Seeking Arrangements

**PaulRew** · 12-09-20 18:09

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

BarbieJo143 - https://www.seeking.com/member/3108b...2-4788b913179b I saw her a few months back. She can't host, isn't on the birth control but will allow BB. Fake tits. She was fun but we just didn't click the passion wasn't there. It was 200 for about an hour. She likes going out and having fun, so keep in mind she wants an arrangement that's more than just being physical but eating out or going out for drinks regularly. Took 2 meet and greets to get to the point of the hotel room.

The_Harliquinn - https://www.seeking.com/member/459c5...7-1027f420e735 Nice girl. She told me she was picky who she meets. She's a little larger than I like but she's not fat. I just like skinny girls. BB was fine on birth control. Wants between 300 and 400 I gave her 325. It was a little bit of a rush job we talked for 1. 5 but only did 30 min if that in bed. Just no sparks in bed.

Bratnee30 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b7346...0-06515d9b89c6 She is really pretty. Great body. Did a meet and greet really connected. She wants 400 to 500 each time. BB was fine, though she told me she is careful who she allows to go BB. But her kitty felt amazing to be inside bare. Making our schedules work has been tough so I kind of gave up, the time I saw her I had a day off work & my plans fell through & I think she texted me. But she was great, a lot of fun in bed, clean nice tasting kitty. Soft skin. Would definitely see again.

ExoticVic - https://www.seeking.com/member/951f2...e-051a3645136e Really nice girl, fun to be with, she's gorgeous. We have done 2 meet and greets. We talked about price and she said her old sugar daddy gave her 1200 each visit. I threw out 800 and she said she'd be comfortable with that. But I haven't really felt like spending that much. She has come back saying she wants to meet up for drinks and discuss a number that works better so I will probably end up seeing her if she comes down to 400 or maybe 500. Really attractive girl but I can tell she'll be high maintenance. Our 1st meet and greet she picked the place and I spent close to 160 for drinks & apps and it was half priced apps.

FitAsian99 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b9aa1...4-de6857bf0814 Cool girl, great body, really nice. We did a meet and greet some decent chemistry. Not on birth control though she said she was thinking of getting an IUD. She wants 500 & expects to be taken out for dinner also. I think with her, she doesn't need the extra money but she likes it so she can be firm on the price.

Akwardlyamusing - https://www.seeking.com/member/55f4c...5-9d1c2fc6392e Nice girl, a little thicker than I like but I still might see her. We did a meet and greet, got along well. Wants 300 for a visit with her. Can host.

Caseycowgirl - https://www.seeking.com/member/5f4d3...1-4648e9ccb276 Attractive girl, great attitude. We didn't talk numbers but she made it clear that she wanted to meet platonically for a few times until she was comfortable for more. We had a big activity in common. We texted for about a week after, even planned a get together & then she went dark a few days before. Later told me she decided she just wasn't interested. I think she decided our common activity had to much overlap & maybe found some friends in common so it was too big a risk for her.

Rosielovesaugar - https://www.seeking.com/member/d7a01...0-2f9559a9be08 has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, her old sugar daddy gave her 800 but she said shed do 500. I offered 300 once and she said no but a week later said come by for 500. Can host and will do bare.

SparkleSeduction - https://www.seeking.com/member/d10e1...3-0104c8c683df has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, can host wants 300. Not on birth control but will allow BB. I told her my pull out game was weak & she said not to worry she wasnt ovulating. LOL that's a little worrying unless she was being serious.

So I'm taking a break from seeking for awhile, I have found 3 ladies (I didn't write about) I really like and Brittany if our schedules ever work again. All 3 are about chemistry and the experience not just the money. Which works great for me, I like having a partner for snowboarding or hiking or going out to dinner. 300 for a whole weekend works great for me. Though I will probably have to whittle it down to 2, financially. One of them is looking to do a 3 some and to see other guys also so I'd consider sharing her link if you have a good trade.

