Seeking Arrangements

[Hobbyist420]

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

Girls flake for 4 reasons:

- scammer, either real or fake, who realizes you actually want to meet and won't get the virtual dough from you so they disengage and go onto the next potential victim.

- a girl who is looking for the most money as supposed to the best time / sex.

- a girl who found a similar allowance / attraction but closer to her.

- flakers: girl who love to talk up guys, but when push comes to shove, they can't pull the trigger when it comes to actually meeting.

Ghosting is frustrating and I've had unicorns do it to me in the past after having great consistent times with them but its par for the course in this genre of the hobby. And also a benefit on our side when we come across a crazy or just get bored with someone and want new, different pussy. The benefit of a arrangement is that it ISN'T a relationship and I don't *need* to have closure because of what the thing is. But the flip side is the frustration of potential 8's and up we find who sound interested but flake and disappear.

Also LOL 1500 allowance. I can get a 4 some at an agency in Montreal for that price!

[DarkClouds]

Come on guys! The thirst for novelty is what makes you a monger. Without the burning desire for novelty there is no mongering. As for bad outcomes, those can happen both with and without mongering. Seeing the same gal repeatedly for a year or so was perhaps the worst decision I ever made (some of you know more of the story). I came this close to annihilation. Never again!

Sound advice. IMHO the thirst for novelty often leads to poor decisions and bad outcomes.

[Bran001]

Why cry! You can't fight it, change it. Most of us don't run with this crowd. Get it out of your mind. Strive and do the homework to find that good provider in the price range you can handle on a regular basis. Be happy with her. Sacrifice constant novelty if it is too much work. That thirst for novelty and variety can wear you down. It is a lot of work, getting harder all the time. These are the times in which we live. Since the demise of CL, the hobby has gotten more expensive with the overall quality and integrity of the providers declining while deception and danger practicing the hobby are on the rise.

Sound advice. IMHO the thirst for novelty often leads to poor decisions and bad outcomes.

[Corrado58]

She is asian and knew a couple of colleagues who had an asian fetish.

Are guys giving out that type of coin? Unbelievably and unfortunately, Yes! If you work in IT, salaries are pretty high, if you haven't been laid off yet.

One dude I know makes about 500 k a year (that was 2 years ago), if not more. His buddies. About the same. And that's salary, not including their side gigs and option selling they do.

Some of these guys actually even filter out the women by the rates. As they told me, "dude, don't mess with those cheap hoes of 300/400 per meet. You'll end up at the hospital. ".
I wanted to cry! 😂
Oh yea, they are in their 30's. Then you got the surgeons, etc.

Why cry! You can't fight it, change it. Most of us don't run with this crowd. Get it out of your mind. Strive and do the homework to find that good provider in the price range you can handle on a regular basis. Be happy with her. Sacrifice constant novelty if it is too much work. That thirst for novelty and variety can wear you down. It is a lot of work, getting harder all the time. These are the times in which we live. Since the demise of CL, the hobby has gotten more expensive with the overall quality and integrity of the providers declining while deception and danger practicing the hobby are on the rise.

[Kingmaletx]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

She is asian and knew a couple of colleagues who had an asian fetish.

Are guys giving out that type of coin? Unbelievably and unfortunately, Yes! If you work in IT, salaries are pretty high, if you haven't been laid off yet.

One dude I know makes about 500 k a year (that was 2 years ago), if not more. His buddies. About the same. And that's salary, not including their side gigs and option selling they do.

Some of these guys actually even filter out the women by the rates. As they told me, "dude, don't mess with those cheap hoes of 300/400 per meet. You'll end up at the hospital. ".
I wanted to cry! 😂
Oh yea, they are in their 30's. Then you got the surgeons, etc.

[Joe1223]

She's had mediocre reviews in the past and she seemed a bit sus but I didn't recall seeing ripoff alerts. I almost didn't go because she didnt seem into it.

One red flag is that she weighs much more than her pictures. Almost unrecognizable.

There's a long version, but the short version is that it was the classic move where after you pay her boyfriend comes in and they fight and she leaves.

There were lots of red flags and I just didn't listen to my gut.

Sounds like a first meeting Incall? I never do those as you give control of the situation to the provider vs you being able to control access to the room. Spend the extra hotel costs for a few visits until you get a good vibe.

[Mark Powers]

She's had mediocre reviews in the past and she seemed a bit sus but I didn't recall seeing ripoff alerts. I almost didn't go because she didn’t seem into it.

One red flag is that she weighs much more than her pictures. Almost unrecognizable.

There's a long version, but the short version is that it was the classic move where after you pay her boyfriend comes in and they fight and she leaves.

There were lots of red flags and I just didn't listen to my gut.

[BR1201]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

Please. I can get a hotter girl at an AMP for 2 bills. She has a butter face IMHO.

[PlayTrey]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

After being on this site for a couple of years, some people are willing to offer that much. It's not only older man. Is young men with high paying job. I agree she doesn't look that attractive. You can find something way better at a club or in a Boston library. If I paid that much, she will have to rim me for half an hour.

[Style20]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

Sadly yes, some guys that make good money will even see girls for $1000 just to chit chat. Why do you think these girls prefer to see older gentlemen. They got money to burn.

[NewEngland]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...0-d8a5238d54fd

Any one have scouting report on this one please in box me.

Thanks.

NE.

[JMan98]

Anyone have intel on highbabygirlxxx? She quoted 500 ppm but said doesn't do hotels. Worried that is a red flag.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-eb3009bf3214

She is legit. Have seen her multiple times, nice girl lives in Quincy. BBFS.

[MightyDemTim]

Then your doing something wrong. I rarely come across someone who mentions a condom and if they do just decline and see how fast there tune changes since there desperate for money. I personally never wear a condom, if I'm paying for it I'm going to enjoy it.

Well maybe the Boston market is different but here in Pittsburgh it's hard to find a reliable bareback provider unless you're willing to fork over major duckets. The attached photo is a cutie who finally allowed me to pump a full load into her on a regular basis, but only after two months of CFS and heavy tipping. She still adds a nice surcharge for BBFSCIP service, as should be expected.

[Bran001]

This one wants $1500 per meet. I don't think she's even all that attractive. She thinks people are crazy for offering her less. LOL.

Are people giving girls like this that kind of coin?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-4225a7c64fa9

Overall the answer is "no" -- that's quite far outside the average in Boston which I would say is now 500 for a true student / young professional and not a "pro" escort.

I think that many women who set their price that high simply would rather not do it at all than do it for 500. That's the decision they've made. Because I've NEVER found price to correlate with "service," I never go above 500 any more. There's always someone else. My most recent 26 yr old actually was fine with 300, but I did need to get a room.

[JClearMan1]

One of the ghosts has reappeared and asking to meet. Made a plan, wonder if it will happen??

Just left her place, no picture because she said "next time" 🤷127996;8205;9794;65039;.