Seeking Arrangements

**Hobbyist420** · 04-15-24 13:50

Originally Posted by FrogPilot [View Original Post]

Agree with everyone saying an allowance doesn't work and just want to emphasize a key point that Spill touched on when he said "acceptably worded", some girls just use the term "allowance" because it feels less transactional or to translate, it helps them feel less like a prostitute, so sure, girls can use the word "allowance" with me but I always make it clear that I want to meet once a week and if we don't meet they don't get paid.

Yeah I think they use to term to emphasize getting dough for fun; when I use PPM with some girls they have no idea what it means. I think some use it as a blanket term; others of course do have the PPS and actually except the monthly stipend.

**FrogPilot** · 04-14-24 17:59

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

No, it does not work. And you will need to explain to the SB why it does not. The SB feel ripped off if you visit too much and the SD feels ripped off if he cannot visit enough.

Tell her it is an allowance per visit or something. Some acceptably worded version of PPM. Tell her the reason is fairness.

Agree with everyone saying an allowance doesn't work and just want to emphasize a key point that Spill touched on when he said "acceptably worded", some girls just use the term "allowance" because it feels less transactional or to translate, it helps them feel less like a prostitute, so sure, girls can use the word "allowance" with me but I always make it clear that I want to meet once a week and if we don't meet they don't get paid.

**Spill** · 04-14-24 13:38

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.

No, it does not work. And you will need to explain to the SB why it does not. The SB feel ripped off if you visit too much and the SD feels ripped off if he cannot visit enough.

Tell her it is an allowance per visit or something. Some acceptably worded version of PPM. Tell her the reason is fairness.

**JohnTies** · 04-14-24 11:23

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.

The allowance works for the SB, I can see if you have been seeing someone for a while and want to make them permanent or your mistress, etc.

You would pay them up front for the month. Anytime you pay in advance you lose control and power of the situation.

Have talked with guys who have done allowance after seeing someone for an amount of time and what usually happens is they seem to get busy and.

Have less time to see you, even though you have paid her already and or set parameters of the deal.

I have seen some SB's for a year or two and it was always ppm, as I am busy with things and really did not know how much time I would have.

Month to month to meet up. Never had any issue with them, the long term one's, had some short term SB's who pushed for it and I just dropped them.

Also this was mostly before covid, one was after. Now things have seemed to change for the most part and how the women were on there is not how they are now.

You could find good women there much more easily, now lots of them looking for online / text only and want to be paid LOL.

Want to sell you pics / vids only, want allowance only no ppm, want you to pay them for a meet and greet thinking their time is more valuable than yours.

The whole attitude of most women on there truly sucks to be honest, add in lots of GPS also. A 6 thinks they are a 9 and wants 600 LOL.

There are some good one's there just much more difficult to find and there are many guys on there who pay whatever so they inflate the price of all SB's.

By paying a 6 like a 9.

**MajorJohnson** · 04-14-24 01:41

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.

It doesn't work. PPM is the only way. Allowance is basically paying in advance. Never works. There's one on SA, absolute smoke show, hides her profile most of the time but last time it was visible there was a requirement that you will not mind if she has a boyfriend. In other word, you need to support the boyfriend too. LOL.

**Mark Powers** · 04-13-24 17:22

How does an allowance even work? Let's say you agree on an amount. Are they expecting you to pay the full amount upfront each month or at the end of the month? Has anyone ever done it and how did it go? Feel free to PM.

**Hobbyist420** · 04-13-24 13:07

Originally Posted by JClearMan1 [View Original Post]

I swear one of you reviewed her before, but I can't find the review.

Also went by "rain". Bagged her for $500; short, LFK, great ass, squirter, BBBJ and CFS. She's not one for overtime tho and can be moody so YMMV.

**PoolPlayInTool** · 04-13-24 10:02

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

No insight at all however I have a feeling she won't talk to you for less than $1 K and she states no PPm which means allowance, which means GPS. Good luck and report back what she expects her "gift" to be.

https://www.reddit.com/user/Brief-In...066/submitted/

**Joe1223** · 04-12-24 22:12

Originally Posted by BDingas [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-15f6f9ea3190

Been talking to her, anyone have insight?

No insight at all however I have a feeling she won't talk to you for less than $1 K and she states no PPm which means allowance, which means GPS. Good luck and report back what she expects her "gift" to be.

**Emv La** · 04-12-24 20:54

Originally Posted by DreplyNow [View Original Post]

Pig Butchering Scam: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vu-Y1h9rTUs..

Go to 8:37 - See the actual scripts they've been using.

I have personally experienced some of these exact same statements & phrases.

I put this in the wrong section earlier. This was more for the Seeking site.

Damn I've been meaning to watch that video. Saved it to my Watch Later. Love that guy's work but I've had that happen too mostly from the "Colombia" or "Venezuela" SB's who favorite me and either ask for "online fun" or "what I'm looking for". Most are discoverable through reverse image search on Google and for those who answer a WhatsApp call or Snapchat call and simply say hi and bye are big time scammers too. Think with the big head gents.

**BDingas** · 04-12-24 19:57

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-15f6f9ea3190

Been talking to her, anyone have insight?

**Tribeca67** · 04-10-24 20:02

Originally Posted by JClearMan1 [View Original Post]

I swear one of you reviewed her before, but I can't find the review.

Sylvester Stallone look alike.

**DreplyNow** · 04-10-24 16:08

Pig Butchering Scam: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vu-Y1h9rTUs..

Go to 8:37 - See the actual scripts they've been using.

I have personally experienced some of these exact same statements & phrases.

I put this in the wrong section earlier. This was more for the Seeking site.