Seeking Arrangements

[JClearMan1]

In the last week or so, I've experienced the same ghosting behavior from 4 different women on seeking:

- strong initial conversation.

- provides interesting personal details that appear to be real.

- send G rated photos, right up to X rated photos.

- make a plan for next day.

- talk more about how the date might go.

- completely silent when next day comes and every day after.

Some might say "these are all scammers", but they got nothing from me and in all four cases they texted with me for hours. Which isn't something scammers typically do. Two of them offered to host, one of those even gave me her address! I'm willing to accept that I might've hit a rough patch, but wow. Four in a row?? Super weird.

One of the ghosts has reappeared and asking to meet. Made a plan, wonder if it will happen??

[MightyDemTim]

I just kept working the responses. Had lunch with a gal today and fucked her at a dayuse hotel shortly after. Going to repeat because she's way freaky.

Lucky SOB! Give her a few pumps for me.

[JClearMan1]

Agree. Just like we do, many of the ladies also often spread a wide fishing net to catch as many fish as possible. And then they go with the highest bidder, which might not be you. My guidance is for you to cast a narrower fishing net so you don't tangle up with every fish out there. That way you are less likely to face rejections. If you have no criteria and nothing unique to offer, then be ready for lots of rejections.

I just kept working the responses. Had lunch with a gal today and fucked her at a dayuse hotel shortly after. Going to repeat because she's way freaky.

[Richcecato33]

Anyone have intel on highbabygirlxxx? She quoted 500 ppm but said doesn't do hotels. Worried that is a red flag.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-eb3009bf3214

Told me the same thing. Decided not to pursue. Not my first time talking to her, I contacted her back in November last year, could not meet because of schedules.

[Chuchunga]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...3-51030ed34866

500 ppm. Will BBFS. Ended up stealing from me though. So worth it if hide your stuff. Also a lot larger than in the pictures.

[Joe1223]

Anyone have intel on highbabygirlxxx? She quoted 500 ppm but said doesn't do hotels. Worried that is a red flag.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-eb3009bf3214

I would not recommend an Incall until you have some positive interactions meaning actually banging her. If not a hotel where does she expect this to happen? Certainly don't bring her home, ever. Red flags are there for a reason.

[Tribeca67]

Is applicable to the poster you quoted. In the last 24 hours he has requested info on SA girls in Philly, Salt Lake City, Dallas, Ann Arbor and Boston.

Just Saying.

Fellows on here pm me, cause girls know about this you idiot. Are you hurt I'm not giving you any cookie crumbs?

[PaulRew]

If I posted every fake, I would be posting all day. Why not post something more valuable, like a good crumb you want to throw to the peeps maybe? If you have any, that is.

Is applicable to the poster you quoted. In the last 24 hours he has requested info on SA girls in Philly, Salt Lake City, Dallas, Ann Arbor and Boston.

Just Saying.

[DarkClouds]

If I posted every fake, I would be posting all day. Why not post something more valuable, like a good crumb you want to throw to the peeps maybe? If you have any, that is.

Leaning toward fake with stolen pics, Asked for a selfie on SA and never verified. Blocked and moved on. Boston area.

[Tribeca67]

Leaning toward fake with stolen pics, Asked for a selfie on SA and never verified. Blocked and moved on. Boston area.

[DarkClouds]

Agree. Just like we do, many of the ladies also often spread a wide fishing net to catch as many fish as possible. And then they go with the highest bidder, which might not be you. My guidance is for you to cast a narrower fishing net so you don't tangle up with every fish out there. That way you are less likely to face rejections. If you have no criteria and nothing unique to offer, then be ready for lots of rejections.

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

[Mark Powers]

In the last week or so, I've experienced the same ghosting behavior from 4 different women on seeking:

- strong initial conversation.

- provides interesting personal details that appear to be real.

- send G rated photos, right up to X rated photos.

- make a plan for next day.

- talk more about how the date might go.

- completely silent when next day comes and every day after.

Some might say "these are all scammers", but they got nothing from me and in all four cases they texted with me for hours. Which isn't something scammers typically do. Two of them offered to host, one of those even gave me her address! I'm willing to accept that I might've hit a rough patch, but wow. Four in a row?? Super weird.

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

[JClearMan1]

In the last week or so, I've experienced the same ghosting behavior from 4 different women on seeking:

- strong initial conversation.

- provides interesting personal details that appear to be real.

- send G rated photos, right up to X rated photos.

- make a plan for next day.

- talk more about how the date might go.

- completely silent when next day comes and every day after.

Some might say "these are all scammers", but they got nothing from me and in all four cases they texted with me for hours. Which isn't something scammers typically do. Two of them offered to host, one of those even gave me her address! I'm willing to accept that I might've hit a rough patch, but wow. Four in a row?? Super weird.

[Jester647]

Anyone have intel on highbabygirlxxx? She quoted 500 ppm but said doesn't do hotels. Worried that is a red flag.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-eb3009bf3214

[Bran001]

Well the basic advice for years has been to use a burner number / Google voice, etc. , and to exercise extreme restraint as to when and what personal info you share.

I'm not quite sure why my response below prompted your reply; everyone knows of this risk.

No one "gaslighted" her online; she freely shared her real identity.

What interested me more was that without me revealing ANY personal info (other than photos which could be put into a face I'd site; the photos themselves are not online and are not reverse searchable), she told me about the Disney stuff and I was very easily able to find her and verify that that was accurate, as well as the name of the BigLaw firm she was clerking at the summer before.

Some girls are out there collecting ammunition for some future potential scam. I would be very wary on who you trust and give info to in this game. There are some legit sugar babies out there, but others are psychotic. Just look up the current accusations against Trump and Vince McMahon. Remember we live in a post feminist society where she can be a ***** and there are no consequences. There's no stopping them from feeling guilty in a few years and guess what you SDs are the guys who gaslighted and manipulated her and it's all your fault. And she still has all your texts, offers, and pics stored in ICloud. Not saying be paranoid, just be careful. Think of what happens to guys who give their drivers license and info to escorts.