you didnt have to provide your contact info and wear a goddam mask!) It's just that I prefer, after the fun is over, whether for the half hour, or for an extended date, I'd just rather pay them to leave! And I've found such women not only on SA, but also from escort ads and in strip clubs.

I appreciate that we all have our "things" - what does it for us and what we don't want.

I just think that posts in the SA forum that appear from time to time to (1) be critical of those who pay SA going rates in Boston and (2) advocate looking for less expensive women elsewhere, are not helpful to the SA forum discussion. Of course I'm free to ignore such posts. Those of us who do the SA thing are well aware that there are many other ways; we just have to see the titles of the other forums in Boston such as "street walkers," "escorts," "BTT. ".

Those may be "more economical" as you say. We get it. That's not what we're looking for.

There's a thrill of the chase. On SA, and on escort sites. You seem to enjoy finding nice women on the escort sites. Cool. Some of us enjoy finding our own types of gems on SA. Cool. Believe me, we all know about the other options and it sounds like we've all tried them over the years.

[KingOfFours]

Your comment presupposes that all men value all pussy equally. We do not.

Some men will pay a premium for being with, including but not limited to fucking, "non-pros" (and we can quibble about the definition). Why? Many reasons, each individual to each of us. I could list several.

One reason is how common "the drugged-out, pimp-managed, scab-covered STG skanks who post most of the escort ads these days" are. I'm fucking Harvard, BU, BC, Northeastern grad students. Tomorrow I'm again seeing a 2019 small liberal college grad. She's very sweet, about 5'8", and neither drugged-out, pimp-managed, or scab-covered.

I'm sure we can find a photo on the pro sites of anyone who looks like any of the college students or grad students I've fucked from SA over the past 5 years. Personally, I'd rather fuck the grad student once instead of the monger site girl twice. YM obviously V's.

I actually agree with everything you said, except the part about my assuming that all men value pussy equally. If my comment came off that way, it was not my intention! Clearly, some men are looking for a quick fuck or a blow and go. Others may be looking for something more long-term, as Joe indicated, in the post below. Still others may be looking for something in between. My main point was, that sugar sites are not the only place to find nice women, whether for a quick pump and dump, or an ongoing arrangement. As opposed to scab covered drugged out skanks! My point in bringing up Renee was, that she's an example of an escort who also is a nice woman, as opposed to a used-up addict. I enjoy pump and dumps, but with NICE women, and not so much, with addicted, dangerous-thug-managed skanks. My point was that a hoe that knows she's a hoe (that is, an escort) will generally be a more economical option than many of the GPS princesses in the sugar sites. I've had some great "relationships" with NICE women who are hoes that know they are hoes (escorts) that went beyond just leaving a spermload in their cunnts, LOL! Often staying way overtime and hanging out just enjoying the company of said women for a while. Or even taking them to dinner in a nice restaurant after filling their vaginas with semen. (Back in the days when nice restaurants existed when you didnt have to provide your contact info and wear a goddam mask!) It's just that I prefer, after the fun is over, whether for the half hour, or for an extended date, I'd just rather pay them to leave! And I've found such women not only on SA, but also from escort ads and in strip clubs.

[Chuchunga]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f294d...5-22beee8e3f7c

Looking to sell her virginity for 2. 5 k. Apparently has a 50 yr old roommate or something like that as well. While texting with her she gets extremely combative and complains that men in Boston are cheap. She's on multiple sites but basically thinks she's worth a million dollars. Says she gets 500 for just a BJ. I don't know who enable these girls but people have to stop cause it makes it horrible for the rest of us LOL. I'd stay away from this one for sure.