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Yesterday 21:15 #9213
Posts: 275Listen to these two!
Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]
Nasty, as well, with this tactful gem: some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck.
The soft, positive, gentlemanly approach is your friend here. "Best of luck" plays perfectly to a girl thinking this guy's cool, polite and he didn't demean me. Nasty, you should have kept this gem to yourself, LOL.
You two will, have done, just fine.
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Yesterday 18:27 #9212
Posts: 1376The state of seeking to
Is it a huge time sink? Yes, indeed. And not everyone has the time. But the huge investment is really needed if (like me) you like a lot of variety. If you're just looking for 2-3 reasonable regulars, that is easy as cake to find. Maybe my memory is faulty, but I've been doing this for long enough going back to SW and CL days and I think we tend to over-romanticize the past. Things have actually gotten WAY better! Also, we lose the energy to pursue the way we once did. The scammers are easy to identify and steer clear of. Finally, I never block anyone. There is no need to take extreme measures. I've had ladies throw huge numbers at me and I just wait them out. In a weak moment (planning a trip to Florida) they will agree to a more reasonable arrangement. But you need to be very organized. The number of times I've had fellow mongers ask me who I'm talking about when we've discussed her many times just causes me to shake my head. Keep a notebook (physical or electronic) otherwise you're toast in this game (or any game that you wish to take seriously). If you're impatient and looking for quick results (like I need something today or now) you're going to have a lot of failures. Play the long game and you will do well. At least those whom I have shared with at some point or another will hopefully agree that a methodical and patient approach pays off in the end.
Originally Posted by NastySD [View Original Post]
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Yesterday 17:40 #9211
Posts: 90Really?
I think that you just have to play the law of large numbers. When I am looking I send the same message basically, making it clear that I'm not looking for anything serious but would love to discuss a ppm thing if she's into that. I get a lot of bites and often from girls you definitely wouldn't suspect some of them straight say they're not into it in their profile but they really are and the PPM is always reasonable. I get 400 the most frequently which can always be widdled down to 300 or even 250. I have had a couple say 1000 and I just blocked them and I've had some say 600 to which I always just politely say, wow. You're so pretty I get it. I just can't justify that to myself. Best of luck. 80% of the time they come down. I don't play with small talk. I get them off site asap and explain what I am looking for and ask what kinda allowance would work of they're game. This is as difficult as you make it. My advice is cast a wide net, see what bites negotiate with several then choose. It will take a few hours, but in the end you'll have at least a fist full of hopefuls.
Originally Posted by Hobbyist420 [View Original Post]
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Yesterday 15:35 #9210
Posts: 102Experience in Seeking
I'm no longer on seeking. It was fun when you find one. I played around with it for 3 months. It was a lot of work to find the one you want to hook up with. A lot of flakes. The most memorable one I had is a crazy blonde chick where we fucked all night. A lot of them, they're asking ridiculous money. Even a fat emo girl with color hair wants $500! One girl I talked to for a few months and when we she finally ready to meeet, she want $650. Some guys here complaining they're paying 250 or 300, I wish I had those. Thinking back some convo I had was with 18 year old where she just ghosted on me, I never hook up with her. Nowadays, I rather spend money going to a bar and find one there.
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04-23-24 11:02 #9209
Posts: 225Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]
Is there fun to be had? Sure! Emv La makes a good point the good price to performance is found in RI (also hear FL is goldmine); just too much competition and PPS in MA. DC and JClear show that you probably need to be on the site multiple months to find consistent fun (I usually did mth at a time for various reasons). But prices are up from the girls thanks to inflation, reddit, and how to SB content, and girls are doing less "work" thanks to expectation of mobile pay apps and selling content as well as the fact they don't consider themselves SW, but if you ask any SW, they absolutely are and that gap in understanding creates the disconnect which makes the site suck more than it did in 2017-2019.
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04-22-24 09:57 #9208
Posts: 63Sultry Miss
Has anyone partaken? - definitely my type. DM is you prefer.
https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-308bd292db34
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04-22-24 07:39 #9207
Posts: 306State of Seeking
Oddly, Secret Benefits has become definitely more productive than Seeking for me. Seeking has some higher class women, perhaps, but more fakes and flakes at this point. That being said, it's a bit like fishing out a lake. Just let the fish repopolulate the lake. It may take a little time, but the lake is sure to be productive again.
Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]
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04-21-24 23:02 #9206
Posts: 313Funny
Originally Posted by HankChinanski [View Original Post]
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04-21-24 19:50 #9205
Posts: 1376State of the "union"
Allow me to take the opposite position here. I've enjoyed a lot of success and continue to do so. My hypothesis is that after a few years we get exhausted, run out of resources (of all kinds) and are no longer willing to put in the effort that we once did (when we were younger, more excited about the possibilities, and more energetic). It's a marathon, not a sprint. I posit that not many of us have the stamina to keep going at the same (or comparable) level year after year. Some of us don't need to keep going. Our well is full. So, yes, it's ok to take a break and come back. Sometimes we get forced breaks (like covid) and at other times we need to take manufactured breaks. Take some time off and put it into another passion that you've been ignoring. Your soul will thank you for it. And then maybe return with renewed energy. Or not.
Originally Posted by HankChinanski [View Original Post]
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04-21-24 18:39 #9204
Posts: 99Declination
I've seen a lot of yall not happy with the demographic of the site / game as of late and I have to say I'm with you and plan on not renewing my membership. I've struck gold over the past three years but as of late things seem to be getting worse. Women over valuing themselves, scammers, AI, and people not expecting meeting up being a requirement. The final straw for me recently was the last girl I connected with on there (very hot goth in her early 20's from the north shore) after seeing her two-three times a week for a month she randomly hits me up to complain that I've been lowballing her and there's been men offering 6 just for head from her! She bumped it from 1 to 3 for me which I basically told her absolutely not since we agreed on our pricing which she had no problem with at the time and unfortunately we haven't spoken since (though she still follows me on insta), it was good while it lasted but to whoever that dude is thanks for ruining my streak with a unicorn.
Was also going to pull the trigger with a young lady from Norwood but she wanted two 50 for head and said her commute was an hour (it's 20 minutes I make the drive everyday to my job) she got really angry when I pointed out that was bs and got blocked.
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04-21-24 15:00 #9203
Posts: 573Ok
Originally Posted by EmvLa [View Original Post]
SA is certainly a numbers game, whether it is knowing who to avoid (which info is frequently shared) or who is legit, helps reduce the numbers. Now, I am not suggesting guys provide profile links to current SBs, but if you moved on, why not?
So?
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04-21-24 05:19 #9202
Posts: 429Literally
Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]
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04-21-24 01:29 #9201
Posts: 573As the man said
Originally Posted by EmvLa [View Original Post]
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04-18-24 20:38 #9200
Posts: 429Lol
Originally Posted by Papa2314 [View Original Post]
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04-18-24 13:29 #9199
Posts: 63Originally Posted by AcknowledgeMe [View Original Post]