Seeking Arrangements

**Spill** · 02-02-24 13:52

You can also tell that you would love to take her shopping. But that you so not have the time or that you would would love to buy her gifts. But do not know what to get. So please use the money to buy some gifts from you. Of course, this has to be carefully worded.

Originally Posted by KcirtaPanner2 [View Original Post]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

**EpicSD** · 02-02-24 13:22

Originally Posted by KcirtaPanner2 [View Original Post]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

I tell girls that feel icky about the money that I prefer an old timey style relationship without the toxic (I-own-you) masculinity. And I tell them that I love caretaking. So I avoid giving the money right after sex and try to have the end of sex NOT be the end of the date. I'll say "let me help you with rent" ". Day to day living" ". Student loans" And I really believe this so it works 90% of the time. Godspeed brother.

**Lily1234** · 02-02-24 11:48

Originally Posted by KcirtaPanner2 [View Original Post]

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

Before sa back in the craigslist days I had a girl who refused to discuss money. I would leave her something but she said she felt too weird talking about it at all but she wanted it. That worked out if you can get her back.

**KcirtaPanner2** · 02-02-24 09:56

Figured I would solicit you guys for some advice. Been seeing this 18 year old college frosh since September. We met on hinge, she's never done anything like this before. 300 ppm and up until last time it was just dates no sex which I was fine with because she said from the start sex was definitely on the table, and she'd still accept 300 for that. Mind you this girl is gorgeous and I actually enjoy spending time with her.

So we finally hook up on the most recent meet, only our 4th overall, it goes great, she's super into it and says multiple times in our correspondence since that she had fun. We agree to do it again next week, and she even offers to take a plan B if I pay for it (I hadn't even asked for this yet, so it's a great sign imo).

Then I get a text from her just a couple days later saying she's feeling weird about the money / sex thing and doesn't like putting a price on herself. Fuck. She reiterates that she had a good time but just feels weird. Any experience with this and advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated, this girl is a gem. I've already offered to do a monthly allowance instead of PPM to make it feel less transactional, I'm praying that works.

**FairPlay** · 01-31-24 11:39

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-bb34c9c74881

This girl sucks, hard to have her follow through, tried to up charge me when she got here, total rush job bad experience overall. Beware.

**DBag39** · 01-31-24 07:53

Originally Posted by Np36781 [View Original Post]

These are her pictures.

I met her a couple times a few years ago. She seems fun and friendly on the surface, but she's a total psychopath. Great body though LOL.

**Mark Powers** · 01-31-24 07:25

Originally Posted by FriendlyKing [View Original Post]

Scheduled a dinner date with plans for some fun time afterward. A few hours prior to our date, she double-checked the allowance, insisting on receiving half of the allowance before dinner. This raised a red flag, and as expected, I decided to cancel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-2d1ccec80e0a

Classic scammer move. They hope you are feeling committed to going through with it.

**FriendlyKing** · 01-30-24 18:23

Scheduled a dinner date with plans for some fun time afterward. A few hours prior to our date, she double-checked the allowance, insisting on receiving half of the allowance before dinner. This raised a red flag, and as expected, I decided to cancel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-2d1ccec80e0a

**JClearMan1** · 01-30-24 10:54

Originally Posted by LanceCrason [View Original Post]

Here's how my Seeking turn has gone this time in Boston.

LovelyMe https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-54995f5814e2 - I'm 95% sure the photos are older on the page. She sent me one via text and looked the old version of the second photo. Would not get into specifics about anything without meeting but also wanted money at the meeting. I passed.

NiceBabe - https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1-bb883afbd318 - She talked like she wanted to meet, but then would randomly be like oh do you want online relationship? And I would say no lets meet first and then she's like ok I need $400 now to meet you. Pass.

Got a couple more still in progress, so maybe more reports soon. I have reports for other areas though (Worcester / prov).

The first one is a link to your message thread with her. I've fucked LovelyMe many times. She has her guests over at her boyfriend's house while he's at work.

**JClearMan1** · 01-30-24 10:49

Originally Posted by SCX13 [View Original Post]

I wonder how much her rates are? 800+?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-7a773c3abd33

I would do it at least once.

**Np36781** · 01-28-24 21:22

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

I think I know her real name. The first pic (fake) is what she was using on her profile for a while. The second pic is what she sent me. The third pic is what I think she really looks like. I tagged her as a scammer based on my interactions with her. Never met her. The attachments here are dicey. So I hope it works.

Here is the picture of Lovable9223. It was emailed to me by Darkclouds. Thanks. She was using a fuzzy low light pic on her profile which she took it off.

**Bran001** · 01-28-24 19:29

Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]

I also have had a few like this where I had to cut off after being too annoying. They always ask for an amount that is around how much an gram of coke costs. Funny how that works LOL.

We've all been in these situations. . .

I have two quite long-term "friends" (one a 25 yr old SB I met via Seeking about 3 years ago and one older I met via CL 10 yrs ago) and each from time to time have asked me for an "advance. " Neither of them have ever stiffed me. . . We meet up maybe a week later and they absolutely remember that they got funds from me in advance and don't ask for more. All I can say is that trust is possible, it takes a long time, and no matter what be prepared for it to fall apart. If either of these women wanted to get an advance and then ghost me forever of course they could.

But someone I haven't known very long or even never met? Not. A. Chance.

**Hobbyist420** · 01-28-24 16:28

Originally Posted by CornPop [View Original Post]

I had one play me like that too one time. Smoking hot 24 years old in grad school petite and fake breasts piercing nipples. Could suck chrome off a bumper.

$300 first time all bare. Then it was all can you pre pay for our next time. Then my cell phone bill needs to be paid, rent, food, gym membership. Constantly making excuses not to meet up but would continue to send nudes to her Daddy.

It ended when I got a hotel room and was a no show.

We are so stupid.

I also have had a few like this where I had to cut off after being too annoying. They always ask for an amount that is around how much an gram of coke costs. Funny how that works LOL.

**Np36781** · 01-28-24 00:03

Originally Posted by ClPost045 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen this one. Might check her out.

Downtoearth_fun Braintree.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...b-08218f29cf7c

These are her pictures.

**DarkClouds** · 01-27-24 23:22

And that's where my "no repeats" rule comes in handy.

Originally Posted by CornPop [View Original Post]

I had one play me like that too one time. Smoking hot 24 years old in grad school petite and fake breasts piercing nipples. Could suck chrome off a bumper.

$300 first time all bare. Then it was all can you pre pay for our next time. Then my cell phone bill needs to be paid, rent, food, gym membership. Constantly making excuses not to meet up but would continue to send nudes to her Daddy.

It ended when I got a hotel room and was a no show.

We are so stupid.