Seeking Arrangements

**Tribeca67** · 02-20-24 19:21

Leaning toward fake with stolen pics, Asked for a selfie on SA and never verified. Blocked and moved on. Boston area.

**DarkClouds** · 02-20-24 18:33

Agree. Just like we do, many of the ladies also often spread a wide fishing net to catch as many fish as possible. And then they go with the highest bidder, which might not be you. My guidance is for you to cast a narrower fishing net so you don't tangle up with every fish out there. That way you are less likely to face rejections. If you have no criteria and nothing unique to offer, then be ready for lots of rejections.

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

**Mark Powers** · 02-20-24 16:57

Originally Posted by JClearMan1 [View Original Post]

In the last week or so, I've experienced the same ghosting behavior from 4 different women on seeking:

- strong initial conversation.

- provides interesting personal details that appear to be real.

- send G rated photos, right up to X rated photos.

- make a plan for next day.

- talk more about how the date might go.

- completely silent when next day comes and every day after.

Some might say "these are all scammers", but they got nothing from me and in all four cases they texted with me for hours. Which isn't something scammers typically do. Two of them offered to host, one of those even gave me her address! I'm willing to accept that I might've hit a rough patch, but wow. Four in a row?? Super weird.

Most likely a simple case of got a better offer. Happens to all of us.

**JClearMan1** · 02-20-24 16:50

In the last week or so, I've experienced the same ghosting behavior from 4 different women on seeking:

- strong initial conversation.

- provides interesting personal details that appear to be real.

- send G rated photos, right up to X rated photos.

- make a plan for next day.

- talk more about how the date might go.

- completely silent when next day comes and every day after.

Some might say "these are all scammers", but they got nothing from me and in all four cases they texted with me for hours. Which isn't something scammers typically do. Two of them offered to host, one of those even gave me her address! I'm willing to accept that I might've hit a rough patch, but wow. Four in a row?? Super weird.

**Jester647** · 02-20-24 15:39

Anyone have intel on highbabygirlxxx? She quoted 500 ppm but said doesn't do hotels. Worried that is a red flag.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-eb3009bf3214

**Bran001** · 02-18-24 15:33

Well the basic advice for years has been to use a burner number / Google voice, etc. , and to exercise extreme restraint as to when and what personal info you share.

I'm not quite sure why my response below prompted your reply; everyone knows of this risk.

No one "gaslighted" her online; she freely shared her real identity.

What interested me more was that without me revealing ANY personal info (other than photos which could be put into a face I'd site; the photos themselves are not online and are not reverse searchable), she told me about the Disney stuff and I was very easily able to find her and verify that that was accurate, as well as the name of the BigLaw firm she was clerking at the summer before.

Originally Posted by ThotLover95 [View Original Post]

Some girls are out there collecting ammunition for some future potential scam. I would be very wary on who you trust and give info to in this game. There are some legit sugar babies out there, but others are psychotic. Just look up the current accusations against Trump and Vince McMahon. Remember we live in a post feminist society where she can be a ***** and there are no consequences. There's no stopping them from feeling guilty in a few years and guess what you SDs are the guys who gaslighted and manipulated her and it's all your fault. And she still has all your texts, offers, and pics stored in ICloud. Not saying be paranoid, just be careful. Think of what happens to guys who give their drivers license and info to escorts.

**JDeller** · 02-18-24 12:20

Lmfao. Well said.

Originally Posted by DarkClouds [View Original Post]

I truly don't understand why we are discussing this girl who looks nothing special and is posting crappy, amateurish pictures on her profile.

**ThotLover95** · 02-18-24 11:31

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

It was a few months ago and I believe started by one particular SB -- she is a Harvard law student with a past that included acting in several Disney productions. She made no attempt whatsoever to conceal any of this (I think the Harvard law student thing was part of her username or at least on her Seeking profile). She raised a storm once someone on here said she had asked for a $1 k / date allowance. . . That was what set her off.

I never met her, but the above is what I recall from reading here and some of the Reddit thread.

Some girls are out there collecting ammunition for some future potential scam. I would be very wary on who you trust and give info to in this game. There are some legit sugar babies out there, but others are psychotic. Just look up the current accusations against Trump and Vince McMahon. Remember we live in a post feminist society where she can be a ***** and there are no consequences. There's no stopping them from feeling guilty in a few years and guess what you SDs are the guys who gaslighted and manipulated her and it's all your fault. And she still has all your texts, offers, and pics stored in ICloud. Not saying be paranoid, just be careful. Think of what happens to guys who give their drivers license and info to escorts.

**EireAnn** · 02-18-24 10:59

Originally Posted by Jester647 [View Original Post]

No show and waste of time. Communication pretty bad from the start, but was able to confirm she is real on snapchat and even got her on the phone for a conversation. Seemed genuine. Made plans and confirmed location and time through text day of. Wanted 600 ppm but agreed to 500. She never showed up and ignored me when I asked her if she was coming. Maybe others will have better luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f12ce7cdbe50

I had a similar experience. She is real but a total flake and her communication is horrible. Setup the time and location booked the hotel and never heard back.

**OptimusSlime** · 02-18-24 00:12

Originally Posted by Jester647 [View Original Post]

No show and waste of time. Communication pretty bad from the start, but was able to confirm she is real on snapchat and even got her on the phone for a conversation. Seemed genuine. Made plans and confirmed location and time through text day of. Wanted 600 ppm but agreed to 500. She never showed up and ignored me when I asked her if she was coming. Maybe others will have better luck.
https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f12ce7cdbe50

I think she did you a favor, she has a man face, is not attractive, not worth 500, nope nope nope just nope I would pay her 500, you can do better.

**Spill** · 02-17-24 17:26

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I feel like I missed something.

LOL Someone certainly is.

**Mark Powers** · 02-17-24 16:06

One thing I feel like I am seeing more often recently is girls selecting Native American. This is a real scammer red flag because they believe it just means someone born in America since they have no cultural context. LOL!

**Jester647** · 02-17-24 13:34

No show and waste of time. Communication pretty bad from the start, but was able to confirm she is real on snapchat and even got her on the phone for a conversation. Seemed genuine. Made plans and confirmed location and time through text day of. Wanted 600 ppm but agreed to 500. She never showed up and ignored me when I asked her if she was coming. Maybe others will have better luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...8-f12ce7cdbe50

**Tribeca67** · 02-16-24 21:34

Originally Posted by MarkPowers [View Original Post]

I'm wondering if people are getting scared to post on here for two reasons.

1 - there's at least one frequent poster on here that will share your review with the girl putting your repeat potential at risk.

2 - worried about girls checking the site after the Reddit discussion.

I've been more likely than in the past to just PM people asking about girls rather than sharing broadly.

What do you think?

You're 100% right. It's much safer to pm info then post publicly, that way the girl can't tell who the person is. It's obvious some girls know about this and simps tell them about it as well.