Also, I have noticed if you have verified your FB profile on SA and talk to a lady regularly on SA and she has FB eventually she will pop up in your friends recommendation for FB. For some of you married guys that could be really bad news. For me it's not a big deal and its nice to see if a girls actually legit and her non SA pics. But something to be wary of if you need discretion.

Truly outstanding and informative post!

**Spill** · 12-09-20 18:09

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

First and foremost, nothing you post here will affect what the SB's ask or get, it just doesn't work that way. I have found that in the last two years the financial expectation of the girls has gone up. You either adapt or you get left behind. I have never paid more than $400 for an SB and then only if she hosts. Two or three years ago I would try and stay at or under $300, if a girl hosted she got the $300 if I got a room then I would try and get her in at $200-250. Currently I cap the maximum outlay at $400 applying the same thought process. You may think that $3-400 is way too much and that's your prerogative but I certainly don't considering what you get for that. Pretty hot, fit 20-35 year old usually educated and not taking 6 coocks a day. And did I mention multiple hours and almost always bare?

So GV, I assume you read a ton of the thread and have seen the $300 number mentioned often, so what are your expectations?

Got to agree with PaulRew here. This discussion has gone on online since the big doggie started 20 years ago. GV, I am surprised that, with your experience, you would actually think "We can collectively set the pricing if everyone is paying the same thing. ". Really?

**PaulRew** · 12-09-20 17:54

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

Guys I have been on SA for about 5 days now. Here are my observations. STOP OFFERING SB's crazy money. If you keep giving them crazy money than that is what they expect. I have interacted with so many women that have said that is what they are getting from you other SD's that they are not lowering their pricing. Come on guys. Supply & Demand. We can collectively set the pricing if everyone is paying the same thing. I mean honeslty how many of you guys can really afford to pay $500 per meet? Really guys?

First and foremost, nothing you post here will affect what the SB's ask or get, it just doesn't work that way. I have found that in the last two years the financial expectation of the girls has gone up. You either adapt or you get left behind. I have never paid more than $400 for an SB and then only if she hosts. Two or three years ago I would try and stay at or under $300, if a girl hosted she got the $300 if I got a room then I would try and get her in at $200-250. Currently I cap the maximum outlay at $400 applying the same thought process. You may think that $3-400 is way too much and that's your prerogative but I certainly don't considering what you get for that. Pretty hot, fit 20-35 year old usually educated and not taking 6 coocks a day. And did I mention multiple hours and almost always bare?

So GV, I assume you read a ton of the thread and have seen the $300 number mentioned often, so what are your expectations?

**Tribeca67** · 12-09-20 16:35

I noticed after being on and off seeking for a year or so that the girls that ask between 250 and 400 are the best. All girls imo that I spoke with who wanted 500 or more have a trash personality and are limited in the bedroom. There is imo no reason to be spending 500 or more. All the girls that I saw for the rate I mentioned are banging and chill. There might be exceptions but still imo no reason for 500 or more unless she's bringing a friend.

**Gianni Versace** · 12-09-20 16:05

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

Also agree on coffee. There are girls on there who are "dinner hunters" who will agree to dinner / apps / drinks for a first meet, and then you never hear from them again. Been had by a few so I learned my lesson.

Those are also the same type of girls who will just go on tinder and Bumble dates just for free dinners. Girls are so ruthless.

**Hobbyist420** · 12-09-20 15:30

Originally Posted by Monstagoo [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dae0f...e-565f8879ef19

I've been on here for a little while and now that I've read a few reports I think I have the hang of it and figured I'd share one.

Met this one a week ago. Messaged a few times on the site and switched to kik to continue. Discussed meeting. She could host the day we messaged on so I went. Run down area and house. Room she hosted in was filthy. Leather couch had no more leather left on it. She was pretty, nice bolt ons and dressed very sexy. Everything covered and rushed like someone was coming or already there. Barely got hard enough to do the deed. Did get going and finished reverse cow girl in the bag. Was there all of 12 minutes. Damage $$ No smell and no obvious demons but I could be wrong though on the demons. Wouldn't repeat but YMMV.

She's a former latina pro (eros; also been on SA for a while) whose rate was way too high for me so I passed. Good thing I did.

