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05-23-19 18:06 #1851
Posts: 301Beeatpeace
Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]
https://www.seeking.com/member/dbc22...4-bdccb5c8ae7d
"I cannot stress it enough I am NOT looking for intimacy so please stay far away if that's what you're expecting".
Yet on her first date she wants to go shopping. My rule of thumb is to take them shopping after a few hours of mind blowing sex. Kind of a reinforcement mechanism.
Maybe we need a separate platonic SA thread.
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05-22-19 21:00 #1850
Posts: 579Yup
Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]
https://www.seeking.com/member/56a55...e-f1b2da2b7bf8
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05-22-19 16:41 #1849
Posts: 22Waste of time
https://www.seeking.com/member/d1bd5...3-9748d982ea91
She is cute but very busy making other dates LOL.
Short version -date at 4 pm. I got a hotel rm up in Amesbury, she in Newburyport. I'm driving up from Boston.
She postponed for later time and stated she is heading to Boston and have me pick her up in Newburyport at 8 pm. Even stated she can take train to Amesbury if there was one.
WTF. Why have me get a room in Amesbury. Why not drive up together. While she is telling me this. My friend had made an date for 830 and she agreed.
LOL whatever.
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05-22-19 11:29 #1848
Posts: 369Platonic.
To each their own, but I think any guy paying for someone to talk to them has lost their mind. These women don't give a shit about us or even listening to us. Sure, once in a while there might be a genuine one that actually likes you for who you are, but how often does that happen?
Guys don't pay for no action. If you need someone to talk to, get on Bumble and make some friends.
Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]
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05-19-19 08:44 #1847
Posts: 130This one is back in Nashua. Connected with her when she was in Maine. 1. 5 $ was the donation. Hosted when in my area. BBBJ and BBFS was on the table. Decent time lost her contact info.
https://www.seeking.com/member/884e3...e-376f12118594
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05-17-19 20:22 #1846
Posts: 301Platonic
Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]
Good that you uncovered that platonic stuff early in the process. The way I approach uncovering whether they're DTF is I talk about how much I miss my past SB. And they usually ask what do I miss about her. I say something like "Oh we had such a good connection. We would do XYZ which was great but the bedroom stuff was out of this world. " Funny enough a lot of them get curious about what was so good in the bedroom. I tell them if they want details I will describe it over text and we jump to dirty talk. Or they don't respond and I know they're not going to put out.
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05-17-19 18:35 #1845
Posts: 579Halleboston
Really hot and seemed like fun. She reached out, SA messaging and then to text. My profile is pretty clear that I am not looking for a buddy to hold my hand. Move to texting, start to line up schedules and she asks what I am looking for. Tell her the same friendly line, Coffee dates, lunches etc and a couple hours of intimate alone time. She responds " Great we are looking for the same things" So things are looking up I think until the next text is " But I want to keep this platonic okay?
https://www.seeking.com/member/e9309e4c-f70a-423a-9a74-2556ffe86062Last edited by PaulRew; 05-17-19 at 18:35. Reason: add link
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05-17-19 16:37 #1844
Posts: 35Fairestar13
Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]
I've found the shorter ones are typically pros or non pros who want to get something fast so time is of the essence and they are doing the time / price tradeoff. Not that it is bad always. It can work to your advantage depending on what you're looking for. E. g. , you don't have to pretend you're interested in their life-long goals and will be there to help them consistently when all you want is to get laid.
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05-17-19 12:29 #1843
Posts: 369Fairestar13
Ghosting happens all the time. They usually do it when someone else comes along offering more.
Originally Posted by BRyan72 [View Original Post]
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05-16-19 20:21 #1842
Posts: 4Originally Posted by BRyan72 [View Original Post]
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05-16-19 13:42 #1841
Posts: 6Fairestar13
Seems pretty hot. Can host. Wants 4 - says you can pretty much do anything you want with her. Tried setting something up then she ghosted. Maybe someone here will have better luck.
https://www.seeking.com/member/a3e53...6-963f0649ed77
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05-15-19 22:29 #1840
Posts: 1601Cheka
She quoted me 300 when I contacted her on SA. 200 on WYP.
Saw her previously a year or two ago off of CL and it was 150.
Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]
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05-15-19 17:47 #1839
Posts: 130I have met this one a few times. Kind of a space case not sure if it's just how she is or if it's a result of demons. Easy set up I am usually only passing threw so has always been a car meet. BBBJ is always on the table with decent skills. Also BBFSCIP if that's your thing. Minimal damage $. 5. Can message contact info.
https://www.seeking.com/member/aaacb...c-92187f7d19ad
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05-15-19 15:33 #1838
Posts: 142Viktoria.
I had the same reaction. Offered 3 ppm. Total silence. I guess she thinks she is worth more, but she us still looking for a gem.
Originally Posted by BRyan72 [View Original Post]
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05-15-19 09:54 #1837
Posts: 880Road Sugar
Originally Posted by Aardvarks [View Original Post]
So I pretty much exclusively hit the sugar bowl when I travel. Never taken a trip without at least one successful date each night. Takes more work to weed out those who feel that is too transactional, but with the right game you can make those on the fence comfortable. Heavy investing in texting for a week or two pre-arrival. Usually book 3 dates, knowing 2 will bail -- or worst case scenario, schedule one for 6 pm, another for 8 and the most mercanary for 9 pm drink and then I'm covered.
Helps to tell them I'm in town each month, even if its a one time trip!
Also easier to arrange overnights. If we really hit it off in messaging, the week before the meeting I suggest they bring an overnight bag in case the in person has the same chemistry as online. 75% hit rate.