Seeking Arrangements

[JClearMan1]

Girls on sugar sites usually fall into these categories:

- scammers.

- girls who love money but hate sex.

- girls who love sex and need money.

- girls who love sex and money.

- nympho kinksters who view sugaring as a way to get a bonus for their vice (and in some cases, just looking for good dick and are on these sites bc CL/BP is dead).

I found a 22 yr old UTG on FL who started out as a SB, but now we just fuck on the reg as like you, she felt felt while the money is a bonus, it isn't why she enjoys our time together. I'd essentially just stress that you enjoy your time and friendship with her. And that providing her with an envelope / gifts / sugar after these good times are a token of appreciation for her spending time with you, and making those memories together. Hell, I'd even ask her if she likes you; stress friendship. As in my case, you may be able to reverse the arrangement's cost as supposed to thinking offering more would keep her around.

Solid overview. My favorite are the last one.

[JClearMan1]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

This has happened to me several times, I just let them go.

[Mark Powers]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-abbcfb9356d2

Let me try again. Asian woman.

That worked.

[FriendlyKing]

1. Check their joined date. If they joined in the past 1-8 days it's almost certainly a scammer.

2. There are a lot of "escorts" on there; women happy to have sex for $$ without much regard to who it is.

I would obviously ignore women if they had joined in the past 10 days. These are women who are active for a couple of months. One such example below.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-3aa4e250b0b9

3. I would never go through with a meetup with a woman who'd never actually asked to see my photos.

Same. I would never go ahead.

[Bran001]

I've noticed that a significant increase in number of women seem eager to meet without asking to see my pictures first. While I typically view this as a potential warning sign, given the frequency of such encounters, I'm curious to hear opinion of experienced folks on this matter. Have any of you encountered a similar situation, and does it invariably indicate the presence of a scammer on the other end? Or are they just ready fuck anyone who pays them?

1. Check their joined date. If they joined in the past 1-8 days it's almost certainly a scammer.

2. There are a lot of "escorts" on there; women happy to have sex for $$ without much regard to who it is.

3. I would never go through with a meetup with a woman who'd never actually asked to see my photos.

[FriendlyKing]

I've noticed that a significant increase in number of women seem eager to meet without asking to see my pictures first. While I typically view this as a potential warning sign, given the frequency of such encounters, I'm curious to hear opinion of experienced folks on this matter. Have any of you encountered a similar situation, and does it invariably indicate the presence of a scammer on the other end? Or are they just ready fuck anyone who pays them?

[Bran001]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-abbcfb9356d2

Let me try again. Asian woman.

She's had a profile on there for many years. I never partook.

[Malden Male]

I can't see that profile. Maybe she blocked me?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-abbcfb9356d2

Let me try again. Asian woman.

[Mark Powers]

Hello All,

Any recent experiences with Malden Judy cat lady? https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-abbcfb9356d2..

Reviews aren't great in the past, just curious if anything more recent changes that needle. Price is right compared to most, just not sure if it's remotely worth it.

Stay safe,

Malden Male.

I can't see that profile. Maybe she blocked me?

[Malden Male]

Hello All,

Any recent experiences with Malden Judy cat lady? https://members.seeking.com/member/8...3-abbcfb9356d2..

Reviews aren't great in the past, just curious if anything more recent changes that needle. Price is right compared to most, just not sure if it's remotely worth it.

Stay safe,

Malden Male.

[ThotLover95]

I think that the key is for you to tell her that you really like seeing her too and definitely don't want her to feel weird. The challenge. . . Can you navigate a path where you keep seeing her??

Maybe rather than propose something (like "how about if we go shopping instead" ask HER if she has any ideas. You can tell her, "I don't want this to be weird either but I'd really like us to keep seeing each other. What might work for you?

Any tips on pulling off hinge? I find most vanilla girls aren't into this lifestyle.

[DarkClouds]

Definitely a pro. You can tell from her responses and notice how the videos are watermarked. Pretty sure she's a traveler.

https://twitter.com/1girlfewMs

[Bran001]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

I think that the key is for you to tell her that you really like seeing her too and definitely don't want her to feel weird. The challenge. . . Can you navigate a path where you keep seeing her??

Maybe rather than propose something (like "how about if we go shopping instead" ask HER if she has any ideas. You can tell her, "I don't want this to be weird either but I'd really like us to keep seeing each other. What might work for you?

[BigGuy3344]

https://twitter.com/1girlfewMs

Did you see her?

[Hobbyist420]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

Girls on sugar sites usually fall into these categories:

- scammers.

- girls who love money but hate sex.

- girls who love sex and need money.

- girls who love sex and money.

- nympho kinksters who view sugaring as a way to get a bonus for their vice (and in some cases, just looking for good dick and are on these sites bc CL/BP is dead).

I found a 22 yr old UTG on FL who started out as a SB, but now we just fuck on the reg as like you, she felt felt while the money is a bonus, it isn't why she enjoys our time together. I'd essentially just stress that you enjoy your time and friendship with her. And that providing her with an envelope / gifts / sugar after these good times are a token of appreciation for her spending time with you, and making those memories together. Hell, I'd even ask her if she likes you; stress friendship. As in my case, you may be able to reverse the arrangement's cost as supposed to thinking offering more would keep her around.