**Hobbyist420** · 12-09-20 15:26

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

That guy has no idea about being discreet. And yes I agree that getting coffee before or meeting somewhere is a must before any arrangement is established.

Originally Posted by Lee1995 [View Original Post]

I made a SA profile and paid for the subscription but everytime someone post a link to a girl and I click on it, it just says no match found? Also seems like theres not many girls when I do my own search. I am confused does this seeking site even work and is it legit?

A) Are you logged in? If you click incognito, you most likely are not. You have to be either logged in or create dummy account to see a profile, unless.

B) The girl blocked you. You can't see profiles of women who block you.

Also, when doing a search, make sure you click "reset all" and enter the parameters. Sometimes, it will carry over your older searches (including text one) which can affect the search.

I have hunted for latinas on there so I know LOL.

**Hobbyist420** · 12-09-20 15:21

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

That guy has no idea about being discreet. And yes I agree that getting coffee before or meeting somewhere is a must before any arrangement is established.

Also agree on coffee. There are girls on there who are "dinner hunters" who will agree to dinner / apps / drinks for a first meet, and then you never hear from them again. Been had by a few so I learned my lesson.

**Gianni Versace** · 12-09-20 15:20

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

For 35+, I have a few mature regulars (45-55) I give $100-200 too, BBFS.

Do agree on more girls using older / filtered pictures or bait and switching dates (I. E. Say they are GFE, and then refuse to kiss or BBBJ once alone). They are usually the semi-pro types.

Part of the reason I haven't been on these sites in a while because there are too many fakes (real and otherwise). Especially secret benefits. They literally have fake profiles using local girls' instagrams as pics, inflating the actual pussy stock, and getting you to "look" at the pic while spending your credits.

A Benjamin Franklin or 2 of them is more like it. I am starting to think maybe the mature regulars maybe the way to go LOL.

**Hobbyist420** · 12-09-20 15:19

Originally Posted by BigStu [View Original Post]

Also, I have noticed if you have verified your FB profile on SA and talk to a lady regularly on SA and she has FB eventually she will pop up in your friends recommendation for FB. For some of you married guys that could be really bad news. For me it's not a big deal and its nice to see if a girls actually legit and her non SA pics. But something to be wary of if you need discretion.

Yo, that's fucked up.

Another reason not to link FB to these sites. Shit, another reason to not have FB in general.

**Hobbyist420** · 12-09-20 15:15

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

How about Mid 30's - 50's single moms? What do you give them? $150?

There are alot of girls on the site who are larger and simply unattractive and have no business being on the site.

For 35+, I have a few mature regulars (45-55) I give $100-200 too, BBFS.

Do agree on more girls using older / filtered pictures or bait and switching dates (I. E. Say they are GFE, and then refuse to kiss or BBBJ once alone). They are usually the semi-pro types.

Part of the reason I haven't been on these sites in a while because there are too many fakes (real and otherwise). Especially secret benefits. They literally have fake profiles using local girls' instagrams as pics, inflating the actual pussy stock, and getting you to "look" at the pic while spending your credits.

**Gianni Versace** · 12-09-20 14:24

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

$300 - $400 is typical PPM for good looking college girls, grad students, girls in their twenties, for several hours with MSOG. Depending on the girl it can be pretty much unlimited. If she becomes a regular you see frequently, you may be able to negotiate a better arrangement.

How about Mid 30's - 50's single moms? What do you give them? $150?

There are alot of girls on the site who are larger and simply unattractive and have no business being on the site.

**HounDog3** · 12-09-20 12:52

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

I don't believe it. The money they are saying is anywhere from $300-$500. Which I still think is crazy money.

$300 - $400 is typical PPM for good looking college girls, grad students, girls in their twenties, for several hours with MSOG. Depending on the girl it can be pretty much unlimited. If she becomes a regular you see frequently, you may be able to negotiate a better arrangement.

**Big Stu** · 12-09-20 12:43

BarbieJo143 - https://www.seeking.com/member/3108b...2-4788b913179b I saw her a few months back. She can't host, isn't on the birth control but will allow BB. Fake tits. She was fun but we just didn't click the passion wasn't there. It was 200 for about an hour. She likes going out and having fun, so keep in mind she wants an arrangement that's more than just being physical but eating out or going out for drinks regularly. Took 2 meet and greets to get to the point of the hotel room.

The_Harliquinn - https://www.seeking.com/member/459c5...7-1027f420e735 Nice girl. She told me she was picky who she meets. She's a little larger than I like but she's not fat. I just like skinny girls. BB was fine on birth control. Wants between 300 and 400 I gave her 325. It was a little bit of a rush job we talked for 1. 5 but only did 30 min if that in bed. Just no sparks in bed.

Bratnee30 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b7346...0-06515d9b89c6 She is really pretty. Great body. Did a meet and greet really connected. She wants 400 to 500 each time. BB was fine, though she told me she is careful who she allows to go BB. But her kitty felt amazing to be inside bare. Making our schedules work has been tough so I kind of gave up, the time I saw her I had a day off work & my plans fell through & I think she texted me. But she was great, a lot of fun in bed, clean nice tasting kitty. Soft skin. Would definitely see again.

ExoticVic - https://www.seeking.com/member/951f2...e-051a3645136e Really nice girl, fun to be with, she's gorgeous. We have done 2 meet and greets. We talked about price and she said her old sugar daddy gave her 1200 each visit. I threw out 800 and she said she'd be comfortable with that. But I haven't really felt like spending that much. She has come back saying she wants to meet up for drinks and discuss a number that works better so I will probably end up seeing her if she comes down to 400 or maybe 500. Really attractive girl but I can tell she'll be high maintenance. Our 1st meet and greet she picked the place and I spent close to 160 for drinks & apps and it was half priced apps.

FitAsian99 - https://www.seeking.com/member/b9aa1...4-de6857bf0814 Cool girl, great body, really nice. We did a meet and greet some decent chemistry. Not on birth control though she said she was thinking of getting an IUD. She wants 500 & expects to be taken out for dinner also. I think with her, she doesn't need the extra money but she likes it so she can be firm on the price.

Akwardlyamusing - https://www.seeking.com/member/55f4c...5-9d1c2fc6392e Nice girl, a little thicker than I like but I still might see her. We did a meet and greet, got along well. Wants 300 for a visit with her. Can host.

Caseycowgirl - https://www.seeking.com/member/5f4d3...1-4648e9ccb276 Attractive girl, great attitude. We didn't talk numbers but she made it clear that she wanted to meet platonically for a few times until she was comfortable for more. We had a big activity in common. We texted for about a week after, even planned a get together & then she went dark a few days before. Later told me she decided she just wasn't interested. I think she decided our common activity had to much overlap & maybe found some friends in common so it was too big a risk for her.

Rosielovesaugar - https://www.seeking.com/member/d7a01...0-2f9559a9be08 has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, her old sugar daddy gave her 800 but she said shed do 500. I offered 300 once and she said no but a week later said come by for 500. Can host and will do bare.

SparkleSeduction - https://www.seeking.com/member/d10e1...3-0104c8c683df has anyone seen her? We have talked a few times, can host wants 300. Not on birth control but will allow BB. I told her my pull out game was weak & she said not to worry she wasnt ovulating. LOL that's a little worrying unless she was being serious.

So I'm taking a break from seeking for awhile, I have found 3 ladies (I didn't write about) I really like and Brittany if our schedules ever work again. All 3 are about chemistry and the experience not just the money. Which works great for me, I like having a partner for snowboarding or hiking or going out to dinner. 300 for a whole weekend works great for me. Though I will probably have to whittle it down to 2, financially. One of them is looking to do a 3 some and to see other guys also so I'd consider sharing her link if you have a good trade.

Also, I have noticed if you have verified your FB profile on SA and talk to a lady regularly on SA and she has FB eventually she will pop up in your friends recommendation for FB. For some of you married guys that could be really bad news. For me it's not a big deal and its nice to see if a girls actually legit and her non SA pics. But something to be wary of if you need discretion.